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Tallesty1:
Frailing Trust
Then he should calmly refute her claims.
We are saying same thing here. The parents must been suspecting him to believe her so quickly.

Prophetess.

jopretty:
you have no idea what I went through...the guy dey beat me as if na man him dey fight with. I had to find an easy way out na

Tallesty1:
Do you know him

There must been something that made the father to believe so easily. Maybe he was already questioning the rationale behind the fights.

Remember that the guy fought her all the time so the parents must av been weary somehow.

Maybe there was no justification for most of the fights.

Maybe the guy's reaction to the allegation sold him out.

But all these won't work on me because I don't like hitting people and my mom knows me more than I know myself so she too will tell me to strike her mouth.


Twice sef.

Anuoluwapo23:
seriously buh girls ain't smiling atall

Tallesty1:
Calm down sister.

The girl succeeded because her father doesn't know his some, try that with my dad and he will tell me to strike your mouth.

Tallesty1:
Haba... That's just an instance nah, or do you reject it even in an example?

Tallesty1:
The guy is a learner. I don't lose my bearning so quickly.

EfemenaXY:
Precisely.

Start as you mean to go. Set your expectations right from the very beginning. It saves you a lot of stress in future.

Tallesty1:
The girl gat no chills at all.

Tallesty1:
Supposing you take in accidentally, do you think your dad will still love you the same?


What can you really do to ruin his love life??



Lalasticlala good morning

EfemenaXY:
I do both. I terribly miss being able to plant yams, corn, Ugwu (pumpkin leaves), etc

I work hard. Very hard. So I expect my man to match or surpass my efforts. Anything less is totally unacceptable (unless of course he is physically / mentally incapacitated).

EfemenaXY:
Lol! Old school stuff.

Ladies should be smart. If on your first couple of visits to his pad you see it's no different to a landfill site, take to your heels and never look back.

Cutehector:
yea yeah my bad




I just wonder which is next

Tallesty1:
The story wouldn't be the same if you had a senior bro that started monitoring yu when you were very small.

Cutehector:
another of your monikers I see..

EfemenaXY:
Some women enable this mindset in men though. The number 1 culprits are mothers who bring up their sons to think domestic chores are the exclusive preserve of females.

No 2 culprits: Desperate single women wanting that ring by all costs. Forming superwoman and having the wrapped belief that a potential candidate / good future wife is determined by her domestic skills.

Tallesty1:
Some siblings get balls pass dad.

EfemenaXY:


Declare your gender. Right now.

Mindfulness:
You mean your job? I do something else for a living, better paid and more fulfilling.

Sistem007:
A man can only be this nice and loving to a woman who respects and adores him...my problem is with those women who can't respect a man and will open their coco yam mouth to say they can't take shit from any man, yet come here and complain that their husbands show them no love and at the same time envy men who treat their women right. The bottom line is, treat ur man like a King and he will in turn worship the ground u step on. That's the simple secret many small girls (who call themselves women) of nowadays don't understand.

joseph1832:
And indeed we need her, she's a woman after all, and she has a flower most men crave. However, I'll not be surprised if her flower is shrouded by weeds that has been left un tendered to for 10 years.

Sistem007:
It's very owk to raise ur children this way but u shouldn't do it so much that the girls lose sense of responsibility. You should raise ur girls to know that it's their responsibility to cook, clean the house and all those other petty things girls do in the house and the fact that their brothers are also doing it is just a way of lending a helping hand. That way the boys would learn to do all that just as u want them to and at the same time keeping the girls focused on their basic responsibilities.

EfemenaXY:
It's the way they were brought up. But even so, a grown up man should have the common sense to discern right from wrong.

Picking up a broom or mop to clean up after himself wouldn't kill him.

Cc: 5minsmadness.

Joavid:
woreva, broke people should not get married. especially since married people forget all forms of contraceptives as soon as they get married, coupled with pressure to have a baby...all inside poverty!

olorunmaje!

Toks2008:
I have written many times on this but our ladies seldom listen...abeg talk another thing...most ladies usually wait till they are overage before they start reasoning logically.

AntiWailer:
it is very true.

Most married women caught up in adultery do so because of one need or another.

and like i said it is the basis like the remote cause.

Nancy2016:
Please learn how to proofread before posting. As an adult you make your own decisions. If you know you can't afford to have kids, wait till you can. You should never bow to pressure. People may talk, but it's your life and you are the one responsible for your kids.

ValerianSteel:
The mind of 'some' africans never seem to amaze me,especially the ones that regard themselves as true patriots of africans morals or values.What I mostly see in the likes of the OP is stu!pidity,hypocrisy,ignorance and pure delusions.

Mutuwa:
Na this kind thing wailers no like o!

Men with 4 wives and 20 kids why 2M votes no go commot?

Btw

Wailers are akin to Bingo Dogs...

1.Malnourished in facts

2. Barking without the muscle to bite: A common trait of wailing.

3. Quick to run if you stone them,and only to continue wailing afar.

4. Very dirty and unfortunate.

~anonymous~