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LePrezident:
Where is your empirical data to prove that there were no much perverts back then like there are now? What statistics did you Base your statement on? OR you just assumed? Back then, was there consciousness and stance against molestation and rape of women that you know of? AND what are your basis for saying only older women went unclad? Do you have proof of that? and what is your definition for older women?

LePrezident:
Mr. Morally upright. Indecent dressing you say... I bet my last kobo that you're a hypocrite. You know the sins you commit in open and in the dark secrets. If we begin to judge you, you will take cover. Better slow down with your morality crusade.

Its no rocket science bro, 'pervertness' came with colonization. I don't know of any form of sensitization about rape back then because there was not really a need for any. I've been in remote villages over and over, and I saw how old women dressed compared to the young ones, by older women, I mean women that probably have grandchildren already.
Yes, you're right, I've done things I'm not proud of, so have you, but for your information, I've not attacked anyone on the basis of indecent dressing. I only have a problem with the concept.
Biblically, Adam and Eve were made, they were naked, but they had no consciousness of it until they interacted with what they were not meant to and then "their eyes were opened" and they covered their bodies with leaves.

Oahray:
what constitutes indecent dressing and who defined that standard?
Pics? You want to feed your eyes abi? If you need pics of traditional African nudity which is even celebrated in festivals, they are all over the Internet. Do a simple Google search.
You're welcome.

You're not seriously asking the first question. And talking about traditional african nudity, it is peculiar to certain set of people, it is not a generally accepted idea. Let's call a spade a spade, indecent dressing isn't doing our society any good.

LePrezident:
Smh... do u want me to show you proof that more often than not women went unclad in pre-colonial Nigeria? you get up and say every man is a constitution to himself, indeed. If you think you are a constitution to yourself, I dare you to go and molest a lady in a skimpy outfit if you won't smell jail. You better change your school of thought cos what you're currently spewing is problematic. HOPE you're not a parent yet cos this your mentality won't be good for child-rearing

I agree with your first sentence here 100%. But may I remind you that there were no as much perverts as we have now back then. Things have changed. I can argue that most women that went unclad then were older women in the society, the height of going unclad by a young lady then would be tying a wrapper up to her chest, a little above her bosoms.

LePrezident:
And what are these clothes doing And let's say it's "wrapping" it as you say, what or who made you an authority on how clothes are to be worn??

Oahray:
the Nigerian is a self-appointed authority unto himself/herself and others. Everyone is the Constitution even in matters that are none of their business.
Imagine someone whose forefathers tied wrappers nearly 24/7 coming to say clothes are meant to cover and not wrap the body. As if clothes can wrap the body without covering it.

Its not about being an authority to deciding what is right or not right about dressing. I'm not jes going to be a proponent to indecent dressing in the society, we all know things indecent dressing promote in our society.

Maybe you should show me a picture of how these forefathers tied wrappers to actually show the outline of their b.utts, then I'll have an idea of what you're spewing.

Thank you

All of that isn't about parents. I have friends that talk to me in that manner, and of course, I also talk to them in that manner.

When harmattan is here already, we got a thread about making love while it is raining.

OP, have you heard about timing?

The moment one's 'mugunism' reach our dear OP's, a big time brain reset is imperative.


The girl is never going to love you cos weakness is your first name.

LePrezident:
Only a potential rapist would even bother to open a thread like this and ask such a question. And those who have issues with these outfits above have serious problems, they need to explore more of life and step out of their tiny corners.

May I remind you sire that clothes are meant to cover the body, it is not meant to wrap it.

Niqqa is a Pure and Applied Fool (PAF). Real niqqas state what they want expressly, they don't ask dumb questions that make a girl feel like she's Nicki Minaj

"Educated illiterate" wow!



I was actually going to choose Cross River until a friend that has a friend serving there told me the cost of living is pretty high. I didn't really hear no shii about cannibalism.



But then "Thousand will fall by my side, and ten thousand by my right hand..."

**Modified**



Seriously?

As far as I'm concerned, OP's argument will be valid IF I see a fish brain and I have a lady volunteer to open her skull so I could look for similarities.





End time thread

This is beautiful

Just give it a shot. You never can tell, and going by your post, losing your virginity at this stage isn't gonna be big an issue for you. You're jes scared of making him feel like an 'underperformer' give it to him anyways, you're pretty good at faking moans after all

She was jes too desperate for marriage, she expected me to promise her marriage a month into the relationship. I capitalized on the small chance of a breakup like there's no tomorrow.

So she was typing messages and bathing at the same time?

I see

Its depends on whether or not sex is everything to you. There's a reason this so called main chick is what you said she is. I think you should just weigh what's more important between what these girls offer you, then you can answer your question adequately.

Whatever happened to 14 years...

Don't you dare run away with her. That shii only happens in yoruba films. Try involving spiritual leaders in this case. Your soon-to-be in-laws might listen to their pastor/imam.

LMFAO. I presume this "mansion" of yours has just one room.

OCTAVO:
Nice, but not nice.

LOL Just make up your mind

LMFAO. I really don't know the country, but the closest town to hell is Salem. If you can figure the country where Salem is located, you have your answer.

Olifiz:
no na engine oil sure pass. At least no one will look at u with suspicion. Lol

Lmfao. You'll just have this funny smell of a mechanic

RadicallyBlunt:
My dear especially Nigerian girls. Their brains seem to be wired with same cable.
For sometime now a female whatsapp friend of mine(we've never met b4) told me how she's been liking and having facial contact with a guy but d guy isn't making any advancement. So I encouraged her to be bold and talk to him respectfully, he should be mature enough to understand. So she went to meet him yesterday. She said she was under tension Bcus she's so damn scared of rejection. In my mind I said "hmm now u know how guys feel when they walk up to a girl they like so much and all she says with her blatant mouth is 'I'm not interested".
But she was lucky d guy is mature and accepted her friendship. But to my surprise when I asked today that how is your flow with your new found guy? She said "l purposely refused to see him or call him today and didnt pick his calls so that he'll miss me". And I was like WHAT! Someone u just met yesterday... Don't you think its too early for emotional frustrations
So this is my conclusion.... Anything that has to do with giving... Whether gifts, love, complements, feelings, women have no understanding about it. But they know everythimg about receiving money, gifts, complements, feelings etc. They are always on the receiving side not on the giving side. And if they ever be on d giving side for once, they'll demand for so much in return like it was never free just like this lady I described... Demanding for attention just in less than 24hrz after expressing a feeling to someone
What a life!

RadicallyBlunt:
My dear especially Nigerian girls. Their brains seem to be wired with same cable.
For sometime now a female whatsapp friend of mine(we've never met b4) told me how she's been liking and having facial contact with a guy but d guy isn't making any advancement. So I encouraged her to be bold and talk to him respectfully, he should be mature enough to understand. So she went to meet him yesterday. She said she was under tension Bcus she's so damn scared of rejection. In my mind I said "hmm now u know how guys feel when they walk up to a girl they like so much and all she says with her blatant mouth is 'I'm not interested".
But she was lucky d guy is mature and accepted her friendship. But to my surprise when I asked today that how is your flow with your new found guy? She said "l purposely refused to see him or call him today and didnt pick his calls so that he'll miss me". And I was like WHAT! Someone u just met yesterday... Don't you think its too early for emotional frustrations
So this is my conclusion.... Anything that has to do with giving... Whether gifts, love, complements, feelings, women have no understanding about it. But they know everythimg about receiving money, gifts, complements, feelings etc. They are always on the receiving side not on the giving side. And if they ever be on d giving side for once, they'll demand for so much in return like it was never free just like this lady I described... Demanding for attention just in less than 24hrz after expressing a feeling to someone
What a life!

I'm the guy you're talking about

Build your career in your 20s and get married in your 30s. Life is much more easier then
This is applicable to both male and female

On the case they don't delete your contact from their phones or social media, what they do is spite you, with various DPs and PMs.
And concerning the last point, some ladies will prefer a new, relatively unknown guy to "upgrading a niqqa from the friendzone"

Saying "I love you" first is meant for weak guys. Especially when you're just giving a shot at getting her to date you.

We are saving it till we get joined in marriage. Anyone knows if kissing is allowed in MFM?

*Sigh* you're a joke, op

What a pervert generation this is. So a lady merely buying a particular vegetable is meant to be ashamed. Oh my..

Its about time for harmattan, so buying vaseline makes me a mas.turbator automatically?

Whoa

What a pervert generation this is. So a lady merely buying a particular vegetable is now meant to be ashamed. Oh my..

MGDIMA4:
God bless u, I really appreciate

Amen. You're most welcome