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HARDDON : U mentioned that there are more to add to the list.

Kindly make ur addition and lets see how it goes.

There are about 15 areas to kiss ur love ones


Don't just stop on the lips, explore more!

1) Palm of their hand
2) Under their chin
3) Their eyelids
4) Inside of their ankle
5) Their collar bone
6) Tips of their fingers
7) Their spine
Their tummy
9) Behind their knees
10) Their temples
11) Back of their neck
12) Lower part of their back
13) Behind their ear
14) Underside of their forearm
15) Curve of their waist

Have U been kissed in any of these parts of your body?

If yes, can you please be candid enough to tell us your response / feeling?

TO U ALL NAIRALANDERS

SPECIAL THANKS TO ALL WHO HAD TAKEN TIME OUT TO GIVE VALUABLE ADVICE ON THE SUBJECT POSTED IN THIS THREAD.

U HAVE HELPED ME IN GIVING RIGHT AND UNCOMPROMISING ADVICE/COUNSEL TO A FELLOW IN NEED.

THE ISSUE IS RESOLVED BUT IN A WAY WE MAY ALL BE EXPECTING.

THE HUBBY FOUND OUT WITH EVIDENTS TOO. CONFRONTED THE WIFEY. SHE WAS NOT SOBER AND THE MARRIAGE IS IN SERIOUS STORM NOW. IN FACT THE LADY HAD MOVED OUT OF THE MATRIMONIAL HOME AFTER THE HUBBY DISCOVERED HER "SHOWS"

madlady:
Oh kneeling down every time you serve food to your husband, I see.

that is exactly the point. Why telling us u are respectful, obedient and simple with all your posture on your wedding day only to now feel you are on equal level with your husband after the ring don enter your finger

@adetoru
No relations or househelps in my house(except my mother-in-law)It saves us a lot of drama

That means that you are one of the few people who prefer mother-in-law because you have a "good"one.
Many couple could not survive the deadly blows from 'mother-in-law'

Going by the common dangers - ranging from stealing, looting, sexual involvements, and even assasins. Which one is then safe or preferable, a house boy or a house girl? wife's junior/senior sister or husband junior/senior brother?

I HAVE BEEN TO SEVERAL WEDDINGS AND TRADITIONAL MARRIAGES. ONE COMMON FEATURE OF THOSE DAYS IS WHEN THE NEW BRIDE IS ASKED TO FEED THE GROOM. IN ALMOST EVERY CASES WAS THE BRIDE SEEING KNEELING BEFORE GIVEN OUT THE CAKE, FOOD OR WINE. MY FINDINGS MADE IT CLEAR THAT IN MOST CASES THAT WAS THE FIRST AND THE LAST TIME.

IS THIS WEDDING DAY DECEPTION OR WHAT DO WE CALL IT?

God bless the soul that started this thread.

God also bless every soul that had contributed to the WORD OF GRACE shared therein.

Just got to this post this afternoon and had taken time to go through most of the posts. Once again God bless.

Let me join the faithfuls to also drop a word here.



LETS GET MATURE IN THE THINGS OF GOD'S KINGDOM - I King 131-31.

When you are a Christian or a faithful disciple, you must not disobey the instructions from the Lord. It is very unfortunate in the scripture above that the old prophet was the vessel used by the devil to destroy the young prophet. People who are like the old prophet are always very cunning and full of differ deceptive ideas. In fact they often plan their evil deeds for over a long time.

When a man is not having a right mind, anointing does not stay. It is so easy to make mistake, but the side effects of mistake are not easily corrected.

There is a clear difference between spiritual authority and anointing. Anointing is a release of supernatural grace while spiritual authority comes after several resourceful manifestation of the anointing.

Listening to Divine Instruction is the sure way out. If you go on the journey that heaven did not send you, then you should be ready to pay for your own fare.

Hindrance to Anointing

Un-forgiveness: Life is full of different experiences, some are bitter and some others are sweet. When those bitter encounters come through other people, one may become offended and if this is not properly taken care of it leads to un-forgiveness. Wherever you will get to, you will surely get there. Unforgiveness eats the heart like a cancer and it kills the anointing.

Murmuring: This is complaining against every thing around you. It kills the anointing. It stop a man from getting to his destination. Suffering is part of growth. When a man is not ready to be part of any suffering but only wants the benefit of a man that had suffered, he will not obtain anything special. Even if things are not going the way you expected, instead of murmuring and complaining, give thanks unto the Lord.

Evil Speaking: Never join multitude to speak evil of a man under the anointing. If you don’t know what to say, keep your month shut. You cannot be talking evil about a man and still expect his anointing to work for you.

Eyes Service: Whatever you are doing in the church is a service unto the Lord, you are not working for any man. The only way out of this is to get mature. Do your work (anything you are doing) as unto the Lord?

Evil/Wrong Association: When you have an important place you want to go, you avoid any distractions. Mixing with any man who does not respect your goal is like using pills that can abort a pregnancy. Avoid such man like a plague.

Wrong Character: Someone once said, ‘If a man should loose everything he has, one thing he should fight never to loose is character.’ Anointing does not rest upon a man that lack good character.

Bad Communication: Jesting is not a virtue for a mature mind. It watered down any seriousness when applied in a matter. The scripture warns that evil or bad communication must not proceed out of our mouth.



I SAMUEL 9:27; 10:1

There are certain unusual conditions that are required for receiving the anointing:

- Stand still

- Stand alone

- Stand with God


Every anointing that comes upon a man is with specific instruction or declaration. When you are working under such anointing you must always pray to God to keep you within his will and never to go astray.

You must stay in total loyalty and commitment to the Lord and to the ‘vessel’ that pour the anointing on you. You must follow in his step and develop the same good habit with the vessel.

Standing before the Lord entails a lot of prayers and fasting. Fasting ordinarily keep you on a lonely path. You are no longer cut for the common rudiment of mere men. You must always learn to be cut off from the usual crowd. It is when you are alone that you begin to have strange encountered that people will ordinarily not obtain without exclusion. John 14:24.

Just as it takes a long time for the anointing to be build up. So also it takes a long time for the anointing to leave completely. I Sam.28:1-

After people have lost grace, they seek for powers that are not power to provoke God into jealously. You need total commitment and loyalty to the Lord and the Vessel that have anointed you.

When you pay the same sacrifice, give the same commitment, you will always have the same result, if not beter. Do not abuse your area of strength. God does not make use of a Perfect Vessel. He needs available ordinary vessels that can be transformed through the extra ordinary anointing of God.

PRAYER POINT

Lord, let your power work for me and not against me.

Reading through the Devotional Manual of Prophet {Dr.} Samson Ayorinde always give me good dose for every day. And this week the summary of Divine declaration over the people of God is;

"TODAY, EVERY SOURCE OF MISFORTUNE IN YOUR LIFE IS DESTROYED IN JESUS NAME."

Respond to this prophetic prayer by just posting - AMEN!

@ na2day:
why is my name not up there, after all my input was the most important one of all, i dey vex oo!

Sorry for the oversight. I sincerely appreciate you, even though you lashed at me unnecessarily in a response I sent to a post on "open letter to you ex". Once again thanks for ur contribution.

I HAVE A FEW THINGS TO ADD TO ALL THE +VES AND -VES THAT PEOPLE HAVE BEEN SENDING IN ON THIS POST.

my submission
1. WHEN A MAN REFUSES TO READ HIS BIBLE BUT DEPENDS ON WHAT HIS PASTOR {who should also sit down and read} TELLS HIM, YOU SHOULD EXPECT ALL KINDS OF RELIGIOUS CONFUSION.
2. WHEN THE SO CALL 'PASTOR' ALSO FORGET HIS PRIMARY CALL TO WIN SOULS AND START PREACHING & TEACHING DOCTRINES JUST TO KEEP HIS TERRITORY INTACT, YOU SHOULD EXPECT CONFUSION.
3. WHEN OUR 'PASTORS' AND LEADERS LIKE ELI IN THE BOOK OF SAMUEL DO NOT TAKE CARE OF THEIR OWN HOUSEHOLD AND CHILDREN BUT START POLICING OTHER PEOPLE YOU SHOULD EXPECT NOTHING ELSE BUT CONFUSION.
4. MANY GENERAL OVERSEERS, FOUNDERS, PASTORS, EVANGELISTS AND WHAT EVER TITLE YOU MAY WANT TO CALL THEM ARE BETTER REFERRED TO AS "KINGDOM POLICEMAN" RATHER THAN PREACHERS. ALL THEY TALKED ABOUT IS {women wearing trouser, women not covering their head, women ministering from the pulpit, women putting on ear rings; wearing lace; weaving or styling their hair; using powder and perfumes; etc}
5. ALL THOSE DEFENDING GOD AND HIS WORD FORGET THAT THEIR FIRST DUTY IS TO WORK OUT THEIR OWN SALVATION WITH TREMBLING AND FEAR. WHEN WE GET TO HEAVEN {that is if they finally make it} EVERY ONE WILL STAND TO RECEIVE HIS COMMENDATION / CONDEMNATION.

I will also want to ask few questions which some of us can help ask some of these "policemen/women" in the Church.
1. WHAT IS THE TYPICAL WEAR OF AN HEBREW MAN & WOMAN? MUST WE ALL BE DRESSING LIKE AN HEBREW OR A JEW, PETER AND PAUL, SALOME AND LYDIA BEFORE WE CAN MAKE HEAVEN? LET THEM GIVE US AN APPROVED LIST SO THAT WE CAN KNOW WHAT STYLE TO SOW WHEN NEXT WE GO TO FASHION DESIGNERS.
2. WAS THE WOMAN WHO POURED COSTLY OINTMENT ON CHRIST FEET AND LATER ON USED HER HAIR TO WIPE IT OFF WEARING AN HEAD-TIE/NOT? BEARING IN MIND THAT NO PLACE COULD BE A BETTER CHURCH THAN WHERE CHRIST ASSEMBLED HIS DISCIPLES FOR TEACHING.
3. WHICH CHURCH IS THE PERFECT ASSEMBLY THROUGH WHICH ONE CAN MAKE HEAVEN?

Pls, these preachers should be concerned on how they can help rebuild hope back to the human race. People are thirsty to know God and not on which skirt is short/long, which hair style is carnal/spiritual. We all need to always remember the story of the pharisee and the common man that met on the altar of prayers. the one who appear "HOLIER THAN THOU" was said to returned condemned and the so call sinner left justified. So remove the beam in your own eyes first.

AND TO THE DECENT PEOPLE OUT THERE, U KNOW WHAT IS PROPER AND BEFITTING TO DO.
IF YOU ARE AMONG THOSE WHO STILL DO NOT KNOW LITTLE THING LIKE WHAT IS DECENT AND MODESTY TO PUT ON/WEAR, THEN YOU SURE ARE NOT SAVED.

I am a Christian and have heard a lot about SEPARATION AND DIVORCE.

My question here is : Can a divorced Christian Remarry?
Pls do me a favour by supporting your answer with a Biblical reference(s)

DEAR NAIRA-LANDERS,

THIS POST CAME UP FOLLOWING A REQUEST 4 ADVICE FROM A TROUBLED LADY
AND RIGHT IN HER PRESENCE, I SENT THE POST TO NAIRALAND.
SINCERE THANKS TO SOME WHO TOOK IT SERIOUS AND WISELY TOLD HER WHAT TO DO
AS AT TODAY THE ISSUE HAD BEEN TRASHED OUT {following your advices}. SO, SPECIAL THANKS TO;

1. temmy
2. davtec007
3. GL
4. Omofyne
5. adetoru
6. Cantell

'akinolasam' is a goodly and God-fearing person. If u see a post online from the name it is because some need arise to answer that question. Thanks

@ deco2come
Run For Your Life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

But wait a minute oooooo, check the version of dictionary he is using, maybe it is made in China and they didn't define the meaning well.

Pls, can u explain?
DO YOU MEAN TO SAY CHINA MADE LOVE IS ALSO IN TOWN NOW?

When a partner says:
"I LOVE U, BUT I'M NOT IN LOVE WITH U"
What should one do?

Pweety4me

NOT A RESEARCH, BUT A LIVE ISSUE THAT NEED URGENT ATTENTION

a confused mind and do not know what to do

THANKS FOR ALL THE SINCERE ADVICES OF NL.

JUST TO LET YOU ALL KNOW THAT : Most people who end up in affairs don't set out to have one. Infidelity usually begins with an innocent relationship that, in time, moves to an emotional depth that crosses a line of fidelity.

Whatever name you may want to call me, you may be justified.

I got involved in an extra affair and the truth is that i feel guilty every time I remember my action.

Must i tell my spouse what I have done? Howdo I save myself from all the consequences that may follow my confession?

Pls, advice me.

In as much as I will love to say some things, certain questions demand answers;

1.Caught ur hubby with his mistress in ur room, RED HANDED doing what?
2.Were u both legally married - i mean proper procedures
3.How long have u been together (married), any child/children?? If yes, how many and how old
4.What is the position of things in your home between you and your husband
5.Do you have normal, good, and regular intimacy with ur hubby?
6.What is ur religion - Xtian or Islam

Once again u need to let us know if you had a proper wedding/marriage before we can give u honest advice.

To all who have been contributing to this thread, I say well done.
But on the topic, we all know GOD'S OWN STANDARD.
Whatever is below that is your view.
However, there is a law to always remember "WHATEVER A MAN (WOMAN) SOW, THAT SHALL HE REAP"

can somebody say "amen!"?

Flirting is a common form of social interaction whereby one person obliquely indicates a romantic or sexual interest towards another. It can consist of conversation, body language, or brief physical contact. It may be one-sided or reciprocated (encouraged) with intentions of getting to know that person on a higher level.

Flirting may involve speaking and acting in a way that suggests greater intimacy than is generally considered appropriate to the relationship, without actually saying or doing anything that breaches any serious social norms. Every relationship today has its first step in flirting. Even the most holy guy sometime play the dice - flirt.

This is no more ordinary. It is a spiritual problem. My advice is to seek deliverance. And make sure u keep standing by her. U have been a saving grace for her inferior complexity, keep encouraging her.
Do not be insulted by most of the response on this thread. Majority of them have similar or even worse problems that they are carrying about.
The proof of true love is in how much you are willing to sacrifice.
May God help u to get thru this.

Ladies are not like men who can camouflage a lot.

When a lady likes/loves you, it is like the positioning of the sun. It will be obvious, it can not be hidden.
Her smile, he words and comments; just everything about her will indicate her emotions

As much as I appreciate the thinking of most Nairalanders, it often baffles me when people assume that certain things can not happen.
Anyway, I once lived in a neighborhood where identical twin sisters where exchanging date out with a man. He actually had intimacy with both of them, but the moment he new this, he left them both.
My advice for the poster is to get the hell out of the relationship before you get burnt.
If you are not just seeking adventures then you are in a serious danger.

@na2day? :another idiot born to the world --sighs--

and the name shall be called "NA2DAY?"