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Nigerians should wait for more BITTER PILLS from this religious terrorist group.

This is a live Story, help please.

I have two suitors coming to seek my hand in marriage. Both are from my place. The have almost the same physique and actually they are both older than me, while one is just a year older than the second. My problem is that the one that really loves me have no money to spend on me, while the other one is ladies man but with good cash to throw around. My dilemma is what can mere love offer when there is no sufficient money to survive tough times, and can money buy love?

Help give your GOODLY advice so that I can help this young lady

@ OP.
If you are really interested in staying remaining a virgin until u are married, then make sure you stay away from the ROMANCE SECTION on NL else "they" will dis-virgin you with their advice before the next four months.
Anyway, just my little advice oh!

I have these links for you. will try and get direct info from people from each area (tribe) to help you further.
Are you planning for wedding?

http://www.namywedding.com/articles/8-the-igbo-traditional-wedding

http://www.namywedding.com/articles/6-the-yoruba-traditional-wedding-and-engagement

http://www.namywedding.com/articles/44-ibibio-traditional-wedding

@ olumogun, long time! give me few minutes and I will help you with info on your post. But one I van remember very well was when a friend of mine was getting married to an Ibo girl, and he was ask to come along with 12 packets of cigarettes, he was initially talking tough. after a while he agreed but the trouble that made us (his friends) heard about it was when he was asking for the brand to buy.

^^^ you are welcome

enquirydon:
ogo ni foluwa to se ohun lan



chorus
yin oluwa yin oluwa
fin yin fun oluwa
yin oluwa yin oluwa

let me try and finish this for U.

Ogo ni f'Oluwa to se ohun n'la,
Ife lomu kofunwa ni Omo re,
Eni to buruju to ba le gbagbo,
Lojukanna yio ri idariji gba.

Chorus

Ore bi Jesu kosi laiye yi,
Jesu nikan lore otito,
Ore aiye yi le ko ni sile,
Sugbon Jesu koje gbagbe mi,
Koje gbagbe mi o!, aah, koje gbagbe mi,
Ore otito o!, aah, koje gbagbe mi,
Haleluyah! sugbon Jesu koje gbagbe mi.

I think some people need to know that God is not a magician, comedian or judo fighter.

Why should He always make his children to somersault each time he wants to bless them or set them free?

Look, the earlier you all know that for a man to fall down 100 times under "anointing" does not get him out of his trouble, or get his demons out of him.
You may fall down many times, but that never change a thing. What get you blessed, empowered or delivered is FAITH and nothing else.
So, let stop the gymnastic display that bring unnecessary disrepute to the name of Christ.

Just wondering what God will be thinking of His children (MINISTERS) in this end time.

^^^ ok

Mrs, Chima:
She said NIGERIAN men, not men.

So, you will be importing MEN to naija?
From where? Benin Republic, Ivory Coast or Ghana, Cameroun?
Sorry because half of your CARGO will still be Nigerians

queensmith:
this is not a question, the question is- when is rain going to wipe the current calamity we have for Nigerian men off the face of the earth so we can start from scratch and produce noteworthy ones.

That is the question.

THERE CAN NOT BE A SODOM WITHOUT A GOMORRAH!

May God not answer this your wish/prayer.
Which of the women in NAIJA will survive an hour without men?

Lady Lwal, you too should keep it cool. i respect you ladies more than all these Tom and Jerry kind of behaviour

anty jennykadry, i wasn't expecting that from you.
Some of you Nairalanders should know that some people respect your contributions
Please, dear JENNY, i think you should be a bit soft next time.

ALL SAID WELL AND GOOD.
You have all the advices you wanted already.
Some out of experience, and some out of biased mind.
The big question is: WHAT DO YOU WANT FOR YOUR LIFE?

1. A good job, a bad home
2. A good home, but no job
3. A good job, good children, good husband
4. A good job, good children, bad husband
5. A good job, bad children, good husband
6. No job, good children, good husband

They all may look alike, but CONDITIONS to each one of them are never the same.
No two HOME can be the same, what one is lacking may be the strength of the other.
The BLESSING of the one may be the CURSE of the other.
So, sit down, study your own FAMILY set up
Look at the positives and negatives, and having done that
Then make your CHOICE (remember your choice will have its fulfilling conditions)
Then CAREFULLY dance to the music LIFE play for you after.
Good luck.

Now it is becoming clearer why BOKO Haram are thriving in their activities.
Where a leader is not straight forward to lead, then his followers will become unruly.

It takes a FRUSTRATED voice
of a FRUSTRATED government
to tell us about a FRUSTRATED sect
that wants to vent their FRUSTRATION
upon a FRUSTRATED people
in a FRUSTRATED society.

The only thing that is correct about Azazi statement is that
the GOVERNMENT today has contributed nothing to the lives
of the Citizenry but FRUSTRATION.

What is happening in Naija is evident to proof that we are governed by a bunch of ROBOTS.

G.E.J. is blind, deaf and dumb. He does not have a mind of his own.

He only lead us by the WILL of his co-political rascals.

That Nigeria will not DIVIDE is a prayer that GOD himself will not answer.
That the Christians are keeping silent and allowing some uncircumcised slaves of the ARABIAN WARLORDS kill them is a matter of time.
It happened before in Kaduna State in those days when the 'matasini sect' started killing the Christians,
the whole rubbish stopped when the Christian retaliated once.
The way this Islamic violent is going, when the Christians finally react, there will be no place to hide for Boko Haram and their sponsors.

And to all Christians out there, the time has come in this country when "you work with one hand and carry your weapon of war with the other hand"

WHERE IS THE NEXT BOMB BLAST GOING TO TAKE PLACE?
WHO ARE THOSE TO BE VICTIMS IN THE NEXT BLAST?
IF IT HAS NOT GOTTEN TO YOU AND YOUR RELATIONS,
KNOW IT THAT IF THIS MENACE CONTINUES, IT IS MATTER OF TIME.

That Nigeria will not DIVIDE is a prayer that GOD himself will not answer.
That the Christians are keeping silent and allowing some uncircumcised slaves of the ARABIAN WARLORDS kill them is a matter of time.
It happened before in Kaduna State in those days when the 'matasini sect' started killing the Christians,
the whole rubbish stopped when the Christian retaliated once.
The way this Islamic violent is going, when the Christians finally react, there will be no place to hide for Boko Haram and their sponsors.

And to all Christians out there, the time has come in this country when "you work with one hand and carry your weapon of war with the other hand"

WHERE IS THE NEXT BOMB BLAST GOING TO TAKE PLACE?
WHO ARE THOSE TO BE VICTIMS IN THE NEXT BLAST?
IF IT HAS NOT GOTTEN TO YOU AND YOUR RELATIONS,
KNOW IT THAT IF THIS MENACE CONTINUES, IT IS MATTER OF TIME.

Ijogz K:
. . . but the mind for sometime now had been focused spiritually on my pastors wife body. I feel like laying my hands on her and praying for her on every part of her body

THAT MEAN SOMEONE NEED DELIVERANCE QUICK-QUICK.

Nothing copied can ever look like the original.
what we know to do best in this part of the world is FESTIVAL and not CARNIVAL.

^^ I beg to differ that an average Igbo man is heartless. There are still several of Igbo man today who are very understanding. This I say because I once lived among them.

As for the film, don't u ever think it is off circulation yet, because the next time you will be seeing it, it will come in a new package and labelled for sale by the ALABA BOYS.

I have just 3 things to say:

1. Good mother are not easily come by, if you have one, thank God for her.

2. In as much as she is guilty of death as pronounced, I think that the 'law' should consider the welfare and the trauma on the other children.

3. May it be known to all now that: LAWS ARE MADE FOR THE COMMON MAN IN NAIJA.

Whao ! ! !

just seeing this thread for the first time:
this is my own contribution.

"If you buy cheaply, you pay dearly." (English proverb)

"Where there is heart, there are hands." (Albanian proverb)

"The enemy of my enemy is my friend." (Arabic proverb)

"Be patient with a bad neighbor. Maybe he’ll leave or a disaster will take him out." (Egyptian proverb)

ANOTHER WAY TO LEGALIZE BESTIALITY ON THE WAY.
Ghana seems to be pioneering this one.

@ poster
Even if you don't have 'APOLLO' before, reading some of these posts is enough to make your eyes red with APOLLO.

This year has turned out to be the worst for the graduating students of this Nation who are supposedly to be serving their father-land across the Northern parts. This is not the first and I want to say (not as a prophet of doom) it will not be the last time that young LIVES and TALENTS will be cut short by the uneducated fools.

To many of us, N Y S C was a place of fun, but that was in those days. An average copper now will tell you how horrible the life in Camp has become, couple with the truth/fact that some communities are not hospitable at all.

I will want all and sundry, who knows about the pains and agony encountered during service year and the recent trends of murder of Youth Coppers to speak up now. Let us demand for a repackaging of this compulsory national exercise if it must continue, and where good conditions can not be provided it is better to completely scrap it now than wait for when some hoodlums and religion fanatics will just walk into a camp/coppers lodge with explosives.

As for me I am even asking that COPPERS BE MADE TO GO AND SERVE IN THEIR STATE OF ORIGIN where they will have VALUE than sending then to the lions dens in the name of serving the fatherland.

This year has turned out to be the worst for the graduating students of this Nation who are supposedly to be serving their father-land across the Northern parts. This is not the first and I want to say (not as a prophet of doom) it will not be the last time that young LIVES and TALENTS will be cut short by the uneducated fools.

To many of us, N Y S C was a place of fun, but that was in those days. An average copper now will tell you how horrible the life in Camp has become, couple with the truth/fact that some communities are not hospitable at all.

I will want all and sundry, who knows about the pains and agony encountered during service year and the recent trends of murder of Youth Coppers to speak up now. Let us demand for a repackaging of this compulsory national exercise if it must continue, and where good conditions can not be provided it is better to completely scrap it now than wait for when some hoodlums and religion fanatics will just walk into a camp/coppers lodge with explosives.

As for me I am even asking that COPPERS BE MADE TO GO AND SERVE IN THEIR STATE OF ORIGIN where they will have VALUE than sending then to the lions dens in the name of serving the fatherland.