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Karen2024:
I'm about to sign a life time contract. I'm finally getting married to the man of my dream.


Goodbye to singlehood.

Congratulations..for you to announce it openly, it shows you found joy and happiness, meanwhile, hope you have learned to manage and secure the found joy and happiness, my prayer is that, may the good Lord secure and protect your found joy and happiness till the time of the definition of you own forever.
Amen.

Jijuo:
Hello folks, I have about five girlfriends and I don't know who to pick for marriage. I'm 30+

My sister wants me to marry her friend who is a foreigner. The girl is tall and very beautiful but doesn't take any nonsense. So, I am a little worried about that.

How can only you have 5 good gf to the extent that you don't even know the one to choose for marriage, haba, but the good news is that we can't choose for you because we don't know them.

golor:
Good morning Fam on this beautiful Sunday morning.

So , I am on this travel group on telegram and a topic was raised . It says if u catch Ur husband cheating what will u do ....I mean 95 percent of the woman said they will cheat back and the affair will be you cheat I cheat . I was curious to see such reaction from ladies does it mean the standard has changed totally and I am unaware!!


What's your opinion please

Run ooo

Hmmmmm
U get plenty sense.....,

Eranders:
When a man comes clean with his intensions and also makes it clear that he is not rich.

We pretend it doesn't matter and say all sorts of things to back it up, then we gently and slowly pull away from him.

Both the beautiful and not-so beautiful ones.

Why is that? Abi honesty dey bite us ni?

If you like, continue that reckless life style of yours.

tgmservice:
My girlfriend recently told me she has not seen her period and having stomach pains and she may likely be pregnant.

I was so scared and she went for a test which showed she was not pregnant, I was so relieved.

The reason am sharing this happy news is that currently I have 2 kids from 2 different baby Mamas am currently taking care of.
Most of my monthly earnings go to their school and upkeep, God knows I have really struggled in taking care of them.

A third would have been a disaster and the new girl just finished secondary school lately am sure her parents will what me to be responsible for her.

Mehn a bullet dodged, thank God saved my Life.
I will repent from now on

Zonefree:
He's seated at the right hand of God.

Of blessed memories.
RIP.
this 1 later kill am

U get answer?

virginprincess:
What kind of question is this?

Ok

...... So?
Shey bcoz u love her, make she nor fine again?
If dey date pesin pikin and dem no toast or admire her, oga run for ur life
Oga u need some bed rest, ur brain needs to rest.
See as u dey do.
Anything fit sup as far as dating matter dey concern.

Ronaldo723:
You no get me? I'm saying I love this my girlfriend very much

Alaye, na man i be oooo
Ejoor oooo....
Edakun oooo
Aani seribu'ooo.

Ronaldo723:
I just love this girl like mad

Oga rest abeg.
Bcoz ur gal is appearing nice everyday, u wan give urself bp.
Na ur wife?
See as u put woman matter for head, so if she give u breakfast now, u go fit commit suicide?
Abeg woman plenty, if she f-up, go meet another 1,i no say make u dey go from one woman to another oooo.

Ronaldo723:
Of recent I having been noticing my girlfriend is looking very pretty and attractive, today a friend of mine just confirmed it that he was awed with he saw her 2 days ago and he was telling me that I should watch that the rate of guys stalking my guys would be much that anything can happen now... I don't know what to think right now because Im now very scared,,, should I have hope anymore?

Open doors of blessings
Helpers should locate me.
Supernatural turnaround

terrezo2002:
I am a born again Christian. Baptised in the Holy ghost. I have a burden to pray for people. The spirit of intercession is upon me.
So many things go wrong because there are no people standing in gap.

I will be praying most times between the hours of 1am-3am everyday for enough time. I will be fasting in some cases.
I might also be praying along with other people on your behalf. I will also imploy you to pray along.


Incase you are here and you need God's intervention,you can send in your prayer requests and by the grace of God I will be praying for you and the God who answers prayers will answer you.

What is required of you?
1. Clean hands and a pure heart
2. Your faith

Take this as a rare privilege.

God bless you.

Tracypacy:
Marriage is not something you manage If you are already walking on egg shells when you are with him, don't marry o. I have been there and its not a good experience. He constantly reminded me that his mother had over 8 children and suffered alone to train them and do house chores
just because i told him we will require a house help since I won't be doing domestic chores everyday whenever I have a full production week. He lacked communication skills and instead of telling me when I offend him. He will rather carry grudges like satan and punish me emotionally. I will beg for my sins and the sins of the world.Which man in love ignores 39 missed calls from a woman he claims to love ? . He had a 9 year old daughter and hid it from me.I found out in the most casual and painful way.I would have treated that child like my daughter,but why hide it from me?. I talked about him running a genotype test because I am AS and since he claims AA when he said he used to be AS ,ain't it better,we redo a test in another hospital?.

He preferred to call off the wedding plans. No matter how you try to make up excuses with love. An abuser is an abuser. I was engaged, my friends were happy but I was miserable.I lacked peace of mind. Should marriage be this way ? I never enter and e be like this?. I didn't have a dime.I was dependent on him and the little money I got from sewing for people. I thought about starting all over again and it affected my self esteem. I was a depressed bitter woman. When he left,I was bitter, little did I know that It was God who saved me from an impending doom. Not everyone will be lucky. Maybe I would have been a single mother with a child and no penny in her account.

Single woman, Hear me!...Never settle for less .... I may not have a man now to call my own but I am happy!..very happy!
My parents do not lack,even though daddy is retired ....I take care of them and I ensure everyone is catered for. .. I once asked him if he will ever relocate to my location if I had a good job that fetches money more than he does,he said NEVER!. Most men in their quest for headship lose out.
You earn 30k in Abuja and wifey earns 500k in Lagos, so wife will resign to join you and your miserable 30k because you are the HUSBAND and HEAD. Arth thou not a FOOL?.

Now the EX is regretting,he said he hasn't found a woman like me and I assured him he will never find. My type is LIMITED EDITION. We are scarce and not just for any man. I AM A GOOD WOMAN, AN ASSET TO ANY MAN provided he treats me right, yes,ask GOD, he knows this too.So ladies,love with sense,peace of mind is what money can never buy. Na me talk am. If he is rich and treats you like shit, he is not worthy to be called a husband. If he is poor and doesn't treat you well, I pity your condition because even when he makes the money, you won't be treated well. If his family doesn't like you, don't marry him,you will be miserable. There is a lot I wanna say but this pos
Wait,let the biological clock tick.
Wait for a good man to come ...don't marry a wicked person to pepper your friends.
Don't marry a selfish man who thinks about his family only. If my husband cannot care for my family the same way I will care for his own family ,then he doesn't deserve me. Note that there is no perfect man. but at least be sure he falls into what you desire in a man.
Don't ever make a mistake of thinking he will change when you marry him ..You are not the holy spirit..
MARITAL MISTAKE CAN LEAD ONE TO AN EARLY GRAVE

God bless you madam, hope they make use of it.
I don't understand what their problem is, all they care about is the usage of the word my husband, the title and the phrase "my time is going"
If not for foolishness, how can you think you want to change an adult.
I know of a lady who is always bn maltreated by her bf both emotionally and physically, but as old as this gal, the sense to leave the guy is still very far from her, (bf for that matter)

Na God safe you

ManuelNate1:
Okay, let me share anoda an encounter I had with a lady who happens to be a carrier of the dreaded HIV virus.
It's a long read but it's worth it.
This happened Friday evening around 4pm or thereabout.

This young girl about 22 years old, whom I've met before sometimes ago through some one who is very close to me. He's younger than I am but we very close, more like family. We share most of our secrets with each other, sexapedes and other general life issues. We share women togeda too, more like, smash and give the other to smash too.

We also have a tradition of testing any girl for any dreaded virus before smashing, if u don't agree, no deal cos it's usually without condom. Me personally I hate condoms.

So, this lady in particular, my guy has already smashed her before, like he literally bleeped her life out. Dahs about a year ago or so.
So, I got talking to her, and we agreed to meet.
Countless times , we ended up not meeting. So she later travelled to Abuja, stayed dere for a couple of months and came back.

And them we finally met last week Friday.
Without much talk, I started romancing her and smooching her breast.
Though I observed sumtin , she wasnt looking as fresh and "chopable" as she was back den wen my guy was fucking her destiny out.
But nonetheless, I didnt bother.
Note: she had a cough and was coughing at intervals but attributes it to cold from fan always been on. Well, dat wasn't my business I said in mind.

As we continued, I started pushing the tembo with my romance, I started 'dry humping her', meaning, I was fucking her with both of our clothes still on. And I was careful not to overstep by kissing her because 1. She had a cough, 2. I didn't know her HIV status yet.

So as it became intense, I stopped, dashed out to the nearest pharmacy and bought HIV rapid testing strip, I asked for Hepatitis B and C test strips but they said, they didn't have those two. So I returned with just the HIV strip.
And I bought just one cos I did mine not long ago and I do it frequently.

Before I went to get the strip, while I was dry humping her', she was tryina lure me into fucking her right away, telling me dat wat I was doing was waste of time and energy, that I shud pull my clothes.
She was pushing her ass hard on my dick, rocking it and making phony sounds.
Plus I wasnt wearing boxers inside. It was just my joggers.

Then at a point, I pulled up her skirt and the only seperating elements betwwen my dick and her p*ssy was my joggers and her tight. But still with dat, the strenght with wich I pushed in, I cud still feel my dick seperating the walls of her pussy and I pounded for sometime with vigour while our clothes were still on.

At a point I was almost about pulling my clothes to Bleep her then I snapped into my senses and went to get the test strips.

Upon coming back, she started acting phony about being scared of needles and wat not.
Then she asked me to do mine first, I told her I bought just one test strip. Omoh babe started to create a schene that what do I mean by buying just one strip and was acting like a loose canon. I dashed out and got the second one for my self.

I got back, did my own test first, it came out negative, and the result was clear and clean.
Then I proceeded to run her own test.
Her test was negative for at first. So, I dropped. And I was talking with her. I just jokingly told her that, I will check the results again after 30 mins. Normally, I just said it without meaning it. Cos I had tot that, it was actually negative and the "patient's indicator line" was supposed to show even before the "control line" will show. I didn't know that I was ignorantly setting my self up for the devil's dinner. "Lafs"

So, after I had told her dat I will check again after 30 mins, she stylishly took her own result and held it in her hand, and was observing it her self.

Then wen she observed that the second line which is the positive line started showing up, she broke the test strip exactly along that line in a way to distort the result and make it confusing. Talk about dinning with the devil.
All along, I didn't know dat she actually, tried to manipulate the result, so I requested to see her own again den she declined, and was insisting that me I have seen her result already and it is negative so I shud forget about seeing it again. Like play like play, dis girl refused to give me o.

Na so, we argue till she come put the thing inside paper to discard am by her self wen she's going. Then I started wondering and became somewhat suspicious of her.
Then I relaxed, still took her to the bed and was caressing her, and smooching her, den I convinced her to dropp the result on the ground and focus on me, den she dropped it.
So at a point, a call came in and she went to pick it. Then I took the result from where she dropped it. Then she ended the call and started struggling with me dat I shudnt see it.
Na so dis girl bin wan strangle me, aswear!
She was violently struggling with me to prevent me from seeing it, but I was stronger than her so I ended up opening the paper and I saw the result. It was confusing and not clear, but I just used sense to tell her that... So u re positive and u want to trick me right.
Then she became startled, at this point I had dropped the strip for her. And started acting like she was schocked and creating dramatic scene. She then started begging that she didn't know she was positive, bla bla bla. She knelt down and was crying. We went outside, I discharged her. Then took the result to the clinic, the lab technician is my close person. He observed the result and assured me that it was negative that, can't I see that the strip is broken and the faint line didn't appear exactly at the middle. So I shudnt worry. �
But I told him, I ain't taking chances, that I will bring the girl for a more confirmatory test, and if she's actually positive, I will take prophylaxis for 30 days so I won't get infected, even though we didn't have any direct sex or kissing.
He said okay. Then I called the girl and told her,she said okay. That she was sure she was not positive.
Then yesterday , wen I asked her to come for the test, she started telling me plenty stories, I got angry, told her dat if she didn't come, I will go to her house and tell every body, and she will do the test in the presence of everybody, that I needed to started taking prophylaxis within the period of 24 hrs, though it's 72 hrs but I lied to her to make her feel time was against me.
Then she later came, she was literally crying, asking God to help and let the result not be positive. I assured her dat everything will be okay, we did the test and it still came out positive but with a fainted positive line.
Then I took her to the clinic straight, the man did the test with his own strip, the result cane out Sam, but the positive line was a bit pronounced this time. He confirmed the test with unigold test strip, that one showed clear positive.
Omo, na so the babe start cry, the act drama.
Me I jejely collected my drug i.e the prophylaxis and left. Even though the technician told me, it's a waste, since we didn't have any intercourse or kissing but I told him. Since the prophylaxis is not going to kille it I take it, I wasn't taking any chances.
Let me just take it for taking sake to prevent had I known.
So today will be my second day of taking it. I need to take it for 30 days period.
Lessons learnt.
1. Being randy and living a reckless life is rili rili
bad and shameful
2. The pain and agony one will have to go through after being caught by a dreaded disease is not worth the 5mins so called fun.
Take a look at the young lady in qstn, just a few months after catching the disease, she has become less of wat she you to look like, fresh, young and desirable
3. Since after this incidence, I've lost appetite for sex and chasing of women, any young lady I see now, looks to me like a carrier of the virus.
4. It's total and complete abstinence till I marry. I no dey for how e take happen.
Note: that my close guy is aware of every thing that happened, and he did his test too but it's negative, he left her for about a year ago.
Thanks.

I'm interested pls

Cinema4d:
...no money, I mean not even a dime!

It's a very short experience I want to share on here. And I'd like you to share yours too.

Kindly read to the end and, pardon my errors.

It happened that during the lockdown period, I was broke, I had no skills and no job. But, I had a phone and a laptop and they were totally useless because, I just watch movies 24/7 - was staying with my brother then...

I became very lazy. My brother kept on pestering me to either get a job or get a skill. So I started scouting online to check for skills I could learn, ranging from WhatsApp classes to futurelearn, udemy, alison, coursera... name it. I took some of those courses but, I had to pay to get certification. Although, some certifications I got for free are just basic or foundational courses. The WhatsApp classes weren't helping either.

I got fed up and I became frustrated and angry. And then I asked myself, "why does acquiring value cost this much?"
...

Eventually, I got an answer from a book (wont share the name yet) and I realized that, to be invaluable, you have to pay a heavy price. Either with your time or money!

I was literally looking for free things back then. It was until I realized that you don't get maximum value from free things.

I started investing in myself by reading books and looking for ways to start making passive income so I can acquire the most needed skills in this dispensation.

To make money in this life, you need to be smart. You don't necessarily need to do what you love, of course you'll do what you love. But you need to do what people need I.e what is in high demand!
...
There's more to share. But I'll stop here for now. I've seen too many people frustrated and I know how it feels because I've been there.

If you want to learn any digital skill like:

1. Content Writing
2. How to Build Website
3. Affiliate Marketing
4. Digital Marketing (Facebook and Instagram Ads)
5. Email Marketing
6. How to Sell Anything
7. How to pick products to Sell
8. 100s of templates to use personally
9. Amazon Publishing

And lots more

I have books I can recommend and I have access to courses that will guide you from a stark beginner to a professional. I just want to help someone out there confused.


Kindly share your experiences too

What about those that are OK financially?

YourFavorite21:
Women will always need men , who go pay their bills ? Can this gadget pay the bills?

I can connect you, get a petrol tanker and be a supplier or better still, I can also connect you to being a distributor at 7 up, or....... if you are serious and since you don't want quick money as stated, I have plenty of idea for you.

Lilrichie419:
I really Need your advice on this
What durable business can i start with 10-15m

I’m not looking for quick money and stuff,i need something durable that will set me up for life


Life really hard i no wan go back trenches

Admins please fp material
Lalasticlala
Mynd44

Problem

Hmmm

Rozross:
Very soon some women will no longer need men, I’m an exception because as a strong dependent woman I’ll need a man by my side to perform his duties.

There's nothing wrong with you as long as you don't dress to portray you as one of those Street girls, a better man will come your way, never loose hope, you are not too old, don't rush yourself, always dress to be attractive and nice, don't be desperate and don't allow anybody to see desperation in you, because it will be used against you.
Forget about the saying that "time is going", its your time not anybody's time, focus on making yourself a better person, because the potential in you will definitely define what men will do with you.
Thanks.
but wait......
Can you give a brief description of your body, I'm thinking of something, pls don't be offended.

Eat well and always rest.

Where she dey stay, e get why.

Oga, u wan hear?
Nothing do that gal, she don waka, make u self waka...
Ahead ahead......
Onto the next thing, after all life is all about meeting and parting, ("we meet to part and part to meet".

Honestfrend:
I met this pretty lady ago 6months ago although I have know her before then but we don't talk not that we have any issue. Just someone u see and pass until we collide abo 6months ago.

So we start getting close and not we her very close. So we start dating, although no sex yet. She do come around and we just play n talk.

I really have treated her nice the best way I can as a man.


Now just about a week ago I called her if she can come around to my place as usual. She said she will be going out that day that she won't be able 2 come. I said OK, no stress.

That day in the evening I called her she didn't pick, the next day the same thing. Uptill this moment she has not pick my calls, doesn't reply my messages. I don't know what to do. I love this girl.

Am really worried. She doesn't want me to come to her house although she lives with her mother and siblings.

Hollybratt:
Op marry her because of this advantages
1.During sex, she won't be able to moarn or shout.
2.She won't even complain when you come home late
3.She won't be able to report you to your family.
3.No stress, no frustration. Everything will just be happening silently.
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.
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IRMC with my kenya loud

... and if she wants to kill him, she will do it silently.

Oga, and something keeps telling you that your are putting the cart in front of the horse, but I don't know why you are ignoring that.

Bradford111:
So I just want your guys' thoughts on this I'm 20 years old and in a relationship with an 18-year-old lady she will soon be going to the university while for me it will be next year we do love each other but I'm just thinking about our relationship won't lead to marriage as there are many hurdles on the way but she told me she loves me more than the challenges ahead of us so what's your thoughts?!

Oga woman leave u no be problem, àbí u no get any other problem ni?

Pls add me to work as one of ur humble staff too, I'm also ready to work, any work.
Thanks

Maximos7:
Can you copy his phone number and send to me please? I am setting up a project and can offer him a job with feeding and accomodation sorted

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OMOIBUKUN:
Those interested in the past questions can drop email address or phone number

olatejubol@gmail.com