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FamilyRe: Please Advice Me On My Family Issue by akoraye(op): 7:07am On Nov 25, 2019
Abfinest007:
are you sure she slept in her mother's place bcuz even rev sisters are getting pregnant these days oh.secord point try to find out what she is up to
Alright thanks
FamilyRe: Please Advice Me On My Family Issue by akoraye(op): 6:48am On Nov 25, 2019
Acidosis:
True, bro. So keep calm o till you get the details.
Thanks
FamilyRe: Please Advice Me On My Family Issue by akoraye(op): 6:48am On Nov 25, 2019
Acidosis:
What kind of thing is this? Lack of communication for 3 hours is enough to leave your husband's house??


3 hours?
I don't understand
FamilyRe: Please Advice Me On My Family Issue by akoraye(op): 6:47am On Nov 25, 2019
Sanchez01:
Communication is lacking. She was right to have charged you with not calling her when she was away and you should have apologized when she returned.

As much as you think she is matured and old enough to take care of herself when she goes out, as her husband, you should have called to find out how things were going. Be that as it may, your relationship is too young to be having unnecessary issues as this one.

I'm sure you understand her love language. Speak it at this point and make peace. While she is her mother's only child, if she finds solace in her mother instead of you, it means you are failing in your role as a husband and a man. You won't find it easy and it won't be.

Don't expect the mother to call and don't go and explain anything to her lest she becomes the counsellor of your home. You already know she is stubborn, which is good. I'm sure you don't talk because there's an unresolved issue. If it is about you not checking up when she left home, get her a gift and apologize. If it is not, find out and let peace reign.
Thanks
FamilyRe: Please Advice Me On My Family Issue by akoraye(op): 6:45am On Nov 25, 2019
Acidosis:
1. When you marry a woman raised by a single mother, you need to read some special books, take on some special training/lessons, and exhibit special characters. The modalities required for living with one with a father figure are completely different bro. With a father figure, she wouldn't even dare to leave your house in the first place. This is why some men avoid women like your wife.

2. Are you sure she actually slept in her mother's house?


3. It is possible she lied to her mother as per her reasons for sleeping over at her place. So keep calm till you get the details.
Thanks so much! my friend said the same thing that how am I sure she told the mother truth about the matter
FamilyRe: Please Advice Me On My Family Issue by akoraye(op): 6:43am On Nov 25, 2019
SendAbroad:
How are you guys caring for the kids in this scenario?

I think your wife likes attention from you if her complain was you didn't call her 3 hours that she went for exams..

You guys should improve communication.

Thanks! we used to communicate well whenever we are in good terms. she's too stubborn
FamilyRe: Please Advice Me On My Family Issue by akoraye(op): 6:41am On Nov 25, 2019
[quote author=Acidosis post=84339704]1. When you marry a woman raised by a single mother, you need to read some special books, take on some special training/lessons, and exhibit special characters. The modalities required for living with one with a father figure are completely different bro.

2. Are you sure she actually slept in her mother's house?[/quot

I asked my son of 8 yearls where her mother slept and he told me it was grandma's house
FamilyPlease Advice Me On My Family Issue by akoraye(op): 6:32am On Nov 25, 2019
Nairalanders I will like to go straight to my point in order not to waste your time. I'm married with children, my wife is the only child of her single mother, we used to have little issues since our wedding which I believe it's a natural thing in marriage and I have been managing them. My wife is not a wayward type which I've confirmed to some extent but a very stubborn one. Straight to the point now! last three weeks she traveled for an exam and I went to work that morning after 3 hours that she left,she called me to challenge me that I've not deem it fit to call her to know how she is doing and she dropped the call immediately she accused me, I picked my phone Immediately to apologise to her which decided not to pick my call till she came back. Since then she has started to behave arrogantly at home and I didn't want to report the issue to her mother. Three days ago I went to a friend's party/ceremony which she knew about and I came back around 9:25pm only to meet my house door locked and my wife was no where to be found, I decided not to call her because I was quite sure she has gone to her mother's house to sleep (first time since our wedding though) She eventually came back the following morning and went straight to her shop which I built for her in front of the house without even coming inside if I'm there or not. I just kept my calm, expecting her mother's action about it because I believe courtesy demands her mother to ask me why her daughter could do such but up till now the mother has not asked me anything which I told a friend which my friend told me to exercise patient but I'm not convenient of her arrogance at home. Please advise me because I don't want do any stupid thing but I'm infuriated which I'm finding difficult to calm.
CelebritiesRe: Bobrisky Undergoes Surgery In Dubai by akoraye(m): 8:00pm On Nov 24, 2019
So this guy no even Sabi write him name? Gongo so! �������
PoliticsRe: School Feeding: Oyetola Inaugurates 2,210 New Food Vendors (Photos) by akoraye(m): 8:55am On Nov 20, 2019
Other governors are commissioning roads and other social amenities while governor Oyetola is busy commissioning Food warmer and iron pots(apeerin) God!
PoliticsRe: ‘I Am Not Owing Workers Any Dime’ – Yahaya Bello Speaks After Election Victory by akoraye(m): 8:48am On Nov 20, 2019
Kogites! Sorry o!
PoliticsRe: Kogi People Have Themselves To Blame If Yahaya Bello Wins by akoraye(m): 3:02pm On Nov 16, 2019
Mokason28:
Fortunately for him ... he has won already... Sad truth
Welcome Mr returning officer!
PoliticsRe: Iyiola Omisore's Campaign Banners For Governor, Osun State (Photos) by akoraye(m): 10:12am On Aug 14, 2018
Pastor 'Pade Okunola is the best candidate for the job!
PoliticsRe: BREAKING: Another Ex-nigerian Governor Joshua Dariye Convicted Of Fraud by akoraye(m): 3:11pm On Jun 12, 2018
I wish this id!ot is jailed! why I hate him is simply because he did not pay a dime to we corps members who served in plateau state in 2004! Serves him right!
CelebritiesRe: Ras Kimono Collapsed At Lagos Airport - His Final Moments by akoraye(m): 1:39pm On Jun 12, 2018
Take note of this! PMAN President is Gbenga Falope jnr
PoliticsRe: EXCLUSIVE! Fayemi Presents N25bn Budget To Buhari For Ekiti Guber Election by akoraye(m): 8:54am On May 17, 2018
Sensele$$ post
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Successfully Verified N-build Applicant, Please Log On To The NPVN Portal. by akoraye(m): 8:28am On Jan 18, 2018
npowerng:
Kindly visit your NPVN Profile again to cross check your details sir.
Pls, My Wife Is One Of The 2016 Participants Which Has Never Been Paid A Dime, Whenever We Check Her Profile, We Read It There That She Will Be Paid Soon And She Has Never Been Paid A Dime For Over A Year. What Is The Problem Sir?
FamilyRe: Husband Wakes His Wife Up With Breakfast In Bed, Her Smile Is Priceless (Photos) by akoraye(m): 9:37am On Oct 14, 2017
wait o! this woman dey chop when she never brush her mouth! na wa ooo!
PoliticsRe: Nnamdi Kanu To Reach Lagos – Nobody Can Stop Me From Coming To Lagos, Detain Me by akoraye(m): 12:46pm On Sep 01, 2017
Kanu!!! no wahala, we are waiting for you in Lagos. Trial will surely convince you!
Christianity EtcRe: Catholic Church Excommunicates Rev. Patrick Edet Who Quit Priesthood by akoraye(m): 10:06am On Aug 19, 2017
HumanistMike:
The Catholic Church is a cult that worships statues. They prostrate before a white statue they claim is for Mary. However, no one knows what Mary looks like so in whose image was that statue made?

The same goes for the Jesus' images they worship.

The exPriest saw the light and got tired of their bullsh1t.

Them excommunicating him is indicative of their cultist status. There's even a warning for their members to not communicate with him. Losers! The Catholic Church sounds like losers!

I used to have catholic friends so I know a bit. They follow a pattern that's preset from the Vatican. No room for individuality. It's 100% control and recital. Just follow instructions and don't ask questions. Don't think, the church will do the thinking for you. It's a sin to think for yourself. That's probably the box the man referred to.

Some birds are born to fly.

If the Catholic Church is a real positive establishment, they won't be bitter about him leaving, rather, they'll wish him "good luck in his future endeavours"...but noooooo! E dey pain them.
Judging a book by its corver! I don't blame you sha! Ewu!
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Npower Problems In Osun State by akoraye(op): 3:20pm On Mar 15, 2017
Thanks Larry!
Jobs/VacanciesNpower Problems In Osun State by akoraye(op): 8:49am On Mar 15, 2017
Hello nairalanders!
Im one of the npower participants in osun state but majority of us here in osun state have not been paid a dime while little numbers of the participants have gotten three months stipend and there has not been any excuse from the federal government about this. Anybody with useful information or advice should please give. Thanks
PoliticsRe: Video: APC Shaking As PDP Release Video Evidence Of How INEC Rigged Edo Election by akoraye(m): 7:19pm On Oct 10, 2016
From this video, the woman thumb printed the first box on the ballot paper, how on earth will APC be the first on the ballot paper when ACCORD is there? don't you know parties are arranged on ballot paper alphabetically? Wise up dind!nrin!
PoliticsRe: 61 Priests Bury Stella Oduah's Son... (Pics) by akoraye(m): 1:37pm On Sep 04, 2016
Keneking:
Catholic Church sef undecided
Wetin Catholic Church do?
CultureRe: Which Village Are You From? Represent Your Village Here by akoraye(m): 9:12pm On Sep 01, 2016
I represent Modakeke in Osun State!
With the fall of the Oyo Empire to the Fulani , the Yoruba kingdom was thrown into confusion and the inhabitants of the Old Oyo were dispersed and started new settlements all around Yoruba land.Fleeing southwards in search of new abodes after the fall of the Oyo Empire, the Oyos started settling among the Ifes in 1834. As the Romans of old, they were soldier-farmers. They were hardy as soldiers and industrious as farmers. Having lost all their possessions in their hasty flight, they started life in Ife by doing menial jobs to enable them eke out a living. The reigning Ooni of Ife, Oba Akinmoyero was said to have received them well. They started growing and producing different types of food crops on farmlands given to them by their hosts. A good number of them got recruited into Ife’s weak army and it was through their gallantry that Ife had its territory extended to Alakowe, its present boundary with Ilesa. Prior to the arrival of the Oyos, Ijesha land extended to the present location of the Palace of the Ooni of Ife. This is why the Palace area is known as Enuwa (Enu Owa) until today. Ooni Akinmoyero gave the displaced Oyo an expanse of land to stay outside the walls of Ife,the place given to the Modakekes was home to a species of bird called Ako (Stork), Hence the origin of the appellation AKORAYE(The stork found a space). It was also customary for the storks at the location to chirp and sing the rhyme "Mo-da-ke-ke- ke-ke" which was most of the time heard by the Ifes and it was decided that the new settlement would be called MODAKEKE.
PoliticsRe: I Will Lead PDP To Retake Power In 2019 – Agbaje by akoraye(m): 11:18am On Aug 10, 2016
What is this one saying?
PoliticsRe: Olubodun Tayo Marcus Drinking Beer. Photos Got People Talking by akoraye(m): 12:31pm On Aug 09, 2016
So..... mim!ko is surrounded by touts!
Jokes EtcRe: Breaking: EFCC Freezes Acct Of Dino Melaye by akoraye(m): 8:53am On Jul 22, 2016
sensele$$ post!
PoliticsRe: Dino Melaye Visits Bourdillon Street In Lagos - See Photos by akoraye(m): 8:48pm On Jul 16, 2016
Rubb!sh
PoliticsRe: #dasukigate: Obanikoro Accuses EFCC Of Evidence Forgery..... by akoraye(m): 11:58am On Jul 10, 2016
Obanikoro! U Think Say Everybody Mumu Like You? Signed Letterhead Papers? Gbagbe Oshi Joor!
PoliticsRe: PDP Leaders Prostrate As They Beg Ooni Of Ife Over Sen Omisore's Detention. Pics by akoraye(m): 8:14pm On Jul 09, 2016
Bola Ige! Can You Now See Them?

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