Jokerman: Why would a family man be working as a private school teacher??
Private school teaching is for married women whom their husbands don't want them to work far away from home and also have time for their family; or young people who just finished NYSC without a job for the main time.
If as a married man you are doing private school teaching, na hunger go kpai you, except na you get the school.
We know parents don't pay good enough school fees for these schools to pay you like government.
Etche, chokocho and co in Rivers State are areas that I fear mostly. I can't forget December 31st, 2010 that I was kidnapped and taken to a Forest in Olakwa 2. I thank God sha!
YoungCabal: If tinubu won the elections and was chosen by the people as he claimed, why is he and his supporters afraid of a rerun ? Both PDP and Labour Party aren't even afraid, why then is the jagaban himself afraid that he had to run to court to stop them from stopping the collation ?
D!nd!nr!n,put yourself in Tinubus shoes for somebody to want to truncate your victory purposely because of flimsy excuses. Opohnu!
press9jatv: Mo dije lati mu Ayipada rere deba eyin eniyan mi ni ipinle Osun , ma se eto eko to ye ko ro Ati eto ilera to ko ju Owo Pelu eto abo to duro Dede . Ma pese eto ogbin Alada nla. Oro ipinle Osun yo je fun idagbasoke ipinle Osun . Owo osise Ati Owo Awon afeyinti ni yo ma lo Dede. -Senator Ademola Nurudeen Jackson Adeleke
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Thank God he's caught! I have been lured with a business proposal to this area (called Olakwo 2, in Etche) in 2011( specifically December 31st, 2011). but how God rescued me from them till this moment remained mystery.
Acidosis: Na dem. Why won't your daughter in laws hate you all. Your married son will walk to your home to pass the night, leaving his wife and kids behind and you will grant him a space without questioning? You wouldn't call his wife (your so called daughter) that he left behind at home?
baby124: OP, You are rude and condescending. See how you described your wife and her parents status? If you knew that marrying a woman who was raised by a single mother was a problem then why marry her? I am sure for you to mention this on a public forum with so much ease, you must say it to her face. This is why her mother is an easy target for you to use to deflect from your communication issues with your wife! Keep your MIL out of your issues.
If my child came to my house and needed a place to stay, I will grant her a place to stay. She’s an adult and can decide if she wants me to be involved in her issues or not.
Richy4: OK bro. I will start with the second issue that you raised which was arrogance.. Hmmm!!! Let us look at Nigerian population, how many numbers were single ladies in Nigeria? So Out of those single ladies population, u saw her, chose her, had a relationship with her, and decided to marry her.. Meaning that u saw all the arrogant tendencies, attitude problem and u went ahead and got married.... So why are you complaining now? Please don't tell me that she was not like that when you were courting her because only a 5 year old might believe that
Now the second issue which was your mother inlaw, Has it occurred to you that maybe she doesn't want to interfere in her daughter's marriage anymore so that she won't end up being single? Besides if your wife was not picking your calls, did u call your mother inlaw that your wife's phone was not reachable that u wanted to know if she was there...
I will suggest that you let the sleeping dog lie.. Don't use your hands to invite third parties into your marriage. It will make the marriage over crowded. U have already started listening to friends telling u that your wife may or may not has slept in her mother's house.. U are simply inviting trouble for yourself and your relationship if u keep up with telling however that cares to listen what was transpiring at your home... U know your Wife better than anyone that was trying to sow a seed of discord between you two. Be careful. I think I'm done. Have a wonderful day.
Thanks! I told her mother that I've been calling my and she's not picking it which my MIL aswered me that she just spoke to her daughter not quite long that she will soon come. Meaning she could pick up her mother's call and neglected mine.
Richy4: Oh!! Ok then. You got me confused.. I thought you were left stranded infront of your home....So now, I don't understand the second issues that u raised.. Let us just pause the first issues which was the calling accusations for a while..which to me is her being a wife.
Why was this thread created? were you angry that your wife was not at home when she was surposed to be there or that she did not welcome you and pet you so much for coming back by 9:25, What do you want? Explain it to me as if I was an 8 year old..Because if you want people to help you bash your wife, you came to the right forum.
� What I'm saying is that since then 1my MIL has not asked me why my wife decided to come and pass a night in her house. 2. Her arrogance at home now is on a high side purposely because I decided not to behave funny!
hakeemhakeem: because you did not called to know if she with her,you should have called your wife and if she didnt pick up is another thing an adage says (ejo la ko ka to ko ja )you must learn defensive words before you fight what if terrible things had happened to her on her way
Richy4: If this was what really happened, then you married a first class brat sorry to say it aloud.I don't know the word to use because it's annoying .. She should be very happy that she met and married a level headed guy who has the decency to apologise to her even when you were not wrong.. I don't know why I have the feeling that you were always quick to apologise that's why she was always waiting for it.
Just being curious, was that an Oxford or Cambridge exams that she went to write?
She must be really really beautiful for u to take this nonsense.. I don't know if u truly know the meaning of locking someone out deliberately. It means whatever happened to u, I don't care. U deserve what comes to u.. just so you know. U can take all the crap but don't take when someone wants to in danger your life in the name of love.
I will suggest that you sit her down and let her know that the sun those not rise and set because she said so.. In a cool but steady voice let her know that you will never tolerate that kinda behaviour especially the one of locking u outside.. After saying that storm inside the bedroom, take your car keys and drive to the ocean, river or stream. Water has a way of calming people down.. Don't go to the bar..
If she doesn't apologise when u get back, Ignore her to register your displeasure... If she serves u food eat it, after eating wash the plate yourself without a word...For the first time, this situation warrant 1 day of silent treatment.. let her initiate the talking this time around.. Don't jump into talking to her yet and observe what her reactions would be. If she apologises, take it immediately. If she doesn't ignore her and observe her some more. This is how to Educate a brat who thinks the world revolves around her.
Also try and make another copy of the house keys.
Thanks so much. On the issue of locking out, She knew that I had my own spare key on me. Not that I didn't sleep at home that night, I absolutely slept at home because I had my own spare key with me.
Sanchez01: Like I earlier mentioned, it is your home and you shouldn't even be bothered about why the mother hasn't called you.
She probably painted a picture that all wasn't well with you guys, which was why she went over there.
You waiting for your MIL to call you is almost the same as you wanting her to step in and resolve the situation. She shouldn't. For all it's worth, she might have been rebuked and even cautioned by her mother for acting the way she did, who knows?
Kindly make peace and settle whatever it is with her. She should be your focus, not your MIL or your friend.
theButterfly: That's not a bad idea but it should be a mutual/joint effort. You're clearly the one who always tries to make peace when she's at fault, which is why she'll continue to behave in this manner. You should be more concerned about nipping her bad behavior in the bud before it worsens and holding her accountability for her actions, otherwise you'll always be the one apologizing when she's wrong. Your attempt to apologize after she hung up on you instead of her calling you back to apologize or at least give you the same courtesy, and to shift the blame to the mother shows you're the one who has been encouraging it. When people become adults, they likewise become responsible for their own actions. You cannot be blaming her mother for being a single mother or for not asking you why the daughter passed the night at her place. It's not the mother's responsibility to be asking you why she was there [she could've even assumed you knew about it] or giving you any explanation.
theButterfly: She hung up the phone on you and you were the one who called her back to apologize to her, LMAO. You are obviously enabling her bad behavior. By the way, you cannot be blaming her mother for anything. She's an adult and should be held responsible for her own actions.
Just trying to make peace because of my marriage. I'm not that calm!
Sanchez01: I'm sorry but the issue in your home is bigger than imagined. Like you have friends whispering nonsense to you after writing the below in your post?
I am almost 100% certain you are more interested in where she passed the night and not what made her do so. She has her fault just as you have yours in this.
Entrusting your marital affair in the hands of your own friend is an indication that you and your wife aren't close.
If you are so interested in knowing where she slept the day she left, apologize, make up and ask while making up. I'm sure she'll tell you freely and playfully. Friends, MIL or any other third party counseling you about your home shouldn't have happened.
Where she slept is not my problem because I confirmed she slept I'm her mother's house but the question is why has her mother not asked me why she came to sleep over in her house!
This is why I love being around people with a very peculiar orientation. If that woman was married to some people I know, she will continue sleeping in her mother's house until the same mother calls to ask what is going on... then the family meeting can commence from there.
The first question they will ask the mother is, what kind of responsible mother receives her married daughter into her home for the night without at least calling up her son-in-law to confirm his knowledge of it?
babythug: @OP the issue at hand is between you and your Mrs. Why on earth are you expecting your mother in law to intervene? You haven’t brought the matter to her how is she to know something is amiss?
Find a way to resolve things with your wife, if you feel you require third party intervention ask you MIL to step in but I don’t think the matter requires such.
Thanks but I'm talking about is the my wife passed a night in her mother's house and the mother did not deem it fit to ask me why
thorpido: You will have to manage the stubbornness.You signed up for it. If you marry most girls raised by a single mother,you will have to deal with many issues.
J111333: This may sound offensive but I can't marry a lady raised by a single unmarried woman.
A girl needs a father unless she has an elder brother who is very active in her life. In a case where the dad is dead, then she needs to be allowed to gather enough experience in the hands of boyfriends before marriage.
Man/marriage is like a degree course, a wise lady needs to do some prerequisites before enrolling.
Education › Re: Struggles Of A Private School Teacher by akoraye(m): 7:04pm On Oct 08, 2024
