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“THE POWER OF THE BLOOD’ -
Studying and Ruminating on that Key Statement “THE POWER OF THE BLOOD” I was moved to share this….
BLOOD? A Fluid in Human and Animals that Delivers Needed (Necessary) substances such as nutrients and oxygen to the cells and transports metabolic waste products away from those same cells.
Family Blood? By Nature “Blood makes you relatives While Loyalty makes your Family?
The ‘BLOOD’ am talking about is the Redeeming Blood – The ‘BLOOD of the LAMB’ So Efficacious.
How I Use The Blood & What The Blood Does For Me?
I immerse myself in the Blood of Jesus Christ.
I saturate my spirit: conscience, intuition and worship.
I saturate my soul: conscious, sub-conscious, and unconscious: mind, will, emotions, and intellect.
I saturate my five senses: sight, hearing, smell, taste, and touch.
I saturate my physical body: brain, physical appetites, and sexual character.
I cover my family, doorpost and possessions with the Blood of Jesus Christ (Exod.12:13)
I sprinkle the Blood of Jesus Christ and receive multiplied grace and peace (1 Pet. 1:2)
I am made perfect through the Blood of the Everlasting Covenant (Heb 13:20- 21)
I have boldness to enter into the presence of God through the Blood of Jesus Christ (Heb. 10:19)
I overcome the devil through the Blood of Jesus Christ (Rev. 12:11)
I have redemption through the Blood of Jesus Christ and I am redeemed from the power of evil (Eph. 1:7)
My conscience is purged from dead works to serve the living God through the Blood of Jesus Christ (Heb. 9:14)
I eat the Body of Jesus Christ and drink His Blood (John 6:54)
I rebuke and cast out all spirits of torment and fear because I have peace through the Blood of Jesus Christ (Col. 1:20)
I receive the benefits of the New Covenant through the Blood of Jesus Christ (Matt. 26:28)
I receive healing and health through the Blood of Jesus Christ (1 Pet. 2:24).
I receive abundance and prosperity through the Blood of Jesus Christ (2 Cor. 8:9).
I receive deliverance through the Blood of Jesus Christ (Isa. 54:5)
I receive the fullness of the Holy Spirit and the Anointing through the Blood of Jesus Christ.
The Blood of Jesus Christ bears witness to my deliverance and salvation (1 John 5:.
The Blood of Jesus Christ cleanses me from all sin (1 John 1:7).
The Blood gives me victory (Heb. 12:4).
I rebuke and cast out all spirits of guilt, shame and condemnation through the Blood of Jesus Christ.
I destroy the power of sin and iniquity in my life through the Blood of Jesus Christ (Heb. 10:17).
My heart is sprinkled with the Blood of Jesus Christ from an evil conscience (Heb. 10:22).
I rebuke Satan, the accuser of the brethren, and remind him, he is defeated through the Blood of Jesus Christ (Rev. 12:10).
I command all my accusers to depart through the Blood of Jesus Christ (John 8:10).
I rebuke and cast out all spirits of slander and accusation through the Blood of Jesus Christ (Matt. 12:10)
I release the voice of the Blood against demons and evil spirits that would accuse and condemn me, in the name of Jesus Christ (Heb. 12:24).

MC 'A' bobby
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key benefits of having an Event Emcee for your event..

Well! Let’s consider some key benefits of having an Event Emcee for your event!!!

Out of his / her experience the event emcee would be able to able to help you organize the event in a smooth way. Even if you have already made the plan, the event emcee would be able to suggest you some changes that will bring big difference in the event.

Event Emcee would be able to refer you to qualified potential event managers/Vendors when you want someone else to organize the entire event.

At the time of the event, due to excitement or tension, you may forget a lot of things. Event emcee would be very patient and wise enough to identify what are the regular things to be taken care and they would remind you and makes sure everything gets done.

If there is any delay in starting the event or ending the event, you shall always depend on the event emcee as a savior. A skilled event emcee always knows how to stretch the event or shorten the event based on the need and the pulse of the audience. So if you need additional time for your preparation and the audience has already arrived, event emcee would fill in that time through his / her engagement.

Event emcee makes sure that there is no lag in between and the tempo is maintained throughout the event.

If you have planned for any other performances like dance, mimicry, magic show, the event emcee helps you to taking the show in a smooth streamlined way by giving introduction to the performers, getting applause for the performers after their performance, filling in the gap between one performance and the other. Whenever there is a delay in between two performances, event emcee fills this gap through interaction.

Event Emcee - KEY [ YES / NO]?

Who Am ‘I’? As An Engaging Event Host….hmm | Is Emcee Job a Profession….

Who Am ‘I’? An Engaging Event Host….hmmnn |Is Emcee Job a Profession….?

“This is the very question many have in mind when you tell them what you do……………………… MC ‘A’bobby_@Albertbabs”

Is Emcee Job a Profession….? This was the very question a concerned friend asked…….To get you informed kindly follow through this educative information….

Hosting, in my experience, takes as much preparation and skill as any other form of occupation. The host is responsible for maintaining the energy of the house, and weaving the thread that links all the agenda’s together.

Like all the acts that may take to the stage, the host has to be “on”; throughout the entire event, and ready to jump in at every moment’s notice to cover gaps or smooth things over.

It’s a tough job, and one I keep learning about. My role models are folks like @Shelagh Rogers, @Holmes Hooke, @tejubabyface and others on the scene who excel at it.

On this Profession tagged Emcee (MC ‘A’bobby_@Albertbabs): Here are tips that I’ve picked up along the way’,

Being myself; Just to be me.

Making my Audience Become “A Fan” by letting the audience know why it matters. In doing this I try to find what I admire about a given act’s work, and I speak to it. (Most times once I can’t find something I like, I may be in the wrong place, and I need to consider that before I take the gig.) I search to know what matters, I believe it matters, and I tell the audience about it. The audience cares; it’s why they’re there. You, too.

Preparing To Host. Confession: I rarely take notes with me onto the stage, unless I’m reading off a list of sponsors or something similar. I prefer to be spontaneous. Ironically, to do that i have to be prepared. That doesn’t mean memorizing a bio; for me, it means simply having in mind three things worth saying about the act I’m introducing, and improvising from there. I sometimes learn those three things while the previous act is on stage, if necessary. But to be in the moment, on stage, I really require experience, forethought, and remaining in the right attitude.

The more I prepare myself, the more I can simply be myself. I can’t learn that at the last minute.

I have worked and I am still working on being a professional all the way cos it pays off, is still paying big time. Below are some things I’ve learnt and still learning from Mentors to mention a few;

I should never act like a snob, on stage or off.

I should never make an off-color jokes.

I should never make fun of acts or sponsors or presenters.

I should always shake hands and talk with presenter, sound crew and stage crew,

I should ask what’s required, and I should respects the time limits given at all time,

And when possible to say something meaningful that will enhance the audience’s appreciation of the show.

I should always put the show first: I should Dress for success, I should Ask for what I need, I should Communicate well, I should Do a thorough job, I should smile, and I should treat everyone well..

To know the acts I’m introducing, at least by reputation, if not on a personal level first by doing my research, and second, by reaching out in person. This reminds the audience that I’m an integral part of the performance, and that what I do matters to the flow.

To take My Role in events very serious but not to take Myself too seriously { My role is important to the show, but it’s not about Me but about My Role – ‘In-depth ‘ }

To always make The Audience My Best Friend at all time because they will clap, cheer, stretch, shake hands, shout encouragement, laugh or groan at your jokes, and acknowledge the work of everyone who participated

To Manage Time through Feeling the Dead Air with different on the spot readily equipped (On the Spot thinker...

To try some tried and true stories or songs of my own and to be sure I can trust it out

To thank presenters, sponsors, artists, crew, volunteers and audience;

To remind people of the placement of the washrooms/Gents/Convenient and the exits

“This is going to take a few minutes to set up. Get to know your neighbors and we’ll be back shortly.”…………………….

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How To Spend The First 10 Minutes of Your Day

Most of us don’t pay very close attention to the way we begin our workday. And yet, how we use the first few minutes at the office can make all the difference between going home exhausted or feeling accomplished.

Below is the first piece Ron Friedman PhD, award-winning psychologist and behavior change expert who specializes in human motivation) ever published in the Harvard Business Review -- one that tackles this very issue.

When this article was first released, it went viral, becoming the “most popular read” on the website for over a month. CNN even asked him on to discuss it.

It describes a technique that guarantees that your mornings will never again be hijacked by "urgent" emails or other people's priorities.
Here it is:

If you’re working in the kitchen of Anthony Bourdain, legendary chef of Brasserie Les Halles, best-selling author, and famed television personality, you don’t dare so much as boil hot water without attending to a ritual that’s essential for any self-respecting chef: mise-en-place.


The “Meez,” as professionals call it, translates into “everything in its place.” In practice, it involves studying a recipe, thinking through the tools and equipment you will need, and assembling the ingredients in the right proportion before you begin. It is the planning phase of every meal—the moment when chefs evaluate the totality of what they are trying to achieve and create an action plan for the meal ahead.

For the experienced chef, mise-en-place represents more than a quaint practice or a time-saving technique. It’s a state of mind.

“Mise-en-place is the religion of all good line cooks,” Bourdain wrote in his runaway bestseller Kitchen Confidential. “As a cook, your station, and its condition, its state of readiness, is an extension of your nervous system… The universe is in order when your station is set…”

Chefs like Anthony Bourdain have long appreciated that when it comes to exceptional cooking, the single most important ingredient of any dish is planning.

It’s the “Meez” that forces Bourdain to think ahead, that saves him from having to distractedly search for items midway through, and that allows him to channel his full attention to the dish before him.

Most of us do not work in kitchens. We do not interact with ingredients that need to be collected, measured, or prepped. And yet the value of applying a similar approach and deliberately taking time out to plan before we begin is arguably greater.

What’s the first thing you do when you arrive at your desk? For many of us, checking email or listening to voice mail is practically automatic. In many ways, these are among the worst ways to start a day. Both activities hijack our focus and put us in a reactive mode, where other people’s priorities take center stage. They are the equivalent of entering a kitchen and looking for a spill to clean or a pot to scrub.

A better approach is to begin your day with a brief planning session. An intellectual mise-en-place.

Ask yourself this question the moment you sit at your desk: The day is over and I am leaving the office with a tremendous sense of accomplishment. What have I achieved?

This exercise is usually effective at helping people distinguish between tasks that simply feel urgent from those that are truly important. Use it to determine the activities you want to focus your energy on.

Then—and this is important—create a plan of attack by breaking down complex tasks into specific actions.

Productivity guru David Allen recommends starting each item on your list with a verb, which is useful because it makes your intentions concrete. For example, instead of listing “Monday’s presentation,” identify every action item that creating Monday’s presentation will involve. You may end up with: collect sales figures, draft slides, and incorporate images into deck.

Studies show that when it comes to goals, the more specific you are about what you’re trying to achieve, the better your chances of success.

Having each step mapped out in advance will also minimize complex thinking later in the day and make procrastination less likely.

Finally, prioritize your list. When possible, start your day with tasks that require the most mental energy. Research indicates that we have less willpower as the day progresses, which is why it’s best to tackle challenging items – particularly those requiring focus and mental agility – early on.

The entire exercise can take you less than 10 minutes. Yet it’s a practice that yields significant dividends throughout your day.

By starting each morning with a mini-planning session, you frontload important decisions to a time when your mind is fresh. You’ll also notice that having a list of concrete action items (rather than a broad list of goals) is especially valuable later in the day, when fatigue sets in and complex thinking is harder to achieve.

Now, no longer do you have to pause and think through each step. Instead, like a master chef, you can devote your full attention to the execution

PART 8

SEX AND FASTING (THE FINAL PART)

After a whole month of daily calls to Kenny with no response, I finally gave up. I knew my marriage was over. I had gone through the full cycle from tears to pain in my heart to anger to being just blank. I have finally resigned myself to fate. Even the strength to pray had left me. I have tried interpreting Kenny’s silence in different ways but my conclusion was that he just didn’t love me enough to fight for us. I sent him different text messages and not once did he humour me and respond. I just could not understand why a man will be silent after hearing his wife was raped.

As always my mum walked into my bedroom that Friday afternoon once again to ask what happened between my husband and I. She had soon figured out something was wrong but I always refused to tell her.

”Lola, you know what? Your father and I have tried. You have stayed in our house for over a month and we have been caring. You can’t keep saying there is nothing wrong when I have been married for thirty five years and I know more than you”
”Mum, please I don’t have the strength to argue”.

”Okay then, your father and I have decided you can’t live here anymore. We will not harbour a married woman in our home. Since you and your husband don’t respect us enough to seek for advice. Please go back to him or wherever you want but you cannot stay under my roof”.
Still shocked at what she was saying, ”Mum?”

”Daughter!!! Yes?”
I finally relented. I didn’t even have a plan B.” Mum, Kenny and I have serious problems. Our marriage is not even up to a year and we don’t even know how to move forward”.

”Okay tell me everything”.
So I sat for over an hour and told my mum every single detail from my wedding night to the day I left Kenny’s house. Surprisingly, my mum did not interrupt or blow up at me. I expected her to start screaming but her calmness amazed me.

”Heeeeeeee Omolola, O ti ba ye je ( you have spoilt the world)” She said in Yoruba language when I was finally done.
”Mummy haba, what did I do wrong? How can Kenny just abandon me here? His love is fleeting mum, it can’t even stand the test of time”. I said with deep anger and disappointment.

”hmmmmm, first of all, you are changing your church. The kind of pastor’s wife that will give you such advise is not who you should be listening to. Why didn’t you call me? Why did you go to an outsider?”

”Mum, you are the one that said I should keep our matters private”.

”Not when it is crumbling my dear, we all need help once in a while”.

”Okay mum, what do we do now? Do you think there is any chance for Kenny and I”.

”Of course, your father and I have had greater battles that we have overcome. Marriage is filled with battles, we fight, win, conquer and fight another day. We never give up. It only ends the day you stop fighting for it. Lola, you keep fighting till you conquer. There is no end. You made some terrible decisions and took some wrong steps”.

”Mum, what about Kenny? He took a lot of wrong steps too”.

”Yes, I will face Kenny but I need to talk to you first. I told you not to kill yourself over not having a child yet. It will come. You shouldn’t have fasted and deprived your husband without his full consent. More-so, you should have given him his marital rights between 6pm when you break your fast and midnight when the next day starts. You shouldn’t have run from your home without his consent and come hide here. To tell you the truth, it will take God for Kenny to be able to sleep with you again. Both of you, your actions have spoilt a lot of things. This matter should not have generated to this level. First thing tomorrow morning, I am going back to Abuja with you, we are going to see your husband”

True to her word, by 11 am on Saturday, which was the next day, we had arrived my house. As soon as I saw Kenny’s car parked in the compound, my heart started beating fast. I wished he was not home even though mum had called earlier and told him she was coming to see him. He opened the door as soon as we were approaching and I assumed he had seen us through the window and prostrated, greeting my mum in yoruba language. Kenny totally ignored me and my mum just smiled at us. I left them in the sitting room and went into the room. Everything was just as I left it and my investigation as to whether somebody else had been living with him came up empty. I heard my mum call me from the living room and I quickly dropped my bag and went back to join them.

”Mummy, Lola does not want to be married. In less than a year of marriage she has shown blatant disregard and disrespect both for me and this home and I am sick of it. Does she think if it was another man, he won’t have started womanizing by now? I stayed faithful even when she refused to be faithful to our marriage vows”. Kenny said with so much anger.

”Please don’t threaten us with tales of unfaithfulness. So you want an award because you didn’t cheat? I said.
”Keep your mouth shut Lola, just shut up” my mum shouted while Kenny just shook his head. I instantly felt remorseful.

I listened as my mum and Kenny started talking. I truly listened to his hurts and pains as he opened up to my mum and for the first time I understood the gravity of where we were. By the time they started talking about the rape incident, Kenny shed tears. He just kept quiet while tears fell from his eyes and I was broken for both of us.

”Mummy, I warned Lola, I warned her not to go. I haven’t been able to get that image out of my head ever since Daddy told me. Where do we start from? She refused to sleep with me all in the name of prayers and freely gave it to a thief?”

”Kenny, don’t say she freely gave it. We all still feel the pains of that night most especially your wife. The pain she is still in as a result of that incident is great. She needs a lot of time to heal”. My mum said.
”I warned her, I warned her mummy” Kenny insisted.

My mum began to talk to Kenny about us communicating better, about understanding each other and being quick to forgive. She spoke and fear gripped my heart as I looked at Kenny’s face.

After so much advise from mum, Kenny began to calm down.
”Both of you need to pray, be patient and communicate” mum said again.
”Mummy, truth be told, I am not sure if this marriage still exists. I don’t even know where to start with Lola” Kenny said.
”You both start with forgiving each other and then take it one step at a time. You start with conversations, heart to heart ones, share your pains and fears and with time the intimacy will come and with time you will heal”.

”Okay mummy, thank you ma.” Kenny said.
About an hour later, mum left our home in a cab, headed to the airport for her flight back home. She refused to stay the night despite all our pleas. As soon as she left, I turned to Kenny to apologize.

”Baby, I am sorry”.I said to Kenny as he went back to sit on the sofa and I sat beside him.

He turned to me, ”Omololami, I am sorry too, I am sorry I wasn’t with you during this painful period. Truth is, I don’t even know if we can fix this”.

”We will babe”, I said with renewed confidence, ”we will, one day at a time”................

THE END!!!........................

Air your view {Share Your thought} :

Who is to be blame for the Act?

1. The husband that agreed to the fast initially from onset
2. The wife that insisted on continuing till the last 100th day
3. The Mummy of God(Church) that gave the advice......................

PART SEVEN


My conversation with Kenny made me realize he didn’t value me as his wife and so I made a decision to give him space. I called my mum and told her I was coming home for a week. I was able to convince her Kenny supported my decision and I packed my bags. I was going to go home for a week. The next morning I told Kenny about my trip,

”I listened to everything you said and I have decided we probably need to give each other some space. I am taking a break and travelling to my parent’s house”. I said

Kenny shook his head, ”you should be ashamed of yourself Lola. In fact when they call women to stand up, you should hide your face in shame. So you cannot take care of your home, you can’t satisfy your husband and now rather than deal with your problems you are running?

”Kenny, I refuse to be insulted. I sat quietly while you heaped insults on me yesterday but that doesn’t mean I will continue to take it. You said my presence is causing you sorrow and now I am giving you space. I will take the time apart to pray for us”
”I don’t freaking need your prayers madam. In fact, God will not answer that prayer because he has told you everything you need to do in the Bible. Stop praying for me and start satisfying me”.

”Ehen, so the other day, when I bought sexy lingerie and waited for you at home, did you not leave me hanging? You are confused and don’t know what you want”.
”You want to go? Fine! Get the hell out but you just might not meet this marriage when you come back”.
”Like I said, I will take the time apart to pray, God will sustain our home” I told him emphatically.
He just shook his head and closed his eyes on the bed, effectively ending the conversation. I packed my bags and headed straight to the airport.

Late in the night that day, while I sat in my parent’s sitting room, my mum was trying to get stories out of me.
”So why didn’t Kenny take a break with you madam?”

”Mum, he is busy with work, that’s the same thing I told dad before”.
”That doesn’t mean he should not spend a weekend with us. We have not seen him since the wedding.”
”Isn’t that why I am here? At least once you see one of us you have seen two of us. After all the two have become one.” I said laughing.
”Okay , no problem. I tried to call him earlier that we have seen his wife but he was not picking his call”.

”I am sure he will probably call you back tomorrow. He is probably resting early now that I am not home”.
”Okay, but Omolola how is marriage life? I hope you are being submissive and taking care of your husband well enough”.
”Mummy, did he complain to you? I am trying my best”.

”Why are you getting defensive? Is everything okay? I hope this delay in pregnancy isn’t putting you under pressure?”
”No, it’s not mum, we are fine with it. Everything is okay”.
”There is no cause for alarm yet. It’s not even up to a year yet. I waited 3 years before I was able to get pregnant with your elder brother and then you so everything will be fine.”

”I know mum…”
The hard knock on the door startled us.
”Mum are you expecting anyone so late? Its 11pm already and dad has gone to bed”.
”No I am not but it could be that our neighbours need something, go and open the door”.

As I got close to the door to open it, I was suddenly knocked off my feet by the force of it being jacked open. My eyes went wide open as I saw them, three in number with their weapons held up high. I closed my eyes shut and began to pray.

”Okay so pray very well beautiful girl, you just might need it” the voice said. My eyes was still squeezed shut so I could not identify which of them spoke. As soon as I felt a hand pull me by my hair, my eyes flipped open and I was dragged into the living room to meet my mum who was already in tears and shaking.

Five days later, I woke up once again with screams as has been the practice since that horrible night. My dad was immediately by my side soothing me as the tears rolled down my face.

”It’s okay Omolola. You’re fine and safe. Daddy is here”.
”Daddy, I am afraid. Kenny has not come”.

”I know he hasn’t. I will still call him again. Just try and get stronger first okay?”
”He hasn’t picked my calls dad. Since you told him, he has not picked my calls once”.

As my dad eventually left me alone in the bedroom with my thoughts, I recalled that evil night as clear as the day. I remember my dad being dragged from the bedroom and asked to give them money. I remember the exhaustive search for money which proved abortive as my dad and mum only had a total of about N50,000 at home. I remember adding the N20,000 I had in my bag and the man telling me I was insulting him with change. As soon as I apologized, he looked at me and really looked at me and I knew what he was going to do before he even did it. I could see it vividly in his eyes. I begged,

”Please, I am married. I beg you”
”So what are you doing in daddy’s house fine girl, your husband is not servicing you well abi? I will help his matter. He needs help”.
I begged, my dad and mum begged and his only response was because of their begging, he won’t make them watch. I fought as hard as I could and for every struggle there was a slap and a punch. He finally had to get the other man to hold me down. I fought every step of the way. I was numb. The physical pain was welcome, I could deal with that. I couldn’t deal with the heaviness that crushed my heart. All through as he kept thrusting faster than I could ever imagine, I thought of Kenny and how much pain this was going to cause him. I remember him warning me not to make this trip. He kept going on and on for about thirty minutes before he finally let go. Funny how he had the decency to use a condom. I had no strength left. I was broken. For the first time in my christian walk, I questioned God. I asked him questions. His silence was deafening.

It has been five days since my nightmare, five days since my dad informed Kenny, three days since I got back home from the hospital and he still hasn’t showed up. I have no more will left to even live another day……

part 8...

PART SIX

About Eight hours i personally sat in the office of the doctor to get a detailed explanation on Kenny’s condition. All I had been told as I waited was that he was alive and he had been taken in for ultrasound and later for surgery. The nurses refused to tell me the severity of the accident and I had brought hell down screaming and shouting. Eventually, I called my sister-in-law who came to wait with me and was able to calm me down. I had to leave the hospital briefly to use the cash machine and make some monetary deposits but aside from that I had been unable to drink even a drop of water.

”Mrs Ayorinde, thank you so much for your patience” the doctor started, but I quickly cut him short
”Sir, please just go straight to the point, how is he? What happened? What was the surgery for? Is he okay? Did the surgery go well?”
”Madam, I will answer all your questions but I need you to relax a bit”

”Okay, please go on” I said.
”Your husband is fine and the surgery was successful. He suffered from testicular trauma as a result of the force of his testicles on the bicycle when the accident occurred”

”Jesus Christ!!!!! see trouble.. What do you mean testicular trauma? He doesn’t have testicles again? How are we supposed to have children now? Haaaaaaa Kenny will kill me”.
”Please relax and let’s not jump the gun here. I didn’t say he doesn’t have testicles again. There was just some rupture and dislocation as well and that is why we had to do an immediate surgery. It has been successfully fixed now and we are hopeful that there should be no cause for infertility in the nearest future. Of course, we will advise that he stays off sexual activity for a while until he is properly healed to avoid him developing hernia. He should be fine within a week”.

”Okay doctor, thank you so much. So when will we be discharged”.
”I will want to just observe him overnight to be sure he is okay. He should be able to go home tomorrow”.
We eventually got home the next day after staying in the hospital all night. His sister left us in the hospital later in the evening after confirming that Kenny was okay. Kenny was withdrawn and quiet and it felt like the cycle had started again. It was still surreal that it was just yesterday morning we agreed to call a truce and it felt like that did not even happen.

”Darling are you okay? I asked after he had settled down on the bed”
”Lola, no I am not okay. You know what? I regret marrying you. I don’t feel like the man that found a wife and found a good thing because it’s like your sole purpose is to cause me sorrow and sadness”.
My mouth was agape. I just did not understand the reason for such anonymity.

”You know when I decided to marry you I had a plan. I knew what I wanted. I wanted a woman who will love me and make me happy. I wanted a life of joy and happiness. I wanted to build fun memories of just the two of us even outside the kids but I have not had any of that with you. It’s from one problem to another. We have been married for just 9 months and already I am tired”
”Kenny, why will you say all these to me? Why? What exactly have I done to destroy your so called happiness so much?”
”Immediately after the wedding, it took about 2 weeks for you to even calm down enough to let me deflower you. As soon as that was over, you got fixated about pregnancy making sex totally boring. When I was talking to you about just enjoying each other and having fun, all you did was lie down there missionary style claiming that is the best way to get pregnant. After five months of that, you went into your so called fasting period and now because of all the frustration you have put me through, I went to ride my bicycle just to vent and got into an accident? Did you know it was because I was thinking about you that I lost concentration? And to crown it all, it’s like the devil was trying to crack a joke, testicular trauma? I am tired madam”

I sat there in silence not knowing what to say and after a while I just got angry.
”How dare you Kenny? How can you blame me for your sadness or so called unhappiness? I wake up daily praying for you and this is how you repay me? Was it not when you married me your business went from struggling and started excelling and you dare insult me? I wont let the devil use you more than he already has. This conversation is over. Do whatever you want”. I stood up from his side and walked out of the bedroom with deep confusion in my heart.

For the first time I wondered if it would not have been better staying single.....part 7

SEX AND FASTING


PART 5



On Saturday morning when Kenny walked into the house, I had decided enough was enough and I was not going to pay for my sins forever.

He had no right whatsoever to keep sleeping outside the house under the guise of anger.

I was already waiting for him and as soon as he stepped in, I just blew up,
”Where do you think you are coming from oga?” I shouted.


He looked at me like I had suddenly grown two heads and to my surprise he replied, ”Sunrise hotel”.


”Is that where you have been staying?” I asked unsure. Not expecting him to answer in the first place.


”Yes I got a room there” he answered and looked at me, ”Is that all? he asked.


”No, that is not all Kenny and don’t make me feel stupid. You have been sleeping outside for the past three weeks and now I am questioning you, you’re acting ignorant” I was truly bewildered.



”Madam, you asked me where I have been and I answered you. How am I acting ignorant?”


”Kenny, once again, I am sorry”.


”Okay I have heard. Just to be clear though, what exactly are you sorry for?”


”Well, I am sorry for depriving you of sex and fasting without your agreement.


I am sorry for being inconsiderate of your feelings. Please can we just go back to how we were?”

”Okay, I have heard you” he said with a straight face.


”Kenny, please now. What else do you want me to say or do?”


”Lola I said I have heard. Please don’t stress me.

I want to ride around the estate on my bicycle for a while.

Is that okay?”

”Okay, that is fine. Do you promise to stay at home from today?” I asked
”Yes, I will. So can I go change and head out now?”


I nodded and got out of his way and he immediately went to the room and changed into his riding outfit.

He always looked so handsome in his tights and t-shirt whenever he wanted to exercise and watching him come out of the bedroom, I went to give him a hug half expecting him to turn me away but he gave me a very lingering hug and left soon afterwards.


I was so giddy from the obvious reconciliation, I decided to cook something nice for his breakfast when he returned.


A little over thirty minutes later, I got the call that changed my life forever. With tears in my eyes not knowing what to expect, I grabbed my car keys and rushed out of the house to the hospital address I had been given.


I still could not believe my ears that Kenny had been in an accident. He just left home barely 30 minutes earlier.


The caller was unable to give details of the severity of the accident or what happened. As I drove out and met with traffic, I tried calling his number back to get more details but it was switched off.


I contemplated calling family and friends but I decided to know the status of his health before calling anybody.


”Oh Lord, help me. You said we shall not die God, please keep my husband. I will not be a widow in my youth oh lord.”
Words of prayer failed me. I did not even know how to pray. Almost an hour later, I finally drove into the hospital compound and ran inside with deep fear, not knowing what to expect……..Part 6 coming

SEX AND FASTING

PART 4

It has been a week since I finished fasting and Kenny has still not spent a single night in the house. Every morning he came home to dress for work and didn't come home till the next morning.

Every morning I met him at the door begging and cajoling but it was always the same.

He totally ignored me, walked past into the guest room and walked back out once he was done changing cloths and having his bath.

Not one word was ever said in acknowledgment.

I began to think I probably should have compromised during the 100 days. I did not expect him to take it this far.

I did not even know what plausible solution I could execute. I knew sex was a big deal to men but it was always painful for me anyway so I was never all excited about it.

On our wedding night, when Kenny deflowered me, I thought I was only going to feel the pain for less than a week but it has been six months and every single intimacy we have had was laced with very uncomfortable pain.

Chauvinist as Kenny was, he felt I was just making a mountain out of a molehill and sex could not be as painful as I was making it to be.

Truth was if not for the sake of procreation I was comfortable not having sex ever. The hype is definitely more than the experience.

I finally decided that maybe some physical solution was needed since the spiritual was not solving Kenny and I's problem.

I went to Google that afternoon as I got home from work and searched '' how to stop painful sex''.

As soon as I finished reading of different positions to do to ease the pain and how the pain was coming from my mind. I made a few decisions on making sure sex became enjoyable.

Next, I Googled, ''how to seduce your husband and I felt so uncomfortable with the sheer number of unholy things I discovered.

I decided to take a bold step and put some things I found to practice to ensure Kenny finally stayed home for the night.

As alien as it felt, I typed some steamy texts I found online to Kenny at one hour interval each,
''I am burning with desire for you honey''
When I did not get any response an hour later, I sent another one I found online,
''I can't focus, all I can think about is what you will do to me if you were here with me''

Still no response, I sent this 30 minutes later,

''You taught me how to make love, tonight I will show you how much I have learnt''

I got a response after this saying,
''Please I am in a meeting with the board''

I was so happy I literally jumped up from my seat. This was the only statement Kenny had sent to me in a week and I decided to send more.

''Just thinking about you inside of me...''
He responded immediately,
''Stop this rubbish Omolola''

I decided I had had enough of Google and composed one text message of my own.
''Please come home and stay tonight. I accept I was wrong.

I want to make it right and make it up to you. Please give me a chance, I love you baby''.
He responded simply with,
''Okay''.
I was so happy and I quickly jumped up from the couch and drove to the supermarket.

I bought a new matching lingerie, a foot massage kit and also full body massage oil. I had read on Google that massaging the foot and body could do wonders in pointing in the right direction.

I also bought a lubricator. Google had taught me so much.

I immediately rushed home after and prepared fried rice with plantain and peppered chicken for Kenny. By 8pm, I was finally done and ready for him to walk in.

I sat on the sofa in my lingerie and the table was already set. I tried calling Kenny but his phone was off so I waited.

I must have slept off on the sofa because the sound of the door being opened woke me up the next morning at about 7am. Kenny never showed up last night.

He walked in and paused for a minute staring at me before walking past as usual to the guest room.

I sat down in frustration and cried so hard. I was still crying when he closed the door.
_More to come if still interested.

To Be Continued PART V........................... Coming

SEX AND FASTING

PART 3.....

I decided that night that I had had enough of Kenny's erratic behaviour and we needed counselling.

I waited for him to come home the next morning but he never showed up. I called him around noon when I was getting worried but he did not pick my call.

I got a text shortly after saying,
''I am quite surprised you are looking for me. Don't worry, I am fine. Don't let me distract you from God''.

I decided it was time to seek counsel from my pastor's wife.

As I sat down with Mummy as we normally call her that evening after a word of prayer and recounted the full story of our challenges from the beginning of the fasting period.

I was quite hopeful that I will get solutions on the next step to take. Mummy looked at me and shook her head as I showed her the last text I got from Kenny from my phone.

''Sister Lola, what does the Bible say about our parents and honour?''
''Honour your father and mother, that your days might be long'' I quickly replied wondering why we were talking about my parents when it was my marriage that needed healing.

''Do you remember when you came to me and decided you wanted to marry this young man who was barely a baby in the lord. I warned you to look for giants in the spirit.

If you had honoured my words, surely the days of your marriage would have been long'', she said with obvious annoyance.
''I am sorry mummy, I love my husband and I think he loves God too''

''He loves God? You are still defending his actions? A man that cannot agree with you in prayer? That will not deny his body to feed his spirit? She asked me.

''I am sorry ma'' I quickly said. Mummy was known for her short temper and I did not want to get on her bad side.

''Anyway the deed has been done. We need to find a way forward. You see the devil is not resting.

He is obviously seeking to devour your marriage. Remember the scripture in Ephesians 6: 12 says, we wrestle not against flesh and blood but against principalities, against powers and against the rulers of the darkness of this world. The battle is not with your husband.

It is a fight in the spirit''.
''Okay ma'' I said.
''The devil knows this fast is going to liberate your marriage and he wants to stop it at all cost.

The flesh will be satisfied eventually but you need to be spiritually fortified first. So make sure you complete it in total consecration to God''.

''Okay ma. What do I now do about his refusal to come home ma?''
''Oh don't worry Lola, he will come home. He is like the prodigal son, he will surely return. Let us pray my dear''.

By the time I left my pastor's house after about two hours of prayer. I felt stronger and better. Kenny was just over reacting and I was definitely on the right course. I just needed to keep praying and not let me faith be shaken.

When I got home and met Kenny relaxing in the sitting room, it confirmed to me that everything mummy said was correct since he returned like she had prophesied.

As the days passed things got more estranged. Kenny stopped going to our church and demanded I move to this new church he found. Of course I vehemently refused.

It is important to be grounded and not church belly-hopping. I got daily text motivations from my mummy in the lord and that just encouraged me.

Finally the last day of the 100 days came and it was announced in church that couples should endeavor to attend together since there was going to be an all night prayer.

I begged and pleaded with Kenny but he adamantly refused. I went to church alone that night and prayed every prayer possible.

My joy knew no bounds the next morning because I knew that all the fight I had been n by having with Kenny was finally going to be over. I was going to make sure we had as much sex as he wanted that night.

_TO BE CONTINUED

SEX & FASTING...

PART 2

As soon as Kehinde left for work, I decided to take his matter to God in prayer.

I went on my knees and was lost in prayer for the next four hours.

''Father, defend me in my marriage, cast out every demon that has possessed my husband's heart''. Proverbs 21:1 says,

"The king's heart is in the hand of the lord, he turns it whichever way. Oh God turn my husband's heart away from sex and all things of the flesh during these 100 days of fasting, in the name of Jesus. Towards the end of my prayer, I suddenly got an inspiration from the Holy Spirit on what to do next.

There was no point trying to tell Kenny he could not have sex with me, I only had to use wisdom to avoid it by doing things that will not even get him interested.

So I decided not to have my bath the whole of that day. I knew how much Kenny liked me bathing and all clean. By the time he got home around 7pm that day, I made sure dinner was ready.

I could not have been more wrong because another argument ensued as soon as he came in through the door.

''Madam, have you sorted out your issues yet?'' he said.
''What issues Kenny? Please come and have your dinner''.

''Did you think I was joking? Did you think not taking your bath will work on me? Or you did you think I will not know you enough to know that not taking your bath is a tactic to avoid sex?''

I was quite shocked and kind of speechless that he immediately realized what my plan was.

''Kenny, please be understanding. I need to consecrate myself to God''. I resorted to begging instead.

''Lola, get it straight, I am not asking you not to fast. What is wrong with having sex between 6pm that you break your fast and midnight that the next day starts? That is all I am asking'' he tried to negotiate.

''I am sorry Kenny, I don't believe that is good enough. I am supposed to be consecrated for 100 days.

Having sex during that time just makes me feel unclean''. I explained.

''What is unclean about sex between husband and wife babe? It is totally biblical''

''See Kenny, you just need to be patient. I have just 85 days left and then we can go back to doing the dirty''.

''Let me tell you something Lola, this is the last time I will have this discussion with you.

If you cannot find a way to balance your marriage and fasting, then you just might not have a marriage to come back to after your 100 days''.

''What do you mean by that Kenny? God forbid such confession?'' I said immediately.

Kenny left me standing there and went into the room. My surprise was complete later that night when he moved most of his things to the guest room.

I was going to beg him but I just later decided it was for the best if he stayed in the guest room for the next 85 days. This was probably God's way of creating a solution for me.

I went on my knees that night and sang in gratitude to God for making a way for me where I thought there was none.
By day 60 of my fasting and prayer, I was officially frustrated.

The joy and excitement I got from fasting and prayer had gone. Kenny and I had become total strangers in the house. He had not eaten my food in over 6 weeks and I was officially worried.

He had started coming home quite late and we did not even talk anymore. Every time I tried to talk to him, he just shut me out.

We both went to work and came back and went into separate rooms. I did not even know where to start from.

I knew for a fact I had not done anything wrong and was just doing the best for our marriage and I wondered constantly why Kenny was so blinded by unreasonable rage.

I wondered where all the promises of not going to bed in anger went.

I finally reached the end of my rope that week when I got a text from him around 8pm saying,

''Don't wait up for me. I wont be coming home tonight''.

I could not believe my eyes and I immediately sent him a text saying,
'' Where are you? Why wont you come home?''

His reply made me burst into tears. ''Please ask the holy spirit to reveal it to you in prayer''

My marriage is in trouble.

You don't want to miss *Part 3,

SEX AND FASTING

PART 1

As soon as I cleared out the dinner table, I went into the bedroom, not bothering to say goodnight to Kenny in the living room. I knew he was going to be coming to bed soon enough.

I needed him to think I was fast asleep by the time he came to bed. I quickly got into the bathroom and had a quick shower before climbing into bed...

I made sure I put on my long pajamas so there was no way he could have easy access to my body.

About an hour later when I heard him climb into bed and turn the other way, I finally let out the breath I was holding. I managed to escape the sex tonight...

By the time I woke up the next morning, I knew we were going to have another round of noise and fight and I quickly said a silent prayer to God for strength.

I could feel his hand roaming round my body relentlessly and there was no doubt in my mind what the expected end result to be.

I opened my eyes and took a glimpse at the clock on the wall. It was just 6.am.

I turned and removed his hands from my body and tried to get up only to be pulled back.

By the third time of going through the same motion, he finally spoke up...

''Babe, what is the excuse today? It has been 2 weeks for Christ sake. How am I supposed to be happy if you won't even have sex with me?'' He said with obvious frustration in his voice...

''So your happiness is now tied to sex?

You still don't get it do you? I am doing this for us. For our home and our future. I told you before I started that this was going to happen and you agreed and now you want to make me feel guilty.

Seriously I am confused...''

''Omololami, you know I am not opposed to prayer and fasting. I love God too and I go to church but you cannot honestly expect me not to have sex for the next 100 days just because you want to fast...''

I was so angry at that statement and I flared up,

''Seriously Kenny, are you kidding me right now? What happened to self control?

This just shows how far you have fallen from the faith. Is this not the same you that used to fast with me all the time before we got married? So all that spirituality was a lie? Did we not court for two years without sex? So you must have been cheating on me...''

''What? How can you say that? Are you crazy? How can you even compare both scenarios? I was single then now I am married. Why did I get married if I can't have sex...?''

''Oh so now I am a sex machine? You married me for the sex?'' I asked...

''You know what, I wont waste my time having this fruitless conversation with you. I am warning you for the last time. I wont take this your fasting bullshit and you will learn to respect me in this house. If this is the rubbish they are teaching you in church, I will ban you from going there...''

''You wont dare Kehinde Ayorinde.

You will not dare. If I ever have to choose between you and my God, trust me, you will loose. It is God first and you second. That devil that is trying to use you, will not find a place...''

''Try me, Lola, just try me'' he said as he walked into the bathroom and slammed the door...

I walked out of the room and went into the kitchen heartbroken.

As I went about making Kenny's lunch that he usually takes to work I was so sad.

I didn't understand Kenny's bitterness towards my relationship with God.

I didn't expect to have these kind of issues just 6 months after marriage.

He knew how much I loved God and how much that relationship means to me and he was proving so difficult.

We even talked about this while we were courting and he used to tell me how much he loved my passion for God.

We have tried getting pregnant for the past 5 months and nothing has happened and I knew I needed to tackle it in prayer before 5 months turned to 15 years and I told him I decided to join the 100 days fast in church.

Initially, he had agreed to join me but 3 days after he stopped....

I didn't get offended. I decided to do the prayers myself, I just did not expect him to be so bitter about it.

As I finished packing his lunch about 30 minutes later, Kenny came out fully dressed and just walked past me without picking up his food as usual.

I quickly ran after him and caught up with him just as he was getting into his car...

''You didn't take your food'' I said.

''Take that rubbish food and get out of my sight. I don't want your food, now or ever until you learn to respect me and until you decide what is more important to you'' he said and slammed the door, driving away while I stood there mouth agape...

We had a lot of disagreements over sex in the last two weeks but I had never seen Kenny so bitter before. I knew there and then I needed to pray for my home. Casting out every demon that suddenly possessed my husband.…....

TO BE CONTINUED

Do you ever struggle to think of ‘Classifying’ Your Events?

Ever thought of identifying what to ‘Caption’ your Events?

Many ‘mix Up’ Events {e.g. Business event or [Formal / Informal Business] Events}.

‘Mixing’ and ‘Matching’ your events aright could set you apart from competitors and give your next event the ‘wow’ factor.
Identifying the type or kind of event you are about to hold gives your event

The ‘Right Idea’
The Edge in ‘Attendee experience’ Fresh & New…….

Join your engaging Event Host / Emcee
MC ‘A’ bobby @Albertbabs as I share some insight on Events ‘CLASSIFICATION / IDENTIFICATION’ to help inspire your next great event….. on this post.

RAISING SNAILS FOR LOCAL AND EXPORT BUSINESS

Snail farming is a very profitable agribusiness in Nigeria, Ghana, South Africa, Cameroun and Kenya. However, the business seems most neglected among all the livestock businesses. Snail farming is currently a profitable agribusiness; you can make your profits within a short period. So if you dream of making it big in the agricultural sector, then consider snailery or heliculture.

Ignorance seems to be a factor that has contributed to the neglect of snail farming business. Did you know that snails are now being sold in many stores and supermarket? A lot of people are now buying and consuming snails in most of the developed countries such as USA, UK and Australia.

Some people believe snails cannot be domesticated. They still think snails are only picked in the bush. If you are among this set of people, I want you to remove that notion and accept that snails can be reared just like the way chickens, goats, sheep, cattle, rabbits and grasscutter are been raised at home.

WHAT ARE THE MERITS OF SNAIL FARMING?

From experience garnered, they include, among others:

1. Snail farming in Nigeria is a virgin in the kingdom of livestock as a result the earlier investors without doubt have bright prospects in exploring this venture.
2. Snail farming is a practicable and viable venture yet unexplored in Nigeria. If it has worked elsewhere, it will work in Nigeria.
3. This technology has been approved to be most lucrative farming venture presently, as it requires far less capital investment, while much profit is being generated in a considerable short period. It has lower risk compared to other livestock farming.
4. The demand for snail is higher than the supplies a such the market potential of snail is inexhaustible, locally and internationally.
5. Virtually every part of snail is of vital use in Food, Pharmaceutical industry, manufacturing and fishing industries.

6. Snail is an export commodity, which has value next to gold in overseas countries. It is a foreign exchange income earner of our days. Our climate is one of the best in snail breeding.

7. Snail farming in Nigeria requires small capital and the running cost is very low, hence their feeds are very local.

8. If your start up capital is N100,000 you can generate up to one million naira in one year. Some people in other livestock practice may earn another N100,000 per annum less the risk involve.

9. Snail business indeed is a GEM in the livestock business. Therefore take advantage of the opportunity of being among the forerunners in this unbeatable venture.

10. You can conveniently earn income a thousand fold higher than your present earning. The time required means you can keep your present job and do this as extra string of income.

11. This is a real export market that earns foreign revenue without you running from pillar to post.

12. This is not fiction but factual. Not imaginary but a reality. You too will share your view with others.

13. No stress, no time consuming, no odour, no noise and no irritation.

#God Bless your Hustle

HARDCORE TRUTH ABOUT MARRIAGE!!!

1. There is nothing that threatens the security of a wife than the thought of another woman competing for the attention and affection of her husband. Nothing is more painful. Nothing is more disrespecting. Nothing is more insulting. Nothing is more belittling and degrading.

2. Marriage flourishes when the couple work together as a team; when both husband and wife decide that winning together is more important than keeping score.
Good marriages don't just happen. They are a product of hard work.

3. Your children are watching you and forming lasting opinions on love, commitment, and marriage based on what they see in you. Give them hope. Make them look forward to marriage.

4. Husbands: The reason why other women look attractive is because someone is taking good care of them. Grass is always green where it is watered. Instead of drooling over the green grass on the other side of the fence, work on yours and water it regularly. Any man can admire a beautiful woman, but it takes a true gentleman to make a woman admirable and beautiful.

5. When a husband puts his wife first above everyone and everything except God, it gives his wife the sense of security and honor that every wife hungers for.

6. A successful marriage doesn't require a big house, a perfect spouse, a million dollars or an expensive car. You can have all the above and still have a miserable marriage. A successful marriage requires honesty, undying commitment and selfless love and make God the center of it all.

7. Pray for your spouse every day; in the morning, in the afternoon and at evening. Don’t wait until there is a problem. Don’t wait until there is an affair. Don’t wait until something bad happens. Don’t wait until your spouse is tempted. Shield your spouse with prayer and cover your marriage with the fence of prayer.

8. The people you surround yourself with have a lot of influence on your marriage. Friends can build or break your marriage; choose them wisely.

9. One spouse cannot build a marriage alone when the other spouse is committed to destroying it. Marriage works when both husband and wife work together as a team to build their marriage.

10. Don't take your spouse for granted. Don't take advantage of your spouse's meekness and goodness. Don't mistake your spouse's loyalty for desperation. Don't misuse or abuse your spouse's trust. You may end up regretting after losing someone that meant so much to you.

11. Beware of marital advice from single people. Regardless of how sincere their advice may be, most of it is theoretical and not derived from real life experiences. If you really need Godly advice, seek it from God-fearing, impartial and prayerful mature couples whose resolve has been tested by time and shaped by trials.

12. Dear wife, Don't underestimate the power of the tongue on your marriage. The tongue has the power to crush your marriage or build it up. Don't let the Devil use your tongue to kill your spouse's image, self-confidence and aspirations. Let God use your tongue to build up your marriage and bless and praise your spouse.

God bless you.

Do You Know Why The Man Is Called The Groom And The Woman The Bride?The "Bridegroom"


Hmm...why is the newly wedded man called groom and the woman called bride? A friend of mine got tired of his wife just about six months after wedding.


He complained bitterly to me about her and told me that he has concluded to break up with her; he went on to say that he was sure that he made a mistake. I did not respond immediately because I knew I must tell him that right thing, so I went home and asked the Lord what to say and that is what birth this message. Many men have broken up with their wives because they end up not being the wife that they have dreamt of. But they have forgotten that on their wedding day was when the man was commissioned for the new task. They won't call the woman wife on her wedding day but bride, because it is the man that will groom his bride to become the wife. That is why the man is called 'groom', and the word grooming has to do with patiently nurturing, teaching, tending and helping someone to become what he or she should be. It is therefore believed that a man that takes a woman to the altar of marriage is matured enough to patiently groom his bride to become the wife. The man is not supposed to just expect the bride to automatically become the wife,she must be groomed. Hence, many of us men built unnecessary expectations when we were getting married, we want a magic to happen to our wives, we want them to become what we have had in mind about who we want our wives to be; not considering the fact that the woman does not know what is on your mind except you teach her. Our expectations are often too unrealistic, because we don't remember that change takes time and we can only expect something from someone that knows what we want.

So before you think of breaking up, have you groomed her? Have you given her time to understand you? Hope you realize that a turtle will never become a hawk? God often brings people that are opposites of each other together in marriage so that they can help each other in their place of weaknesses. If your wife is weak where you are weak, then where will you get the strength that is needed? The problem with many of us is that we don't accept people before attempting to change them. Of course, our wives are not from our backgrounds, so it will take time for them to adjust. Stop trying to change her, accept her, love her, teach her and be patient with her; that is what grooming is all about. She is going to be your wife but she is your bride now, so groom her. Stop complaining about her, she may be a turtle and you a hawk, she cannot fly so be patient with her. I don't believe that your marriage can't work, be patient and allow God to help you.....................#Wedding digest Part1 @MC 'A' bobby

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#Nigeria@56!!!
A Federation where citizens are O.Y.O!! Own Your Own.

CHANGE BEGINS WITH ME #NIGERIAFEDERATION

How many people can find a job that pays them much?
How many people can put extra money some place for the better education of their kids for future?
How many new jobs have been created without advent sectionalism/nepotism/religious discrepancies but with average Nigerian #Income going up instead of going down as we experience in #Nigeria today @56

A country where #Billionaires put out individuals with some good idea/business sense
#NG where taking risk to start a new small business is now a Forgotten Issue
Do we #Honor the #Fundamental that has made this #Country@56

A Great Federation! A One Nigeria! A Nigeria of our Dream!
Nigeria an Economy that fails to honor the dignity of LABOR_HARDWORK

NIGERIA FEDERATION
CHANGE (POSITIVE INFLUENCE YOU CAN MAKE FOR ONE & ALL)

Our Obligations is to
#TREAT each other with #DIGNITY & #RESPECT,
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#Leaders in #NG acting according to #LAW(S) & #LEADER(S) Living up to their #RESPONSIBILITIES by #CREATING #Atmosphere for all without #CLASS or #DISCRIMINATION

A Country where government should do that which individuals cannot do for us
#Protect us from #Arm,
#Invest in New Schools, Keep Water Clean, New roads, New Hospitals, New Infrastructure
A Government that works for the #PEOPLE not against the #People
A Government that #Helps & not #Hold #Citizens down by looking to #Raising #Taxes without any #Cushion to subsidize the #Middle Class #Sufferings...
A Government that #Insure #Opportunities not just for the #Rich or for the #Influentials

I believe thats when we address a #NG.....
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Hello,
Thanks fo rthe update but what do you have for those who have registered for 55hrs and no activation mail yet?
The delay in the activation mail after having registered the account before 8am on Tuesday 20th,September 2016.
I have checked both Junks/Spam/Inbox but all to no avail after 58hours. and the contact link isnt even bringing any response after submitting the request..

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmnn...NG

Hello,
I am writing to confirm the delay in the activation mail after having registered the account before 8am on Tuesday 20th,September 2016.
I have been able to check both Junks/Spam/Inbox but all to no avail after 58hours. Kindly advise on next process.
Regards,

Hello all,
I am writing to confirm the delay in the activation mail after having registered the account before 8am on Tuesday 20th,September 2016.

I have been able to check both Junks/Spam/Inbox but all to no avail after 58hours. Kindly advise on next process if theres any one wo is also in my shoes( .

Regards,
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Hmmmmmmmnn....the support and positive response still shows how gullible NG are,1ith due respect to all..If a project was from start concieved to connive some personnels through which you steal money and cover up for it with the aim of touching life as a "LIABILITY in quote" and the other concieved project was for sustainability of continous growth both in economy _for both now and future generations and u argue that fact then..#IRestMyCase...I seek a NG that doesn't see spending on Liability as a pride or gain but viable investment that enhances others...Your dad both car,bed (sheet,repaired dilapidated buildings,) and My dad Gave me a trade,a skill,a potential enterpreneur..a viable economy is built with a legacy that affects millions of life..I'd always remain grateful of my dad's project..#AWordIsEnoughForTheWise...


NG of Liabilities_perishable Items that consume for maintenance if what we have today.

I,Myself & MYself & Myself alone look ahead to a NG that looks beyond and ahead of Liabilities like cars,roads,bed sheet,reparing of dilapidated buildings that are now dilapidated again for OAU, but to a genuine mindset of leveraging on Policies,education,enterprenueral skills as assets ...Permit me to use the word..#CommonSense@BenBruce

Siberia101:
I work in a health sector PTF was one of the best government initiatives...

We still use equipments down to bedsheets from PTF till date.

SureP remains the biggest scam

Mr I hardly comment but for this ur above script you must be one of the decietful being on earth ....if PTF was the best initiatives then u r way back as not any better than ur Lia_ Moh'dMMMMthat you aint a beneficiary to Sure_p or YouWin doesn't mean the PTF was any form of better..you are enslaved to the health dept and u are there making noise..confirm from the beneficiary of Sure-P and YouWin.they are employers of Labour..so sitdown calm next time or speak intelligently....#ISpeakIntelligently...

Hmmmmn...I still remain sshock and in dismay as to who sent who to abduct this man after court proceedings just granted bail..this isn't a country we envisage under the new shortchange we are yet to see any real significant of change in the average mans daily living except more hardship and everyday unlawful harrassment of elderstatemen_remember a man is only guilty when proved Guilty by the court of Law..if we are to go by petitions and evidences without been proved by a the Law then the likes of this present govt cabinets should also be molested,dragged in mud like ds act..NG backward with anoda decade..pty all those that voted this Wagons of ShortChange..guess they are having their coin of the govt now..God help NG ..God send a Miracle to deliver NG..#Airing My View

Who ever call this government an experience government is of a great myopicbrain_all expectation is lost..all hope in this government is a failed mission,,all entity of this government has nothing as better anticedent to ride upon_so where is the experience leading to..a government that has abandoned the mssion and has brought the country to almost a state of comatose_no fuel,no light,no job,no fulfiled election promisebut lies,propaganda,recovering money pursuit at the expense of no significant directional mission for the growth and well being of the citizenry_a government of single dictatorship to the extent of not even recognizing a VP ...if you are not yet affected please call a spade a spade ..we need a drastic Hand of God to change this Country and move us ahead..#Candid Opinion.

Senate screening exercise ...#jamboree--just a mere waste of time_once Senator Melaye introduced the *pproval from e senators representing the nomnees state ______you have d lullaboo story )NG..hmmmnn..we'll keep waiting for change .Is there any change...#Rest My Case

Getting married is supposed to be one of the highlights of a person’s life. Although you may know your spouse-to-be well enough to get married, there is always a certain measure of uncertainty and risk involved. Before you can truly determine if you are ready for marriage, take a step back and answer these 10 questions first:

1. Do you really love this woman?

2. Are you ready to be responsible for a wife/husband and family?

3. What are our values (family, religion, politics), and do they mesh?

4. Do you trust this woman completely?
A solid marriage is built on solid trust.


5. Do you really know her?
Aside from knowing the basics about the woman that you are marrying, you do also need to be able to discuss the effects of her upbringing, her views on relationships and marriage and the most important aspects of her relationship history.


6. Have we discussed whether or not we want children?
Assuming that you both want to be parents someday, sit down with your fiancé and have a true heart-to-heart. Discuss topics pertaining to whether or not your children will be raised under one religion, how the two of you expect to discipline them, your expectations about taking them on vacations, etc..


7. Does she want to keep her last name or change it? 
While there are many married woman going the name-changing route, not every woman is keen on giving up a name that reflects her personal and professional identity, heritage and family history. There’s no “right” answer, you just need to know what feels right to her and what’s important to you.

8.  Can you imagine being with her for the next 30+ years?
When all is said and done, when looks and passion fade, do you see yourself able to be with this same woman having spirited conversations sitting on the porch when the two of you are old and gray? If you can’t see yourself with this woman in a few months, let alone a few years, you’re not ready for marriage.

9.  How will you manage your finances?
Some couples like to combine all their finances; others prefer to have a joint account for the household expenses, and separate accounts for personal spending.You need to discuss what individual assets and debts both of you bring to the marriage. You should also be on the same page about financial goals and issues such as who will pay the bills, how will you save, how much money can you spend on a purchase before you should consult one another, etc…

10. Under what circumstances would you consider divorce?
Infidelity? Dishonesty? Abuse? Again, there’s no “right” answer here, but it helps to reduce any uncertainty if you hear before you get married the level of commitment you are both bringing to the table.

You need consider it seriously..#HappyMarriage=Happy Home ..@Albertbabs

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Meet the lady with biggest backside in Ghana. Some of you already know her name. Her name is Matilda Hipsy. She’s a Ghanaian and a video Vixen. She’s a celebrity in Ghana and she can’t walk comfortably in public because of the hold-up she causes.

In a scale of 10, how many will you rate that backside?

Buhari and the Nigerian Foreign Exchange

Political Risk AnalysesForeign Exchange, IMF, Muhammadu Buhari, Naira, SAP
The naira is known to have dropped against major currencies in recent times. Perhaps, this was why, during the 2015 Nigerian presidential election, President Muhammadu Buhari made the point of “making the naira equal to the dollar.” He was speaking against the backdrop of the depreciation of the value of the naira during the elections. It is just by mere announcements or campaign rhetoric that the naira will be made equal to the dollar?

Let us concede that the fall in the naira value during the elections can be due to the scramble for the dollar by politicians for the elections on the one hand; and the panic buying of travellers traveling out of the country for fear of violent reactions that might characterize the announcement of the result, we cannot wave off Buhari’s statement as a cheap attempt to score political point.

As Nigerian Head of State (1983-1985), Buhari was known to have run his regime based on strong fiscal prudence and rigorous financial discipline, which at that period the naira was said to be stronger than the US dollar. But is this just as simple as making the naira equal to the US dollar?

Since 1999, inflation rate in the country has been on the high. The near-total dependence on oil (which is usually dictated by the international market) hasn’t helped matters. The increase in domestic price of oil has also taken its toll on the on the national price level. All these put the naira in a weaker position against major foreign currencies.

Presently, Nigeria lacks the capacity to refine its own crude oil which makes her depend totally on importation. There is an argument that the presently devalued naira will only encourage exportation (of crude oil). In fact, this was exactly the same Bretton Woods institutions’ arguments, and their Nigerian supporters, in defence of the Structural Adjustment Programme (SAP) in the 1980s. Lending credence to this argument was the International Monetary Fund (IMF) Czar, Christiane Largarde, who in early 2012 justified her position on devaluation of the naira with this argument. We were spoon-fed with this argument in elementary and intermediate Economics classes, yet it still appears to make a lot of sense. When will this child grow up?

If President Buhari is serious about strengthening the position of the naira against, say the dollar, his government must make deliberate policies to diversify the economy from oil dependence; increase its productive base through youth enterpreneurships, innovation; and stimulate demand for domestically-made goods. 

#GodBlessNG....

My brother help us all_of a truth you may conisder that the child is 4months as you said and let your wife stay home but really the economy isn't friendly with you_iKd suggest you let that your inlaw or whoeve r is related and of age to come help out with other chores and ur wife prepare down for your baby_even if she's working, a normal work place leave for maternity is 3months so don't let ur wife with the feeling of guilt as to she's abandoning your kid..remember they even bore most of that @delivery than You lolz..but sincerely she's good yo go...the economy of that child is dependent on that her work also alongsde urs..#Candid opinion

Highly barbaric,animalistic in nature_he wouldn't have spent his hard earned cash_cheaply earned money is easily spent..don't get carried away...check him out (#idoubt is legitimacy with his look)
Remember : WEALTH is humble and quite;
RICH is Loud and POOR is FLASHY
#WiseUp

Of a truth this kind of topic should be termed Candid view(Myopic not he right word but its a narrow thought of the one who put them togerther _u cannot come up with different work section of life,u narrowed this down to engirneers..well I comment my reserve...Next time ....think deep and streamline ur topic to further buttress what you are driving at..Thanks and No offence