Stevecreativex:
Me if I remember I use to smile and swear for her with my smile
She's grace, fondly called Gracey, I met this werey when I was serving at Abuja 2014, But with the way we met seems like God wanted us together.

She works where I did my PPA, The first day we met I was working on some files and she was kinda asking her colleague who Steve is when she walked up to my desk, she called my name I looked up and she lost it like I could remember we both lost at each other for like 60 seconds before the lady sitting beside me called her name loud( that one don grab watin dey sup)

To cut the past lost story short.. we started talking we exchange contact and weeks later we started dating... Later she came over to the apartment whey I rented, I could tell her reaction she does not like the place (it single room thou )

Months later our relationship became so close that people started noticing in the office, exactly August they paidsalary and to my surprise, as we were going home together she gave me her August salary asked me to add some few bucks to it I should move out of the one-room apartment am staying saying she doesn't want me sharing toilet and bathroom...

Like I was wow. To be very honest that night I was so happy to the extent I had to cut all my spouse contact off and focus on only her... Like that night I vowed not to cheat on her ever...

So I finished my NYSC in Abuja and luckily my PDTF scholarship application was successful I was preparing to move over to Greece for my masters...

I and Gracey parted ways but we still dating, we call each other text each other... Months later I started sending money to grace for our building project, all the money I sent was around £125,500+ (54,233,804.62 nairas)

During this process, grace sends me pictures of the land she brought and how the construction is going on.....

To round up this painful crab only for me to come back home to meet my wife, married with a kid...

I arrested her and all she could say was "she thought I was just joking with her" that she never thought I still love her... Out of 54m, she could only recover 2.5m...

I was hospitalized for two weeks then... I sort I almost died the shock and trauma almost killed me... But thank God later I just have to return to Greece and start all over again... But what she did then is still the reason why am single today...

The truth sef is I insult any Nigerian girls I see in Greece... Nigerian girls in Greece are all lonely so anyone of then that comes across Nigeria guys is always waiting to be loved but I can't stop hating them...

The trauma still lives..

Aye le oo
This your story really touch me

wman:


Go through this thread.

https://www.nairaland.com/2947212/exclusive-how-make-level-2

But you must have a laptop and a smartphone. You must also have a viable skill.

Thank you

Arakengeworld:
If you can spare me 5mins of your time I am too sure

it will be the most resourceful and productive time especially in this pandemic.



I'm too certain some of you guys had been taking action in the freelance platform - UPWORK and it getting approved but statistics shows that 98% accounts get rejected on daily basis.



My major goal is help people in this category out as the fight is against the massive recession that would occur as a result of the pandemic and not you my fellow human.

Now I'm going to offer my help to a limited number of people, to get their upwork Account Approved to start earning in dollars and spending in Naira. If you are yet to sign in it it also for me to help you cut your signing in curve short.



You see, the market is too large for only few individuals to benefit from. It offers you a very great privilege to changing your financial life as a freelancer. Some o many platforms give run for you to Upwork and Fiver help you showcase your skill and get paid- Fiverr; upwork

Dont be part of the global recession that would wreck across the globe and have lots of cash in your bank account.


Earning is � guaranteed in as much as you're skillful at what you do and even if you are not
so skillful what is required of you is to get the people skillful in it and get it done for you and pay them a token for you to deliver to your client on Upwork.

As a result of strict policy account approval is always difficult because their bot approve upwork accounts and not humans. Only bots do, so to bypass the bit and get approved, you just need to be aware and smart.



Perhaps, you had been in this situation one time or the other before, probably were told someone will attend to it...oh please forget it, you won't be approved.



That's why I decided to write here...



I've decided to help anyone interested in scaling their freelancing service using upwork to get their account approved within 2MINS for a cheap price...

And if interested chat me up via
WhatsApp: https:///2348169384066

Please can you tell me what freelancing is all about. I really want to engage myself in something productive and what will not affect my family too.

sisisioge:
Chai...I am not a fan of overly sporty children with muscles and abs like this. I prefer them still spotting their baby fat till teenage years so they can reach their growth potential.

I'm 5,7" from a family of very tall people. The reason I turned out this short(by my family standard though taller than average female height) is because I used to carry 25 littles heavy kegs on my head while growing in the name of fetching water .

Kikiki you are funny

frozen70:



My dear, she goofed herself

All I requested for should be within the house

It was when she requested for my personal number that I knew that she will fail my questions

Honestly I was ready to help

Nawa ooo. People like OP are the reason why genuine people don't get help.
Why must a person lie to be a widow just to deceive people and gain sympathy. Why can't she use her real Monika.

I almost believe she is telling the truth. May God help us all ooo.

Mofpearl:
Didn't he reject a hospital donated as an isolation centre?

Yes he did because it's from the opposition party members

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Orishirishi. Wetin pesin no go hear

....

And Naso dem take close all the branch wey dey for Abuja. I no kukuma get shishi for my account.
Na dem sabi

Blackbishop:
No



Ma'am first and foremost I won't join the band of people asking for the 2nd narrative, I mean your husband side of the story.

Am a product of a broken home and I can tell from your story that your husby is a low self esteem man. When you have such man as a husband you have two options
1. Be quite and prayerful or
2. Take the easy and hard decision out of the marriage

But who will suffer your kids will suffer and don't forget your husband can give a good narrative to who cares to listen how bad you are and not a wife material kind of woman.

So madam I will simply ask you to find happiness in yourself and your kids. Cuz that man is a failed project. No matter what you try you can never win. You can't please them. So do yourself a favor and relax your mind and learn to listen and talk less no matter what.

Simple yes sir and sorry sir will give you peace of mind. Even though he is wrong just tell him sorry without asking for explanation.. and be happy

If you need companion come to Nairaland and read comments and laugh away your sorrow.... I dey with you ma

Saying the man will paint her bad to the people is nothing believe me.
Although the misinformation will seem unfair but sooner or later everyone will see or know the truth

Abeg this Nigerian marriage wahala tire pesin jare

MizJaY:


Thank every one for their responses I want to reply everyone word for word but my battery and data are very low now. But this particular msg caught my attention and I couldn't help replying this one. I laughed after reading it. e be like say u no want make I no get peace this night or this weekend. Very funny. He will use at least 4 hours to scrutinize, explain, scatter, batter, finish, destroy the message and it will lead to more problems cos oga is always right and am always wrong. i remember one incidence where i gave him my atm card, after using it he apparently forgot where he kept it and i now wanted to use it, oga was 150% sure he gave it to me and i was very sure he did not. This is not matter of he was hiding it to use it later or wanted to steal from me cos theres not a time i say no when he asks to use my atm inshort at times its permanently in d car. We argued back and forth until he reminded me that thats how i am that i need to check myself that i always forget things that i have serious problem bla bla bla. For peace sake i said its alright that i will go to d bank to block it and get a new one even tho I was sure he didn't give me. Lo and behold as we came down from car and i faced him to tell him something atm was facing me from hes front pocket i now showed him and he shamefully gave me after all d bragging that day sweet me well well but guess what, oga said he was giving me one time that I probably didn't collect it so maybe that's how he mistakenly put it back in he's pocket. I just kept quiet cos I felt shame for him

My husband will tell me, if u like dont take care of yourself u Will just die for nothing....mennn

But My mother always tells me, my daughter, u better be taking care of urself, hypertension is not a good thing, if anything happens to you, your husband will marry another woman and move on. Someone else will take care of ur children. I will not be alive forever but I will tell u d truth while I'm still alive...

Humm! Eleyi gidigaan ooo
May God help you but you have to help yourself first and remember that you can't do anything without financial independence.
Save for your future and your children too.
Love yourself first before others tomorrow is always another day my dear.

Iffffffy:
At some point, I thought I was the one doing this narration, it is well sis.

Shuu! may God help the woman folks ooo.

Jullima:
My dear you have described most Nigerian marriages. We see it here a lot on NL. Keeping malice and Nigerian husbands are 5&6. You are not allowed to express your feelings, it’s called talking back. You’re also supposed to apologise for something you were a victim of. If the husband is not 100% the breadwinner, even worse, any body language or words are interpreted as “you don’t respect me because you are contributing”

P.S our NL favourite matron will come in and blame you for not choosing right, even though he presented himself as a godly man or you must have done something to change a godly man.

Sis, it is well.

Yes all is going to be well but God will not change anybody condition unless they take the first step.
Cut down on your expenses and try to save no matter how little it may be.
The ball is in your court and you can decide how you want to play it.
Our life is not the same so is our decision making and our goals too.

Just take your job seriously sha because this kain man fit make person life dey miserable should there be any relapse

If only i had the opportunity to go to the university maybe by now i would have become a doctor, pharmacist or a nurse.

But I'm still hopeful sha.

Ezennwa:
not my Pastor!
But these Muslims always like to generalize everything.

Be Guided!

Nobody is talking about Muslims here but pastors wey dey do 419. Inugo?

I think you should buy lands. I mean many land in an area with a purposeful future *dunno if that is correct *

You will not regret it.

Rashduct4luv:
Wa alaikum salam warahmatullah wabarakatuh.


Do the Aqd at home and take your wife with you! If Allaah permits later you may do the waleemah (feasting).

https://www.nairaland.com/5678882/muslim-marriage-brief

Stay Safe! Stay Zina free!

o



Masha Allah. That is the best and it will save you from unnecessary spending too

LilMissFavvy:
Fake story, only a maddd woman would tolerate all this. Because a woman with brain who should experience half of this, is supposed to divorce you or gang up with her children and make life miserable for you, till you develop high BP. Is it now that you are an old man that your wife should accept you back? After you have wasted your years and youth on side chicks? You should be abandoned to loneliness in old age, you should be chased out of that house, Nigeria is a terrible country for a woman to marry into.

His own might be fake but I know someone who has witnessed something worse than this but she's still patient. Two of her son's have graduated but the man is still with the other woman. For close to 20 years now she still believe her husband will come back to her.
Inside life wetin pesin no go see

tabithababy:
.

Hmmm a moderator on this forum has scammed a member on this same forum before

Hmm are you for real?

quadfire:
Today’s giveaway has now come to an end (20 families). Session 2.0 will be scheduled

As a heads up, while there is no set criteria for selection, however the following may be net negative in the selection consideration:

1. Accounts opened very recently (days)
2. Profile / bank account mismatch. For example, profile and case indicates ‘female’, but bank account name is male etc.

Hope you all get lasting solutions to your current challenges. I realise it’s quite tough out there

Bless

I hope to be blessed this time. Thanks for your gesture

Eeya at Dooj sorry for the insult. You can look for a small job with your SSCE result. May God help you.
I mean after the lock down oo

africanpride1:
*WHO IS REALLY THE RET*RD OF AFRICA*

*GHANA*
*1.* Has tested over 65,000 people and this was enough to do some scientific study to make home grown empirical conclusions and that has made them relaxed their lockdown.

*2.* Now they are using home made drones to transport samples from remote villages to test centers in the cities.

*SENEGAL*
*1.* Senegal has produced testing kit costing just one dolar. They cure their Covid within few days of detection.

*2.* They are using 3D to produce ventilators costing less than half the original amount.

*3.* Now they are testing everybody in no time


*MADAGASCAR*
*1.* Madagascar has already started using and exporting their home grown Covid 19 Cure that has saved many from dying.

*NIGERIA*
*1.* We have only tested less than 11,000 people

*2* We have borrowed billions of dollars in less than one month to fight coronavirus

*3.* Our leaders in Nigeria are only interested in where d money follow

*4* No team of experts have been commissioned to produce test kit or local ventilator or even vaccines.

*Our country is on autopilot*

Nigeria we hail thee!
https://www.nairaland.com/5826758/madagascar-found-very-effective-cure

If this is true then where on our own
May God help us all

Only a mentally deranged somebody will tolerate any of the above mentioned women.
But some half men will. It is better not to have a wife than any of this three.

BetterPoison:
not so fine. Trying to stay afloat and not drown.
God always makes a way where there seems to be non

Good morning loveymom

Morning to you. I believe tough situation don't last but tough people do and no matter how dark it gets the sun is going to rise again.
May God help us all.