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NYSC / Re: NYSC 2018 Batch C Corps Members Thread by Alexiz101(m): 11:56pm On Oct 14, 2018 |
niyiforeal:ID card |
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2018 Batch C Corps Members Thread by Alexiz101(m): 5:26pm On Oct 14, 2018 |
niyiforeal:Go to any cafe and do a new one My first choice too was kaduna |
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2018 Batch C Corps Members Thread by Alexiz101(m): 4:39pm On Oct 14, 2018 |
skarlett:I know. Have an engagement away from my church that Sunday 1 Like |
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2018 Batch C Corps Members Thread by Alexiz101(m): 2:57pm On Oct 14, 2018 |
Happy Sunday PCMs I hope you all had a wonderful time in your final service before camp. Well mine was great and ended with a good farewell till one year after |
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2018 Batch C Corps Members Thread by Alexiz101(m): 11:08pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
banre:Nothing |
Politics / Re: Kwankwaso Meets With Peter Obi And Atiku In Abuja (Photos) by Alexiz101(m): 10:54pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
Honestly I have never been this proud of my party PDP. This move just threw APC off balance 4 Likes 1 Share |
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2018 Batch C Corps Members Thread by Alexiz101(m): 7:29pm On Oct 11, 2018 |
Alaadin:Wow Thats far |
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2018 Batch C Corps Members Thread by Alexiz101(m): 8:11am On Oct 11, 2018 |
Alaadin:Thanks I just saw it online Just wanted to know incase am posted there Kaduna is my first choice |
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2018 Batch C Corps Members Thread by Alexiz101(m): 7:57am On Oct 11, 2018 |
Alaadin:OK from kubwa in Abuja? How much from Abuja to KD |
NYSC / Re: Diary Of An NYSC PCM by Alexiz101(m): 7:55am On Oct 11, 2018 |
Finally today I hand over my resignation letter. Am feeling some how about it. I pray this time my posting comes out unlike last that I resigned and didt receive callup letter!! Being a PCM you must calculate each step you take esp on few days to camp. Last time after all my preparation,even resigning from my job I didt receive callup letter for batch B stream 1&2 because of a silly mistake So now am simply being cautious of every step I take. Goodmorning 1 Like |
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2018 Batch C Corps Members Thread by Alexiz101(m): 7:49am On Oct 11, 2018 |
stargyall:It is God that protects no where is 100% safe in Nigeria 2 Likes |
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2018 Batch C Corps Members Thread by Alexiz101(m): 7:47am On Oct 11, 2018 |
Any body from Kaduna here? How much does it cost to travel from calabar to kaduna |
Romance / Re: Relationship Wensday(AlexisNuggets) by Alexiz101(m): 9:29pm On Oct 10, 2018 |
#RelationshipWensday "This is why he hasn't put a Ring yet" OK last weekend I was fortunate to be in a taxi where 2 girls who eventually were returning from a wedding judged by their outfits(aseobi) where discusing amongst themselves what cut my attention was when one said "my dear me I don't know why Charles has refused to come see my parents oh"!!I quietly plugged in my earpiece and pretended as though I was engrossed in whatever I was reading in my phone so as to listen to them talk. Now I understand it is bad to eardrop but trust me everything happens for a reason without that conversation they will never have been this post!! Ever since that weekend I have been asking myself why do men refuse to put a ring on a finger that deserves to be ringed honourably? Often we hear stories like they dated for 6years yet he left her and marry a girl he just met for 6months?!! Inasmuch as I believe nothing supersedes the will and plan of God but Today I will be sharing 7 reasons why I think most men find it difficult to put a ring on a finger that deserves one! As usual this might be a long read but trust me you won't regret it esp if your past 25yrs old. Don't forget to read and share!Here are my 7 reasons! 1 YOUR ALREADY A WIFE!!! ladies,men don't wife who is already a wife!!let us call a spade by its name! Forget all this crap people talk about being a "wife material" if he needs a wife material let him go to Aba market!!The worst thing that can happen to you is becoming a wife when he has not officially wife you yet! Com'on every weekend your doing all the dishes, washing his clothes,your cooking him good meals worst off at night he feast on your body too?!stop that shit! All those Roles are meant for his wife if he wants you to do them for him then let him wife you! They should be a limit to what you do and how you do it when your just his girlfriend!! 2 YOUR DESPERATE! you just wont let him hear word with constant reminder of your friends that are tieing the knot!! Your channeling all your energy, attention on him getting you married!Sweetheart he won't marry you if he discovers your too desperate to get him to marry you=Dont chase a man to marry you let him chase you to marry him! 3 YOUR STILL A GIRL! yes dear your still a girl!and that is why he has refused to wife you honourably!Born a female doesn't make you a woman!Born a female you must grow to become a woman! No man wants to marry a girl!If you still cry over little things,put up uncontrollably rage,depend on him for even data on your phone etc sweetheart you still deserve to be in your fathers house!Lookup those 12,16,20 years girlish tendencies u had if your still having them then you need to drop them if he must wife you!!Every man wants to be confident he is marrying a woman! The way you carry yourself, manage your temperamental issues etc will prove to him that your no longer a girl!! 4 YOU WANT TO CHANGE HIM! sister your goal as a girlfriend is not to come and change him that is not part of the contract! As long as your still a gf it is not your position to change him! You can't even let him breath! Nagging here and there! ladies give him some space!see men love their space! He hasn't wife you,yet people in his church see you as his wife,his friends can't even get a grip at him during the weekend because you hate him hanging out with them!you ve left your signature(personal items) all over his house to the point his neighbours calls you Mrs ......!Sister taking all his space won't get him to marry you!Men only change for people they want to be with forever let him understand that if he truly loves you then he must not just change to get you but change to keep you by marrying you! 5 YOUR TASTE! yes we all have taste but sweetheart please hear me out men have use taste as an excuse to thumping ladies!How often have we seen cases where a man dumps a girl because her brideprice,wedding plans are too exuberant and end up marrying the one whose taste are even more expensive than the former Don't let him use that crappy excuse on you! Work on your taste! Don't make them too high or too low just something you know he can man up to!Taste is purely superficial he won't wife you if he discovers your have this insatiable taste?! 6 AVOID THE PREGNANCY TRAP I wonder whoever put up that theory that if you get pregnant it will convince him to marry you? How often have we heard"when you deliver I will come see your parents "and that "i will come"turns to forever?Or how often have we heard please Abort this one I promise this will be the last time!!! After 3,4 etc abortions in just 2,3 or 4years he is still saying the next one?? Ladies your pregnancy can't trap him!If he doesn't want to wife you you ll either endup a baby mama or dead(some traditions) Tell him to his face your not a intimacy gadget! He can't be enjoying your cake for free!if he wants to enjoy free cake without committing he should go find a Ho!! 7 DISCERNMENT! it is possible I would have made this write-up 1&2 but I want you to read and reread this and get wisdom! Please this is the most important! Don't get lost in the euphoria of the relationship that you forget to constantly ask God for the spirit of discernment to know the guys purpose for your life!Some guys take their time to waste ladies time! Pray, let God reveal to you this guy's intentions,what directions is this relationship heading to likewise pray for him because it could be financial constraints that might be the challenge!!Pray for God to favour so it doesn't look like since you two started dating nothing good has happened to him!Your being in his life should bring favours to him. The Bible says he who find a wife finds a good thing!let him find a good thing in you dear! Everything happens according to God's plan but first learn to guide yourself with this principles! #AlexisNuggets #RelationshipWensday |
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2018 Batch C Corps Members Thread by Alexiz101(m): 11:12am On Oct 10, 2018 |
Harbioye:Have seen it too it's the correct Timetable |
Religion / Re: Charlyn Oyakhilome Was Sharon's Chief Bridesmaid (Photos) by Alexiz101(m): 10:56am On Oct 10, 2018 |
DavidEsq:Aliyu ...where has he been |
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2018 Batch C Corps Members Thread by Alexiz101(m): 12:29pm On Oct 09, 2018 |
michtob:She needs to thumprint Go to a cafe close by |
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2018 Batch C Corps Members Thread by Alexiz101(m): 12:27pm On Oct 09, 2018 |
wildrose:Then there is really a problem. It was just an advice though Everything will eventually happen at its own pace |
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2018 Batch C Corps Members Thread by Alexiz101(m): 10:46am On Oct 09, 2018 |
All this green card we are rushing to print what if it gets dirty or missing before camp? Where I reg the guy advice me to print everything Medical fitness report, green card slip, callup letter on the same day that is the day I see callup letter |
Politics / Re: Fayose's Statement On His Threat To Dump PDP by Alexiz101(m): 10:32pm On Oct 08, 2018 |
Let him go and seat down who does he think he is? As he walked hard like Sule lamido? Markafi etc! Abeg I make I hear word |
Politics / Re: ''Atiku Can’t Bring The Change Nigeria Needs'' — Oby Ezekwesili by Alexiz101(m): 10:22pm On Oct 08, 2018 |
So it is you that will bring the change? � 9 Likes 1 Share |
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2018 Batch C Corps Members Thread by Alexiz101(m): 8:25pm On Oct 08, 2018 |
15 days to camp, what and what are you yet to get Me :Everything oh!!! � Who else is in my shoes!!!!! 1 Like |
NYSC / Re: Diary Of An NYSC PCM by Alexiz101(m): 1:47pm On Oct 08, 2018 |
A LETTER TO PCM'S.....Batch C Dear pcm's Each time I stroll in here or see a notification pop up from this group with "Please when is this(Put the batch/Stream) going to camp? Or what and what do I need for NYSC orientation camp or which state pays the highest(after I believe you might have seen the timetable or read the same thing over and over again)I just know it is one PCM somewhere who is so worried and anxious about NYSC! So today I have decided to write to each and everyone of you. Of the truth being a PCM in Nigeria is really not easy although depending on which side of the spectrum you belong Generally they are 3 types of pcms 1 Pcm's that are lucky enough to be working and are just waiting to receive callup letter to resign or go to camp and redeploy back to their place of work This PCM's don't have issues,they are not hysterical about the whole service thing,they rarely ask reasked questions 2 Pcm's who just graduated and are not working and are seeing NYSC as the next available route to fight boredom You see this Pcm's have the most problems, they ll keep on asking the same questions on all NYSC handles "when is batch dis or dat going to camp "even after they have seen the timetable their impatience won't let them relax 3 Pcm's that have jamb regularization issues You see this Pcm's are quite funny instead of going to the nearest jamb CBT center to direct their questions they ll come to facebook and ask questions as though Mark Zuckerberg works with jamb (No doubt one can get wise counsel from facebook). Generally it doesnt matter the side of the spectrum you belong to as a PCM being a PCM has both it's frustrating moments and exciting moments esp when it's a week to camp! But how many PCM's have really sat back to ask themselves some questions as regards to what they want out of NYSC? Brother/sister you see this camp your body is itching for you ll go to camp and come back and Nigerian flag will still be green white green! This 3weeks, 1year that is looking like forever you ll go and com back but the question is how prepared are you for a life beyond that 3 weeks? Relax,take some time out, pick up a pen and notepad ask yourself this 5 QUESTIONS EVERY PCM MUST ASK HIS/HERSELF BEFORE GOING FOR CAMP! 1 WHAT ARE MY GOALS FOR NYSC A wiseman once said if you don't have direction any road will look like a road! What are your goals for NYSC? What do you want to be remembered for in your PPA!!? The best time to answer that question is now that your still a pcm 2 WHAT DO YOU WANT TO GROW OR CHANGE IN YOUR LIFE? I believe being a PCM alone has changed some things in your life..if learnt to be patient etc? Likewise this next one year as a Corper 3 WHAT CAREER PATH/SKILLS WILL I UNDERTAKE!? See everything will be happening so fast! Gbam! U get ur callup letter Gbam!you go for camp! Gbam you finish camp! Gbam! You get posted next thing u know its POP!Now is the time for you to choose the skill and short courses you ll want to engage in this next 1year 4 YOUR FINANCES how do you intend working on your finances? They will be no mummy to help you plan your meal budget!while we all await the 49800 I guess we have seen how allawee delays to come recently? Start now to plan? Will you enter into contribution with your fellow Corp members?if yes how much will say be? 5 HOW DO YOU INTEND WORKING ON YOUR RELATIONSHIP from the time you become a pcm to your pop you ll meet different kinds of people how do you intend working on your relationships with this people? Most esp God or Allah! Most Corp members go for service and push God aside,most Muslim faithfuls turn Friday to clubday!abandoning jumat prayers most Christians sisters get intoxicated with this new freedom don't forget friends service is only for a year! I wish you all including myself writing this best of luck as we await our callup letters and obey the clarion call. Please if your already serving and you have anything to add don't fail to add Share till it gets to that PCM this is intended for |
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2018 Batch C Corps Members Thread by Alexiz101(m): 1:37pm On Oct 08, 2018 |
Swizz1:Yes you can Den make photocopies DONT LAMINATE ANY PAGE!!! |
Politics / Re: Atiku Abubakar Wins The PDP Presidential Primaries Election by Alexiz101(m): 2:16pm On Oct 07, 2018 |
Choice of vice president now is the challenge |
Politics / Re: Atiku Abubakar Wins The PDP Presidential Primaries Election by Alexiz101(m): 12:57pm On Oct 07, 2018 |
Atiku has worked so hard for this since 2003 he has been constantly trying to be a presidential flagbearer Am proud of his resilience!!! I pray he keeps to his word and RESTRUCTURE NIGERIA!!! 8 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: PDP Presidential Primary Election: Live Updates, Results And Situation Report by Alexiz101(m): 11:39am On Oct 07, 2018 |
Atiku has tried abeg He deserves it 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: PDP Presidential Primary Election: Live Updates, Results And Situation Report by Alexiz101(m): 11:36am On Oct 07, 2018 |
ATIKULATED ATIKULATED ATIKULATED |
Politics / Re: PDP Presidential Primary Election: Live Updates, Results And Situation Report by Alexiz101(m): 11:30am On Oct 07, 2018 |
Tambawal has won it Hmmmm I fear for my party PDP |
Politics / Re: PDP Presidential Primary Election: Live Updates, Results And Situation Report by Alexiz101(m): 11:29am On Oct 07, 2018 |
Shocking � Tambawal has pulled over 400+ votes 1 Like |
Politics / Re: PDP Presidential Primary Election: Live Updates, Results And Situation Report by Alexiz101(m): 11:23am On Oct 07, 2018 |
Tambawal has pulled so much votes � I forsee him emerging |
Politics / Re: PDP Presidential Primary Election: Live Updates, Results And Situation Report by Alexiz101(m): 11:21am On Oct 07, 2018 |
unite4real:Lol |
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