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southniyikaye:
I still don't understand why I don't have 0% passion for football.

So many weird things about me sha.
Football NO
clubbing No
Smoking NO
drinking. NO
womanizing NO

Shey I really dey enjoy this life like this?
Wetin I Wan tell my kids self? Which stories I go tell them?
Don't even keep friends, I don't have a single friend

Bro. The only difference between us na say i dey watch football. You're not alone. Just embrace your uniqueness but try dey have fun.

gunners160:

Bros can you pls stop deceiving urself? How does psychology fit into Nigeria situation. Practical a lot of people hardly make use of psychologist instead they prefer making use of pastors. Furthermore if u understand rational emotive therapy u will understand that psychological in this country most people belief their problem is being caused by some one else and would not never take responsibilities for their mistakes

Na.. You're basing your argument on assumptions. Psychology is applied everywhere not only in the clinical settings. Even clinical psychology is becoming more sought after. I know Nigeria is a country where people don't know much about psychology but trust me. There are opportunities you just need to find it. You can't sit down and be saying everyone takes their problems to pastors. There are so many uses of psychology beyond clinical psychology. I studied psychology too

gunners160:
even psychology. I am a graduate of psychology so I knw wat I am talking about
in other countries Psychology is lucrative but not here in Nigeria

because you don't have an idea of what you can do with psychology. Psychology is in everything. Marketing, ui/ux, design, medicine, engineering etc.
I'm into ui/ux and psychology is the major tool as we regularly carry ux research. Psychology is science boss....

gunners160:
Truth be told, a lot of those gibberish courses we studied in school back then are no longer needed again and not just law profession.
I think it is high time Nigeria change her curriculum and focus more on science related courses

Sociology, psychology, business admin, criminology, political science etc no get use

Lol remove psychology bro

Admitwithschola:


What's your GPA? If above 4.0, you should follow the same idea I gave the econ guy.

I think I can help

3.77�..

Futuragetty:
You have no business in Nigeria if you are unemployed.
I'd recommended you save as much money as you can because that What you will need most.
It doesn't hurt to swap field,
Job openings are more in Stem and medicals fields.
While you are still here, Go get that job, and save.
start doing something to earn.
earning to Save,
saving to Jet out.
Nigeria does not deserve me!
I do not deserve Nigeria!
We do not deserve each other!

Remain blessed. May we succeed.

I finished with a BSc in psychology. Which stem field would you recommend that i switch to?

timekeeper1:
See better school

Not like that failure in the Yeast they call UNN..

Uncompleted, mud erosion Don even Chop VC office, see building like 1930s...


Very bad image for the self acclaimed UN of Nigeria...

It was a mistake such Name of a university was built in the East.. Wud av been better in west or north than yeast

unn is up there with unilag, oau and ui and I'm a westerner. This tribalism stuff is getting stale.

dangoteinlaw:
Its a hoax, black ppl don't fall for it!

mr hoax okay how else do you want them to apologise

LebanonCedars2:
Continues...

8. Failure To Let Go of Our Parents, Family and Friends: God, the One who created marriage specifically told us from the beginning: “therefore shall a man leave his father and mother and shall cleave to his wife and they shall be one flesh” – Gen 2:24.
Many people after wedding are not willing to let go of their parents, family and friends. Until you are able to “leave” them and “cleave” to your spouse, you will have problems in the marriage.
Please don’t get me wrong. I am not saying you should forget about your parents, family and friends but they must not be a competition to your spouse. You must not satisfy them at the expense of your spouse. Your spouse must be number one in your life before even your parents. That is the standard of God and that’s the way you can enjoy your marriage.

9. Friendship With Opposite Sex: After wedding, friendship with any opposite sex should be cut off. Your spouse should and must be your best friend. In fact, you should be best of friends before the wedding.

10. Keeping Secrets: The bible says in Gen 2:25 “and they were both naked, the man and his wife and were not ashamed”. God intention for marriage is that there won’t be any secrets between husband and wife. Such must be the standard for every Christian home. You should be an open book to your spouse, totally naked before him/her without being ashamed. If you have any past buried in secrecy, let your spouse be in the know. There should be nothing hidden: your phones password, atm pins, properties etc. Remember, there is nothing covered that will not come into the open.
Many homes have been eternally destroyed because of secrets later discovered.

Be an open book!

11. Lack of Communication, Compliments and Forgiveness: The absence of any of these 3 will hurt love in marriage. Let your spouse be your gist partner (men need to take note particularly). Compliment each other’s look, achievement, progress etc. Say good things about your spouse and it will boost his/her self-confidence and love for you. Learn to forgive even when the person does not deserve it. It heals you quickly and silence the devil in your home. Your willingness to let go is a stimulus for God to step in.

12. [b]Failure To Manage Additions to the Family. [/b]Everybody prays for expansion, increase and fruitfulness in the family but not everyone can manage these additions. Introduction of children if not properly managed can strain love in the family. Most women shift their attention to the children and leave their husbands frustrated. Most men leave their wives alone with the care of the children, kitchen and home and expect such wives to function 100% emotionally. It’s not going to happen!
Promotion in career, expansion in business, and increase in financial capabilities if not properly managed can also strain marital love. Couples must learn to sit down, selflessly discuss solutions to any given challenge and agree on the way forward.

13. Declining Romance: [/b]Many couples before wedding and few months after would show how romantic they are. As times goes one, either because of activities as stated above or because they have become too used to each other, romance begin to ebb till it’s completely out of the marriage. The devil can use this opportunity to introduce a third party who might seem more romantic and before you know it, such spouse may begin to gravitate toward the seemingly romantic fellow. Couples must find way to spice up their romance at all times. Take your spouse out once in a while, without the children. Buy things that will make him/her smile. Always look for opportunity to tell spouse how much you love him/her. Play with each other, become teenagers once in a while and play away. Throw pillows at each other, tickle each other etc.

Keep the fire burning!

14. [b]Love For Personal Space: There are some couples who sleep in different rooms; those who want time alone with friends, some who want time alone with their games. Ask them why, they will tell you they need their personal space. My friend, hear me and hear me well, if you need your personal space, PLEASE DON’T MARRY!
Once you marry, you loose your freedom to be alone. The reason God created Eve was because He saw that it is not good for man to be alone. You have been joined together with another person and both of you are now one. You must “cleave” to the fellow everywhere you go. Your space is her space, your money is her money, your house is her house, your car is her car, your room is her room, your phone is her phone and vice versa.

Love for personal space breed mistrust, malice and gives satan opportunity to tempt, run from it!

15. Above All, When Jesus Is Not In Your Boat: When I was young, there is a song we normally sing: when Jesus is in the family, happy happy home but when satan is in the family, troubled troubled home.
Many people ask me, why are you so happy in your marriage? My answer is: Jesus rules and reign in my home. I am faithful to my wife not because I have the ability to (I sure don’t. In my family, it is considered abnormal to be faithful to your wife) but because Jesus has given my victory of family curses, sin and self.
When I got married, I thought I loved my wife and would never hurt her but events that happened few months after the wedding showed I didn’t even know how to love my wife. It was not until I tasted the love of Christ and surrendered my life to Him that I began to know the true meaning of love. Thank God He saved my wife through my changed life. Both of us ever since leave our life to please God. Our obedience to Him has brought about joy, peace and progress to our home.
God created the institution called marriage, until you submit your life and marriage to Him, you will continue to struggle with it. Why? If Jesus is not in your home, then satan (author of pains and confusion) will reign there. There can never be a vacuum.

Which will you prefer?

I compiled all these to an ebook sir and i want to acknowledge you... This knowledge mustn't waste

Tribal clash between yorubas and igbos is pure comedy lmao wtf... The two supposedly most educated tribes in Nigeria fighting like children

zoezoelogistics:


True.
Even as at 2010 I was earning 60k
And I felt like I was cursed.
This is 10 years after.
We are definitely not where we were then but certainly not where we hope to be.

The journey continues.
God help us. We will make it las las.

Thanks to God for where we are now.

� Thanks bro

Flier:
Dont hurt yourself she’s probably lying,they don’t pay 750k to learner monthly
I T guys that earn such amount monthly works with bank not a learner like this poster

Bro but the fact is 40k is still small for a grad

Lurkin:

710k gap inside life bro

Lol abi nw

bonetalk:
me na 32500.... Life.... hmm but we thank God for everything

all is well

Moventist:

You believed that was a real story?

Real story or not bro.. 40k is still too small as salary

mamatwiny:


Go and get a good It skill and you will never be out of job. Cyber security is in demand all over the world, full stack developers, ai etc.

My 2 cents.

LOL.. it's not s easy as you say

montumonami:
I graduated same year and served the following year as well. Also applied for jobs and internships but none seemed to work out. In my own case, I'm not from a financially advantaged home, so I have resorted to applying for scholarships for masters abroad. I think I have applied up to 4 masters scholarships so far. I think you should try same.

what do i need to apple for scholarships boss

750k � and i dey collect 40k see gap. Inside life

It's been 3 months working for an organization and they haven't given us employment letter

Mehn. Nairaland is filled with hatred

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God when? I've been jobless since i finished nysc... Been applying to different organizations to no avail.... � I'm just fedup

lecturer50:
I am asking the question because i have come to realize that my happiness mostly comes from traveling.

I mean long distance journeys like from abuja to lagos,maiduguri to aba,kano to lagos etc


Traveling tends to give me 80% of my overall happiness


If i am anticipating a journey in (let's say) a week's time,all through the week before the actual day of the journey,i will be full of joy, happineess and love.


A day to the journey,i will be barely able to sleep at night due to joy.


While on the journey,i would be so happy.

I will be looking at the forests, trees, villages, towns, cities, rocks, mountains, rivers, valleys and plains etc.

I always prefer window seat in other to see things on the road


I will buy every local delicacy in every town on the road.


I discover that other passengers may not be as happy as i am.

Others may not even look outside the window but i will continually be looking outside the window in other to see things.


I would not sleep through out the journey due to joy.


Please has anyone experience this kind of joy while on a long distance journey?


Please what could be the reason for such joy?

I guess it's your personality. You're someone that loves travelling, like me

elhadji19:


It is very possible but it means u have to start afresh. Psychology and Nursing are completely different thing. Like I said earlier, most people in Nursing career start from the lowest level which is CNA which means certified Nursing assistant, with ur SSN you can register for the course and get certified within 3 months or less than that in Chicago for fees ranging between 800 dollars to 1000(dont know the specific amount). With this certificate, You can work in so many hospitals that required the need of CNA as long as you are eligible to work in USA. From there, u can attend two years community college like Harry S Truman college in Chicago etc, after which u can proceed university for 2 year for ur Bachelor degree depending on the type of visa you hold in USA. This will be very difficult for someone or visiting visa except he or she has already changed his or her visa status

Thanks

[quote author=elhadji19 post=81232521][/quote]boss as a psychology grad in Nigeria.. Is it possible for me to study nursing in the United States?

Two tribes wey suppose collaborate and become a force to be reckoned with dey always dey at loggerheads with each other and they think Nigeria will grow.. Education without unity it's dead on arrival

aolawale025:
Is she now a psychologist

shes kinda right.. In psychological terms it is called "self-actualization".... The top ladder of Abraham maslow's hierarchy of needs

Brytech:
Same with me i got an invite too but don't know how legit they are.

did you remember sending any application to them?

Hello.. I was sent an email inviting me for interview by goldson consult.. I would like to know how legit it it.. Thanks

Saltoflife:
Waohh..
Silent achiever. This simply means I go dey watch ManU as a non fan.

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