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YoungandDepress:
My story is quite a sad and long one.
I wish I could write it all out. My life has been a terrible mess.
Where did it go wrong for me, I have no idea.

I am writing with so much emotion, my heart is full and heavy.
Life is bitter.

I am a 23 years old guy.
My life all started to go in the negative direction when I gained admission at age 16.
A 16 years old boy in the university, so much freedom and exposure.
I messed up my life, I became addicted to bet9ja virtual gambling I lost focus, Gambling killed me, I started failing exams, at the end I dropped out without my parents Knowing, but the truth came out when I was supposed to graduate, I could not hide it anymore. I told them the truth, my parents forgave me like the prodigal son.

They still believed in me especially my mom, she keeps reminding me of how intelligent I used to be.

Well I'm not here to talk about my past life but here to talk about how it is still affecting me today.

Ever since I started university all over again, I have been miserable and frustrated. Nothing has been working in my favour. I'm currently now in 200level hoping to graduate before 25.
All my mates I started with have done their NYSC.

I'm still stuck in the same stage.
I have no idea what I am doing with my life. I'm young, broke and depressed. I get irritated over little things. I feel disgust at how I uselessed my youthful life. How gambling destroyed me.

By the grace of whichever god exists, I am no longer addicted to gambling. I have quit the addiction for almost a year now but nothing changed, I still feel miserable. I hate having people around me even my family members including my mom.

I have no true friends. Nobody checks on me, nobody calls me.

At this age, I can't boast of having 500 naira in my account.
I'm broke and miserable.

I have started hating God and question my belief in God. I hate Sunday's. I hate hearing about God, I don't blame God for my troubles but I'm angry at the fact that despite my parents being dedicated Christians, things are not working well in my family.
My elder ones are graduates, but no solid job yet.

Only my eldest brother who is doing quite well now and I thank God for his life but we don't talk. I can't remember the last time I called him on phone. They don't hate me, I hate myself.
I have disappointed them a lot.


I just lost the last #1000 I had in my life today and I cried. The money fell out my pocket when I went to get something.

At 23 years, I have no idea what I will do with my future.
I still live with my parents and I have never rented an apartment of my own even in school.

What is wrong with me, why am I miserable?

I have no good clothes. My clothes are all worn out.
I have nothing doing, i live off my parents.

Since schools were shut down, I have been at home doing nothing.
Completely broke, damaged and miserable.

Can my life be any better. What do I do. I am depressed.
I keep asking myself these questions but there
Seem to be no answer.

mrvitalis:
One of the reasons we want Biafra

ejighikemeuwa:
The cannibalism (you call them cabals) in the rules. Oh the fulanisers

ejighikemeuwa:
The cannibalism (you call them cabals) in the rules. Oh the fulanisers

JAMO84:
Some Nigerians did not live in America as long as this man lived in Nigeria before they get appointed or elected to public office. Hypocrisy is top of the many things I hate in my life, he came here as a child and has live here since 1975, 45 years and counting!

BTW, who take Sahara Reporters serious again in this country, maybe PDP dundees.



I AM DONE TALKING

majamajic:
Not a close friend , I just know him
When u frequent a particular place , I mark friendly face , and u know these guys are friendly , they can tell u all about football and politics , now that BBN has started , I can't wait to see him

majamajic:
Then men want to be on top , not want be suppressed
But now , I have a friend in lekki his wife pays him salary , he stays at home making sure things are in order , wash her car when she back from work , take and bring the kids back from school . Though he is into system , but they are enjoying their marriage
Then , it's very rare . But now it's common

PAGAN9JA:
Beautiful. We must return to the TRADITIONAL Animist RELIGION of our ancestors.

99.9% of Nigerian problems will be solved


We must take our roots seriously.

We must respect the nature and all living things around us. From the smallest owl or cat to the largest bat or elephant. This is most important. Everything else is secondary.

We must be upright and revive our ethos. No matter the negative forces we face around us. We must be strong.

We must learn to respect women. Regardless of the attitudes we face.






I think you both need jesus.

BuhariNaWah:
Can Nigerians do same?

Imagine the amount of funds Magu alone stole.
This country is finished.


Falz say everybody na criminal.... He WAS RIGHT!

Eulalia:
Lol... Aboki like you.

Natilolo:
He has always been. We were only impatient with him and believed lie and more lies.

Righteousness89:
That is why the Boko haram business is striving on all fronts despite all the funds spent..


The Truth is until JESUS Comes, these things will continue ...

Let's just leave these guys and focus ourselves on Escaping what is Coming ..

Let's Focus ourselves on ensuring that we are qualified to enter the "Street of Gold", Just in case we are called home...

Donkenny511:
I fear for Africa. Every religion is telling her people the same thing in different ways, so Christians believe all other religions followers will go to hell and Muslims too believe the same. Abeg wetin happen to humanity.
What happen to good people who are not religious?

Donkenny511:
What if he's a Muslim?
Or are you saying all other religions followers will go to hell?

hakeem4:
you’re just spamming this forum. We have heard about Jesus

YorubaKinging:
I'm in a good mood today,
So I'll choose to reply you

First of all
It's not a curse that Nigeria will soon break up

And lastly, my family cannot break up just because you wish it so

All these ibo boys self, you lack home trainings and it's not uncommon in igbos generally

You always chose to curse rather than talk like a trained youths

YorubaKinging:
It's too late for Nigeria

Break up is inevitable

NettyNelly:
So he should keep mute abi? 2hrs to go, check my signature

nairavsdollars:
Osinbajo President over...why not just kill Buhari and give it to him?

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright

Toasting woman na the easiest thing on planet earth

Just start with wetin them dey like talk about. Just think of anything them dey interested in
For example
Just first tell her say
Girl this hairstyles looks good on you. What is the name let me recommend it for some one
She will definitely answer you because body go sweet her for the compliment

Then try to go further into hair styles
Probably name some hairstyles for her and try to make her educate you about it
Rihanna, bob Marley, kinky ball, twisting, side path, crotchet, braiding, chuku

Almost every lady dey like this discussion and they will be happy to enlighten you.
Like play like play discussion don start
You as a shy niggarrr supposed know what to do next because she will be so free at heart talking about it

Righteousness89:
Let them continue!
They have the knife !
They have the yam!

But $1 will not be taken from here to the other side!

It's unfortunate people do not understand the Mystery of life...

Few days after the death of the right hand man of the president , I remember having a dream.. I saw him but his face had changed to some nasty look. He was talking to about 3 other men, and this were his Exact Words

" I had This.... I had That... But I didn't have JESUS! I am not in a Good place..







They that have Ears to Hear, Let them Hear!

I Rest my Matter

Onyi22:
Indomie generation pls stay off this post

Denique:
My brother, you could be right...the woman said it's not true, that she owes her a lot of money she had to write off too!

She says she's doing this to get close to me for the sake of goodies and that she might end up pitching me against her father. She asked I be very careful and avoid her.

This ensued a moment ago!

Don't know who or what to believe anymore as I was sincerely doing this from a place of love...I was sleepless last night. Pheew!

Denique:
I thought about that too but what informed the thread is the rape issue...like it's so huge for someone to use that to secure a credit facility.

Again, I didn't even ask her as I'm about my venture...her father met her sitted while waiting for her shawarma order and he scolded her and asked her to leave immediately after inquiring from me if she was there to buy shawarma which, I had to lie about to stop him from beating her.

She came the next day to apologise thus bringing up her son's father irresponsibility. All this while, I paid no attention as I was busy until she mentioned "if not that I was raped, shey it will just be only me to worry about". That was when I paused what I was doing and asked "Rape! raped by whom?" she replied and then I had orders to tend to, so I told her we would talk at length later on...it skipped my mind the next day...for about 3days until yesterday when she came to me again...telling me all in details and I truly felt bad for her.

Just like you pointed out in your writeup, the reason I want to hear from her father is to make sure she never dated the guy in question and it was indeed rape before I can copy any activist online. Just making sure.
Thanks so much!

Denique:
Hi guys!
I have a rape case at hand and I really don't know how to go about it.
A young girl at my shawarma spot told me she was raped by a 42yr old man and the incident yielded a child...a child he doesn't take care of!

According to her, he brings a paltry N700 which is not everyday. She said the man's mum threatened to make her dumb if she goes to human rights.

I plan to tell a popular Lady in the area whom I also relate well with about it, so she can meet with the father of the girl who also owns a shop in the plaza.

Her parents asked her to let go since she has a child by the man. Their reason is so that, the child does not grow up to be tagged a rapist child.

People in the neighborhood call her demeaning names cos they all think she slept around and that resulted in the pregnancy.

It was also this same man that deflowered her. He admitted raping her to her parents and he is still friends with her uncle. The only thing the uncle is suggesting is changing the boy's surname to hers since he has refused to support her with 15k on a monthly basis.

I am also being careful as I am new in the area.

All these came up when she kept coming to buy shawarma on credit citing she hadn't eaten...her father sometimes gives her N150 to eat and feed the child also. He didn't give her the day before yesterday but gave her yesterday to take the boy to the health centre.

I wept yesterday when I saw how she beat up the child like an adult...clocked a year old this March while she's just 24. Neighbours abused and hit her for beating him. I understand her pains but couldn't do anything.

I feel so sad right now.

Should I tell the woman in the plaza as her father listens to her?

Pls note that the man has also raped another girl. The victim's elder brother only beat the abuser up and that was it...