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Oshokhai69:
Abeg which agenda I fit get? You get Dstv?

No I nor get. Learn to watch something with a listening ear next time.

Geezeem:
She did...I watched it
Unfortunately I like them too

She did not.
The girl has a problem communicating very well with her choice of words. She meant no harm neither did she badmouth her she even said the lady was like her in personality

Oshokhai69:
This life nor just balance at all. See Chi chi say she dey miss Phyna well well while Phyna totally massacred Chi chi for trenches. Human beings sha

Phyna nor massacre Chi Chi for trenches.

Agenda must agend

fitzmayowa:
Na DQ you should be worried about as the gal is unhinged it took Bryann to restrain her from hit Amaka the day they got into it....

She was never going to hit Amaka rest abeg

Giel:
Poor Chichi always has nice things to say about Phyna. I hope someone will tell her later on about how phyna finished her when she was describing her to her fellow trenches HMs
I want to see what will happen

Phyna did not badmouth her

COOL10:

You obviously have very serious issues. You need help.

Avoid me please

You are the one in need of help

COOL10:
Are you sure you're not the one with comprehension issues? If you knew how to read and assimilate, you wouldn't even have quoted me in the first place. Learn to follow discussions from the beginning so you can know who said what and avoid embarrassing yourself.

Keep quiet and take correction she did not badmouth her you go and listen and comprehend.
I watched it so stop trying to be silly

COOL10:
LMAO. I didn't even watch the part where she bad-mouthed Chichi.

Just when I was beginning to like Phyna's vibe, she don come overdo the thing.

She did not bad mouth Chi Chi you should learn how to listen and comprehend well.

Tatiana4u:
My sweet lady!!!!
Long time no see!
How you dey?
I’m so happy to see you again.
Ah ah,now now,you don get faves?
Wait small till this night before you decide o…cos we never see all of them.
Anyway,Amaka and phyna be like say dem get plenty content..

I dey fine.

I like those two for now

Tatiana4u:
I’m still waiting for that ‘special’ housemate who’s worthy of my love,attention and loyalty….for now,I will just be watching without any emotional attachments.
Na housemate wey get coconut head I Dey look for

My Titan longest time so glad to see you on this thread

Na Amaka and Phyna I pin for, for now. I like Phyna

Newyorkitis:
Stick to the point: abortion by the Supreme Court is illegal.
So if you have a case in your state, and it ends in the Supreme Court, you cannot win!

Learn to take corrections abortion is still legal in at least 26 states. Roe v wade made abortion legal in all states striking it down only left it up for the states stop arguing. Biden has even signed an executive order to protect women from any criminal prosecutions.

And everyone knows that if a pregnancy threatens the mother or the child, it can be terminated because it is towards saving a life

In some states that is not the case, because they are wicked and do not care about women. The mother's life and choices is more important than a clump of cells.

PS: I'm not surprised to see that you have agreed that at a stage in your life, you were a CLUMP OF CELLS.... It shows you failed biology in school.

Scientifically it is go and learn you are the one who failed biology.

The semen deposited in the woman is it dead or alive?
If it is dead, how did it swim tho meet the Ovum?
Or suddenly, the semen released by the man which is alive, became dead and came back to life again before life new began in the womb?

Please, science has tried in a lot of other things, but not on the issue of when life begins after sex.ual interco.urse

You are just saying rubbish then life begins by ejaculation and not by conception as some religious people claim since you are arguing against science with your teeth while failing to bring actual facts.
Keep quiet and go and learn. So who are you relying on to tell you when life begins

KaluwisxPRO:
Nothing is your business with Nigeria then wtf are you crying like an over fed baby?

WHO recorded thousands of illegal abortions, did you get the statistics of those who died from those Those are the results of their choices. The dead don’t speak, if you fail to take corrections to Practice safe sex, sorry will be your name.

Continue to stay woke with your delusion of the west.

Who is crying like an overhead baby it is only you because you are rambling rubbish.

Again do you know better than WHO? Why don't you bring your own stats? Lol, people who don't practice safe sex will still get abortions when you have seen someone arrested for it let me know, another thing is that complications from pregnancies will always lead to abortions so abortions do not always result because of unsafe sex get that through your head and stop embarrassing yourself.
You are the only one delusional here keep sleeping in your delusion. When you wake up educate yourself because you are just embarrassing yourself rambling incoherent nonsense.

KaluwisxPRO:
If you like cry from now till eternity, abortion is illegal in Nigeria, you can go risk your life with unsafe sex since you’re the captain of your own life.

what is my business with Nigeria, is it not the same Nigeria that WHO records thousands of abortions yearly keep deceiving yourself na the poor women I dey pity some of them are well taken care of though. I will save my tears for something better though I sympathise with the women.

It is no one’s business, but you will not be permitted abortion except via the back door where you put your life at risk with not just pregnancy but with HIV.

nobody go tell you when you contact, na you go dey preach for visitors from hospital bed.

Goodluck

You did not answer my question just regurgitated the same nonsense over and over again.
Get lost abeg let literates who understand these things talk when I need beer parlour analysis I can call for your silly opinions

KaluwisxPRO:
There’s no one who calls abortion where a mother is in arms way an abortion

It is called an aboetuon stop lying and deceiving yourself, why then is abortion permitted in such cases in countries where the life of the mother is threatened stop embarrassing yourself and read

l, such situations doesn’t even come up for discussion once a Dr has established an issue. So your argument about that subject is irrelevant.

keep quiet.

Secondly, married women having abortions who know nothing about family planning is an irresponsible married woman.

Again keep quiet you are embarrassing yourself and it is just so terrible to read.

I do not need to make my points to every of you who quote me, read up my ealier arguments, both men and women are equally responsible for unsafe sex anyone can be the spreader of infections and diseaseseses

How does this concern abortion keep quiet again.

Your emotional ranting will do nothing because you haven’t said anything objective yet.

LMAO, the emotional argument is so stale stop disgracing yourself read up and take correction.

If you cannot be a responsible women and practice safe sex, the government has every right to limit access to you getting an abortion, just the same way the government has a right to limit access to Psychotic medications for schizophrenic/mental patients, no difference. If not, we will have a drug epidemic just like in the US.

Since the government is restricting access what is the government doing to reduce the rates of maternal mortality, what is the government doing to make birth control easily accessible, what is the government doing to reduce the cost of baby food and other supplements, how many children have the government removed from the streets? Etc since the government wants to invade on people's privacy what has the government done to fight the ripple of effects that comes with restricting abortions? Of course it can be regulated on the 3rd trimester after viability that is what a sane government does but then what does your country have? when you are done answering the question you can talk about government restricting people's bodily autonomy.
Clown.

integrity16:
How can you ban abortion but allow the sale of postinor 1 and 2 and other abortion drugs. That's double standards

Are you minding the hypocrites in this country.

KaluwisxPRO:
Firstly, why are you jumping from one man to the other??

Is this the question you will ask married wonen who have abortions? Or you want to tell me that you ate ignorant of that fact and that married women commit abortions.

How do you continue aborting unwanted kids if you are not promiscuous

lol, stop watching nollywood movies and enlighten yourself who told you that this sort of things happen? Why is a woman's sexuality even your problem? why don't you have a problem with the men sleeping with them?

You want to blame others for your choices Who do you blame for your failures in education

Who told you that people who have abortions blame anybody? You are just arguing nonsense because you are failing to have a substantial argument.

Weather 1week or 8months, the fact that you choose not to practice safe sex, you should be ready for whatever comes out of it.

And who do you think you are to tell women and men what to be responsible for and what to do, who do you think you are?

Why are you sleeping with men without protection who don’t give 2fucks about you

You’re nothing but a harlot and already a danger to the society because once a person like you contracts HIV, you blame others and will definitely choose not to suffer alone. We know your types.

In your silly and dumb argument not once have you blamed the men for sleeping around and ejaculating around but to tell how illiterate you are on the issue you are arguing with nonsense scenarios that have no basis in reality what proof do you have that only prostitutes have abortions or women who sleep around don't you know that married women have it too? And abortions are sometimes necessary if the foetus is in a terrible shape that may require abortions. You are just an illiterate on the subject of abortions, you should shut up and learn a thing or two about abortions the causes and effects etc before parroting your mouth on an issue you are so clueless about

integrity16:
Nobody is infringing on a woman's right to her body. If a woman must abort a pregnancy, atleast do it safely and not by patronizing quacks, chemist etc... And then they end up dead throwing their families into chaos.

I think that is what this guildline is all about.

Abortion is illegal in Nigeria maybe it is on paper anyway but because it is illegal women and girls will patrons quacks and chemist so it is unsafe and women die from it unfortunately.
Many countries have legalised abortions because they realised that banning it has not stopped it but only made women die from unsafe practices.

EkelediliBuhari:
I used baby to sound inhumane

But lets call a spade a spade, it’s not a baby until it’s fully formed … That’s 2nd trimester

Else we might as well call sperms and ovaries babies

A car is not a car until it’s building is complete, till then it’s just a contraption or a hunk of metal

Exactly.

Upworkwriter007:
It actually does. The real question is.....is an unborn child a human life or not? Until we get pure clarity on this, every opinion on this will be on the basis of emotion.

It makes no sense. He contradicted himself since he is saying we should not blame government and carry our cross why then will he be in support of the government wanting to regulate the private lives of people and at the same time want to be opposed to a woman having that access if she wants to. He made no sense.

You have not read the pro-choice argument if you have you will not call it an emotion because the arguments are factual and practicable. Scientifically it is a stage and could be regarded as human but then some beliefs are life begins at conception others claim breath, because once a baby is born it breaths and cannot breath in the womb. Breath is a sign of life and you cannot ascribe personhood to a foetus the points for this argument if you google it you will see that their points are actually valid.
Another thing is individual liberty and bodily autonomy nobody has the right to tell you the number of children to bear so no one has the right to also regulate your body or do things without your consent. You cannot even organ donations from a dead person without consent in many climes, so also an organ donation from a living person must be done with consent, so why should a woman's body be different is the foetus more substantial and more important than the life and choices of the woman?

KaluwisxPRO:
You have a choice to use condom, you deliberately refused. You’re not just putting yourself in harms way with infection, but with unwanted pregnancies which both a man and a woman have a choice to use condom or not.

Now you’re pregnant, you want a government guided professional to terminate the child because you were not being careful with yourself.

Pregnancy is never in this life a mistake, except in the case of rape, which itself is a crime.

Who do we blame should you contract HIV..? Is it you or the government?? With your answer, we will know who to blame for getting pregnant without protection.

You should carry your pregnancy cross the same way you have no choice with HIV. No one is to blame but you and your choices.

Your opinion makes no logical sense.
They should carry their pregnancy cross and when the children come out to beg you will insult them for being irresponsible and throw bread crumbs at them.
When they become touts you will want to blame the parents abi?
Condoms fail don't be ignorant you don't force responsibility on people not willing to carry it especially when you have no viable solution to help them.
Pregnancy could be a mistake because contraceptives fail you make an exception for rape why so? What part of unwanted do you not understand who told you that only a pregnancy resulting from rape is unwanted?
Nobody should blame the government obviously, same way the government who refuses to be responsible to its citizens should be having opinion on the personal/private issues concerning adults including you and I.
Since you are blaming the individuals then let them decide what they want for themselves. Study bodily autonomy and individual liberty while at it.

Newyorkitis:
In all honesty, you have not been following the trends in US who are the champions of equality and gender rights.... They have tried it (a woman can khill the baby in her because it is her body) and are now regretting it by reversing it.

They are not regretting it because an overwhelming majority of Americans support a woman's right to choose it is a group of religious minority forcing women to carry pregnancy to term that is why they are being rushed to other states where abortions are legal to have it done to them. Nobody especially the women are regretting anything be factual and stop manufacturing opinions from your head. Abortion is still legal in up to 27 states in the United States reversing Roe v Wade did not end abortion but made it a state issue and during the midterms a majority of Americans will vote that they support abortion rights.

Can you remain the same for instance, if your wife out of anger decides to kill your unborn child because she asked you to buy doughnut from work and you forgot before you got home?

There are some laws that are extreme in my opinion.
There must be sanctity of human life, even in nature.

Your scenario does not exist and your point holds no water, and even if it does it remains a womaj's right to choose for herself what she wants. If you cared about sanctity of life support laws that will make pregnancy easy for women, maternal mortality rates to be close to extinction, helping the children off the streets, supporting climate change regulation, keeping your environment clean, supporting scientist in their search for finding life changing cures for diseases etc.
That is the real sanctity of life not monitoring a clump of cells in a woman's body

Benzinoooo:
Don't you also think the baby has a right to live. At least there's a presumption to that effect.

The right of the baby to live should not be substantial or more important than the woman carrying the pregnancy do you get? That is why it is a thing of bodily autonomy and individual liberty.

UpInTheSky:
He doesn't see anything wrong with him not collecting the broom from his mom and doing the sweeping for her
like a trained son ought to do, but somehow his GUEST who lifted her leg to move out of his mom's way is the problem,
simply because she's a female.

The double standard is alarming and quite disgusting.

Gbam

Please define rude here.

She is a guest, is it when a guest is in your house you begin to sweep? As someone pointed earlier why did the well-trained son not collect the broom from the mother why did it have to be the girl a guest for that matter.

asdfjklhaha:
I agree with you. Her behavior is so wrong I can't go at my aunt's place and see her sweeping and cross leg, I will help her out. We girls should stop defending foolishness, that girl is rude.

Ishilove:
Toh. We have been reduced to maids and cooks. Until you have properly engaged me, I remain a guest in your home and as I do not expect a guest to help with house chores unless I specifically request, don't expect me to go to your house and start forming the girl is good. The girl is not a pretender!

Exactly.

BRATISLAVA:
They will come tell you how insecure, weak men exist. Yet dedicate paragraphs to the assumptive castigating of women, all day and night. Because women are the cause of every problem in their lives. Women are the reason they can't keep relationships. Women are the reason they are unfaithful. Women are the reason they can't provide for their families. Women are behind it. Women are scheming.

Women! Oppressors of the saintly men! Men, genteel sheeps to the slaughter! Harmless roses!

Once you see the first conciliatory lines, know that the rest of the write up will be the usual blame throwing garbage. I (don't/won't/will never support/tolerate/side with/stand for) (however/but/when/due to/not as if/excuse)... Paragraphs dedicated to what they supposedly don't support. Oldest technique

What do you expect when broke, gay and misogynist mods and their paid cronies run the place?

But that aside...

@bold, I am laughing so hard

BRATISLAVA:
To be fair, the biggest contribution men bring into any relationship is their organ. Without which their money is insignificant. And that is why they are outraged that women bring theirs along too. Because that is not submissive, to compete organ to organ with them.

So they've added money to the mix, because they tend to have more opportunities to work. That way, they have something women won't have enough of. They fight against women getting that privilege by using the submission line. So that she can never be like them.

Using that submission line, it's a new organ measuring fiesta that they can have more money. If she's submissive, she's going to be like a TV screen that he will control with masochism to never compete with him and cater to his every need while he does nothing. It's what Nigerian men want. If she wants to keep him, she must be submissive (one of the most abused manosphere words). He's never the one to be vested or interested in keeping anything in the relationship. He believes he's some sort of prize, yet wonders why things always go belly up. Money is the prize, but they don't get it.

They believe that they don't need to do anything except have money. One of the most misguided assumptions. A survey of relationships and the reasons they failed will show that men are behind their own agonies in unions most of the time. All they have is money. No character, no love, no compassion, no unity, no selflessness, nothing. Just money (and how to own, control, dominate and subjugate). Money is a disguise for all their failures, refusals and incapability to be better human beings. They hide behind money and cry wolf. They will then heap blames on her, while they are incapable of relationships with anyone but themselves. They would like her to be everything they aren't ever going to be in their relationship.

"I provided everything for her". Yeah, just money. And what is money? Strip them of money and they are nothing.

The funny ones are the types that don't have money, yet suffer from the usual god complex syndrome of being born with a dangly bit between their thighs.

Well, that's rather long . . .

@bold, I could not have said it better you know them well.

benalvino3:
You just admitted a deadline is a ban. In other words if abortion is ban 22weeks, it's a ban to you and you don't want any ban. You are not smart enough to even understand the argument you are putting on.
You said I was busted but you just prove my point that you don't want any ban. So you busted yourself.

I have played videos of you about liberal governors talking about passing a law.

I have posted videos of kids being killed at late stage pregnancy in DC and the authorities are not doing anything about it.

Ask your friends to vote.
U. Are happy funds are being raised for people who want abortion. They have the freedom. Spreading fear that people who go out of state will be criminalize is what you have been doing all along. That's happening only in your head.

Men are now fixing themselves so they don't get someone pregnant. That's taking responsibility. Something they would not do because they can just kill the baby before.

Like many have told you. Chill, drink water, people are still getting their abortion.

Stop playing dumb a ban at 6 weeks is a ban.

Also you did not post any video based on fact supported by any expert what you posted is
nothing more than the daily propaganda you post on this thread.
I support Roe and Casey and with both they had bans and limit but do go on and tell me why you are no different from a clown stop arguing against facts there is nothing like abortions up till birth.

I will stop arguing with you it is a waste of time because you are irredeemable

benalvino3:
It is called a deadline smart lawyer. It means it is not ban before 6 weeks. People trying to get their PVC have a deadline to get it, after which they cannot get it anymore. It does not mean getting PVC was banned. You should think before you reply.

From what you are saying, you are admitting you want abortion up until the time of birth. You are a sick person. I told you earlier, no matter how many weeks or month they fix deadline or they ban abortion, you will still cry. This post I am replying to is you exposing yourself.

The topic is about abortion. We already know the penalty for rape. It seems like you are one with the brain of a jelly fish. If anyone is caught after raping someone, we know what happens. No need for me to mention penalty since it's not the point. I hope they catch the idiot who raped her and I hope her abortion goes well, all the help she can get.

You are talking about abortion up until birth. You just expose yourself.

You asking if I ask the men to be responsible, off course, but it is the duty of a woman to open her legs to a responsible man, it is her duty to make sure she does not get pregnant. Though these days men get pregnant.

Keep quiet it is banned because a little percentage of women know that they are pregnant at 6 weeks put your phone to good use. It is next to a ban.

I am not admitting anything stop being smart by half go back and read what I said, I said that you were busted for lying that abortions up to birth happen and that it is a lie because there is no such thing. I did not advocate for it go back and read what I said and don't play dumb even when Roe and Casey were the law there was nothing like abortion up to birth.

What is the penalty for rape in Ohio? Why don't you go and tell the doctors who attended to her over there what they should have done.

Going by your last sentence you are alluding that it is the duty of the woman to make decisions over her own body and she is making that duty by opting for an abortion so how is that hard for you to comprehend? Since in your small head it falls on a woman then leave the woman to make the decision for herself because you are failing at holding men responsible.
It seems we should start asking for mandatory vasectomies and child support at conception.

Livelystone01:
Who is a woman?

What if the supreme court judgment was given by women, amongst whom are Clarence and Alito?

You know the court did the right thing but you are just hell bent on making the judgment a gender war.

The Republicans can be full of certain off the cliff people, but this your chant about war against women is off it.

Which American legal scholar in his or her right senses will agree with you that the court did the right thing? You did not read the opinions hence why neither did you read the reactions and comments from legal scholars but we should believe your degree and reasoning over theirs.
The right thing for who? states rights that led to the civil war and used to condone racism and slavery abi. Don't worry when they are done criminalising out of state travel for the procedure then the reality will dawn on you and you will want to know about states rights.
What does the question of who a woman is get to play in here?

I would want to believe that you like to be clueless a rape victim being denied care is a war on who? Drugs right? Formulating laws to arrest women who go out of State and want to have an abortion is a war against goats right? Is it not a gender issue affecting women before or do you want to be tone-deaf?
Maybe if you had sat down to read about women's struggles and issues relating to abortions you would not be tone-deaf but call it what it is.
Talking about women's issues is a gender war against who mr man?

benalvino3:
Yes, I know the situation. I have said anyone who is raped should get an abortion. My counter was the lie you told like abortion is completely banned in her state. that's a lie.

people who got rapped should always set their priorities high to know their status if they got pregnant or contracted a disease. I don't know what your issues are with that.

your passion for abortion is making you spread lies and propaganda. I am asking you to be a responsible human. victims of rape are not at fault at all... they too should keep evidence, report to the police, and visit a place where they could get help before they even shower. within 6weeks they could know their stance.

like I said, she choose to get it outside. or maybe she was above the deadline before the law kicks in... either way, she got what she wanted. but don't spread pravda

What does banning abortions at 6 weeks mean is it not a ban? Are you daft or just pretend to be? Where did I even mention that abortion was completely banned you liar? Point it out.

See what an adult with a child's brain is saying @bolded. No mention of penalties for the rapist but wicked admonition on the victim you are crazy did the doctors tell you that they did not do that? You are not a doctor or have any idea but your opinion on the issue is wide and filled with cluelessness.

You are the only one spreading lies and propaganda remember you were busted for lying about abortions up to birth you have no shame when did reporting facts become lies and propaganda? Are you asking the men to be responsible humans are you daft?
Do contraceptives not fail married women who have abortions are irresponsible too right?
Your last sentence shows that you don't read, you did not even read the article but jumped on my mention to show that you are an irritant.

benalvino3:
Yes, I know the situation. I have said anyone who is raped should get an abortion. My counter was the lie you told like abortion is completely banned in her state. that's a lie.

people who got rapped should always set their priorities high to know their status if they got pregnant or contracted a disease. I don't know what your issues are with that.

your passion for abortion is making you spread lies and propaganda. I am asking you to be a responsible human. victims of rape are not at fault at all... they too should keep evidence, report to the police, and visit a place where they could get help before they even shower. within 6weeks they could know their stance.

like I said, she choose to get it outside. or maybe she was above the deadline before the law kicks in... either way, she got what she wanted. but don't spread pravda

Shut up.