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@2pointsonly...am not looking for fixed matches anymore ...thanks though

@Wus..what is your contact?@okey4reel...sorry about your loss..i once bought a phone from someone on NL based on trust and he never sent the phone till date so i promised myself..never to send someone a dime for anything again until i fully investigate that there wont be funny stories at the end

Thanks to you all for contributing..there is this guy that claims to sell fixed matches and i noticed he never put more than 1k at a time for 950 odds so i saved two of the winning tickets he munched and used on his dp,i found out one of the match that was slated for 12am on his page was actually played 8pm...these betting sites don't make mistake of 4hrs difference with time so i straight up knew he edited it and he was still terrible at it

@Snowdiva..i know it isn't real but sometimes you just want someone to prove your hunch wrong..thanks for your contribution...didn't know ladies know some stuff about betting too..nice one

lolz@half bag of beans....the 30k is for upfront payment..the balance of about 150k or thereabout will be paid after the ticket wins...hehehe..why are there so many negative people like me here..positive people with testimonies should come on board please

am not taking it seriously but 30k for something that has no guarantee is a lot of money..just wanna know if anyone has used it and what the success rate is...thanks

more contributors are welcome

i need some people to please help out with this..i see some people promise they have fixed games that cant go wrong for sale..they attach what is supposed to be a pix of their accounts but i have my personal reservation cos anybody can edit anything and post it online.

I Spoke with one of them and he said i would have to subscribe for his games with 30k as a new member..that is a pretty steep amount to just dash out in present day Nigeria.

So my question goes thus; is there anybody in the house that subscribed to any of these guys and the games won once or twice and with proofs?

not trying to spoil business for anybody just trying to protect my own little cash and look out for myself

thanks for the positive comments

Lol@most of d comments but most guys have been victims of this except u wana lie..lotta girls here can't claim being unaware of the stunts females pull on guys now so why y'all acting all surprised?

I met my gf 2 days to her bday and on her bday,we went to one very nice joint and she declined taking anything cos she said her friends had already taken her out before we hung out..I was like 'wow,an average Naija girl turned down a nice meal,this is a keeper' and I've never regretted asking her to be my girl for a minute since we started going out

Have guys noticed you can hardly plan a first date with most naija girls dat does not involve food and buying stuffs? She would shoot all ur nice ideas down until u guys end up in a restaurant..Even if you planned to take her to a restaurant after whatever event you planned,she'd always wana go to d restaurant first and after dat,she has no use for u again dat day

Guys are not stingy or brokeasses but even Bill Gates would be taken aback by some ladies attitude

Pple are funny oh..now it's dat they've dated for just 5 months but a girl can ask a guy for a loan 1 month into d r/ship once they start having sex..ladies travel to different cities to meet guys they just met without the fear he'd use them for ritual(dat's equally trust)

On the auto section,pple buy cars worth millions of naira frm Inspired and they've never met..just phone calls and he gives his words he'd deliver and pple take that but when it comes to someone you love,it's different rules..

I have personally done business with someone in Delta state worth over #2m and this guy has just my phone number and bank details..he personally told me his best friend scammed him of #8m but he still trusted me enough to send his money and that I'd send the goods he paid for..there are still people in Naija whose words is their bond and it means so much to them than even a signed IOU

I think they are in a toxic relationship and if I were d guy,I'd sign the IOU if I needed d money badly but after that,every dime she asks for would need to be signed for

Personally I'd be angry..I once needed a quick loan to pay my sister's fees and I called my ex(we were still friends) and told her abt my situation..she had some funds in Fixed deposit which she liquidated(she only told me after she had sent me the funds) and it was 250k..she didn't ask for agreement not to talk of collateral only when I'd pay back and I paid back before d due date..Now if an ex could take my words,hw much more my current gf..then at a time,my gf needed 450k to sort her accomodation issue out and she asked me to loan her(she felt I had but I had put money in some tinz which were yet to return d funds),how would d ladies here feel if you were my gf and I asked you to sign an agreement and even with Collateral b4 I gave u the funds? I helped her with what I had which was close to half d amount and she sourced d difference frm elsewhere

I won't break up with her and I'll sign d agreement but every dime she borrows from me from then on comes with an agreement and collateral..what is good for d goose is good for d gander

thanks to Obiowe and Toyin.08..you guys rock..i am 28yrs old..i visited the turkiyeburslari site you gave me and i saw lots of age restrictions there...please other contributors are welcome as i am open to more suggestions

please i would need advice on professional courses one could undertake to be relevant and fit in as a school certificate holder...had to drop out of school in my part 1 cos my dad passed away around that period and i had to take on d responsibility of fending for my mom and 4 siblings so i haven't had the opportunity of going back to school since then...i am contemplating going back to school part-time but that is not what this thread is about,i need advice from seasoned professionals here on how i can stay relevant and have some sought after certifications in case i choose to want to work in an establishment in the nearest future

thanks for your contributions in advance

please i would need advice on professional courses one could undertake to be relevant and fit in as a school certificate holder...had to drop out of school in my part 1 cos my dad passed away around that period and i had to take on d responsibility of fending for my mom and 4 siblings so i haven't had the opportunity of going back to school since then...i am contemplating going back to school part-time but that is not what this thread is about,i need advice from seasoned professionals here on how i can stay relevant and have some sought after certifications in case i choose to want to work in an establishment in the nearest future

thanks for your contributions in advance

Anyone??

Pls does any agent have shops to let @ Computer Village or around Ikeja Axis preferrably Awolowo way?

Drop your email address and phone number for easy contact..
Thanks

Is there an option of spreading the payments over a period of time like most companies do nowaday?

English funny oh..sometimes I just think funny tinz in my head and I know some people do too
E.g..singular and plural
Eye..eyes,ear...ears,hand...hands.
Why is foot not foots and tooth...tooths
Feel free to add ur's..the right word and what u feel it should have been...thanks

Na wah oh Nairalanders.Una don hijack the thread turn am something else though I had a good laugh from Idowuogbo and baby_mama(Levels) going at each other.Embrace and break bread and move on pls

Naija..I wonder what happened to our Mentality.some wives don't contribute anytin to their marriage and some take from their husbands to give to some younger boys outside that smacks them anyhow.so there's no guarantee with even ur wife.this girl motivates me and challenges me.if we break up right now,I don't regret doing anytin for her and av never regretted doing anytin in any of my past r/ships.

I don't have to defend why I gave her those tinz.I could afford them and am a maga like some of u said so bite me.As for not getting anytin,there's nothing she's gona give me for now I can't afford(Maybe a Big House) and moreover she just got a new job and yet to get her first salary

I don't know if this thread had been created before but I feel we could all have fun.Even those that didn't give anything can still comment.
As for me,I gave my girl a new phone(I do this every year though) and a New tablet(new addition) and this is what I got" woah Boo..all these for me!!God bless you and a long kiss on my lips"
Shuo!!! This girl don brag that she was saving up to get me something nice for xmas as this was our 2nd year together and she wanted to surprise me.

@Koolking..you are so spot on with ur analysis.r/ships aint what they were meant to be anymore.a new female friend just buzzed me out of the blues and asked that "I raise her" and I told her I was equally broke.2 days later,I saw "loving my new Iphone5"on her status.WTF me wey u dey tax self no get Iphone charger.there are still ladies out there that love unconditionally sha.I found one

"I am bad for you" isn't written on any girl's head.No matter your intentions and how you go about it,u almost always get the same result.Some even feel you owe them an obligation by talking to you.you meet a new girl and exchange BB pin or number and before you say what's up,she don begin bill you.Some of the working class ladies are not different and as for undergraduates,na die you dey.there are still ladies with pride and dignity out there but Bros,dem scarce and are getting fewer by the day.Looks like they are read the same manual these days"how to bill boys 101"

Ok Give and take..what of in a situation where d guy has never asked to have sex with the girl,won't ask to have sex..what is the girl giving in return? Even in sexual ecncounters too,it's still give and take too..been in situations where I didn't wana have sex and the girls almost raped me..maybe I should make monetary demands for that too afterall we both got genitals.One is just a pole and the other a hole

I just saw someone post dis on her BBM dis morning"if your boyfriend tells you to call your Dad whenever you ask him for money,tell him to call his mum when he's Hot Shikenna".this is d most stupid comparism I've seen in a while..are guys now dating Lovepeddlers and are babes dating a bank Vault? I've seen situations where a lady asks for money,the guy didn't give and she threw a tantrum and didn't speak to him for days.same lady will not disown her parents for not meeting her financial needs but a guy must cater to all her whims and caprices because he's unfortunate enough to be in a r/ship with her!! Those that give sex and expect u to meet their every need don't even have any justification.the ones wey dey pain me pass are those that don't offer any damn thing and still expect you owe her a big obligation.
Am not tryna bash females here but I just found this appalling.

no cheating

joangirl...you are one hell of a funny girl.i guess you talking from experience..so cos we've been together for that long,then she must have done series of abortions for me and in the 7 years we've been together,i didn't commit myself to the relationship and my time was not put into it too? i wonder how some of you reason..thanks all for the great advises..am definitively better than i felt before

thanks all for your detailed responses..Amya was spot on with some of the things she said..a happy and successful marriage goes beyond being in love

i sat the first girl down a while back and asked if she was consciously aware i get tired of seeing her after some few days that i want her to leave and she replied yes.she said she had weighed it in her mind seriously and concluded that if we get married,she would live in a different city and i in a different city and we'll keep visiting eachother.

married couples are supposed to stay together especially newly weds and not apart so you dont leave a gaping wall for lizards to crawl in.that she loves me so much is not in doubt but i feel she deserves more than she's asking for and more than i would give her.she is my best friend an it would kill me to see her suffer especially if i am the cause of the suffering and pain after marriage.

i have weighed a lot of things in my mind and i know am more connected to the 2nd girl than i am with the first but i think right now,i need to stop seeing this from just my point of view.i need to seek God and that is what am doing right now.i put both of them in my prayers everyday.
thanks baldman and LadyTC as i got a lot of inspiration from you guys.like you said,i am from a Good christian home but i have neglected a lot of Godly things for some time now so i might not be able to hear him.this was the same thing a close female friend of mine told me yesterday but am finding my way back to him and i have a conviction within me,everything is gona be alright.

for those that want to be judgmental,please feel free to be..i have read on nairaland severally where a lady writes of a guy jilting her after all she's done for him and i felt such guys were mean and douche-bags

luvmijeje...from your attack,seems you've been in same shoes before..let me clarify some few things
people get married and divorce..can you seriously tell me that they were never in love? people love and fallout of love..it's a reality in life everyone has to deal with
i didn't originally set out to go meet her folks,i went for her elder's brother wedding cos she wouldn't have forgiven me if i didn't and that was when i met her people and they kept asking when am coming for introduction..don't know what came over me and i said December.i originally didn't go there with a date in mind.

it's not like i didn't contribute anything to the relationship too like some of you make it seem..we are both hurting right now cos i didn't believe i could ever give settling down with her a second thought

please note that if i had all the answers,i wouldn't be here on nairaland writing this for everybody to read and judge me.my conscience is slowly killing me and driving me insane

luvmijeje...where did you see from my narration that am now better?(she is successful in her own right and from a wealthy family.the type some guys would want to hang on to if not for love,but for the money) i guess you concluded within you maybe cos you had seen such things before..did you see where i said i cant really tell how i fell out of love with her?
good things happen to bad people and bad things happen to good people..people get married and divorce for reasons best known to them

thanks all for the advice...LadyTC,olamideAyodeji,tpacalipse...thanks a bunch
i don't have a problem with the other girl other than what the pastor said in church..i've been praying over it too..i know marriage is a union you end up in for the rest of your life and i dont wana make the first girl miserable thereby making myself miserable in the process which would eventually affect our kids.i've told the first girl i cant continue with the relationship and it's not been easy for both of us.i dont wana marry out of pity but i have conscience too..she stuck with me through thick and thin and made too much sacrifice for me..how i stopped loving her like i used to,i don't know.

please i would appreciate advice form people that heard one or two negative prophecy about their union.how they were able to turn it around and carry their family along into accepting their their partner..thanks once again y'all

i have always been in control of things and never thought i could ever find myself in the situation am in right now.

i have been dating a girl for over 7years now and in between,we've had our share of good times and bad times over the course of the relationship.the relationship became stronger over the last 4 years as that was when i got serious with her since i had finished school.i have this problem of not being able to stay with her for more than 4 days when ever she comes visiting cos we live in separate states( i would always find a reason to pick up quarrels with her)even when i don't intentionally set out to cos i feel she's choking me and i need my space.she's the most loving,forgiving and generous person i have ever known

i decided to try out another relationship with somebody else to see if i would feel the same way about them(not being able to stand them for more than some couple of days).i met this very gorgeous girl and i initially didn't want it to be something serious,but along the line,i fell so in love with her.(i still felt she was encroaching in my space and needed space when she's with me but she very lively and playful that she just turn our quarrels into plays and douse the situation before it starts)

the first girl has made a lot of sacrifice for me and am highly indebted to her.despite the fact that i don't feel strongly about her like i feel about the second girl,i just feel like i owe her a lot and i could start loving her back the way i used to.the first girl is well known by my family and everyone around me but am not well known to her folks until when i went for her elder brother's marriage some months ago. i was asked when am gona make the relationship official and i said December(that was a grave mistake i made as i was given a list).Last month,i started developing cold feet and i told my girl i don't think i wana come for the introduction again.she was devastated to say the least.she is Igbo and am Yoruba and she had to fight for me and she stood her ground just for her people to accept that she marries a yoruba guy(now it's like i have disgraced her and ridiculed her before her family).

i told my mom about the 2 of them and how i feel about both of them so she asked i send their names to her so she could pray over it which i did.the amazing thing now is i got a call from my mom that i should leave both of them as they are not my wife,that God has provided someone for me and i'll meet the person soon.my mum being very spiritual has said she's not gona have anything to do with any of them(after i called off the introduction with the first girl,she called my mum and she was crying.my mum told her not to worry that she would talk to me.my mum called me thereafter and told me we would go do the introduction on 27th of December even if it's against my wish).the first girl is known and loved by my mom that she calls her often to pray for her before now.

both ladies are one of the best lady any man could ever meet but they are very different in their own ways..one is taciturn and the other is Sanguine

i have had sleepless nights and day since she told me last week.i have only loved these 2 ladies my whole adult life

Now my confusion is do i break up with both of them and wait" for the lady God has provided for me" or just stick to the first girl and ride it out with her since she stuck to me too when her folks were against it and damn whatever the pastor has seen?
pls i want reasonable contribution from people who have been in situations like this before
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please note that am from a close knit family as am like the father of the house now since my dad is late.