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Tashi Ankali... the same maraba rido my friend stays and she gave birth to two kids in an interval of three Years

cococandy:
choi.

All to seem serious?

Just imagine... i am really not happy and my hubby have warned me against hitting her. I just feel like slapping her every secound

moca:
And she believed that?

I dont either. My husband called him this evening but he claimed he is moving to another country soon and he is coming to pick his wife. Even claiming legal action if the baby is aborted

Kimoni:
@ the bolded- Who is the she you are referring to here? Your sister or the South African lady?

My sister

moca
post=30853305:
Most mistakes our gal make with this oyinbo marriage
eeh,will I call it desperation?
Sharp sharp,she done get belle.
Oga o.
Welcome to second wife's club and lonely days and nights in nigeria.

If an away guy wee wan marry u is desperate to give u bellee b4 he goes
back,ehn ehn,think twice o.
There r many deserted at home already.
Be wise and secure ur future.
Unless u r among those obodo oyibo dey spin their head.
Half of my class gals that married away guys, people I know r in
nigeria. When u see them, enuf excuses for their staying back home for
the meantime.

My love never blind reach to marry an away guy that I didn't scrutinize
very well.
I don't want story that touch the heart abeg.


Contact guys u know in SA to investigate what the relationship is all
about.

she asked from three people, one is even her friend in school and they told her its a contract wedding.

[quote
author=thorpido post=30853156]Orisirisi.
Your sister's fiance is playing a dirty game.He's doing what he's doing
because he wants a SA passport but is your sister ready for this kind of
arrangement?She's pregnant for him already too.
Except your sister doesn't have anyone else she can marry,I don't know
what she will still be doing with him.[/quote]Hmmmm, my concern is not him, how i wish she is not pregnant

[quote
author=FOREXMARTS post=30855083]Am sorry oh my dear, most of my comments are blunt and direct but I must
tell u the hard truth.
1. Your sister had to find out through the Facebook tagging meaning he
never wanted her to know (Nigerian wife proof number 1).
2 The fact that he didn't tell her about the plan means he had no
respect whatsoever for her talk less of love (side chick proof).
3 He said he wants to use the SA girl to get something, that something
no get name? (permanent VISA hunting proof)
4 Why does he want a permanent visa? So he won't return unless maybe
when him mama kaput(runaway nyugguh proof).
5 Is ur sister his wife? (ur guess is as good as mine proof). She's a
Patsy.

#SINGING "TOO LATE TO MAKE A CHANGE" by Journey. Don't worry if u no be
old school like me you won't know the song.

Last bullet: If it's the SA girl that's pregnant then it's not too late
for ur sister to press ctrl +z . (this my mischievous attitude is
killing me). You get my point tho.[/quote]its my sister that is pregnant. i appreciate your blunt advice

Thank you op for creating a thread like. My younger sister is my major concern for now, someone may say this is a thread for personal issue, but since she is not an active member on nairaland i had to write on her behalf.
Her fiance happen to be in southAfrica and he came in november last year. They did their introduction that same month and the wedding is to take place in july.
The bone of contention is a lady tagged him on facebook that both of them are engaged and from her name she is a southAfrican lady. my sister confronted him and he agreed he knows the lady but want to use her to get something but they are not married. my younger sister and i that know about this and to make matter worse she is already pregnant for him. Hope he is making her his Nigeria wife?

This thread should be moved to the appropriate section and that is the joke section. Any style my husband and i am comfortable with it i give it to him.
Abeg i no fit start couselling sections because of things i have control over

Number 4 is so on point. They will pretend to win their inlaws over and later start crying wolves. I travelled to my husband town for christmas &newyear, and his cousin's wife came too. We are almost age mates and as soon as she came she saw them pounding yam (trust Ondo people) and she went to join them.
The next day as soon as they drop the yam, they started calling her to come and pound the yam with them and she was just grumbling that it was too much of familarity that caused this rubbish.

The weather here in kaduna is just something else. Haba ka man han tura sainyi. Anyways, my weapon of mass destructions i bought during the heat period for this cold is shielding me thus far.

Igala's are fetish. Abeg which tribe no get fetish people
Igala's are the same as hausa.

On friday my very good friend and sister had a still birth, she said this particular words the op wrote here and she burst into tears. No name for a woman that lost a child, only husband and parents. May God comfort anyone that has ever lost a child, its sad

Oro nla.... poison in vagina? The heart of man is desperately wicked.

Allah ya jin karashi. Allah ya sa ya huta

The one i hate most
you: Good morning
Response: Ehen

Take heart madam
Be strong for the kids

The woman is a fool for telling her mother inlaw how much her husband gives her for upkeep of the house, and now she is complaining that mama said its too much. All this kind women that tries to please mil with all they have at the expense of their happiness, i hail una.
In as much as i respect, value and love my mil, i give her things at will and not because she ask me too, i will not tolerate any act of coveteousness around me.

my children, they are the reason i am working so hard.

The truth of the matter is no matter how you try to talk them into giving birth to fewer kids, they wont listen.
There is this Idoma woman i know that hawks around but have seven kids as at the last time i saw her. Every season you see her hawking a particular fruits, you see her with a new pregnancy.
As at when she had the 5th pregnancy, i tried talking to her on the use of family planning. And her complain was Aleku will catch her if she tries to do that. My response was Aleku will catch you for protecting yourself and giving you the chance to take good care of your kids, but Aleku wont tame your husband pe.nis.
Women always at the recieving end of culture.

[quote
author=EfemenaXY post=28439802]Lol!

Preach it sister!

It amuses me no end when this mentality is notched up higher. Getting
married on credit. Begging / demanding the cake baker to make theirs on
credit. One got told that she was an enemy of progress for refusing to
"help". The soft-hearted lady bowed to the bride's demands.

Fast forward to many months later and she's still chasing them up for
her payment. Oh...and she's now the evil one for wanting her
money.[/quote]Any money you can't let go, dont lend. My husband and i policy since April and its really working for us.

@Titigold, is it your friend that wants to know or you are that your friend?
Anyways, please dont start taking something that tomorrow the lover boy you are taking the lime for wont be there and one innocent brother will be in trouble.

Toluwanimi
Enioluwa
Banjo
inioluwa
oyindamola
Bolu
Sunkami

some of the ladies that change their sim were not told by their husband to do that. Their ways are not pure while others were avioding blackmail.

krall:
I have channel the money to somewhere else.
I have no where to go. I can't be paying over 15,000 everynight for 1 month.

Since you have channel the money to something else then endure whatever you see there.

They even type the list. This is a serious bussiness. The lady should help him talk to her people but i doubt if much will be remove from the list

EfemenaXY:
Every man should learn how to cook. We aren't in the Dark Ages.

No one said he shouldn't know how to cook, we are talking about him making a list of what the wife should buy from the market. In other words he is saying he married a zombie

[quote
author=eleojo23 post=27750347]Rather than writing the list, I suggest
he estimate how much the items needed would cost and then give the money
accordingly. And writing the list doesn't always mean that he's stingy.
Some men are very much involved in household/kitchen
'business'.[/quote]Very much involve in kitchen bussiness abi? He should be prepared to cook the food he bought.

Laziness is an understatement to use in describing me. Infact few months before we got married, i made sure he bought the washing machine first.
When my mil came visiting, she told me one day jokingly that haba my daughter dont get so much used to this, and i should pls not use it to wash her cloth. I replied her jokingly, mum i will call one woman to come and doing the washing for you. Alapa ma shi she na him i be o

cancerlib
post=27440558:
Is it normal for family to inquire about d sex of an
unborn baby and is it ok to tell them?
We r nigerians afterall,lol.
My MIL wants to know, this is my first child and i really want to know
if its ok to tell.
TIA

It is not normal for them to ask. For me no one (except my husband) knew i was pregnant untill when i was 4 months pregnant. I no tell you when i get belly na d sex i go come tell u.

I must admit this letter written by Sheik is touching, factual and HE SPOKE THE TRUTH. But, it is rather too late. He has gone too far the road to pull back now. This is not just about GMB. IT IS ABOUT HIS FOLLOWERS

Fxwarrior:
Do you think he intended to kill her? He needs Jesus.

Indeed. What did he expect when beating a pregnant woman? he either wants to kill her or the unborn which in either case is still murder.
He sure needs Jesus, he will have an encounter with Him in prison.