Spark2:
Good day NL.
A friend of mine borrowed my car few days ago to help ease movement for him. I happily gave him the car because I understood the need he had.

For precautionary reasons, I don't let my fuel get below quarter tank. Each time it gets there, i ensure I top it up.

When I gave this guy my key, I told him clearly to ensure he adds enough fuel as he's leaving my place and not to allow the fuel guage gets below quarter.

My car spent some days with him. he brought back the car and complained that my car has stopped on the way several times and each time it stops, he'd have to buy a little fuel and add before it moves.

Second, he brought back the car with scratches on my front bumper. I learned from someone that he had moved on terrible roads with the car. I was told he went to places that other people had parked because their vehicles can't enter.

I asked how much fuel he bought and he told me he bought a few litres of fuel. This got me furious because this is a journey that if I am to go, I'd have to buy over 40L of fuel.

Third, he brought it back with a faulty fuel gauge, my fuel gauge has never been faulty since I bought my car. It was not possible for me to know the fuel level at the time he returned the car.

I had to go fix my car because I had a need to go somewhere with it. My mechanic opened to tank to check why the car was stopping as well as the fuel gauge. To my surprise, my tank was terribly empty. It was dry.

I had to buy so much fuel as well as fix the fuse of the fuel gauge. As for the scratches, I will have to leave them like that. The funny thing is that my friend cannot even tell me he is sorry.

I have resolved in my mind, I WILL NEVER GIVE ANYBODY MY CAR AGAIN. NO.
ITS ONLY ME THAT CAN TAKE CARE OF MY CAR. I AM THE ONE MAINTAINING IT AND I KNOW EHERE IT PAINS.

what do you think about this?
Do you give out your car to your friends to use especially in this hard economy where fuel, maintenance and cost of parts are on the high side.

The only thing that i consider slightly equivalent to lending someone your only car is 'lending him your well-behaved wife". If the wife is troublesome, a good car is obviously much more valuable. It seems to me that the guy in question deserves that level of sacrifice from you maybe because of sacrifices he has made for to in the time past. Just swallow and move on.

Slytiger:

He was a member of PDP. PDP just like APC are mostly thieves. And why did he not hold local government elections for 8 years during his tenure?

Reading some posts like this on NL as a response to serious issues raised by a countryman in quest for a better country confirms that most Nigerians are shallow thinkers and really deserve Nigeria.

Afodot0022:
Good day nairalanders, top of the day to you all.

This topic is basically for the divorce men out there that are out of their marriage and living separately from their Ex wife and kids.

Attimes divorce can be a very devastating experience that the pains felt don't go easily especially if you are a responsible man that put in your best effort in the marriage to make things work but eventually went south.

It's even more heartbreaking if you caught your ex wife cheating and having extra marital affairs when you know as a man you don't deserve such betrayal, it could easily break you as a man.

Now my bone of contention is, divorce men out there, how do you deal with the fact that you are obligated to pay child support and care and also foot school fees and medical of the kids that came out of the union despite the family being broken.

How do you cope with this when the custody of the kids are with your ex wife and knowing she was the one that betrayed you in the marriage by cheating on you, will you be comfortable still sending her money for your kids upkeep and also paying their school despite the fact they don't live under your roof.

How do you men deal with this cos attimes, it can be so discouraging knowing fully well what led to the union breakup. Presently am separated from my ex wife on the count of infidelity, my two kids have been with her ever since and attimes anytime I think about the hurt and betrayal, I will want to end any sort of provision for the kids but because am a very responsible man that wants the best for my kids, it's difficult to just look away.

Attimes my thoughts could be like in as much the kids are staying with her, I am on the loosing side and my effort providing for the kids outside my jurisdiction might look like a wasted efforts being that the kids are with her 247 and she can easily still the glory by making the kids believe she is the one doing the provision.

Pls divorce and separated men, how do you go through this turmoil and ways to navigate through to be sure you are on the right track.

The mistake you made was letting her walk away with your children. The custody is yours by default: a cheating wife is not worthy of raising a child especially the girl child, that is, if you have a concrete proof of her infidelity. You had an advantage but never capitalized on that. Seek redress legally and present the evidence to the judges and have the custody awarded to you (if you can foot the bill).

pocohantas:
When we tell you to fight for your marriages, you won't listen. A man that is not ready to endure has no business getting married. Go learn from your fathers how to endure. That is why marriages of old lasted.

This old hag does not disappoint. A harlot-wife cheated, was caught and divorced. All you can recommend is for the man to fight for his marriage, one to a gutter-bred prostitute. If the man was caught, you frustrated ladies will encourage his wife to file for divorce, but do a 360 to advise the man to fight for his marriage when your gender cheats. This evil solidarity confirms that all of you are practicing the same trade.

Jcoleworld911:



I don’t think you read the post before commenting, Soludo is doing wonderfully well in Anambra state so sh*t up if you don’t know what to say

Doing wonderfully well in which sectors? Please can you list his achievements other than jumping from community to community commissioning projects funded and executed by citizens of the state.

Jennyclay:
As matter of fact 95% of women want to leave their marriages.
Things are really happening in marriage/relationships that i just don’t want to say it out. What Nigerian men are using our eyes to see. eh! hmmmm!

All what men want is sex!! After sex, they treat you like trash! Some men would even rape their wife and tell her to her face that there’s nothing like rape in marriage.

The honest truth is, there’s nothing a man can bring to my life that I can’t get myself. I enjoy my own company and I don’t feel the need or want to get married. I don’t think it will add anything to my life at all.

I got out of two long term back-to-back abusive relationships in 2020 and have pretty much sworn off men. I don’t need a man to make me happy and I will continue to hate men!

Ok. Try loving women, that is, if you have not yet started

IamaNigerianGuy:


As usual you write like a fool. A demented religious fool. Israel is the capital of money laundering and organ and child trafficking in the middle east but you cannot see that.

Oga, go and kill yourself.

Laple0541:


And did you think it’s possible to exterminate them? The numbers outside those concentrations are as much as those in those places. So that insinuation will never be possible.

Even if Israel kills everyone in the region, the people will still resurface and fight back some year to come. You can only kill an individual but you can’t kill an ideology.

It is possible to wipe them off. What then is the use of "weapons of mass destruction"? Enter Israel's firing line and be sorry

Killbill09:
It's the opposite. As each day passes, Israel is losing soldiers and equipments in Gaza to freedom fighters wielding Iranian weapons. Not to mention their damaged reputation, which is going to be their outlook forever.

Israel has lost over 600 soldiers, including top officers in Gaza (since October 7th), without rescuing a single hostage but killed three with their own hands.

Now, what do you call that?!!

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My take? Israel is in desperation at the moment, they are feeling the hit, Iran should expect some dangerous moves and be ready to respond in kind using the long game (which is working perfectly). Its the only option, Iran can't face Israel toe-to-toe.

Cry me a river. No peace for terrorists and their sympathizers.

yarimo:
After defrauding diamond bank as MD, Alex otti is out to defraud ABIA STATE.

Grow brains. This is 2024 for Christ's sake

Emu4life:

The problem is Obi was a Governor for 8 years with no tangible achievement. These are things that matter to neutralists who also make a sizeable portion of Voters..

Neither of them is convincing enough. It's saddening to think APC would be holding power beyond 2027.

Read Obi's Achievements here:

*PETER OBI RELEASES HIS FULL PROFILE AS MORE NIGERIANS PREVAIL ON HIM TO RUN FOR PRESIDENCY*

NAME : Mr. Peter Gregory OBI, (CON).

CONTACT DETAILS

*22 Niger Drive, GRA, Onitsha, Anambra State, Nigeria
*Tel: 08034051000
*E-mail: poanambra@gmail.com

DATE OF BIRTH : 19th July 1961,

PLACE OF BIRTH: Onitsha, Nigeria

NATIONALITY: Nigerian

MARITAL STATUS: Married with two children

EDUCATIONAL INSTITUTIONS ATTENDED

· Christ the King College, Onitsha (W.A.S.C.)

. University of Nigeria, Nsukka (B.A. Philosophy)

· Lagos Business School, Nigeria (Chief Executive Program)

· Harvard Business School, Boston, U.S.A. (Mid to Mid Marketing)

· Harvard Business School, Boston, U.S.A. (Changing the Game)

· London School of Economics (Financial Mgmt/Business Policy)

· Columbia Business School, New York, U.S.A. (Marketing Mgmt )

· Institute for Management Development, Switzerland (Senior Executive Program)

· Institute for Management Development, Switzerland (Break-Through Program for CEOs)

· Kellogg Graduate School of Management, U.S.A. (Advanced Executive Program)

· Kellogg School of Management U.S.A. (Global Advanced Mgmt Program)

. Oxford University: Said Business School, (Advanced Mgmt& Leadership Program)

. Cambridge University: George Business School (Advanced Leadership Program)

PREVIOUS POSITIONS

· Governor, Anambra State of Nigeria (2006-2014)

· Honorary Special Adviser to the President on Finance (till May, 2015)

· Member, Presidential Economic Management Team (till May, 2015)

· Vice-Chairman, Nigeria Governors’ Forum (2008-2014)

· Chairman, South-East Governors’ Forum (2006-2014)

. Former Chairman: Board of Securities and Exchange Commission (SEC)

· Former Chairman: Fidelity Bank Plc.

· Former Chairman: Guardian Express Mortgage Bank, Ltd.

· Former Chairman: Future Views Securities, Ltd.

· Former Chairman: Paymaster Nigeria Plc.

· Former Chairman: Next International (Nigeria) Ltd

· Former Director: Guardian Express Bank Plc.

· Former Director: Chams Nigeria Plc.

· Former Director: Emerging Capital Ltd

· Former Director: Card Centre Plc

MEMBERSHIP OF PROFESSIONAL ASSOCIATIONS/ORGANIZATIONS

· Member, Nigerian Economic Summit Group (NESG)

· Member, Nigerian Chartered Institute of Bankers

· Member, British Institute of Directors (IOD)

MEMBERSHIP OF FEDERAL GOVERNMENT COMMITTEES

In my capacity as the Governor of Anambra State, I served as a member of:

*Federal Government Committee on Minimum Wage

*Federal Government Committee on Negotiation with Labour on Subsidy

*Federal Government Committee on Mass Transit

*Federal Government Committee on Natural Resource

*National Economic Council Committee on Power Sector Reform

*National Economic Council Committee on Sharing of MDGs Funds

*National Economic Council Committee on Accurate Data on Nigeria’s Oil Import and Export

*Agricultural Transformation Implementation Council

*Sub-Committee on Needs Analysis of Public Universities in Nigeria

*National Economic Council Review Committee on the Power Sector

AWARDS & RECOGNITIONS

2015: Golden Jubilee Award from Catholic Diocese of Onitsha for outstanding contribution to quality healthcare delivery in St. Charles Borromeo Hospital in particular and Anambra State in general, on the occasion of the Golden Jubilee celebration of the hospital.

*2014: Nigerian Library Association Golden Merit Award for remarkable improvement of libraries in Anambra State, exemplified by our Government's construction of the Kenneth Dike Digital State Library, remarkable upgrade of the Onitsha Divisional Library, and provision of library facilities in secondary schools across the State.

*2014: Champion Newspaper Most Outstanding Igbo Man of the Decade.

* 2014 The Voice Newspaper (Holand) Achievers Award for Outstanding Example in Leadership and Governance.

*2013: Silver Bird Man of the Year (with Governor BabatundeFashola of Lagos State).

*2012: Business Hallmark Newspaper Man of the Year.

*2012: The Golden Award on Prudence – by the Methodist Church of Nigeria as the Most
Financially Prudent Governor in Nigeria.

* 2012: Leadership and Good Governance Award by The Ezeife Leadership Foundation Award for restoring peace and harmony to Anambra State.

* 2012: Best Performing Governor on Immunization in South-East Nigeria – by Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation.

* 2012: Outstanding Financial Planner and Manager – by the Church of Nigeria, Anglican Communion for my resourcefulness and creativity in governance.

*2011: Zik Leadership Prize.

*2010: ICT Governor of the Year – by the West Africa ICT Development Award.

*2009: Champion Newspaper Nigeria’s Most Trustworthy Governor Award.

*2009: Thisday Newspaper Most Prudent Governor in Nigeria.

*2007: The Sun Newspaper Man of the Year Award.

**The Nigerian MDGs Office/UNDP Best Governor in the Implementation of the MDGs in Nigeria

INTRODUCTION OF CONSTITUTIONAL AND OTHER MAJOR CHANGES IN NIGERIAN POLITICS

*He was the first gubernatorial candidate in Nigeria to legally challenge to its logical conclusion, his governorship electoral victory that was denied him. He won in the Courts and reclaimed his mandate.

*He was the first Governor in Nigeria to legally challenge his wrongful impeachment and was reinstated by the Courts.

*He was the first Governor in Nigeria to seek the interpretation of tenures of Governors when INEC allowed elections to take place in Anambra State when his tenure had not expired; the election already concluded was cancelled and he was allowed to complete his tenure.

*He was the first Governor to serve a 2nd term in both the new and old Anambra State, that is, almost 40 years after creation of the State.

*He was the first Governor, whilst still in Office, to be appointed a Special Adviser to the President.

*He was the first serving Governor to be appointed into the Presidential Economic Management Team.

*He was among the first Governors to be honoured with a National Award in 2011, while still in office.

*Though the only Governor whose political party was in government in only one State, he was elected Vice-Chairman of the Nigeria Governors’ Forum twice.

*Though the only non-PDP Governor in the South-East (made up of 5 States), he was elected by the other 4 PDP Governors as their Chairman for 8 years rather than the usual one year.

FUNDAMENTAL ACHIEVEMENTS AS GOVERNOR OF ANAMBRA STATE (PARTIAL LISTING)

1. Anambra was the first State to commence Sub-Sovereign Wealth savings, the first of its kind in Sub-Saharan Africa. At a time many other Governors were leaving huge debts, I left the equivalent of $500 million Dollars in investment as well as local and foreign currency, including $156 million in Dollar-denominated bonds.

2. For the first time in the history of Anambra State, Ambassadors and High Commissioners of notable countries such as United Stated, Britain, Russia, European Union, South Africa, Belgium, Israel, the Netherlands, Canada, among others, visited the State. Before my tenure, Anambra was practically a pariah state blacklisted by the Diplomatic Corps and international development partners.

3. Development partners such as UNDP, UNICEF, the World Bank, DFID, the European Union etc., which hitherto were not in Anambra State started working with the State. Anambra was consistently adjudged one of the best states in development partnership and commitment to reforms for good governance.

4. He was recognised as Best Governor by the Millennium Development Goals Office (OSSAP-MDGs) and the UNDP in the implementation of their programmes in Nigeria.

5. The Nigerian Debt Management Office (DMO) rated Anambra as the least indebted state in Nigeria. In spite of visible and measurable achievements recorded in various sectors, the State under him did not borrow or raise bonds for her various projects.

6. The Senate of the Federal Republic of Nigeria rated Anambra State as the most financially stable state in the country.

7. The State's ground-breaking return of schools to their original owners - Voluntary Agencies (Churches) on 1st January 2009, and subsequent partnership with the Agencies in Education, saw the State move from 24th position out of 36 States to Number One in National Examination Council (NECO) and West African Examination Council (WAEC) examinations for three consecutive years. This made the World Bank to commission a study, led by the renowned Prof. Paul Collier of Oxford University, on this revolutionary partnership and phenomenal achievement.

8. The State also entered into strategic partnership with the Churches in the Health sector. This symbiotic relationship resulted in a tremendous boost to health care because of the services offered by health institutions owned by Voluntary Agencies, while the State restored grants to the agencies and made available to them more than 50 million Dollars in various types of support.

10. Through partnership with the Church in the Health sector, his Government funded the transformation of -:

a: Iyienu Hospital, Ogidi;
b: Our Lady of Lourdes Hospital, Ihiala;
c: St Charles Borromeo Hospital, Onitsha;
d: Holy Rosary Hospital, Waterside, Onitsha; and
e: St. Joseph Hospital, Adazi-Nnukwu.
His Government also built the Joseph Nwilo Heart Centre in St. Joseph, Adazi-Nnukwu, where heart operations are now being performed.

11. His Government won the Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation (1 Million dollars) as the best-performing state in immunisation in the South-East. With complementary funding from our Government, they used the money to build 10 Maternal and Child Care Centres across the State, particularly in rural communities, in partnership with the Churches.

12. The State was the first to procure and distribute more than 30,000 computers to secondary schools, including 22,500 from HP. The Managing Director for Personal Systems Group HP Inc, Mr. FabriceCampoy described the deployment as the biggest of such projects in the Middle-East and Africa.

13. Anambra State Government provided Microsoft Academies to more than 500 secondary schools, which the Head of Microsoft in Nigeria (Mr. Ken Span) described as the biggest such deployment in Africa so far.

14. The State provided Internet access to more than 500 secondary schools, which the CEO of Galaxy Backbone (Mr. Gerald Ilukwe) characterized as incomparable to any in the country.

15. More than 700 buses were provided to secondary schools in the State by our Government.

16. Boreholes were provided in schools all over the State.

17. Numerous classrooms were built in all the 177 communities of the State.

18 As part of the efforts to turn around the economy of the State, a number of companies were attracted to build their facilities in the Anambra State. A case in point is SABMiller, the 2nd largest brewery in the world, which built their first Green Field facility in the State, which is today one of the most successful facilities they operate globally.

19. A number of other companies followed the SABMiller initiative and were all supported and encouraged under our Government; a good example is INNOSON Motor Manufacturing Company, from which our government bought more than 1,000 vehicles.

20. Anambra State for the first time started close collaboration with recognized government security agencies (the Police, Army, Navy, Department of State Security, Civil Defence, among others), offering them various types of support including provision of more than 500 security vehicles. The improvement in security was phenomenal, such that the former IG of Police (Abubakar Mohammed) lauded Anambra State for not witnessing any bank robbery in my last three years in office.

21. To further enhance security, Anambra State provided at least one security vehicle to each of all the 177 communities in the State as well as various organizations such as markets and Churches.

22. His Administration conceived and built, from scratch, the first state-owned Teaching Hospital, Chukwuemeka Odumegwu-Ojukwu teaching Hospital, Awka.

23. His Government commenced the planned development of the Igbariam Campus of the ChukwuemekaOdumegwu-Ojukwu University, including the fencing, construction of internal roads, electrification, construction of the Faculty of Law, Auditorium, Administrative Block, Faculty of Agriculture, Management Building, among others).

24. His Government attracted the World Bank support on erosion - National Erosion and Watershed Management Project (NEWMAP) - to Anambra State.

25. His Government was the first to do Poverty Mapping in Nigeria, as a guide for the effective implementation of our poverty-alleviation strategies.

26 His Government, for the first time, undertook the aerial mapping of Awka as well as the production of Structure Plans for Awka Capital Territory, Onitsha and Nnewi.

27. During his tenure and with his Government's support, Anambra State became an oil producing State.

28. He built the first Secretariat Complex to house State Government Ministries that were hitherto scattered around the State.

29. His government commenced the development of the 'Three Arms Zone' comprising Government House/Governor’s Lodge, Legislative Building/Speakers Residence, and Judiciary Building with Chief Judge’s Residence.

30. By the end of his tenure in 2014, more than twelve (12) health institutions, including two hospitals, had secured accreditation; when we took off in 2006, no health institution in Anambra State was duly accredited.

31. Anambra State was the first to undergo national peer review, which scrutinised State Governments for good governance, through the State Peer Review Mechanism (SPRM), an initiative of the Nigerian Governors’ Forum in collaboration with the DFID.

Pakute:

Seems you lack the mental capacity to read and understand the OP. Don't we have some stations criticizing the government?, why are there no alarm?. This particular station is enabling hate and violence. Receive sense.

Alarm from who if not looter and mandate thieves.

wis3:
Innalilahi wa'inna ilahi rajiun. What is wrong with this country 😩😩😩

APC...Progress. Why the lamentation? It is still too early mbok

Judolisco:
Omo.. Why u come dey tell us... Some things are better left unsaid... I'm sure your husband wouldn't have said the same thing about you

I thought i was the only person that took notice. Who knows what the helpless man is passing through in her hands. Her statement sufficiently betrays her state of mind. They certainly cannot be totally selfless.

Jeon:


Yes, because he is a wonderful husband and a good man not to his wife alone, but to others .


This is why you should plan ahead..
You must harvest your seeds your planted, lik it or not.

This one has just been jumpstarted to life. Wonderful husband this and that, so wonderful should not also associated with wives or are they all wonderful by default?

jamesversion:
All these acts are conducted by the Northerners to discredit President Tinubu.

They want to make it seem like Wike isn't fit for the office of the FCT minister.

Are you not tired of this kind of silly narrative? The North used it to absolve Buhari of blames for insecurities in the North till it came to this proportion.

jmoore:

You will like hawkers to hawk pornography in traffic near your car while your kid is watching?

Always using 'hypocrisy' wrongly.

If your kids can really associate those items she is hawking to "pornography", then it is you and not the hawker that corrupted them.

SoNature:


Source: https://soccernet.ng/2024/01/afcon-2023-god-gives-and-god-takes-jose-peseiro-hoping-tides-turn-for-super-eagles-against-ivory-coast-after-equatorial-guinea-draw.html

That outcome is just a reflection of Nigeria. No need for excuses like our leaders are given to doing. Our sports subsector cannot be different from the rating of Nigeria's government and economy. They are interwoven.

oglalasioux:


You are a good man for settling your boys. God bless you.

But the truth is that other Igbos, especially the Anambra people, think the Abakaliki side of Ebonyi State is not Igbo enough.

Are you from Anambra? Please go and get a life

Supremos:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gd53uHV_lJU


Nigerian Army Releases Video Of Their Encounter With Bandits In Southern Kaduna

Kodus to our men and women in the military, who are paying the ultimate price for peace and security in our beloved nation Nigeria.

Let their be peace....

Shooting blank and wasting ammunition as usual. Specialists in brutalizing civilians, but tucks tail between their legs once they hear the word "bandits".

TruthsFM:
Olanipekun the senior Advocate of Nigeria in law and election matters. He lose cases too but he’s a guru in the electoral matters

Because he speaks the language they understand: Bribe

saphiere:
Misogynistic behaviors stinks to the high heavens in Nigeria.
May God forgive me I mistakenly have a male child I will abort him.

I hate this gender. Their level of hatred and maltreatment is second to none.

A senior female soldier was among her tormentors. Try and abort your female babies too.

Golan007:


She doesn't need it.
Talent such as hers is sought after, not the other way round.

If they don't waste her before her prime

robosky02:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2024/01/bring-afcon-as-succour-to-nigerians-gov-sanwo-olu-charges-super-eagles/amp/

Bring AFCON cup as succour to what? Progress of a nation is holistic. You cannot be flopping in every indices of development and hope to excel in sports. Fix the economy and everything falls into the desired place.

Entprys:
Those guys are working.
Being lawless is all they needed to tame IPOB.
If they succeeded in that, let them be ruthless forever

I perceive that IPOB causes you more discomfort than Boko Haram and Herdsmen and It gives me great joy. At least, you now know in whose hands power lies.

Annahh:
She's doing her work though, not a new thing, our mothers did more. Feminism has made it look as if it's a sin to perform wifely duties.

You sound contrite and reasonable because one lady dared to be different and was honoured. Hope you will still maintain this stance even when it looks like you are your husband's slave just because you are expected to perform a wife's duty.

EreluRoz:
Well, that's how I feel. If someone shouts at me or aggressive towards me I run away.

Then you behave yourself to avoid being shouted on. Abi?

simpleseyi:
Another idiot
Ogun kill your Mama .

Once Mahmoud Yakubu resigns. Tinubu will name Babatunde Raji Fashola as new INEC Chairman because no Yoruba man has been Chairman since INEC was created. Anybody that wants to die can die. The President has the prerogative to nominate whosoever he wants, and the Senate headed by Tinubu's left hand man Godswill Akpabio will surely approve it.

Una go cry tire. Your hearts will know no peace

You are getting it all wrong. Tinubu can appoint anybody into anywhere of his choosing, no dispute.

What the erudite Prof is saying is that if Mahmud has a modicum of honour, he would have resigned and maybe commit suicide for bringing such a generational shame to himself.

It is called Japanese honour and is normal in climes where honour is coveted.

As for those who will 'cry tire', asides crying these ones here are also starving even when it is their turn. I trust you can identify them.

TopBanter:


The section in bold shows that Abaribe and Igbos, by Abaribe's own words, are patently lawless.

How can Tinubu intervene in a case the apex court of Nigeria, i.e.supreme Court, has directly stipulated must go to trial? As in Kanu has a case to answer?

Is it not obvious to Igbos and Abaribe that Tinubu's intervention will horribly damage Nigeria by signalling to the world that no separation of power, or independence for different tiers of governance, exist in our nation?

So Abaribe and Igbos are telling us that Tinubu, with the eyes of the world watching, must show Nigeria is a dictatorship where the executive arm can bully and cower the judicial arm when both should be independent and unable to usurp the power of the other?

Imagine a legislator, i.e Abaribe, coming out with this disgraceful nonsense.

When we then say emotions, sentiments and clannish worship of ethnic/religious and sectional bias overrides the commonsense of virtually all Igbos they will begin to cry.

Tinubu can go ahead and show the world Nigeria is an aberration where the executive arm cannot respect the independence of the judicial arm.

When he does that is when I will personally, publicly and unequivocally drop my support for his presidency.

The whole world already knows that Nigeria judiciary is under Tinubu's firm grip since he was returned elected by the courts despite glaring and demonstrable malpractices. So one more interference will not make much difference. He should free Kanu

HugeElephant:
The tribal warlords have always been majorly from the south East. It's like those people are being paid and dedicate their lives to it. Always creating threads to taunt the other tribes in Nigeria. And attacking people that question their lie peddling and high level bigotry.

It was so bad at a point they said the whole northern Nigeria was an uneducated poverty ridden tribe.
During "Eid" Arewa twitter showed them true wealth. Not some drug pushing or baby factory wealth.

They showed them real wealth from which source if not looting. Many Nigerian crooks may make their wealth either from baby factory and drug pushing as you alleged or even by CBN vault-raiding, but SE has the largest pool of billionaires emerging from genuine enterprises. So stop making a fool of yourself.

DyingFetus:
Doctors are forking over rated



I can't wait for technology to forking replace the med field and put all those loser docs out of work

This bitterness smells like you either could not get admission to the medical school or you were expelled from the medical school for poor academic performance. Whichever explains your situation, just take heart.

jaxxy:
I think men need to know how to address their displeasure with their partners without being offensive or escalating the issues.

How hard is it to have a civil conversation with ur partner or better yet a woman who bore u 3kids?

Why are u afraid she may send u out of the house in future just after a month of joining her?


Most of this is due to ineffective communication skills and then we allow the issue to fester and resentment to grow.

Discussing suspicion of infidelity with his wife will send him out of the house quicker than a wink. You cannot bust a woman's illicit affair and expect your life to remain the same.