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my wife no longer respect me i canot blame her, i think the main reason is because she is fedup of the current situation am in.
I lost my job and am out of business, some days we cook without oil and somedays we fast because we do not have anything but i dont Stop loving her but why is she givingup on me now?

my home is not my comfort anymore, days like today that i didnt earn anything and no food at home, i do not want to go home i canot bear the pain of my kid cryin and my wife hungry and angry

Mindlog:
Is she not earning, no matter how little?

she used to but 3 months back her sewing machine was stolen from the shop overnight

keymatt:
I sympathize with you brother. Honestly living in a situation where there's no food in the house can be depressing. A lot of families are going through this.
Hussle for something to do even it it means doing menial jobs and God will open doors for you.

amen thank you

Piptocoin:
[color=indigo]Love her completely and overlook her excesses. She is your body. It is well. May God bless the work of your hands as long as they are legal.[/color]

amen

Helpout12345:
At bolded.

It means she has been there for you before when things were down. You want to find out why her behavior is different now.

Talk to her more, discuss more, find out why she is behaving different this time, give her more assurance that things will be okay.

Thank you very much, you quite understand my situation too well. I wish i have your number, am frustrated.
she is a good woman honestly speaking my downfall and suffering must be givin her nightmares

i canot blame her though some days we cook food without oil, and sometimes we fast because we dont have anything, i guess she is getting fedup or tired.

Cutehector:
it will get better brother. I do hope you are not a bad person..sometimes when one wants to help a brother, the other person repays evil for good.

am just a soul whos intentions are good brother

Helpout12345:
Please be patient. Don't take her behaviors towards you now to heart because if you do, it will further affect your hustle.

Just focus on your hustle and kids for now. God will bless your hustle one more time.

Unfortunately, most women will behave like that when things are down for the man. You can only talk to her to be patient with you. There's nothing more you can do.

Very painful, i remember how she would still support me before, but for the good deed she has done before i will not take it to the heart.
She is suffering i know but she sees how am doing my best

ExAngel007:
This picture is going viral on social media. It shows a man in a black and white 1940s photo appearing to be speaking on a cell phone.

What makes the photo puzzling is that cellphones weren't invented until 1973 by Motorola but it didn’t go public where
people can actually purchase it for use until 1983.

Anyone have an explanation for it? Manipulated image, perhaps?

https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2022/11/picture-of-a-man-speaking-on-a-cell-phone-in-the-1940s-goes-viral.html

who can prove this?

Cutehector:
Keep on praying and looking for jobs.

Am praying but i do not know Why everything keep getting harder day by day.

I respect women alot and i try as much as possible to makemy woman/family happy, but since my business went down and i Barely survive my wife dont respect me anymore.
This morning she refused to greet me and i ask gentlely to know why but she ignored me, since we do not have any food i managed to give her the last 500 i have, for her to buy anything she can eat till i go out and look for work to do still i was not treated with any respect or love.
I love my family i can die for them but i canot withstand this brokeness and my wife Change of attitude.
What should i do?

She no be God na

Khalifaibb:
the admin needs to do something about you. I noticed you have a problem
Everyone is complaining about you call them different names

u guys should leave me outta this nonsense......

money121:
2k for today iftar

salamialikum my people it is true o he actually did sent it. I don received my own o my fasting don bless.
Brother from another mother I respect you

2092244742 UBA Ibrahim rabiu
May Allah be with you

Let us contribute 1k each op drop your account number

jalodo2:
Ibrahim Mustapha d scammer, One of ur fake stories with different monikers hit jackpot, u made much money. Despite ur new moniker, no one asked questions. Instead of u to chill and celebrate. Here u are doing what u know how to do best, running to other sections . Using style to beg for more money putting more maggi to re- feed pple in another style. You are just an insatiable scammer, u never get anough. In ur first story, u came like it wasnt for money, luck smiled on u. According to u it remains 45k to buy d trycycle, if u are real, u would av gone out to work hard to get d 45k But cos u are fake, here u are ........

why are you always wrong and full of negatives? Change your life you call everyone you come across different names. Be matured the name you mentioned above has nothing to do with me that's ignorance.

Olaoluwa112:
Read a similar story some weeks ago, to me there no point blaming your wife, you both trusted her friend and she f@cked you both up.

Thanks to those Nairalanders who contributed to help this our bro, hope one day we too go join the gang of cheerful givers.

I can never forget what they did to help me and I will always help people along the line as soon as I finally get 45k and start riding it.

Am proud of nairalanders

Previously my wife intended to join hands together plan with me so that we can grow but
Because of her faith and intention despite the business and plan failed but I still love and respect her the same.

Many people where again her they even said she ruined my life some even advice her to run away but she also stood by me.
So this was how it began.

I was part of NPOWER 2017 set that's batch B enroll in under Nteach before our program terminated

Since then I used the savings I had to buy a fairly used daylong machine.

So after the program I used that to feed the family 3 months back we both discussed about how we will be able to upgrade or our lives Abit to earn more cash to sustain the family
so we both agreed to sell the bike then borrowed money and buy Keke napep.
Since npower stop paying I was not really enable to borrow from the bank but before I sold my bike.

Her friend promised to borrow us 200k so that at least we can get fairly used Keke for 320 since the new one is costly but after selling my bike her friend refused to assist us saying that the money she could have borrow us was used for another purpose.

Although I was a bit disappointed but didn't complain.
my wife feels guilty because my life totally changed my things spoiled and I could afford the Keke since our plan didn't work out and the money on saved from the bike I sold wasn't enough anymore to get me another bike.
But Major problem is family and friends see her as a woman that brought me down but I clearly understood that her intention was to support me but it failed so I myself consider it as a blessing from God.
then i reached out to loan i wasn't eligible for the amount i needed.
she felt very bad and guilty because her intention was to help our family together and it failed, family aboundoned us even her friends told her to leave me instead she left those friends, how could I not stand by her too? Now we will smile and I will make her proud for bearing all the suffering with me and still never give up.
God so kind, generous nairalanders gave me a very big support.
So our hope redeemed but right now the only thing standing between me and a fairly used graded Keke napep for my business is 45k but we are now happy and we know I will get that one very soon. Especially the people that advised her to run away and the people that aboundoned me should see that she is not a failure but a true loving caring and a real home maker.
So in any condition always support your wife.

HopeNeverDies:
Damnnn!!!!! You're cra2y bro


Back to the OP... I...


Sorry; My thoughts are with u..

thanks

ProDigitals:
Have you tried to check the price of used one on jiji dot ng

yes but I already have seen a fairly used one and it's in a very good condition. But am short of 45k

I have hustle legitimately and done so many hard works, I also received supports but at the end I only need 45k to complete my transaction to be able to buy my kekenapep and start my business will you lend me a helping hand?

After passing through rough time and our plan to upgrade from bike to Keke failed, two nairalander restored our hope they gave us alot of assistance beyond our expectations.
We where able to join together and save for the Keke napep we needed to buy. But the particular one was faulty and I found another one to buy leaving 45k our standing in my way to make my home a happy family as someone who loves and respect family and my woman alot. I can't give up now please advise me on how to finally raise this 45k and buy the bike, I believe a 2weeks after buying the Keke I will be able to pay back if am able to borrow the 45k.

Meanwhile I cannot afford kekenapep to feed my family. God bless us

Oyindamolah:
Why not continue with it pending when you get the Keke

if I buy bike from the money and eventually I want to sell it back to join the money to the one I have to buy Keke by then nobody will buy it the same price again and besides bike isn't moving to well here again.

Codeye:
I don't think I've received any money from Nairaland but people here makes me laugh a lot because I'm always lonely and i appreciate that I really do. One day some one quoted me and insulted me I just reply God bless you. And he apologize almost immediately, that's incredible to me. Thanks all nairalanders

that's a lovely attitude from you. That's a good reply.

Oyindamolah:
Start with a bike

that's the usual one I used to ride before we decide to buy kekenapep since we are not doing well.

Mummy05:
I hope you have gotting the keke you desired to buy in your other thread?

good evening, not yet ma but am doing my best to get a good one. The price is high and it the fairly used I intended to buy is faulty had to return it and save to buy a new one.

WhrightJr:
God bless you my Big brother
Major blessing coming your way soon
Insha Allah'

Amin and you too.