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Nicepoker:
Is this your own not too early?

I just told him the truth but I will help him, I enjoy giving.

WhrightJr:
Baba Abeg start by helping me first with 2k or less
God bless Nairaland and Nairalanders❤

I love giving I swear to God, God knows my heart but am just struggling with kid wife parents and I have not met the condition to get the Keke I needed to start my work. I haven't work for some months now but I promise you I will remember you as soon as I meet up my budget and start my work. So dm let me not forget my promise.

Cubalabloo:
The forum is good. But the MOD's are trash.

some of them are good.

WhrightJr:
Nairaland is the Reddit of Africa
Great forum, there are so many great rich personnels here on nairaland
Since its faceless, everyone is anonymous

I cannot forgot how nairalanders stood by me. I will buy a new Keke napep and I will always help others along the line

Cc Pedroscope

The real road of compassion, that is, giving, helping, assistance and community service, is a road that can be set and declared as your life's purpose.
People appreciate and never forget that helping hand especially when times are tough.
Somewhere along the way, we must learn that there is nothing greater than to do something for others.
There were two classes of charitable people: one, the people who did a little and made a great deal of noise; the other, the people who did a great deal and made no noise at all.
Take the time to help other people without expecting a reward or gratitude is definitely important in living an optimistic life.
Nothing exalts the soul or gives it a sheer sense of buoyancy and victory so much as being used to change the lives of other people.
There is more happiness in giving than in receiving, Your belief is great that someone else should benefit,
From a deed well done.
With this I can see how great you have been,
To always be helping someone.
The real point is that we all need help somewhere along life's path whether we think we will or not. And, if you are the one giving and helping, just remember this: no matter what happens later, you will always be secure in the fact knowing that you have remained strong and true to assist those that need your help.
To those who help in anyway may God always bless you beyond expection.
I love nairaland and nairalanders you're the best, thanks to those who stood by me and still never left. You taught me a lesson that I am not alone and there is hope.
Definitely I will achieve my dream I will ride a new Keke napep soon.

Some people are just heartless.
May God assist you.

turkeyman:
Where do you stay?, drop me an email let's see what will happen echosamuel13@gmail.com

I emailed you since 20th.

Mrquote:
And you think he didn't is from him asking for suggestion that a friend promised to give him a loan even though it didn't fall through for. His now here asking for help and all ypu could do was through his mistakes to his face. If he hasn't accepted his mistakes he won't be ask for help on how to solve the problem. Just know life happens and what happens after life happens to you is how you react to it. He reacted by ask for help on yhis platform and all you could do was tell him he made a mistake wow.

kudos sir

Ouchbabe:
I'm sorry if I have misjudged you. I made my assertion based on your writeup. I'm glad you said you respect women. Please continue to protect your wife, it's part of your duty. Avoid unecessary intrusion from friends and family into your immediate family's affair.
Relax, God will fix your financial challenge sooner than you can imagine.
Shalom

I love how u admit to your mistakes may God guide you

efficiencie:
Dude don't mind those here commenting like they have lived this life several times. Some of them have not seen any harsh situation. You married right. Thank God for that. You made a mistake and yes, even the best of us, make mistakes as well but as long as you and your wife are in agreement there is nothing you cannot achieve.

First you two need to pray together often and comfort each other often. Tough times don't last forever. As at 2015 my life was in shambles but my wife stood by me and today things are much better. So please pray together and comfort each other things will get better.

Two, you and wife should think of a business that you two can work on with the money from the bike you sold. In the words of one of my great teachers, Prophet TB Joshua, "big things don't start big". This is very true. Many of the billionaires we see today started very small. And you can do the same. Look at your area where you live, you will find something you can start selling. It could be vegetables, it could recharge cards. It could confectionaries. Just look at your area and find the opportunities that abound.

Three don't listen to the devil. It is in tough times like this that they devil will start whispering evil ideas to you. You and your wife should resolve never to do something wrong just to get money or favors. Don't use charms, it will backfire. Don't trade sex for favors or money it will destroy your marriage. Don't do fraud you will pay back one way or the other. Don't do shady deals and avoid bad friends who give you evil advise or try to exploit you or your wife because of your current condition.

Paraphrasing TB Joshua again, bad times come to build us in character and after we have learned and grown the bad times give way for the good times and good character we have learned will help us preserve and sustain the good times.

Remember two is better than you for they will have a better reward for their labor. Jah bless.

okay thanks for the advice

Please sir I need support to buy Keke napep that thanks

Shancca:
I don't like this at all. People have their own problems and relatives shouldn't be dragged if they choose not to support or help in any way. Whether dead or alive, I strongly believe that no one owes anyone. I learnt this when I was in uni; paving way for myself by utilizing the only opportunity I had which was education. The more people go around looking for help, the more they get lazy and blame their misfortune on friends, family and even foes. I pray that God surprises the OP with a mind-blowing opportunity to enable him support his lovely family.

amiin

Algold:
I am Npower batch A. I fully understand your plight.
I don't need confirmation to know if you are lying or not.
I have sent N4500 to your account. If i have more I would have love to help.
May God help you secure financial stability and take good care of your home

God bless you you're a great person.

Ouchbabe:
God bless you for this unbiased, candid opinion of yours. Op has gone to tell everyone who cares to listen rubbish about his wife hence they now see her as someone who brought him down financially. How much was he having before marrying the woman?

do not say what you know nothing about, I generally respect women alot so I love and respect my wife.

Ok

Toks2008:
These three words so simple yet so difficult.

These three words can make this world so beautiful, can prevent wars, can prevent break ups, can mend a broken heart... I can go on and on to elucidate on how powerful these three simple words can be. In fact, these are the most powerful words in the world.

Saying "I'm sorry" does not diminish your self worth, it does not mean you are weak or incompetent and you don't have to feel humiliated when you say i am sorry.

We all make mistakes. Nobody is perfect and this is why believers in GOD always ask for forgivesness from him every now and then so if we can be humble enough to admit how weak we are and ask for forgiveness from him then why do we feel we are perfect towards a fellow human?

The take home here is that emotionally strong people with very healthy self esteem do not find it difficult to say sorry but in actual fact, when you find it difficult to say I AM SORRY, it is a strong sign that something is wrong with you and you definitely have a very low self esteem.

Now here is the shocker... Do you know that saying i am sorry is not only when you are convinced you have done wrong?... In fact when you have no clue of what you did wrongly, you should still apologize if people tell you they are offended by what you did to them even when you believe you are absolutely innocent.

So i have pondered over these words in relation to human interaction and i have come to this conclusion...

That until you mature to the point where you are able to say these three words to anyone who tells you that h/she is offended by your actions or in-actions without trying to explain to them why they should not be offended or defend your actions, you should never bother going into any purposeful union be it friendship, dating or marriage.

Learn to sincerely say i am sorry even when you are not wrong and you will live peacefully with anybody.

Hope this helps.

you are right, sorry is a small word but it can kill stubborn people instantly.

Bishop:
I feel your pain and i totally understand your situation, first, i must say that you must be in control of your self and emotions, study your situation and plan out to get out of it.

If your wife is the industrous type find out what she can do to increase your earnings with some of the cash at hand. Like selling food, minerals and snacks, anything that can increase her capital.

When that is sorted, because it will make her mind busy and also in that way she can find her self contributing to your success and ultimately your family's success.

The next is for you to get up dust your cloak and get to work instead of following your wife to live in self pity. Do whatever it is, legally to get on your feet.

It would have been a disaster if your wife didn't love you the way you loved her. As long as you have her support and you encourage yourselves , i tell you sir, you will definitely smile at the end.

Accept my good wishes.

Shalom

thank you sir

usagee36:
How much do you have now?

sir do you intend to assist me? If so I could add the 220k here now to any help you render and I can get a new one.

delishpot:
Just 500 of us can drop #1k each in OPs acct and make him and his wife happy. Of course who wants to do more can do so. If he is comfortable to pist his acct NO. We dont have to wait until we have a ton of cash before we can help him.

OP, I know how you feel. Its not an easy place to be in. Te ll your wife to keep faith hard as it might be. Thos life is up amd down. She should trust fate to bring her peace and focus on being the best she can be for her family. She should also try to live peacefully with your friends and family. She should bear them no grudges and look up to God alone. This life na only God fit raise helper. Having friends, family etc is not assurance o. God uses whoever. Pkele

you can assist me here 2092244742 uba God bless you

Idaytesj29:
OP should answer this question

220k sir

Johnsown1:
Which state are you

kogi state

boldsleek:
instead of blaming op or his wife. why not we nlanders come together and contribute 100naira each to support him and his family.
we are more than 3,000 people on this forum.

so, let's say.., #100*3,000=300,000. (it will go a long way to take this family out of suffering).

This country is damn too hard everybody, so, whenever we can help, let's not hesitate to help.

If someone can take op's case, investigate it to ascertain if everything he said it's true. then, I'm sure #100 each won't be a big deal for us here.

Let's show a little kindness.

am geniue follow your heart.

usagee36:
How much do you have now?

2200k sir

samwillyco1:
Where is your location?
If you are in Anambra I can help you

kogi state sir

Suspect1:
ogaji?? Or nagazi?

ogaji sir

Suspect1:
which side pls?

ogaji

dlordy100:
Which state are you?

kogi state

bigpicture001:
Wish I had big money..would have bought you tghe keke..

My heart if full of trying to assist people who are in real need for survival...but God know s best sha

God bless you

usagee36:
So what do you want? New bike, New Keke, old Keke? How much do you have now?

new bike of fairly used Keke, with 320k to 350 I can afford it.

Freelane33:
Where do you stay ?

kogi state

Yomit71:
can't you ride keke for deliver and save some money till you're able to get yours?

I can do that but who to give me

abobote:
Some people are looking for people to ride Keke on hire purchase for them, but still afraid coz trust. Imagined how you sounded calm and nice, but someone entrust you with one and the money start coming you still change.
Where do you stay, where are you from?

kogi state