₦airaland Forum

Anchor535:
I just love two of u....una no go kiiiiii me wit laughter. Clean rivalry is allowed.

Amya:
Tmrw now you'll be crying and begging for forgiveness. Continue. You're still cancelled.

Amya:
Thanks God I'm not much of a sentimentalitist. I'm no rooter of underdog or disadvantaged folks. So whether Laycon looks like an agbero or marlian, he gets no pity from me.

Laycon (AKA pity votes) Cancelled.

Amya:
That Lousy Trickytee and his annoying nose is the first person to enter my cancelled list.

Froshloaded:
Dorothy breast get as e be oo

dominique:
Someone should tell that bandana guy that this is 2020 not 2002

doziefrank07:
Meet Dorothy

Gbegiri:
She should not play Mercy's game o.. Any Mercy or Tacha game players will be evicted ASAP..

But I like her already. She dey enter my eyes Wella.

Sweetpink:
My dear,the car doesn't belong to her.
She hired it!

dazzlingd:
Why should we listen to her...what does she know, what's the quality of the substance in her head. olosho has no business with the affairs of the nation.
She should crawl back to do what she knows how to do best

SarkinYarki:
Trust me that guy doesnt have zilch ..I have stayed in Nigeria long enough to know how broke Nigerians talk ..they always try to undermine everything

Frank65:
The only person enjoying bandwagon is Mercy. Ask Mercy fans why they are supporting Mercy and most of them will tell you that it's because they don't want Tacha to win. Their hatred for Tacha is the reason why they want to support Mercy who is the main person that can stop Tacha from winning. Have u asked yourself why Mercy fans can never hype Mercy without comparing her with Tacha?

Tacha's fan are very loyal. Loyalty means looking beyond the flaws of your favourite and seeing the good in her while praying for her improvement. If we wanted easy favorites to stan, we would be supporting Mike. The guy doesn't have wahala, forget that he is trolled sometimes on Nairaland.

Do u think it's easy to stan someone like Tacha. It takes a great deal of courage and strength to look beyond her flaws. We are not like Frodd fans who abandoned their favourite because he is in love with a girl.

Finally, most of us started supporting Tacha because the hate she was receiving wasn't commensurate with her attitude in the house.

Tacha was trending in 6 countries after her apology to Biggie yesterday. Many people said they will start supporting her because of that. Are those new fans supporting her because of bandwagon?

QuietHammer:
Spot on. Even if her army of morons spend their life savings voting her and she tops the polls in the finals, the organizers will never declare her winner. Such a nasty individual masquerading her low self-esteem with arrogance

boban007:
TACHA IS GENERALLY NOT AN INTELLIGENT GIRL. BOTH IN INDIVIDUAL AND GROUP TASK. SHE TAKES A ROLE THAT WON'T EXPOSE HER DUMBNESS IN GROUP TASK, BUT SHE CAN'T HIDE WHEN IT COMES TO INDIVIDUAL TASK. TACHA IS A VERY RUDE AND DISRESPECTFUL GIRL, THE 2 STRIKES IS WHAT HUMBLED HER. PEOPLE LIKE HER LEARN THEIR LESSON THE HARD AND DISGRACEFUL WAY.

SHE WAS SO ARROGANT TO THE EXTENT OF DISRESPECTING HER HOUSEMATES AND COPERATE SPONSORS .

HER ATTITUDE IS SO APPALLING, THAT THE HOUSEMATES JUST KEPT HER AT ARMS LENGTH. WHEN IT'S SATURDAY NIGHT PARTY, SHE'S ZERO, SHE DOESN'T DANCE OR MIX WITH HOUSEMATES.

INDIVIDUAL TASK, SHE'S ALWAYS COMING LAST. SHE DOESN'T WISH ANY HOUSEMATES WELL ON THEIR BIRTHDAY. SHE DOESN'T TAKE PART IN INTELLECTUAL CONVERSATIONS WHEN HOUSEMATES ARE GATHERED , SHE DOESN'T TAKE PART IN TRUTH OR DARE, COS SHE DOESN'T HAVE ANYTHING TO SAY.
SHE'S NOT PHYSICALLY FIT AND WILL NEVER TAKE ADVICE OR CORRECTION . SHE'S SLOW AND LAZY.
BUT VERY QUICK AT INSULTING AND ABUSING HOUSEMATES AND THE ORGANISERS OF THE SHOW, WHICH HAS EARNED HER 2 STRIKES. PRIDE GOES BEFORE A FALL.

THE LIST IS ENDLESS. SHE HAS NO BASIS BEING ON THE SHOW. SHE'S A BAD ROLE MODEL.

Crixxx:
Whether Tacha apologizes she isn't winning this.
I can't forget her disgusting behaviors in the early weeks.
If she can't forgive and forget, why should Africa forgive and forget.
Only biggie is allowed to forgive..


Dead strategy

XXML33:
Over these past few weeks I've actually developed a very strong love and connection towards Tacha. This is actually weird because I don't normally support individuals or groups to this degree, be it in sports or any other domain. I think my strong support of Tacha emanates from a deep understanding of her personality.

You guys criticizing Tacha need to understand that Tacha is very insecure and has very low self esteem. Insecurities and the accompanying paucity of self esteem usually stems from a childhood of neglect, abuse and constant bullying by pairs.
As people of this sort grow up, they begin to perceive the world as a battleground with them pitted against everyone else, and an endless array of slings and arrows firing constantly against them from all directions; they essentially regard everyone around them as a potential threat to their depleting sense of self worth.

There are two ways these sort of people deal with this:
1. They either recoil inwards and live a life of solitude and self loathing, developing little to no social bonds and engaging in very little social interaction.
2. They adopt attack as a form of defense by building an outward persona that is intimidating, threatening and combative. This helps them ward off any potential threat and gives them the illusion of the self esteem that they lack.

Tacha deals with her insecurities and low self esteem the second way.

Most of negative behaviors that Tacha expresses constitute a false persona that she's developed, which acts as a defensive wall. Only few people can be able to break through this defensive wall and experience the real person behind the false persona. Seyi has been the only one able to do this and hence why when he's with Tacha, you don't see her exhibit those negative behaviors.

When Tacha is with Seyi she's free and doesn't feel threatened because she trusts him, and hence doesn't need to "protect herself from him" by being unnecessarily rude, standoffish or combative.

I'm not trying to defend Tacha's behavior but as much as you find her behavior irritating, please understand that it's simply a defence mechanism and her walls of defence can break down if she's shown genuine friendship and develops strong bonds of trust between her and those around her. Now doing this in the Big brother house is quite difficult because Biggie's house is in essence a battlefield where friendships are fake and dishonesty & fakeness reigns supreme. This sort of environment actually appeals to Tacha's proclivity to be defensive and reinforce that false persona. It's going to be hard for her to break down those walls while in the big brother house, even if she wants to. She could manage for a few days but any slight perception of threat or betrayal sends her erecting those walls again.

I can't say I'm optimistic that Tacha's behavior would improve, but I can assure you that when the housemates are fewer and she's able to spend considerable time with everyone of them and develop stronger bonds of friendship and trust, she will shed off a lot of that false persona and would be more likable.