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You mean you met someone and you are already pressuring him with marriage issues? I am not understanding.

Mindlog:


No wahala, I am so desensitized as I am used to being addressed in colourful adjectives.........

That's because your dumbness is colourful oga

Mindlog:


You claimed I am dumb, while you are what?,

Your dumbness is not in dispute. You are very dumb abeg

etrange:


Hhmm... This type of "takeaway" sounds smart when written on paper, but the moment you start to analyze such statements, you realize how fallacious they are. When you say "don't procreate if you don't have the capacity to give your kids the best", the question becomes, what is the best? Whose best are we referring to? Your best or my best? The best a parent can give as an individual or the best according to a certain predefined standard? Even the poorest man could still give his best (which may not meet the basic needs of the child). On the other hand, you don't expect an average man not to procreate because he can't give his kid the kind of treatment a billionaire would give his. Therefore, considering the fact that the word "best" is relative in this context, I believe the right statement should be, don't procreate if you can't meet the basic needs of the kid.

This is just my opinion on your concluding statement and has nothing to do with the OP's situation. I saw your post while scrolling through the Trending page.

I perfectly understand your angle. When I say best, i mean the best life has to offer. Poor people should never procreate cause it's mentally damaging to the innocent child. But that's wishful thinking cause the only way poor people console themselves with their miserable life is by giving birth to more kids as retirement benefits.

Mindlog:


I am the last person, you should be talking about procreating without means of provision to as I know that so very well.....I

And by the are both Nairaland nobodies..

I claimed nothing. You are the one claiming to be a target when you are nothing but an emancipated nobody with borrowed data

Mindlog:


Your parents being colossal failures, is not an excuse to also be one.

By the way, if you are only just beginning to believe that I am dumb then it is a good sign that you are no longer catatonic and I don't mind being your target, I am trained to be one.😆😆😆

Without support from his parents, it becomes even harder to achieve anything. The takeaway here is, don't procreate if you don't have the capacity to give your kids the best. And by the way, you are not a target, rather a Nairaland nobody.

Mindlog:
Okay, what have you achieved so far?

How can he achieve something when his father is a colossal failure? He couldn't even access basic education. I'm beginning to believe that you are dumb

Goodlady:

Getat. I m.nkt moved by those you mentioned

You are moved when starved of attention.

It's not always the dick, but it's a bonus cause it prompts you to imagine getting impaled, and having your wet hole ravaged.

The more he starves you the attention, the wetter and hater you become until you have finally have him

Goodlady:

I m not irrational. That boy I quoted is an imbêcile

If you two were neighbours, i wouldn't hesitate betting all my money that he will end up fuccking you one day.

Especially if he appears to have a big bulge, and you always happen to see his dick cap imprints, you get wet even more.

From exchanging hate comments you will end up getting ravaged in his bed, and you might even find yourself spreading your legs further, and locking him up with your two legs

That's the moment you will say, "so you finally don fucck me"

A statement requiring no response other than to keep digging. All of a sudden you find yourself getting submissive, crying like a little babe, telling him "easy, easy".

Goodlady:

Is the lady your relation?
Cos I m not the yardstick for your remembrance. Meanwhile, this look like another moniker of the person I quoted.

I doubt if that person can write as good as me.

Not a relative. More like an acquaintance.

The fact is, you remind me of the irrational mind of the female gender.

Goodlady:

When you realize you can't fûck me, you ll know how useless you are. I m too classy to stoop so low for a riffraff like you that want pússy but can't beg.

You remind me of a lady.

She's always fighting with one poor barber boy.

And she doesn't hide to voice out how much she hates the boy.

Except that one day, we caught the barber boy seriously ramming into the lady from behind.

The lady in question, held her bress and was all tears as she boy kept digging.

Upon realising they have been exposed, the lady pushed him away, trying to cover her kpekus with her two hands.

Then the unexpected happened. Her legs started shaking and before we know, fluids were coming out from her under.

Not only did she enjoyed it, she squirted.

I just shook my head in disgust and went away. You remind me of that lady.

I can never trust a female. NO means YES. When they hate you they also love you.

What a confused gender.

Ballzproblem2:
The way men keep flinging the word love gets me annoyed, greenlight is not love greenlight is everywhere,get to know the person better before you start flinging the word love around , SMH 🤦

It's been long since oga got attention from a girl. What do you expect?

ResidentMUMU:


Bros, hand yourself over to one policeman to detain you in their filthy cell for six months straight.
Give am money to dey feed you and you go sign some papers as agreement in the presence of some elders you respect. If you Don come back orientation go don change.

Do am if you're serious about breaking free.

So you can entrust your life to a Nigerian policeman?

Who is the Sir?

He has to be God.

As a driver, i don't want to ever find myself in this situation.

holocron:


You are very quick to cast insults on who you don't know on a faceless forum, instead of perhaps requesting for further enlightenment.

Anyway the bolded has already given you away as an inexperienced fellow. Continue on the path of your reasoning. It is time and fortune that will set you right.

A car is a liability to you because all you know how to do is show off.

For a business man like me, a car is not just important, it's importanter.

Take that to the bank and cash it.

Ilamina:
Many white crackheads begging for money on the streets here

That's what Unicef wants you to believe so they could keep getting billions in donations every year for starving children.

holocron:


A car is the greater liability. It depreciates to zero very fast. A building can only appreciate in value over the years. A house is an asset anytime - for rent or not. Don't listen to Kiyosaki or whatever his name is.

Look how confident you are with your limited knowledge. I shouldn't listen to a successful entrepreneur, rather you that hunger has emaciated? What a joke!

A car is an asset, going by how it adds to the impression you make, which consequently lead to more opportunities and money.

A house is a liability, in the sense that you have to spend for maintenance. Unless it's for rent.

Florence2021:
The saddest part is that I am a very popular Nairalander that everyone thinks he's okay emotionally.

But I am not.

My friend, nobody is okay. Not even that politician you think has billions. But it's okay not to be okay. Get out of your head and get a job.

A car is an asset.

A house is a liability, unless it's for rent.

Mindlog:


Eyah, intensify efforts make them arrest me before I step up to UNICEF whey I dey eye make dem employ me.😆

Now you are trying to use jokes to dilute the gravity of the situation on ground. So seun, you allow pedophiles on this forum?

Mindlog:


It is absolutely okay if you choose to be nude in your home or in a nude colony........why do you think adults who are caught to be in possession of nude pictures of minors get locked up? And yes, I find unclothed minors uncomfortable in some circumstances because it is a very possible lee way for sexual abuse of a minor.

I didn't suddenly know a lot about pedophiles, Human sexuality was actually one of my undergraduate courses, paraphilias was extensively covered and my term paper for that course was on pedophiles which did involve me visiting a prison and talked with some convicted pedophiles. I guess if i give detailed account how necrophiles (those who get sexually aroused seeing corpses), most who rape corpses and common among mortuary attendants, operate....you will call me a necrophile and call for my arrest!

I am not a defense lawyer but have been trained to provide victim's impact assessment in court as I am in the field of Clinical Child Psychology ...the welfare and protection of the child comes FIRST.

About isolation, don't worry as I work in children social care and the eyes of parents, service providers, regulatory bodies and the UK government are all on me!

Now you are acting like someone on a hot seat. No amount of emojis or if you like, type a textbook, fact remains that you need to be arrested as soon as possible for the sake of our kids.

VawulenceProMax:
not as poor as your father though.

But still poor

ObamaMessi:
See the bastard boasting about wealth. Someone who can not even feed him self or properly articulate himself in English.

Oh... I don't doubt that.

VawulenceProMax:
In all you do guys , please avoid poor people. They are heartless and are the real cancer of the earth.
A poor man will worship a rich fraudster and kill another poor man for stealing Garri.
This advice is not for you poor bastards.

The irony is that you are very poor. Because if you aren't you wouldn't generalise that poor people are a cancer.

Mindlog:


What is okay with posting the unclothed upper body of the minor or does it arouses you that you project it by saying I sound like a pedophile?

It is absolutely okay to be unclothed, be you a minor or an adult. It's your choice whichever you choose. You finding the unclothed minor uncomfortable shows an underlying attraction for minors, because someone who isn't attracted to minors will not find unclothed minors uncomfortable.

Your limited knowledge convinces you that pedophiles masturbates only to pictures of the exposed bodies of minors with a head.

Suddenly, you know a lot about pedophiles, and the kind of porn they masturbate to. In a sane clime this is enough to put you behind bars.

If it was indeed a true situation and not one of the fake stories the OP is notorious for, and the wife approaches me for a victim impact assessment for such indecent exposure of the minor, that father will certainly not get sole custody of the minor.

So now you have become a defence attorney. It doesn't change the fact that you ticked all the boxes. You deserve to be isolated from civilisation for the sake of our children.

Mindlog:


Crop out her upper body before you continue sharing the picture further to family and friends because it is inappropriate sharing such picture of a minor, you will be shocked where the picture of your daughter with her exposed upper body will end up in ...it seems you are oblivious of how dark the internet is.

In a sane setting, your wife can easily accuse you of indecent exposure of your daughter's body on social media before a judge, while ignoring the neglect she is meting out to her.

My friend shut up. Always finding problems where none exist. What will our so called dark Internet do with a headless picture of a minor? I'm sorry but you sound like a pedophile.