₦airaland Forum

ceo003:


how r we sure ur friend is not u ? so ur toto dey smell . well go and c a doctor asap cox it may be std . grin wink
seconded

But you should know that OP is the one and is just seeking attention to know how to handle her case. There is nothing wrong in her coming up to seek for ways to address the condition.

chester47:
Lie.the vagina has an odour.Are you a doctor? i am a gynecologist so dont say words you ain't sure every vagina smells

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Thank you my brother for telling her the truth. It smells and it all depends on how anyone maintains theirs. Many ladies are just dirty and walk and act like pigs.Most sleep around not knowing the consequences of their action by having multiple partners. Some just sleep around anyhow and after, jump into the public without cleaning up.

Some walk through the harsh sun and enter anywhere to get quick action with a guy, put on their cloth and off she goes without cleaning up or taking her bath.

In fact, people should be careful with some ladies around and those who like getting quick lay end up contracting STDs from most of these ladies.

In fact, I have taken my time to go through most of the answers here and would like to add one or two things herein.

Most of our ladies or even some men here are too careless in taking proper care of themselves. Sometimes you find some ladies raise their hands and you find hair under their armpit. Some don't even know the use of deodorants to their body.

Now to the subject herein; most ladies are naturally dirty and lack proper maintenance culture. Under our harsh climatic condition, a lady need proper body maintenance in order to look clean. Starting from the environment we live, most people live in public houses where there are no good water and the only source of water is Public WELL, hence they fall pray to the viruses that accrue within.

Most ladies do not take proper care of their undies and some tend to use their undies twice before washing and others that don't have, use and wash theirs daily and if not dry, they put it on like that and go under the harsh climatic condition and after sweating, they can fall victim to any virus. Also, most ladies are exposed to danger by using public toilets and they contract virus that affect them and as a result, affect their womanliness.

Most ladies these days patronize people who sell used undies and without proper washing, they start wearing these undies and bras and get infected.

Some get infected through having multiple partners who deposit different forms of their Siemens into their body and as a result, they start having horrible odour coming from their body. Most of them when they step under the sun, you cannot stand beside them. Others is as a result of bleaching.

So, women needs to be careful with themselves and I advise the lady in question to see a gynecologist for proper treatment because her case is an infection.

MadCow1:

Yungwizzzy:
look between the lines

You have seen here that the username of this person in question is MadCow1 and you still be talking to the cow? Cow is cow and this one is even mad.,

Houseofglam7:
Oh pulizzzzzz.


I didn't wanna say anything, coz of the moniker but I felt some persons would learn from it........




If you find yourselves in a relationship that's leading nowhere, QUIT!!!!
Besides,all relationships shouldn't end in marriage!
Learn,move on!

You are right. People should be reasonable enough to decode a bad partner and quit the relationship on time. How can you be in a relationship with someone who is working and you are working too and he kept telling you that he is not set for marriage and you keep hanging in with him?You should be the first to run because the woman suffers most than the man.

The gates of the Prison should be opened for him to stay there for the rest of his life.

ireneony:
as a Lady like myself I don't condone when a lady/man smokes
guys would you marry a lady that smokes

Just don't like it.I dated a lady nurse from Syracuse New York who smokes the hell out of herself but I don't smoke. I do buy cartons for her and keep at home cus we were staying together. She explained to me that she has to do it cus of her medical job.

To marry her, nothing wrong cus some people are gluttons and some are alcoholics so we have to respect each other's life style but can talk them off that habit of smoking. Anyway, I had her do away with smoking by counselling her about the dangers.

Yungwizzzy:

.....I'm writing this with tears in my heart, My relationship has not been quite stable like every other girl here, I'm 27 years my bf is 35 we have been dating for 7 years now

we met in ekosodin, uniben when I went to visit my elder sister who was schooling there then, I'm a graduate of industrial biological science from unilag.

our relationship has not really been that stable, but my pain today is that I just came back from church where one of my friends just did thanksgiving for successful wedding

all my mates have gotten married and I'm the oldest among them, each time I ask him about it he will say the time is not yet

I'm tired, do you think I should break up? because he doesn't seem to be ready and I'm getting old

I have a very comfortable job, he is also working and earning well.

please advice your fellow nairaland sister

Walk out of the relationship because there is no normal human being that would be in the position he is and still dating at that age.

Listen, he has no love for you as he is secretly looking for a younger lady while using you.

It will be better you call off the relationship as no responsible man can do what your so called man friend or whatever you call him is doing.

This is the time for you to open your eyes and get off from the relationship. He has seen everything about you and nothing to feel when you are not there.

I look forward to hearing from you and seeing your new/next post here that you have found your true life partner.

If it is a curse on him not to marry someone whom he has been with for good 7yrs, it is not your own portion because you have a life to live.

God who created you in His own image would also get you off from him and give you a man who will appreciate and love you EVER than any man you have been with. My prayer today is that whatever that is holding you not to marry must die for you to marry who God wants you to marry. Just be prayer and ask God for His direction on this.

A deceitful man is not God's plan for you. I use this forum to also advise ladies against going into a long term relationship because it is ONLY the woman who stand at the receiving end. You have to be smart to know when a man or guy is not ready. Six months to a year is enough for you to understudy any person. Be it a man or a woman to know what you can do in case you start discovering things along the line. As a lady, you must define what you want in a relationship before you go into it and once things are not working right, get out of that relationship because some men has no God's fearing heart as they can decide to look for a younger lady once they have seen all about you and maybe you must have committed abortion many times from him.

Ladies, be wise.

Jackpott:
I need not tell you my story bro... I tried to commit suicide five times. But as I'm still bouncing, you need not to worry. It will get better... And it will make you strong as it made me. Cos even if the whole world stands against me today, it wouldn't shake me. Just because my dad married my mum, instead of the girl they want him to marry.

Sure mehn, suicide is not the answer as every challenge in a man's life is what will would him for the future.

boombay:
*trolling mode deactivated*


guy yours is still better
I'm a troll on nairaland trying to have fun in order to forget my sorrows and pains I'm experiencing at home
God bears me witness that I'm crying as I'm typing this...
I'm just 17yrs... a fat handsome teenager
my parents are happily married and averagely rich...they can afford almost everything ,they gave birth to 4 kids
I'm the third born of the family

i wrote my waec this year...I failed tho (not proud to say it... I failed because i lack parental care
I registered my self for waec and jamb after stealing their money to get myself registered...
my two elder siblings are too mean ...they do give my mum advice just to bring me down physically academically, materially even socially


all the clothes and footwear I'm wearing.. I bought them myself....
they are always jealous of my progress.... my older siblings went to a well reputable private secondary school... I graduated from a public sec school...
see my brother everything will be alright soon....
just smile
TAG ME WHEN YOU READ THIS FINISH

*trolling mode activated*

Brother, never feel bad as I know that God is with you and He will direct your ways and make you a star in the presence of those who has looked down on you. If you are facing this kind of problem with your own biological parents, then I deduce it that devil has seen who you gonna be tomorrow and want to bring you down.

Keep looking beyond now and go to the world and make sure you get your education and with prayers, God will direct your ways and He will get establish you.

My brother, note that every man without a history is not worth a man. You have to see this as a challenge and NEVER disrespect him because your tomorrow will be better than today as he is your father. Always be in the attitude of prayer and commit your everyday life in the hands of God. He is your true father. Your father is been manipulated spiritually to hate you because the devil has seen that you will be a star tomorrow.

Thank God that you have a mother who is ready to assist you get your education which is the basic need of your life of tomorrow.

Do not think of suicide because devil will be happy that he has destroyed a STAR. Mehn, you are a star. Face your studies and look at every tribulation as a way to build you up for tomorrow's challenges.

Allow your father be and never feel pained over his attitude. Come one day, he will be on his kneels asking you for your forgiveness.
Just add joy to every bad thing he does to you knowing fully well that one DAY, you will never live with him forever. Pray to God to help you go through your school and come out in flying colours. The future is yours.

englishmart:
Lol. This man has told us he's not tired of coaching the super eagles! His ineptitude and defiance has become inundating.....

Old man quarrelling with his children (players) always.

First was osaze, then ike uche, also Moses, ememike, martins, and Sunday mba...

Having too many home based players in a team that has many impressive players abroad leave so much to desire...

If the home based players are very good, they will go abroad and face experienced midfielders, strikers and defenders..

Despite the fact that every team is formidable, Congo remains our underdogs....

So beating Congo is not a yardstick for excellence

Well said my brother. That is the truth about this

Famouspecky:
I'm getting married tomorrow to my best friend but I've started hating him since last night.
what am I going to do? or is this also part of the wedding fever??
because am scared to the bone

That is the work of the devil against your life. Be careful cus many things happen within the process of getting married and wedding.

Something is wrong and as such, you start praying and committing your relationship in the hands of God, if not, you will start having problem.

Olomubj:
Honestly one of her friends told me the same thing that you just reply to this matter that one was just asking me that she doesn't see her around me anymore that why is it like that and i told her what happens ..and to my surprise she said exactly what you jst post now...mhen mind are the same at time.God is so wonderful

Stay away from her as you have your life to live and if she wants, let her go to hell and waste her life, na her koko be that. You no send am. When devil is sure to destroy someone, they make them become enemies to those who will give them an advise that will help them solve their problems.

Dlionsheart:
Right on point bro, but it appears that the OP is either a learner, directionless, an un-principled guy or didn't know what he truly want in a relationship.
Permit me to say that about 50 percent (50%) of problems or complaints in relationship today can be avoided if partners or lovers TRULY KNOW WHAT THEY WANT IN A RELATIONSHIP AND SET THE TONE EARLY ENOUGH to achieve it.

No need to pretend, tell your lover early in a relationship your do and don't (it depends on the kind of relationship and other factors, though). When you started seeing dangerous sign like the op's case, frown at it and make her know your position - YELLOW CARD. And if she continue, GIVE HER RED CARD. A broken relationship is better than a broken home or marriage. But no, some guys are so greedy (maybe because they're not confident in themselves or are afraid to lose the girl); they're not happy in a relationship, they keep complaining about a girl but won't let her be.

MY ADVICE:
Be mature, be principled, be decisive, be a man and know what you want. If she did not fit into what you want or your desired lady, then, do the needful and save space on nairaland.

I RISE!!!

Mehn you are a man. Only True Men can come out and be straight and to call a Spade a Spade rather than allow the hole in between a woman's legs to deceive them. I wonder why a real man cannot say out his mind no matter what the hell is. If a woman prepares bad food for me, I tell her straight to her face that she made bad food rather than die in silence because with my point, she can now improve on her side as for the relationship to go on. Some men die in silence and start eating outside as a result of a wife who cannot cook and at the end he starts blaming evil spirit and witches around.

Op is truly a learner as you voiced it out here.

Dlionsheart:
Oga, @post ^^^^^, why did you say what I wanted to say

I was just about to say that before you rush to say it. Or are you from Russia?

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA MY PERSON, in fact this kind of relationship make me wanna slap some people. When you see signs like this, you have to know what you have ahead of you.Anyway, not many guys are smart and for Op, it's better he voiced his problem out in order to learn.

In fact OP, you just entered into One Chance with someone who is born to be a lair. He is just using you and to be straight with you, there is no where in the medical history whereby you will be told that if you dont have sEX you will not have an operation.

The guy is a criminal and you better walk out of that relationship. Maybe the guy has Aids or HIV and would want to transmit same to you and is here deceiving you.

Take a Run and not even a Walk.

Allow him to die. Buy him soap to play his manhood. Or let his go and use his sister or mother.He is a useless person. He is just using you and nothing short of that.

Olomubj:
Gud evening my fellow nairalander,hope the day was not stressful.please for god almighty sake i need your advice for a female friends of my she is 32 years of age this year June,so pretty that all men wil love to take her home for marriage but the problems she has is that she is stil looking for admission in to university at the age of 32 she has done 5 gud WAEC she couldn't make it,and she has brockup with many guy because of her dream to become a student of university @the age of 32.i advice her to settle down (marry) then she can obtain par time program that i can link her up in unilag,but she turn me to her enemy.pls my bro and sist wt advice do u hv for such person am so confused oo she doesn't great me again n if i great her she wil nt answer me though she is older than me

She is an enemy to herself and not you. Why bother about her. She will definitely remember your words when no man would want to have her. You have given her a good advise and at 32 without a husband, she is surely going down the drain.

The demons are after her and would not want any good advise from anyone that meant well for her.

charles009:
Hey Nairalanders,

I have a fiancee, and things have been moving on really fine.

But Lately She is becoming over possessive and i am becoming increasing afraid.

She quarrels over little things whenever she visits, ranging from why is the house so neat, why are all your clothes washed, who cooked your food, why are the perfumes smelling differently. and i have tried to disabuse her minds yet she keeps repeating all those crazy acts.

Now, hear this, Last night She almost got me terribly upset. She came to me and raised my armpits to check if i have shaved, Seconds later, she came again and dragged my trousers down to see if i also shaved my pubic hairs. when she noticed it wasn;t freshly shaved, She asked me who owns the shaving stick in the toilet.

Nairalanders how do i resolve this. This is no joke...

Op, you are gradually drifting into a big problem in your life. The worst relationship you can get into is where your partner is Over possessive. History has shown that most relationships that end up in violence or murder come from been over possessiveness by either party.

You have to get off from this relationship because at a point, it will be ' If I do not have him', nobody else and this can result in murder

Being possessive in relationship can be very dangerous to either party. Therefore, take a walk

He is not saying the truth. He said he tied a dead man with a rope and dragged him one side of the compound goes to show that he is not telling the truth. He must have wanted to use the guy for ritual. How can you start fighting with someone whom you invited to buy an aircondition and to hit him with a plank for refusing to assist you return same aircondtion to where they brought it out. Too bad.

Something is definitely wrong.It is not normal or love as it sounds or some people say here.Men, I have had something even more than what op went through.

Op, you better sit up and check yourself cus most comes with very bad result.

True African woman. I am so happy for this great African woman, who has written her name in GOLD. Congratulations.

tranxo:
[size=30pt]There is only 1 four-star General in this contest!....and you all know who she is.[/size]

[size=20pt]Don't quote this if you didn't read the contestant's Questions and Answers section.[/size]

ONLY ROKIATU'ROKIATU'ROKIATU'ROKIATU VOTE FOR HER.

tranxo:
[size=30pt]There is only 1 four-star General in this contest!....and you all know who she is.[/size]

ROKIATU'ROKIATU'ROKIATU'ROKIATU'ROKIATU

PLEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAAAAAAASSSSSSSSSSSEEEEEEEEEEE VOTE FOR ROKIATU

Dygeasy:
Contestant No. 6

<<|ROKIATU|>>


This beautiful endowed lady in her twenties hails from Liberia. She is a student of Pharmacy and right now she is volunteering as a bi-cultural worker on her free days and absolutely loves it. She enjoys hanging out with friends, and she really loves cooking. "I am like a personal chef in my house, I love the kitchen. I also enjoy listening to music, and of course shopping, everyone that knows me knows I just love fashion. I frequent Nairaland a lot, I mean as much as i would love to lie to myself and everyone and leave out nairaland I mean common, my post counts should be testimony hahahahah since 2006 been addicted to this place. I always have my phone with me always on nairaland, God bless Seun." She says

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On what she thinks makes her different from others, she has this to say "I am just like the next person walking down the street really, we all have goals, we all have worries, and off course we all want one thing happiness. The only thing that set me apart from them is my individuality, else I am just like the rest of the human species."

She looks out for in other people nothing other than kindness. "In this wicked and cruel world we live in today, kindness is a virtue I adore. That's the number one thing I get attracted to in a person, how they treat others says a lot about them selves. A good sense of humor never hurt anyone as a matter of fact, if you want to win me ovoverjust be funny. And someone who is laid back simple and knows how to have a good time." Pardon me. That is too deep not to be quoted.

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Her role model is her mother, "I adore this woman, I idolize this woman, I love this woman. My mother is my inspiration. My mother is actually an ordinary person with a lotlot admirable qualities. She has been through a lot in taking care of me since I was an infant. Right up to now she has never given up on me. In my own eyes I have always seen my mother as a very special and unique person, with a lovely and altruistic soul. She is such a committed hardworking and dedicated person. Despite being a single mother, She still manages to go to school, work, look after her kids including an autistic child. She is such a generous, giving, caring and wonderful human being. She is the true definition of beauty, inner and outer beauty. I can only wish to be half the woman she

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And when asked what her favourite food is, "You know what they say about Africans, we eat rice for breakfast, lunch and dinner hahahahhaah I hope that answers your question." Rokiatu is really,making it difficult for me not to quote her. Her goal is to achieve all her dreams, every single dreams she has. More like to achieve a goal and then another and then another. Awesome! Do you disagree?

"With all due respect to my fellow queens I believe we are all beautiful and special but I deserve to be crowned Miss Nairaland because my intelligence, confidence, and beauty makes me stand out among the rest. Another reason I entered this competition is because a girl said I was on the larger side for a competition like this, Since I widely disagree with her statement, I took it as a challenge to prove to her and everyone else with such belief that beautiful women comes in all shapes and sizes. Especially African women, that is what makes us so diverse." Okay this is it, Vote Contestant Number 6 as your next Miss. Nairaland.

ROKIATU'S QUESTIONS & ANSWERS

Question 1: Several women have competed in Miss Nairaland competitions in the past. With all the criticism and down-talking of contestants, many potential contenders were discouraged and opted out, but you didn't. Why did you decide to roll with the tide and participate in this edition of Miss Nairaland?

You know there is a quote that reads "if they don't know you personally don't take it personal"nairaland  critics don't affect me not one bit.  I actually really love the miss nairaland competitions,  Every  year, I follow it till the end, I find it to be really entertaining. This year I decided to participate.  Any one who knows me knows I don't care what people think, so this was a trivial matter for me. 


Question 2: What gives you an edge over your competition?

"Like I said earlier we are all queens in our own right, but my confident, intelligence and off course beauty and curves as well, lol, make me a strong contender. 


Question 3: How would a good friend or family member describe you?

"Friends and family would describe me as funny, talkative, intelligent, and generous."


Question 4: If there was one thing you could improve in Africa or amongst Africans, what would it be? And Why?


"To be more charitable, ever since I was a little kid, I always wondered why the rich never give back to the poor. certain people remain rich for life why others remain poor all their lives.      (please allow me to generalize here)  Our politicians are so selfish, They don't care about the people who elected them, all they care about is their own selfish interest. most Africans have no sympathy for their fellow men, they will do anything to reach/stay at the top and no one should even come close to them.  Even among the communities groups, jealousy, envyness, selfishness, and greed is holding us back.   If only we were more charitable, and giving I believe Africa would be a better place."


Question 5: Why did you choose your educational or career path? How would you use a position in your (desired) field to better situations in your
community?

"It was always a goal of mine to be in the health industry, I wanted to be a nurse but I don't like the sight of blood so I opted for pharmacy. I chose this career path because I wanted to do something that would be beneficial to my community.  I believe with this career choice, i will still be able to make an impact in my community."

Question 6: What was a recent goal that you accomplished? I got married to the love of my life hahahahahaha.



Question 7: The roles of women in the world are expanding. However, they still remain fairly limited. Do you think it's imperative that roles of women should be more than the typical maternal and/or spousal duties? What would you do to get more women actively involved in atypical positions?

The role of women is only fairly limited in certain part of the world, in most countries, women are allowed to do, and be what they want. Take for example, Australia, a former female prime minister Julia Gillard, and Liberia president Ellen Johnson Sirleaf, I am a huge admirer of women who have paved the way into so many varied areas that used to be only male dominated. I want my daughters in the future to be able to grow up in a society that allows them to be what they want. As individuals, we just have to change our mindsets. At the same time, I also support individuality, some wants to only play the "typical" role as you put it.    


Question 8: Given the chance to be a part of the www.nairaland.com administrative unit, what would you change about the forum and Nairalanders? What changes would you effect?

"Big kudos to seun, for the new features,  I really like the "mentions" and "likes" features. If I was part of the administrative unit, a dislike button would be added. and I really despite the censored words. I mean what wrong with sex that it has to be censored to intimacy?"


Question 9:What can't you do without? 

"I try not to be dependent on anything to the point where I can't live without it. Apart from air, water and food I can pretty much life without anything." 


[b]Question 10: Define "Beauty".

"As the saying goes "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder"  Beauty should not solely based on physical appearances. How each of us see beauty is subjective as it depends on the individual. I am a firm believer that the beauty of a person is within them.  And its true. Have you ever seen a wonderfully good-looking person and then speak to them and get a little closer all of a sudden you think "they are not all that after all?"  well that's because their beauty inside doesn't match their outside. There are other people who aren't so good looking at first but are kind, giving, loving, confident and just seem to have something that attract people to them. When you speak to them and get a little closer, all of a sudden you view them as "good looking". That's because their beauty within shines outwardly. That my friend is the definition of true beauty for you, inner beauty. It has no relation to features of our face or body. But rather character traits and qualities."

BREAKING NEWS, BREAKING NEWS
ROKIATU VOTED AS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL

The ONLY winner and the Most Beautiful among the contestants. We hereby Declare ROKIATU as the WINNER. Vote for ROKIATU

firstEVA:
He just bought another car, isn't he suppose to give me one, is it that he doesn't genuinely love me or he's just being selfish.

No bi ONLY selfish na, buyfish.U wann chop where you no sow.You said, your boyfriend and not even your husband. MUST HE WORK FOR YOU? In fact, you have displayed the kind of background you are coming from.Poverty is a decease.

Had it been that you are from where cars meant nothing, this topic wouldn't have come up. Op, you have low iq and need to be given pampers as a gift in order to grow up.

Creamish:
lolz.. she has alot already written about her here.
https://www.nairaland.com/1980633/miss-nairaland-december-2014-contest
https://www.nairaland.com/1982159/miss-nairaland-december-2014-contest

Thanx!

Vote for the Princess, ROKIATU, The most beautiful

rokiatu:
Oh wow Thanks so so much to everyone who voted for me, I truly appreciate it, thank you o much.
To my fellow contestants, we are all winners Omolala1, I luv you girl

Creamish, deife, Awho, Jejemanito, medunah, Guykhena, Ellemuah, wow guys we did it,


Special thanks to the judges as well.

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You are one in a million. A Princess and will always continue to be one.