simplynola:

Thats why i disagreed with the op when i read the post. I only believe in being blunt. Say it out without fear and remain free. Sorry i dont have, av got a lot of projects on my hand simple, no need for any empathy or sympathy. With time they get the picture and draw the line. Give once in a while when they never asked. If the situation is critical and you are flexible to help, go ahead but don't prove to be a Dangote cuz they will turn you to oldenburger cow and suck u dry.

thank you my friend. You have a good point

anonimi:

Don't you think we give the devil & voodoo too much credit for our own failures and INDISCIPLINE

its not about failure o..before her mother visited she ain't like that. Things changed after her mother visited. How I start suspecting that its a voodoo thing was when friends contributed money for her after the death of her husband, to rent a house to avoid ending up a hostel. Her mum called her and she just send all d money to her...she already send the money before she could realise what she had done.

2n2k:

The report says they came by air from Yola to Abuja and the money was given to them in their hotel in the night after having met the president. Are you inferring that they flew on credit or did not pay before checking into their hotels?

no my dear, in English language, when it's said that u were given money to cover the cost of something it means, u were given money to pay for a particular need. It doesn't necessarily mean u were owing before. hope u understand. Cheers!

Thank you vikel2104. Very very good points. Let me start by sharing an awful dilemma that my colleague in UK is facing.
She and her hubby has a good job they own a house have two kids. They never neglected family back home, they are always very supportive. She built her mum a house, sponsored her siblings through school, set up businesses for them. the husband has only two brothers no parent, he brought them to study in UK on a student visa. Her mum came visiting in UK after her return to Nigeria, she suddenly became greedy. She went as far as using voodoo to start demanding and collecting money from the daughter without empathy.
I witnessed one occasion, on that day she called and asked her daughter to send her £5000 to acquire a chieftaincy title. This lady didn't have that money but went to borrow from the bank and send to her mother. The financial demand didn't stop both from her married brothers and sisters until she ran into debt.
UK economy crushed, lots of folks lost their jobs or have their working hours reduced . she lost her job, could no longer keep up with her debt and mortgage. Her husband developed cancer was hospitalised, earlier this year her hubby passed on. To cut story short, she ran to her family for comfort during the distressing time, they shunned her. Because she couldn't afford to pay for her nephews tuition fee. Her mum called her stingy and selfish for the first time. Anyway, the bank took possession of her house and she resorted to renting again. No savings no job, ended up in bad credit record. Now she is trying to pick up her life. See what family did to her. They wrecked her dry. She has spent 28years in UK.

U should learn to feel comfortable, confidence and secure with the way u look. Trust me as a prospective young man, you still have a lot going on through ur mind.thus can be one factor why you ain't putting on weight. Give yourself couple more years when you've achieved greater success with a loving and caring wife by your side, trust me, you go robust, fresh and more handsome. When i met my husband he was indeed very skinny but now its different. No worry very soon you go turn shine shine bobo

When e don enter money matter naija people go begin read different meanings and exaggerate issues including the press. From a very very reliable source office of presidency only offered them financial support to cover the cost of their travel expenses and hotel accommodation.
People are making it seem like they are being paid for their misfortune. Na wah

People cheat because they lack the self discipline to resist the natural forces of sexaul attraction. Such people without realising it might become unprincipled. They may lost sense of self as they are wrecked with the emotional feelings of lust. They automatically lost control of their senses and no longer have the control over their sexaul urges. Their brain become preoccupied with the need to satisfy the hunger of their flesh. Anyway, enough grammar. People cheat because they lack discipline and self control. Nonetheless, there are many other material factors that can make people cheat that will depends on individual relationship.

This laurelP Sabi yarn opata well well. He is very rude and talks without brain and boundaries. No respect for people. Na so he quote me one time raining insults on me for no reasons and from no where. Insulting people old enough to be your mum. People dat u dont even know and whom have not insulted u before. If that is your idea of networking you better change it. I have take notice of you now. U dey my bad book for nl unless u change your username. If u like keep the insults coming. I will keep ignoring u or will I?

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hmm spacegoat if my husband catch u proposing to his wife ..ur spirit go run leave you..ha ha lmao

This speculator ezekwesilli and her propaganda sef? Where is the proof? The last thing a parent of a missing/ kidnapped child would want to hear is that the child is dead. Parents of missing children requires continual support and reasurance to give them hope to reduce their nightmares. This Nigeria government actions towards the rescue of the girls is too slow careless, not straightforward and not putting enough effort.. I Dont just get it, its been over 100days now since this vulnerable girls has gone missing and the search is suddenly going cold...na wah

#bringbackourgirls.

For this harsh economy times dem still dey reduce salary? Na wah? Naija minimum wage no be 18,000 naira? Abeg quote me if am wrong.

jennylove7575: noted . will ring u. Shey na Tmobile network ?

no na vigin o.. U fit flash me I go ring u. I get contract..

jennylove7575: yes ang. Not really a big thing but small. No shaking..shey Na the number weh end with 4984 abi?

yes that's it. Try call me make we yarn....not this night o..tomorrow morning from 11.break time things...Shey u get? Keep on rockings.

jennylove7575: Female suffers most that is why am a successful self employed lady.. Instead of me to sleep with one lame boss to get a job with salary that cannot afford me a first class ticket to Dubai plus shopping I rather stick to my alhaji and minister runz...shio

jenny jenny...cough cough..u are too funny. Madam controversy, ha ha . I got it but try inbox me the venue. Have dey got parking space? U know how C London dey be now. So Wetin be d theme, sekem or azonto?

RedBenson:

What is immoral about the comment? Did you read the earlier comment she made?

yes i did. she was only trying to defend that bad mouth jenny you called a prostitute. Calling a lady who made a harmless comment ashewo is not cool. Dont let most of this ladies comment get into you, as naughty and silly their comments may seem, they might not actually mean what they say but only trying to whine people up to get reactions. Do have a nice time.

kendrick93: dey could always sex their way to a job to be fair

to you, its suppose to be a norm isn't it? why do you have this awful negative perception, impression and conclusion about women? Do you think every woman is loose and would want to do that? Is it what you wish for your female relatives? I take offence to this comment. Dont ever quote me again please...WTF!

RedBenson:

Dont tell me you are imagining my dicck. It's not for you pls.

why do u say immoral things like that to this lady mabisi Not very nice. Hope u are fine?

The question shouldn't be why can't Muslims respect the culture of others it should be why can't extremist Muslim respect the cultures of others. And here is what I think is the answer, its because they are unreasonably stupid. In their abnormal skull, they think they can change and control the world in the name of "God". Everything this extremist Muslims does its not what Islam represent. True Islam represents peace, love your neighbour as thy self. In every disciples there is always Judas.

Another empty talk talk. Cheap publicity...mtcheww

I think the man is just an unfortunate victim of nemesis. It could happen to anyone in his shoe. If I speak my mind on how I truly feel on this poor fellow ordeal I might upset people so let me just leave it..I only wish him the strength to carry on...

In Nigeria its the female because of indirect sex/gender discrimination in the society, in relation to employment. Employment is unfavourable to women, Particularly married woman. In the private sector, their are very limited flexibilities for female employees. Only on the public sector which thus have very limited job vacancies.

*Face palm* See insane man seeking cheap publicity. Rubbish!

I Dont get this project. Hope it's going to create a lifetime employment for indigenes.. Sometimes, All this naija imm wayo favouritism project can't be trusted or worth celebrating over.

There are some certain things you read, you get put off. Then you question, why is there so much wickedness in the world?..hmm

The nine mini flat which area is it located?

To be married to an evil woman

To be ruined by a desperate money gobbling mistresses in the likes of ashewo.

To discover that you ain't the biological father to your kids after many years

To have your partner use love voodoo on you

To walk into ur wife pants down with ur relative or others.

To become impotent

Tallesty1: Madam gudu morni, you wan take style collect this one bkoz he is still fresh abi?

ha ha ha ha..no far from it. He reminded me of my cousin..na reserve good lad that's why I wan help. No be everything dem dey type...ha ha ha u funny

First of all u need to have self confidence...hmm I understand how u feel. OK u know what email me make I tell u what to do.. Dont worry about it, what is happening to u happens to lots of guys. It gets to show that u are a reserve person.

Fight, work harder to prove them wrong. Never ever give up in your dreams. Your dreams are part of what makes up your destiny. Dont let anyone put u down. Continue to believe in your self. At last you will shine. Life ain't stagnant.

First of all good topic...both of them is hard to find because humans are not perfect. We all possess our different unique characteristics and qualities. The only way we can make the most of our relationship is to be selfless, considerate and try to meet and support each other half way to fill in the gaps. That way, we can make them whom we want them to be. When a man or a woman start becoming extremely too selective about choices of partner, I begin to see people who are living in an unrealistic world. In a real world there should be room for getting to know the person, flexibility,friendship and trial.

farano: Abi o. Some guys may not admit it anyway

you dey mind them? Guys matter can wrinkle and age woman quickly.

fubbyy: but there are people in the uk running up and down, complaining about their small manhood,does it mean they haven't heard about this?

This whole thing doesn't work, like somebody said before its a mind thing, once you start using the product you thinks its getting bigger when its actually the same

I and u have not really tried it before so I can't say. All I know is that many guys who have used it, gives testimonial about it in magazines.and doctors recommend it too. I am a woman, I Dont think am in the best position to talk much about this men issues. Well good luck on your research nice chatting with you.