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True talk my friend...is this love? Could it be love? Can it ever be love? Can it be love? Was it love? Answer = yes its LOVE

Eayahhh, ha toh! Hmmm my face is flooded with tears and all my pancake washed away. Is this love? Could this be love? Can it be love?

This one hard o...I think u should do what your heart tells you. Matters of the heart no get one straightforward advice..

Danhumprey: Which one be women affair nau? It take two to tango!


Don't be stingy!

I don tell u. Na women affair..

BritneyStacy: I wouldn't have married him if I didn't love him! Infact, I married him because I could see that even when sex was not a regular feature of our dating/courtship, I still adored and respected him. Please note too, I did not say he doesn't know to how make love or his not usually turned on, I said his problem is that he releases at d slightest thing.

yeah I understand... There are ways u can still help me...to reduce his excitement. Its over excitement that causes a man to ejaculate quickly..Dont worry as a lovely lady seeking help we are here to give u all the support you need. I shall email good tips to you.. Just hang in there Dont give up on him just yet...

Danhumprey: Chai! Aunty please share with us nau!

ha ha ha ha ha..u funny o..na women affair o

Yungwizzzy: are you single??

no sweetheart am not..

Please check your heart deep down well if you truly and genuinely love this guy. If u can be able to acknowledge and accept the fact that he is not perfect, why can't u accept his poor bed performances. My dear, it takes two to tango. You can help him to improve in that area. You need to learn to how touch him at the right spots during romance. There are ways u will touch a man, he would want to have sex with u all the time. As a young girl, in marriage u have a lot to learn. There are so many tips but let me give u one...when both of you are together playing Romance ensure that you ain't wearing bra and always place his hands on your nippples...make him play with it...contact me if u want more tips to spice up up your marital sex life.

Why not? Provided its for good intention

This post unfortunately came too late when I already in a relationship. Anyway, nonetheless, yes I can date a person with deformity provided the person is caring, living and lively. I will see beyond the person's disability and love him for him. Though most disabled people comes with a lot of emotional baggage...

Priest2u abeg thank you as you dey help me draw this guys for ear...please tell them

In all truthfulness this can never happen in naija..the woman go just shove the man put for bustop, use am they beg people for money, weh she go take dey flex. That is if family even allow her marry blindy.

uglyogre: angela, you are always too nice, we know beauty is of the heart, but that doesn't change the fact that some people are damn ugly. blame it on nature

ha ha ha ha...you are right o but what can I say?..hahaha

With the way u are advertising yourself, na true love from runz girls u go find. I think you need to
Seek relationship advice from Samson. He will be able to tell you Wetin him eyes see for the hands of Delilah. If not, your head will be barbed.

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Peoples definition of ugly differs. We are all beautiful in our own unique ways. I associate ugly to attitudes rather than mere physical appearance. I guess that is the reason why the ugliest of man is married to the most beautiful woman.

Oh what a nice fellow. I am happy when guys says this words.."I want to get married to her" you are already special to this lady, just proposeto her during your quiet iintimate moment. With a subtle music playing at the background.... A music with this lyrics..

Nothing's gonna change my love for you
You ought to know by now,
How much I love you
One thing you can be sure of
I'll never ask for more than your love.....

I have forgotten the name of the artist who sang the song its got powerful lyrics... Try look it up on YouTube.

Ceasar1: [color=#000030]
It means Original Poster. - OP. [/color]

thanks love

Nothing to learn from this topic at all. Not a good role model story. My advice is, stop calling that lady your friend. She has long throat. Wen I met my man he had nothing both of us worked, planned and toiled together to achieve success.
Please in this changing world, you need to hang around people who will be a positive role model and influence to your life.

Please my NL friend ceasar1 Wetin op mean? Op seemed to be an overused abbreviation in NL. The op I know is the abbreviation of opio. So abeg Wetin e mean?

Timika: That's a Sad one. For me, to help anybody be it friend, immediate, or distant family member takes the grace of God. It not easy at all. If God gives you the grace know exactly who to and when to render help, then, you are really blessed, because youwill be sowing seeds that you will reap it's blessing in the future. Hence, there is a difference between giving because you feel people expects you to give or giving to show you have got it and meeting genuine needs. As some people have rightly said here, we have some heartless and unscrupulous relatives whose preoccupation is to find ways of running their relatives down.

Abi o. You've said it all.

[quote author=ijekul....na wah o. What she did to you is not good. This is the kind of experience that makes men to have little trust for women. Her behavior was somehow inconsiderate and thoughtless. Meanwhile, if na you do her dis kain thing now, she go judge you give everybody say you mean..hmm.. Not good. Me I love transparency in relationship. I detest dodgy things..na wah

[quote author=Slimmos][/quote]yes slimmos how can I help you?

2CatWoman: The bolded part is the key, not voodoo or juju. Some relatives can be extremely manipulative and some parents play up the respect aspect to much even going to the lengths of cursing you and your own children.

hmm its true o. No be lie this is another strong point o..na wah

blaxx: the doctors I've met didn't help much. THey prescribed some drugs: feed fine, a syrup, just can't remember all. They didn't work as expected. Can you draw an eating plan for me?

yes I can..just email me let's talk

komek: Aunty, nobody is manipulating or using Voodoo on anybody here. Some pple are like that. They want there wards to compete with other pple. Like making sure they live well at there own detriment. They will go all out to make sure there family members don't lack anything either because they are soft hearted or because they are doing it to compete with so folks or doing it to get so sort of praises. As soon as ur family members discovers this kinda person, u will become their milking machine where they run to for any financial responsibilities and obligations. Ur friend is finacially indisciplined that's why she is paying for it now. Family ko nuclear ni, if I hear.

its true. You have strong point o. Its better someone just harden his or her heart sometimes when its come to this over demanding family..strong point my brother

ijekul: Your last statement really brings plenty of bad memories

abeg gist me.

blaxx: no doubt a lot's on my mind... Like being on forbes list.lol. Lemme ask, if you see 1 skinny guy coming out of an Avalanche, what would you think? Won't you assume he's just a mechanic? I got a job I never applied for cos I was 'too slim'. The position I applied for was given to someone who had some flesh. You know how that feels?

what they did to u is bad o. That's discrimination. We are all beautiful the way we are. Maybe you should start eating greasy food, plenty butter and fatty food..ask ur doctor tho for further advice...someone once told me egovin is good but I can't be too sure..

okeyben10: yu were just too pretti as a child
yuh kids go fine gan

ha ha ha ha.. thanks sweetheart. My children are. You dey see vision o..ha ha ha. What a lovely lad!

ijekul: Ok I now see where your coming from.Am that kind of person too who usually don't care what your phone looks like or the contents in as much as there is mutual respect and responsibility.I always get suspicious when a girl always put a security code on her phone and always want to be alone while receiving calls.I do feel the person has a lot to hide...that's me tho!

its not only u that feel that way, I have loads of friends who feels that way in their relationship. But in my relationship I Dont consider that has important. U know people are different. Trust me, a lady who really want to cheat on her man will do it right under her mans nose without him knowing.

komek: Some part of this ur story na fiction abeg. Using Voodoo to collect money from her, that is satanic lie from the pit of hell in UK. Mtcheew.

it might seem so. But that was how I felt when she went to borrow £5000 to send to her mum for chieftaincy title. That money its alot to go to waste in acquiring a meaningless title. I still believe there is a manipulating force somewhere.

ijekul: Buh u do realise cheating starts from the moment u start deleting messages even on ur phone,keeping secrets and hiding stuffs from your partner.sometimes it doesn't necessarily have to do with sex or lust

you do have a good point..but it depends on the angle you are looking at it from. more so individual relationship differs. Like in my relationship I won't consider that as the start of cheating or cheating. I have well established mutual trust and respect in my relationship. I am not that type of woman who goes through her partners phone or try to monitor his movement. Because I believe relationship should never be a prison or a cage. Obssession in relationship causes unhealthy emotional unrest. I and my partner respects each other privacy and work well together to succeed. Individual relationship differs

anonimi: Please note & reflect:



When a person is MORE religious than RATIONAL, the person opens himsef/herself up to various influences that essentially reflect a state of being poor (as opposed to being strong & resolute) in spirit. My own interpretation that has worked very well for me so far against ALL forms of religious influence against rational decision making.
QED!
I hope you understand my point.....

hmm u have a point