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I think every relationship runs differently. It all depend on our background. In my own relationship, he pays the bills, we share one bank account, we run things together. As you grow older and more matured in a relationship, you found out that there are certain things you used to think that matters in a relationship which doesn't matter anymore. If you have a good relationship, both of you can work around issues. Its not good to be too petty in a relationship.. Pettiness is boring.

I think there is a problem of communication here. We cannot conclude that your girlfriend is cheating. Confront your girlfriend with your worries, fears and suspicions. Both of you should be able to talk about it as adults. Then ask her to make her relationship with her cousin a bit more transparent if you don't feel comfortable with it..effective communication is the key to resolving this issue..

Both of them are good. I use iPhone and note 3. I can't choose between both phones because am equally enjoying both phones..they both have their own unique features.

I read some of the comments and it amazes me. This issue its not about Igbo people and their love for money. In short, every tribes loves money and anybody from any tribe can commit crime. This is a case of a group of people who are involved in criminality and got caught period.

I have seen house number six on TV. Its owned by an American. The inside of the house is a big WOW! Its really gorgeous...

I believe this fraud story and the money involved is exaggerated. If u look deeper a lot of things didn't add up. Hmm no be UK?

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Guy am from the sam town with this twins see peter jonse I'm for come dat wedding to put I'm bro to shame but as it is now he jst kinda distanced himself from d family becos the general belief is that the wife is influencing him ( the main reason their mom kicked against the marriage) with his actions now he z justifying that notion in btw lola should be a peacemaker me I am not a tribalist I have met a yoruba angel dat z one In a million . But I knw my pple lola should convince em to see her as family not a family wrecker cos God forbid oh if something should happen to her husband now na she and her kid go suffer. #u don't only get married to a man u marry his family along too but most of our young girls dnt realise that till its late#

uncle you are talking trash. No insult intended. It seems u just opened up a new account just to insult people on nairand. To you everyone is frustrated. Is that a new word you just learnt? Please try and always spell check for your English is not correct. Rubbish!

This masculinity trend sef. Fejiro hun

Its not a sin. That's an extreme view. It has its own advantages and disadvantages.

Danhumprey: If every girl/lady has a mindset like yours,I doubt if relationship/marriage will exist. Just because of a sponataneous slap,which he even apologise for,she should quit the relationship,eh??

its mindset like mine that protect vulnerable women. Relationship is not by force. na small small rat dey chop bag. From slap it will enter punch and the next thing strangle. There are many good men out there who do not hit a woman. She should be patient she would find one. She can love again.

wittytezzy: My frend what do you know about terrorism?

I Dont know please educate me. We learn everyday

He didn't even mention if he has money.

It has nothing to do with Christianity but the awareness and precautions to breeding healthy offsprings...awareness and knowledge can come from anywhere..either church, mosque, babalawo cabana, market place, etc

I would say cancer and my ex boyfriend..

RoyalRoy: See hypocrites.... welcome madam!!! Did you miss the part where she slapped him back and even did more?

I guess she is even not a wife material herself

women have soft hands they dont slap a man aggressively they give men a sexy slap..ha ha ha. Joke apart. Even if she slaps him, as a man he wouldn't have retaliated. He is suppose to calm her

Why are all these extremist countries always linked with bible tihings. Afghanistan, Iraq, Gaza, isreal etc all this middle east countries are were we have the originators of the bible. Yet their descendants dont believe or follow what is written. They continued to cause chaos in the world in form of terrorism. This has made me to continue to question this bible thing sef. Rubbish!

If your boyfriend slaps you its a sign of an aggressive, abusive man. You never marry am he slaps u like that. What will happen if he marries you, of course he will knife you. I wonder what you are still doing with the guy. Please walk out of that relationship fast. He doesn't deserve you. He is a loser. Its a loser that hits a woman period.

Blacks are not idiots they are blacks..hmm! Very lame statement. Wetin be all this talks Nah

Crush is when you have a deep sexual attraction for someone. U just hunger to feel and taste their flesh. It comes with series of sexual infatuations without even getting to know the person first. Love doesn't just happen, its a thing that grows as you get to know the person and spends time with the person.

For future advice, resist your crush on a married man.

#Removeeyesfrommarriedmen#

Of course no man living in this modern day and age will follow all those bible rules, when all those were written, no Nairaland, Facebook, YouTube and internet. No rocket bomb, gun, no plane, in short no technology. Abeg its high time bible is re edited. welcome to the modern age.

This is a simple issue. In marriage, your wife or husband is your first priority. Brother or sister , mother or father, are secondary matter. He should present the job to his wife and both of them will workout the care needs of their kid. His unemployed brother will find work someday. No condition is permanent. For this one, the job should be given to his wife period!

Marrying a pastor will mean marrying
a talk active, Mr know all, Mr the lord said, Mr the bible said, Mr noise maker in the name of prayer, Mr pretender, Mr family crises councilor wannabe, Mr constantly dressing in suit and tie, Mr unromantic and boring, Mr living on handouts from church members contributions. And for the wife, u can't wear bikini at the beach, u can't watch Nigeria movies with tonto in it, only Gods channel. Too many restrictions. Well marrying a pastor is neither curse nor blessing its a gross inconvenience.

And the robbers excaped. Then weeks later the police men will pin the robbery on unfortunate innocent citizens just to prove they are doing their job...well we shall see where this story will end. No be naija police? Well done modakeke youth for your bravery but a candid advice, stop trying to play heroes, thereby putting your lives at risks. Next time leave the job for the police. May the souls of those who died during the course of the saga, rest in peace.

chamboy: is there anywhere in the bible that said runaway from devil

really? Was is not in d same bible that God used moses to take the Israelites out of Egypt. To be free from evil pharaoh? Do they need to spell it out in the bible..."flee from evil" ?

This world has gone insane. Terrorist everywhere... Malaysian airline hasn't been lucky at all this year..first their plane got lost in the sea now another plane shot down..to cover up, russia is quick to hijack the black box. hmmm! This world self!

What are all this Christians still doing in the north? They should by now realise that devil and his followers has become permanent occupants of the north. Nowadays, residing in any area in the north is a big risk. Well may his soul rest in peace.

I love this kind of news. What a talented young man. I so wish the government would appreciate his talent and support him..

Sometimes I just imagine me getting kidnapped,
E no go easy o....make the kidnapper come be fine boy, even when he frees me, I shall choose to remain kidnapped.. naija na wah!

okumbe: wow, this is a real woman. My girl I love so much just disappointed bc I doesn't give her enough according to her buh I care so much for dis that forfeit anything to make her happy. Buhhhhhhhh

Dont worry u will find another girl who would appreciate you and sincerely love u for u. Unfortunately, some women thinks that money is d in thing in a relationship but it ain't. Where there is love and understanding, both of u can work together to succeed..

This is the kind of news that makes flying frightening.. I think trekking is seeming more safer now.

My fine obi Mikel just take style dey strike all this nollywood actress. From Rita dominic to oge to halimat to Genevieve. Hmmm. Obi obi!

Na Since boko haram stole the nta cable.