₦airaland Forum

descarado:
Surprising
Are you married?

You are very wise.

Yes I am!!! Happily married by God's grace!

Old roguish politicians dancing surugede with the intelligence of their citizens...

Meanwhile, another set of old rogues are chilling at the side-lines, waiting for the very same suffering youths to collect peanuts and put them in office.

dasparrow:
And the kidnappings of innocent school kids continue. I am disappointed at parents who are still sending their kids to school in these volatile areas of the country.

Even at that... It will only be a matter of time before they start going from house to house picking girls for sex slaves and ransom.

These people are in for a long thing!!!

They are sacrificial lambs in a terror experiment being funded and overseen by their very own leaders!!!

There is a reason serious nations don't negotiate with terrorists... Simple reason being, once you accede to their requests, they either become emboldened to ask for more or encourage other terrorists to do the exact same thing.

Not only has this administration negotiated with terrorists, they have succeeded in turning terrorism into a booming business by funding them through payment of billions in ransom.

The North is DOOMED!!!

“...Certain words that we were afraid of using before such as genocide and ethnic cleansing, are now taking over the media waves."


Certain atrocities never known before like Farmers unable to farm due to attacks by herdsmen, shooting of unarmed protesters, arresting of critics by the government, billions being swallowed by serpents and monkeys, etc, have now taken over this nation under your watch.

Agunwa001:
This one is not hunger again. Its greed

What exactly are we supposed to do with that pishure??!... You wan dry the spit wey dey our mouth shebi??!

gimakon2:
See as human being day think sha. So, no girl to you is hard working?
Kai. Na wa

Trust me, some of the guys who comment on this forum are mentally disturbed! There can be no other way to explain it.

Hezzyluv:
Real G.O.A.T

But with the way Messi left Barcelona, will he return one day? Just curious.

10 to 12 years from now, he will either be coaching Barcelona or Argentina.

So yes, he will definitely return!

Southerners, if una like continue sleeping, wining, dining and playing stupid politics... Don't wake and guard your territories!!!

If Northerners have decided to remain pawns and sheep for slaughter, that's their business. The rest should wake up and tell these Nomads that there is no vacancy here!!!

Next News Please!

Mekudi:
you'll understand when you marry

Leave them... They should keep dulling on Instagram!

They think constant sex is the reason successful couples stayed married for decades. They know nothing!

Ogaga87:
Na person wen get joy dey enjoy sex.. Psychological, Buhari has killed many libidos.. When person dey think how to meet up with the current spike in cost of living, you say sexx go fit solve the mata, no way

This is one thing many people don't understand... They think sexual urge is something that can be switched on like radio regardless of the circumstances or situation on ground!

Fiscus105:
Hope you read OP but you commented? Also i biliv you know how to comment appropriately, The post is about how wives are being sex starved and not about how couples (man and woman) go out to consume lust

In the scenario, its husbands that goes out to and abandoned wives.

I explained this too...

It's a two-way thing:
1. The man goes out due to loss of interest in his wife (Death of mutual attraction).
2. The man doesn't go anywhere, simply loses complete interest in sex largely due to career demands, diminished testosterone, mental stress choking out his sex drive, etc.

Both are real, and happening all around us as I type this. This also happens to women!

I also proffered solutions... If there is love and mutual respect, the above issues outlined above can be resolved by mutual and concerted efforts. But that will only happen where both partners are open about these sensitive issues. Not the one being sexually starved keeping it to him or herself while it causes them to drift apart, till the starved one ends up in the arms of a stranger.

CHoccolaTE:
You too dey lie

Don't mind the Porn-addict!!!

Fiscus105:
You want to go out to consume lust? Yet someone daughter is in ur custody being starved day and night yet she must be faithful to you

Put urself in that shoe bro.

Lol... Did you really read that carefully??! Or you were all too much in a hurry to be defensive??!

I merely painted an everyday scenario without taking sides! Matter of fact, that scenario happens both ways (same thing can happen equally to men and women).

Sex drive always dims in marriages... Some times it happens to men likely due to stress, worries, career demands, etc. It also happens in women (child birth demands, hormonal changes, childhood trauma, etc)! Over-familiarity can cause both to be less sexually attracted to each other, leading to lust for what is outside.

This is the reality faced by married people! The wisdom, maturity, and mutual respect to handle it makes the difference between those happily married for decades and those bitterly divorcing after a few years...

Don't take my words for it... Do some research. Ask around!!! I take no sides, and I come in peace!

Vinnie2000:
I don't think you understood her properly..
I Think she is saying a Man should be performing his Sexual/financial duties to his Wife..
In such a way, Dat if she has a lover, she will be Willing to Jettison dat lover when it becomes necessary!!

But Can a married woman ever forget her Lover's Dicck?

If that statement in bold is exactly what she meant then my point stands the more...

In terms of provision of finance, today's married Nigerian men are actually doing far more compared to their fathers... How many married women today contribute financially to their homes compared to those of generations past??! Our mothers put in their all to ensure financial burdens were lighter on their husbands, even while staying faithful...

The issue of sex is sensitive and also about maturity and understanding... It shouldn't also be one-sided! Meaning if one person is not forthcoming, the other should find out the root problem and make serious efforts to resolve it, not seeking satisfaction outside (Something both parties are guilty of these days)

Bro, I am neutral in this matter... Marriage is a two-way traffic, not one-way! It takes two to tangle!!!... If both parties play their parts well enough, divorce rates would be lower than the shocking reality we see these days. No one should hold brief for either gender! Both are messing up equally.

A lot of women keep men at arm's length during dating and courtship, with the man nearly getting mad in his hunger to get in there... After wedding, the man gets his fill of the sex (most guys get over the sex thing after a few years. FACT), and is just content to be a husband and father, providing all they need in the home.

Strangely, this is the point the sleeping or latent sex drive awakens in the women... And BAM! The man is no more sexy, romantic, and interested in sex... So, time to look elsewhere to sate the consuming lust.

This is all too common everywhere.

Antoeni:
"Ladies If your primary objective is to look sexy...
you will only attract guys whose primary objective is to have sex"

...And after the sex, what next?!!... Nigga will move on!

pocohantas:
Only a foolish man will leave his wife for a side-guy. This generation of men know nothing about keeping homes. #spits

This generation of men?!! Excuse me?!!

How many men from the older generation kept their homes in the face of a cheating spouse (which was extremely rare)?!!

Are we gonna actually cast this generation of husbands against the past who rarely if ever had to deal with infidelity?!! Come now!!!

I hold brief for neither gender (they both seem hell bent on outdoing each other in stupidity these days), but I must say infidelity was the least of most men's worries in marriages decades and generations back.

babadee1:
He's not defending her abeg. He's saying he wronged her first.

He is definitely defending her... Other than that, why post this after the scandal of her infidelity on live TV?!! Lol.

Charmingrascal:
How will he feel if he remembers how his wife got intimate with another man on National TV.

Remembers?!! How can he forget?!! The video is on the net... More than likely, his friends and families have seen it... Some will even have a copy saved in their phones for posterity.

The idiot should have kept a low profile and taken himself out of the spotlight immediately... But he went on to make a fool of himself.

This is a very weak man. She should dump his ass!!!

Blakpot:
Couldn't agree more. The central midfield should have been fixed to a degree in this window. They should have gone for Saul or Neves. Fred n Pogba in midfield made Wolves look like Bayern.
To think that Mctominay is Man U best midfielder says it all.

Ppl expecting Ole to win the EPL should stop dreaming.

United board and Ole must be on the very same drug... The fact that they even have a sporting director makes it all the more disgraceful.

Fred should never start a top game for any serious club.

I will never understand why Ole will continue holding on to that Brazilian and Martial! It's just funny!!!

simple250:
Tegas kiss with Boma was a passionate one,Sorry bro you got married to an halot just massage your ego .We feel your pain

...Or she never really loved him! Not necessarily that she's a harlot.

A lot of married men and women with kids are still searching for love out there. FACT!

Sigh... What exactly are we supposed to do with this??!... Somethings are better left unsaid, especially with regards to your marriage and personal life. Worst part be say no one asked him, no one knows or wants to know him... And no serious person gives a flying fvck!

This man is a SIMPleton! Tufia!!!

ipobarethieves:
They carry kettles up/down,Wash their preek with kettle water but deep down their heart,they are Evil

Those ones... Very hypocritical bastards!!!

collette10:
That's how they said about Cavanni. Yet he was banging in goals, despite series of injuries and all. Zlatan too, same thing.
You guys keep forgetting that Ronaldo is not just a regular 36 years old. He is still very fit, all thanks to his discipline as an athlete. Ronaldo is more fit than most players younger than him.
In United, he won't have to struggle for anything cause the team already has players that will create for him. His work is just to convert chances for the team.
Will the team create chances for him?
Definitely!.
And Ronaldo is very clinical.
How positioning, His movement, His Game Reading etc are top notch.
That aside...
United players do not have the winning mentality, cause in actual fact, how many of them have won trophies?
Ronaldo coming into the team, that winning mentality is coming alongside cause he is a serial winner. He always wants to win.He is never satisfied.
Most of the pundits claiming omniscience and all can't coach to save their lives.
Little wonder they are in studio saying thrash..

Well said... Especially that clown called Jamie Carragher! The idiot irritates me along side that Souness!

jmoore:
I.pity man utd fans expecting to win the league because of Ronaldo.

Every club has a drought.

You have to wait for more than 30 years before man utd wins the EPL.


The services of Sir Alex Ferguson is what is missing.

So relax till 2043 to increase your hopes of winning EPL.

No serious club will wait that long tbh... (I can't help but wonder at Liverpool tho)

United has been inching close to the EPL since Ole took over... Truth be told, they should have won it last season. Stupidity on the part of coach and key players cost them that trophy, not to mention the useless fans who made F.A punish them with that impossible fixture (Liverpool and Leicester) which practically handed the league to City!

If both coach and players get serious this season, learn from last season's preventable slip, they will be on course to win it...

I expect a close and tight fight to the last games among United, Chelsea, Man City and Liverpool!!!

Which kind talk be this one sef... Are defenders supposed to fear him before??! Nor be the same blood dey flow for their body. Is any serious attacking player supposed to fear Van Dijk??!

Of course, he can't be as slippery and fluid as he was years back in England. The same can be said of Messi. That's the beautiful thing about aging gracefully in your career.

Ronaldo should do his best, and the others in the team should do theirs. Victory will be certain... Having Cavani and Ronaldo should inspire other kids around them to step up... A lot have grown since Cavani joined. Ronaldo's presence will compel the others to step up!!! That is the beauty.

Look at De Gea for instance... Getting shoved aside by Henderson and Simon (National team) must have pushed him to step up. His last 3 games were exceptionally brilliant, especially that Wolves game.

Humanoid01:
Most of his goals will come from penalty kicks and probably free kicks.

Free what??! Nigga can't score a free kick to save his life... They best leave that for his fellow countryman.

Hemanwel:
I am not a Man Utd fan; but, how can a Man U with Cristiano Ronaldo, Edinson Cavani, Marcus Rashford, Paul Pogba, Raphael Varane, David De Gea, etc, not be able to win the league this season?

We sure have a very interesting EPL season ahead!

How can they not win it??!...

Answer: When they have a Norwegian Health Instructor experimenting and tinkering with the squad!

RapistOnBail:

Ronaldo has decided to end his trophies ambition.

Personal effort!

He has paid his dues... He went back to lend help to the club that made him. Learn to appreciate good things.

While I understand the market value of this player to United, the question remains... Will or Can he translate this hype to goals and needed victories?!!

Such a shame y'all failed to get a proper solid DM... God help Ole and Fred!!!

No serious team should be having defensive and offensive loopholes this tough season.

garfield1:
His integrity is unquestionable

Really??!... I have heard contrary. Matter of fact, the average Anambra person doesn't even want to hear his name.