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yorke:
Benzinho or whatever you call your name.if i should get hold of u, i will send you to hell.

LOL   , tell it.

TheSeeker:
When things like this happen, it shouldn't come as a surprise anymore because we've heard the weirdest thing happened before as well as we've seen a lot more.

cuteruth:
if my husband cheats on me i would forgive him because there are no perfect relationships.
i would also forgive and reason out things in some areas where i had failed to meet up.

whitelexi:
And dont worry, i'll write one strictly for u

yeah u do dat

whitelexi:
Thats remarkable, but i feel a bit under-appreciated right now cos that poem was written within 5mins of reading the post and i really didnt have much time to think of the controvertial lines:
Plus i was only trying to make the OP feel better - more like console her cos her own poem had a hint of heartbreak to it

Lol, relax man, your poem is aite, hehe i hope dat comforts your bruised peom writing ego but ul have to do better than that to make me see u deserve to be overestimated. 

nana:
_{*omo u go fear*}


U need to tell the guy that proposed to u about his rival(if he doesn't know) and let him know about the threat. Dunno if telling the police would solve anything.
_{*that's what u get for double-dating*}

puskin:
Damn. . .
Weed smoking is just getting rampant these dayz.

LOL

omega25red:
My dude move on forgive her stop accepting her calls and close that chapter in your life.

you will love again and you will find your own love and someday you will have your own family. 11 years is a long time but sh#t happens and when it happens you adjust your life and move on.

excellently said!

I would understand that you are feeling hurt. But sure you can move on. Give yourself time to get over it slowly, dont push yourself. A time for everything. Now is a time to grieve over such loss. Grieve AND heal. Dont remain stagnant on her and memories of the past times you spent with her (long they may be). I promise you, you'll find strength within yourself and from God (as I see you cry out to Him). Miraculasouly, you will get over it and it will surprise you one day. Forgive her as she is asking and as long as she's asking for that only, give that ONLY to her. And you will definitely be able to love again, for as long as you dont carry this weight load into the next relationship you'll have. When you get over it, leave it as a memory, painful and sore it may be, but think of it positively, it was an experience that made you stronger and much wiser. She even led you to God. Some people may come into your life to fulfill a greater purpose than that which you were hoping for. Its very good she brought you close to the God you have to rely on now, who would ever know you will need Him to 'fight' her? Let God's will be made perfect in your life. And you will find another woman who will be able to at least fulfill some of your needs and desires. I just ask you to not measure every woman against her, I can see you really adored her, but let the next woman you have be herself and DONT compare her with this girl. For now, take pleasure in the simple things, it helps to heal alot. And just meditate with Christ. Open the ears of your heart, you'll hear His almost-silent whisper giving guidance and direction. I got your back all the way hey  .