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Romance / Re: Varginity As A Problem by AniLee(f): 4:17pm On Jun 17, 2010
R3tr0st^r:

Actually, I've been in NL longer than you so yes I know

lol, ok, moving on then,,,,,,
Romance / Re: I Dont Want To Hurt This Wonderful Lady by AniLee(f): 4:15pm On Jun 17, 2010
norrisman:

Thanks Pokerface, Creamish and Bigrod

I know my story was a bit too long so probably not everyone understood me properly

@ Bigrod

I do not want approval to go ahead and cheat on my wife with Shade. I completely disposed of any thoughts of having sex with her once I had gone on a second date with her and found her to be wonderful person. I continued to see her becuase there was an aura about her and I just had the urge to help her even though I could lay my finger on what the problem was.

My problem really is how to tell her what the real situation is without her thinking I am only saying it because I now know about her condition. God knows I only had good intentions (from the second date that is)

yeah your story was a bit tangled but thanks for clarifying. Well, you may only but tell her the truth, and pray do hope she understands. She probably will, and if you really mean good for her, then your friendship needs not stop here. But just dont do it behind your wife's back cause even if she'll understand your stance, she may feel a little hurt that you didnt tell her (your wife i.e.).
Romance / Re: We Both Have The Same Genotype by AniLee(f): 4:10pm On Jun 17, 2010
maureena:

olodo . I think you need to go back to secondary school and study your integrated science not biology cos you have to start
from there.
At your age, you should be talking about how to focus on your education and not a woman.

Marriage is not all about sex, there is more to it that what you are seeing.

to maureena and @ all others thinking likewise: first of all, i dont expect the guy to know about AA, not everyone knows everything you do and vice versa. There is stuff he knows that you dont, and there is stuff that you think obvious that may not be. Asking is not stupidity and education is a lifetime process.

on 2nd point, at his age, i think he should be encouraged to pay some attention to the woman especially if he has intentions of making her wife

and on third and most irritating, did the guy even speak of sex please FOCUS.
Romance / Re: Varginity As A Problem by AniLee(f): 3:58pm On Jun 17, 2010
if u been in NL longer, u wud know
Romance / Re: Falling In Love With A Mature Man Who Is 14 Years Older Than Me. by AniLee(f): 3:54pm On Jun 17, 2010
sofeco:

She's only advertising the site here.

Lol, was thinkn likewise.
Romance / Re: I Hate Virgins. by AniLee(f): 3:51pm On Jun 17, 2010
moving on,,,,,,
Romance / Re: Am I To Tell My Friend? by AniLee(f): 3:29pm On Jun 17, 2010
Carolece:

That is my problem. I dont want to create a problem where everthing seems "perfect". She is happy and sing praises about her husband, so I dont want to be the one to make her unhappy. But looking at it deeply, if or when she finds out, its going to hurt deep. I am saying to myself, I rather loose a friend for a time being than loosing them for good. I am really thinking to tell, but just dont know how I would word it, as I dont want to just give it to her raw as it is.

Any suggestions on how you'd tell a friend something like that?

[b]Ok, first of all, lets not assume that your friend is happy. Depending on how close you two are, she can tell you what she wants. But on the other hand, she might truly think her marriage is based on a paradise foundation. Most women who try to paint pretty pictures about their marriages are actually in deep pain and you may be surprised to find out that they do know about their partners' promiscuity. Nonetheless, I am not saying this is the case for her, all am saying is keep an open mind to this. I have many friends who at some point pretended their marriages were smooth seas while deep inside they were experiencing rough storms and all that comes with it.

Secondly, if she genuinely doesnt know, I think its easier for you to approach your cousin first before approaching her. you are at a better placed position to command honesty towards her from his part, if this fails, then its you to decide whether to tell your friend or not. If you decide to tell her, dont be harsh and so upfront about it, cause that will just make it seem very suspicious on your end, rather use hints. Or even better, ask her about her marriage and if there are any burdens she would like to share, then i believe you'll be able to take it from there.

All the best.
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Romance / Re: How True Is Dis by AniLee(f): 3:11pm On Jun 17, 2010
hey i think you forgot to say Love is God. Period. And if u got Life in ur heart then the obvious follows. Nice try tho, it woud suit better in the poems forum
Romance / Re: Guys How Would You React If A Girl You Were Dating Tells You She Loves You First by AniLee(f): 3:08pm On Jun 17, 2010
whats the issue if she does? people are different, others are quick, some slow, at the end of the day what counts is the honesty behind those three words.
Family / Re: Man Impregnates Mother, Daughter by AniLee(f): 3:06pm On Jun 17, 2010
, humans for you,
Romance / Re: Should I Accept Him by AniLee(f): 3:02pm On Jun 17, 2010
OLUJIME:

I thank you all for the answers you have given me. I must say I'm really proud of you all.

But I need more please.

IN MY FURTHER DISCUSSION WITH HER ABOUT THIS ISSUE, SHE SAID THAT ANOTHER THINGS THAT MAKES HER DOUBT THIS MAN IS THAT HE WANTS TO have intimacy WITH HER. SHE SAID THAT HE NEVER HIDE HIS SEXUAL FEELINGS FROM HER THAT EACH TIME THEY STAY TOGETHER HE WOULD TELL HER HE WANTS TO MAKE LOVE TO HER. HE ALWAYS TELLS HER THIS PLAINLY.


Honestly speaking, I would only be worried if a guy didnt express his intentions to make love to a woman, then something would be just seriously wrong wit d dude, i mean the man is human for crying out loud, what the hell do people want him to do? chop off his d*ck to prove he loves her? drain out all his flippin hormones? Obviously he got se*ual urges as do us all and no one needs to lie to us about that, eish. And am even more stunned that he held himself back and didnt force her into intimacy, and actually thats what counts more. The fact that he's waiting on her, how much do does a bredren gotta prove himself oi, and moreover it aint as if no woman has no sexual urges too, angry angry
Romance / Re: What Will You Do If It Is You by AniLee(f): 2:51pm On Jun 17, 2010
infiniti:

very silly post. at the end of the session, was she a V or not??, hisss!

yeh i wanna know too, cause wasnt dat ur main aim to find out??
Romance / Re: Varginity As A Problem by AniLee(f): 2:41pm On Jun 17, 2010
eish this virgin threads, lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Romance / Re: I Dont Want To Hurt This Wonderful Lady by AniLee(f): 2:25pm On Jun 17, 2010
word @ queeneve

@ poster, its simple: grasp all, loose all. greed is at one point, man's downfall. you THOUGHT Shade was perfect only to find out what disturbs you so. I guess Life has a way of throwing evil back at ur face hey, heard of that saying the ashes of burning coal fly back into the face of him who throws them? Well, u didnt do ur wife and marriage fair and so, you cant expect to get what you want.
Romance / Re: What Is A Blood Covenant by AniLee(f): 2:19pm On Jun 17, 2010
is between two people, male/female, done in form of a vow by licking each others blood,that is de male licks the female and the female does otherwise, and it signifies any common goal between the two
Romance / Re: Should I Tell My Friend His Girlfriend Doesn't Love Him? by AniLee(f): 2:08pm On Jun 17, 2010
its best if the man finds out for himself.
Romance / Re: Why Do Married Old Men Go Out With Young Girls by AniLee(f): 8:11pm On Feb 19, 2010
MRbrownJAY:

its ungodly TO YOU!!!!!!
- why would you think that any of these people are god fearing christian?
- why would you think that any of these people care about what the bible or your pastor says?

live YOUR life the best you can and stop worrying about what your neighbor is doing.

cant help agreeing
Romance / Re: Heeeelp by AniLee(f): 8:05pm On Feb 19, 2010
so you are the other brother who is willing to have her get married to her boyfriend? well, then wat she waitn for? in today's age and era, screw sibling acceptance for us to get married. At least she has ur support. And if her boyfriend can take good care of her (as i see she is young) then whats stopping her??
Romance / Re: Why Women Put Beer In The Bottom Of Refrigerator by AniLee(f): 7:59pm On Feb 19, 2010
  lipsrsealed i shall speak no evil,
Romance / Re: Messages On Girl's Phone by AniLee(f): 7:47pm On Feb 19, 2010
all i can say is; if ur gal says its fine if you break up, den dat honey must b gettn sum sugar from sumwhr. wat kinda person would be fine wit a break up afta 3 yrs of being in a relationship esp when the other partner is NOT at fault. She is interestd in sum1 else. He has her wrapped around his finger and she gave in so wateva man. U deserve better dan she is offering u ryt now. So its up to u to call the shots. Break it if it cant be fixed.
Romance / Re: Why Do Married Men Prefer To Stay Most With There Girlfriend Than There Wife? by AniLee(f): 7:42pm On Feb 19, 2010
i thought the search engine in nairaland had a purpose. how many times wil dis topic be posted
Romance / Re: A Sacrifice In The Name Of Love by AniLee(f): 7:38pm On Feb 19, 2010
LOL @ Pittbaby, glad u fl me
Romance / Re: Guys, How Do U Turn Down A Lady's Love Advances Without Bruising Her Ego? by AniLee(f): 7:35pm On Feb 19, 2010
MRbrownJAY:

be straight and direct to her, you should say:

MISS, I THINK YOU ARE REALLY BEAUTIFUL AND I AM FLATTERED BUT I HAVE SOMEONE IN MY LIFE THAT I LOVE DEARLY AND, IF YOU PUT YOURSELF IN HER SHOES, I AM SURE YOU WOULDNT WANT ME TO DO YOU LIKE THAT.
ALSO I THINK YOU ARE A GREAT FRIEND AND I WANT TO KEEP IT THAT WAY SO PLEASE LETS LEAVE IT AT THAT.


couldnt agree more
Romance / Re: Why Do Married Old Men Go Out With Young Girls by AniLee(f): 7:32pm On Feb 19, 2010
I'll tell you why they do this. Cause young girls are still young and nice and fresh unlike their wives. Most married men who have wives in good body shape and are still active enough to keep the intimacy entertaining and hot, dont really look for young girls. But most married men, follow girls who they feel will satisfy where their wives have failed and I think this is justified. So, wat we gon do? Ama keep my body nice and attractive all through marriage and engage in sexual pleasures that turn him on so that he dont find dat no where else. If he does, he's prob jus looking for fun. Either way i will not lie in saying that i may not do the same thing. If my husband becomes this fat blob with a pot belly, am obviously gon look for a much more attractive man (and he knows dat coz i warned him). Sorry, dats just dey way it is.
Romance / Re: Did He Read My Thread? by AniLee(f): 7:24pm On Feb 19, 2010
and ur point is if i may ask?
Romance / Re: A Sacrifice In The Name Of Love by AniLee(f): 7:21pm On Feb 19, 2010
heee some topics, i read the thing twice but i stil dont understand it, green card, papers, wife, married, another woman, intimate with someone else, i mean what noodle scramble is this
Romance / Re: muscular vs cute face (for the ladies) by AniLee(f): 7:16pm On Feb 19, 2010
Muscular NOW AND FOREVER AMEN

@Kgdavid, nba muscular is not bad but i'd rather football muscular
Romance / Re: Ps I Need Your Advise! by AniLee(f): 11:07am On Dec 11, 2009
Love is not over-rated. Love is God (and vice versa). Fullstop. Period.
Romance / Re: What Will U Do With The Nu.de Photo Of Your Girlfriend Or Boyfriend That Hurt U by AniLee(f): 11:06am On Dec 11, 2009
hmm "moving on" wouldnt be a bad idea. I mean, they hurt you, yeah it happens, so just move on cause sooner or later you will anyway. I could return the pic to them, or throw it away or whatever. And start living for me again afresh.
Romance / Re: Ps I Need Your Advise! by AniLee(f): 11:01am On Dec 11, 2009
^^^ uuuuh can someone pls remind me at how old ma granny married and yet she is still with her husband till this very day and moment as i type this!! So please, if the poster feels she is ready, I encourage her to go for it. Age doesnt determine the readiness for marriage.

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