thatineed:

Yeah, there is more to this. We have had similiar arguement in the past, when he came down to see me and suddenly decided he wanted to go visit his friend. I wanted to go with him and he said no, and stood his ground. I allowed him only for him to come back to my end at midnight. I could not help thinking he went out to meet another woman but he kept saying it was a male friend. We had arguements on this, but we later settled.

I thought he would have learnt from that. So repeating similiar stunt again, leaves me with no choice but to be extra careful with him

i am not ready to offer any unconditional love to a man that brands me stubborn and potentially wicked . you guys have no idea how much love i have shown to this guy !

thatineed:

What hurt me the most was the name calling.

Stubborn and potentially wicked? Just because i wanted to see him to the airport. A gesture that is borne out of love

Yeah i think i would understand that. Dont worry dear, you'll be aite. For now you may have to swallow it all in, but when everything will be calm at a later point in time, you may tell him it really hurt you. I do hope he'll see through and apologise and never repeat it again. And I know the name calling wasnt neat nor justified even though he's under pressure. Hope he'll come around. For your sake . Hang in there hey.

thatineed:

That were my exactly my own thoughts. He knows that i will want to see him off to the airport and do the usual ceremony of kissing, hugging, etc. This is someone i see about once in three months averagely. I might not see him again till December, so i just wondered why all the big fuss in seeing him off to the airport.

His reasons for not wanting me to go with him was that i would ''travel back alone on the train'' and i told him that was no excuse. Afterall, i ''travelled all alone'' to welcome him at the airport. I even got there way ahead and i had to wait in the cold for over an hour.

Ben-10:

Too much 96.9 FM.

LOL too true. Nonetheless all my love goes to HunkyD, T.2, Eritae, Gad, Bruno, Nick, Koffie, Spins, Sams, Khanyi, DN, n all the bredren with whom I have slaved and lived all times side by side. Esp to HunkyD for believing in me esp when I didnt in myself, sharing the same dreams, supporting in d tints and inks zone and our never-ending quest to bring dat paper good down home. In d end, its all bout d paper right .

debest1:

i sure dont like girls!

we TOTALLY understand (pun intended )

galatico:

she shoudl have told you bluntly that I don't give out my number instead of giving you a fake number it's so disgusting .

debest1:

gal the ship has sailed move on and stop holding on to memories, even if u helped make him wat he is today, he's with someone else now let it gooooooooooooooooo

rita@NL:

Why are you forcing yourself on her ? If she needs you,she will come looking for you.Move on man.

Outstrip:

Gosh you are wicked

I think you just want reassurance but what you need to hear is that she has moved on and so should you. Ignoring you around her family says to me that she does not even want her people to know that she is serious with you. Going back to Lagos without you pretty much says Bleep off. You are only 26. You will find someone else to love

phraoh:

Askin cos am yet to see a 9ja person leavin in trailers ^{unless am ignorant},moreover,i dont fink u will see a 9ja gal after such episode on tuesdae ^{except she doesnt like hersef}.

D guy mite hv some luck AWAE cos d ladies actually dnt gv much 4K abt such trivial matters.

nethacker:

sorry my sister hw do u mean?

Magnifico9:

I also don't feel emotional at all right now, Should I go ahead and give her a chance, And if somethinb like this happens. Just end it for good, ?

nethacker:

The most important factor here should be understanding n love is 2ndary my brother. if u understand her well,u will love her more but if u love her too much n u dnt understand her,the love might fade with time.And verily, a woman need know but one man well, in order to understand all men; whereas a man may know all women and understand not even one of them.There is a great difference between loving,knowing and understanding: you can love n know a lot about a lady and not really understand her.
Do u love her = yes
Does she love u = yes
Most importantly
Do u understand her
does she understand u
my 2 cents

eish now dats a hectic answer

iice:

eyah. She prolly slept with him to get back at you
It's human to make mistakes. . .not everyone has strong will.
If you can forgive her, you guys can try to work on your communication/bond. Seems something wasn't there hence her first dumping.
If you can't. . .take time to heal. All things come to past.