Ebonyeyes:

You should have joined the, I thought that was every mans dream

CrazyMan:

Maybe she's into that awful act because of your inability to show her proper love and care. Therefore, I would suggest that you sit her down an have a heart to heart chat with her; tell her how you feel about her and how disappointed and heart broken you felt when you caught her in bed with another woman.

If she decides to change, fine. If she doesn't, then you better look else where for the love of your life.

justwise:

Absolutely!!, i know how it feels to keep long distance rela/ship when i know that meeting physically will not happen soon. I don't get myself in that situation again. Even when i visited Nig after 10yrs, i refused to get hooked up only to come back here and start thinking whats she up2 and all that

justwise:

Distance kills rela/ship, she needed more than phone calls, she can see her friends and their bfs doing things together. If u can visit her, she is only a human being.

CrazyMan:

I would suggest that you focus on your youth service; then when you're done, you look for a job. The idea of getting a woman should come at a time when all your other goals must have been achieved.

But if you insist, then I wish you good luck and happy hunting.

ima1:

I would give him credit for being ambitious and educated, but from what you said he isn't jobless, he is doing his Master's degree, and other teaching jobs so that pretty much takes up most of his time, but im sure he will get a Job when the times comes, if i was in your situation i would try to be supportive, atleast he has a future and knows what he is doing.

femialao:

why is it that ladies do not easily agree for guys asking them out, rather, they prefer 2 call someone they do not know on magazine to love them of some one they meet on line?

is that really true

!amebo no1:

whats these? i was so loving this thread until your reply came in, can someone get a cane and flog all these kids that run around feeling like they are the reason for every thread that pops out

Jonluv:

no need to get ruffled up. she (Ani) is indeed the reason for this thread. She knows her place man. She's real cool and being honest. And you bet what she just said about not being like the elephants is damn true. As a matter of fact I dedicate this thread to her.

thank you very much Jon dearest  

justwise:

I see your point and i agree with u, even more when u said the word:darling

I knew that would make you side me

whitelexi:

Its just an opinion.
But yes, i've seen pretenders and can spot them from a distance. Girls are good pretenders when they choose to, and guys have to be on their guards to prevent being decieved.

i'll pretend I didnt read that

erekere:

Thanks for the comments so far the babe in question does not reside in her brothers house she is staying with the parent and i am staying in the brothers house and i am serious about her but if it is wrong i guess i will just relax.

whitelexi:

If anything is too good to be true, it probably is too good to be true, beware women pretend well. . . Your bro may've seen this but u r still blind, open your eyes and let the scales be removed

shames, did a poor lexie go through such experience once or more than? ,,,,,,, u sound lyk u takn dis on a personal level

justwise:

How do u think the husband will feel if he opens the shop for her for free?

Ebonyeyes:

I pray that she comes to her senses and throw your sorry asses to the curb.

geeDIA:

Truly, no guy will want to give out his sis anyhow even his friend, all you just have to do is to show how serious you are. What the brother is doing is normal but that doesn't mean you are in lovewith the wrong girl- careful

justwise:

Bros move on, yes its not easy to move on but give it a try, u will with time.
Stop calling and begging her to come back, pick urself up and get busy with other activities.

Pretend to be happy(even if u are) anytime u are close to her or her friends, don't give the impression that u still hurt abt it.