₦airaland Forum

samuelizko:
so..I should not bother changing the names??
cos I wanna start by changing the name I used for the Bvn

jopex:
Whatabout those who don't have acct?

samuelizko:
I enrolled for the Bvn using my baptismal name...I enrolled for the national ID using my confirmation name....I opened my bank account using my papa name nd my first name...which one are they going to use now??

bigtt76:
Stop misleading people.... The National ID is just a pre-paid card and is not tied to your bank account or all your bank accounts as you mentioned. Did you register your bank account at the point of enrollment?

Coolboi05:
Because he claimed to have built a world class hospital...

Adortem:
I hate to go tribal but at this point I should say that some tribes don't see anything wrong in husbands beating their wives,infact,they compare it to father beating his child,like putting her through in love,they argued that as long as he provides for the family. Infact,they can even turn the story around and blame the wife completely for being beaten up. This society of ours is totally a patriarch society and the woman is always at the receiving end,so the for better for worse part is usually for the woman(I am not a feminist). I know you are going through a lot right now,considering how the society frowns at divorce,no one wants to hear your story all they do is blame you. Its well madam, I believe marriage shouldn't be a prison,and when it becomes life threatening,take a walk,to avoid stories that touch...

Adortem:
Are you saying he battered(physically and mentally) you before you left him, with his position in church? You should have reported him to the church authorities,that would make him embarrassed. I salute your strength madam,its well.

blessedtwins:
annibro he ticks all the boxes except number one and about work,I have been prevented from having any, not even running a biz of my choice.I completely isolated from my family up to the point that they cant come to help me when my baby is born.
I will search high and low for those books

DrJayKay:
Women are not the only victims of domestic violence. I know some men who pass through perpetual agony inns hands of there wives. It may not be physical but it can. Women are not a!ways victims, but most people think they are always victims.

blessedtwins:
annibro: An inspiration to be courageous.
The exact path I am on.but preparing my exit.cant wait to be free.
Church ppl said madam endure and lock itself up when he starts,keep snack with you when he starts but we know "he will change"

Dymondgurl:
..... I have close friends facing this same problem. Pple tell dem" stay for the sake of your kids", "God is against divorce", "don't let another woman take your husband". Like its a do or die affair. We should all know when to stop. As the saying goes, "the dead cant speak".

Dymondgurl:
I admire your courage. You tossed societal views and expectations into the gutter and took charge of your life. Bravo ma'am.

IndianaJay:
Sad............

If her husband didn't kill her, someone has to explain the gash on her skull (If there really is one).

Spousal abuse is usually well hidden, you never usually know the person is being abused,
abuser are able to hide their marks well.

For all those saying the know the couple and vouching for the husband: Never say never.

I know some abused women........they always seem happy when outsiders are there since they don't want people knowing their spouse is violent, so they learn to hide the bruises

raayah:
This makes me so happy!
Congratulations Sister!!!

raayah:


No matter what nairaland men say, please women remember physical abuse is not normal.

It is not normal for a man to beat you because you were nagging.
It is not normal for a man to physically abuse you because you did not serve his food on time.
Run women , Run away. Domestic violence kills. The children you were staying for will lose their mother.

olubankemi:
..... I was even ready for hubby to hold my legs up while I stand on my head but he said I must be stupid to think of that.....

mamacajah:
.....Even the fibroids were not visible on the scan. I did the laparscopy twice, first to flush open the tube, didn't work so doctor proposed doing the myometomy to remove what he suspected would be fibroids even though unseen and thats what happened. infact it was the fibroids that were blocking entrance to my tubes (both of them).

sugah:
Cons: Very unprofessional. The 3 ground staff are more concerned about watching TV or talking loudly on the phone on personal calls with igbo.

Do not believe their SFA....do a SFA in some other reputable lab and take the results there.

olubankemi:
You are a darling. Thanks for logging in to wish me well.

SouthernBreeze:
PA I don hear you

SouthernBreeze:
Honestly these names didn't worth the 4 months wait. Those who voted for change should enjoy the Government of the aged (Gerentocracy)

jabbok:
Prof. Isiaq Akintola, no matter how hard you try, you will still be a yoruba muslim confined to a yoruba mosque in the eyes of hausa / fulani.

themilanway:
.................
Permanently dead party.

NgeneUkwenu:
This the breakdown of what Jonathan Spent in 2010 Independence anniversary:
...........'(

OZAOEKPE:
My brothers and sisters, let us not be deceived. Is it possible to have 270 cows from 150cows in six months, or #30m from #1m in six months?
If you think baba is a liar please click share, and if you feel otherwise click like.

tiwatope2010:
Sabi mamas Pls come to my aid,has anyone done hysteroscooy after failed IVF and got BFP after another attempt at IVF. Pls what are the things to expect when going for hysteroscooy?