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pls can u keep me posted on this series

Toks2008:
Sometimes I smh when I read some comments.

It takes two to tango. If you like be superfilled with the holy spirit..if the other party is filled with evill spirit no matter how hard you try u just can't make such stay.

Then that's why u must pray for God to intervene, divorce is not an option for a child of God. If d other partner still refuse to stay, then u'l have to stay unmarried cos remarrying when ur partner is still alive is a sin. This is only applicable to God's children

Gkemz:
Your report is full of criticism, sentiments and hatred for the man of God. Is he not a human being? Is it not better for him to remarry so as to avoid temptation? Let's not forget that he never wanted it this way. Nobody divorces his/her partner just because he/she loves to do so. Otherwise wouldn't have married her.

God hate divorce, so a child of God that is heavenly minded should not even think of it. I don't believe that marriage can't be saved if pride is set aside.

And a lady with good sense will accept to marry him. Smh

Mine is since 2013 and i'm still counting

Pls don't like this comment

Win what?

Davindal:
Hey guys! I'll keep it snappy here.

There is this girl in my life, she will be 21 this coming October and she loves me a lot. In fact, she is my chosen one among my girlfriends.

I was the guy that deflowered her. I have dated her 4 years now. When we started, she was so pretty, radiant and elegant, all these qualities laced with good manners - despite her beauty, great intelligence and culinary skills. Considering all this qualities, I decided to promise her marriage for I truly love her; knowing full well that her type is rare. After the promise of marriage, I realized that our love for each other grew a step further.

Furthermore, before now; she was my exclusive reserve for matrimony(marriage), such that I don't see any succedaneum(substitute) to her - even though I do date several other ladies - but I have no meaningful plan for them except this gal.

Unfortunately, this my gal has decide to let loose her body, she doesn't watch over her weight, such that she is no longer as curvy, elegant and 8-figured as she used to be, though she is tall - a few inches or 2 inches to 6ft. In fact, she is now as fat as whatever description you may be cogitating within your mind. That fatness is gradually eating up her killer curves, I have sat her down severally to talk through this issue severally; I reminded her that as a medical student(4LV med.& surg.), she should be in a better position to know any means possible to apply in order to loose weight. She insisted that she has been trying her best to shed down but to no avail, and was even crying.

Please guys! What do I do now? I hate plus size ladies aka OROGBO, and can never marry one. Should I completely ditch her for good, even though I still love her deeply? I need an advice.

what u feel for her is not love but lust. I'll advice u not to marry the girl because u'l later cheat on her.

Why is she decently dressed outside her land, but ...

Olarewajub:
You're not alone @ annice2014.
Ambivert? www.buzzfeed.com/lukebailey/ambiverts-for-the-silver
Let us discuss about this.
I call on other introverts to proffer possible solutions in handling this issue.
@ Geofavor starting with you

ambivert? I'm unaware of this one

my own case is that, a lot of people want to be my friend but i don't know how to keep them cos i love being alone. i want to have friends but i can't cos i find it difficult to be committed to them.
people do think that i am proud and quiet but when they come closer, they tend to love my person.

OLAADEGBU:
Happy New Year 2016!

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Acidosis:
I'm just wondering, today marks the 4th day I've been trying to cope without electricity. Is this problem peculiar to me alone? Or are we suffering and smiling on the Social Media because we have N20 to charge phone on the streets?

Nobody cares about the impact on Businesses. Majority of the frozen food sellers in my street are lamenting as some of them have recorded monumental losses within the past 4 days.

I've personally lost about N50,000 (in directly) due to the failure of this government to admit and confront their failures.

So many business men are running at loss. Nigerians should not keep quiet. Market women, unlike, banks and large organizations do not have the money to purchase large inverters, diesel engines, etc. The few who could afford generators do not have access to petrol as most of the filling stations have shut their doors (in Lagos and Ogun). Mind you, 90% of those selling refuse to sell in Jerry cans. The implication is that a woman who has N100k worth of frozen food would rather bury her goods or fry it all for herself and family.

The big, influential and shameless men who ought to come out and speak are either scared of a fulani man or extremely 'stu.pid' to understand the plight of small business owners who survive on electricity.

I'm not a frozen food seller, but for Christ sake, these folks are Nigerian citizens who have chosen to survive in the absence of direct jobs from the government. Hence, they deserve the right to enjoy the basic amenities like electricity and fuel.

May the curse of the Lord remains in the house of the wicked.

But there is constant light supply at my end.

IsaacBuchi:
I see fine man!

btw that was powerful words "I promise you it will be tough and at times one or both of us would want out but I also promise that if I don't ask you to be mine today, I'll regret it for the rest of my life"

I always appreciate those proposal tips from "Runaway Bride" movie

Wish to secure a good/satisfying job n a husband dat i luv

She'll a dozen of maids to help her keep d place neat. Happy 4 her, hardwork pays

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jonaifame22:
so are u guys back together?

we are still friends but not too close

This country need serious prayer.

He warned me never to call him again that he's engaged, i took it as a joke cos we never had any misunderstanding. Anywhere when i noticed that he was serious, i agreed not to call him. In less than a week he called to check on moi, & i was confused.

Oh hear us when we cry to Thee, for those in peril in the air

words of wisdom

TheUmmah:


See question? My friend will you go and focus on improving your lifes options!

You can do better than that dear.

Jollyjoy:
Op how old are you?? I believe you came from a family,so the coming together of your dad and your mum,to be together both in good time and bad time,through thick and thin,in sickness and in health,is what we called marriage.. You hear

I hear ma. tanx for your time

kossyablaze:
Conjugal bliss between a man and woman with the notion of ensuring lifes continuity.

Is this all about it?

Cutehector:
Seems d op is still young...

d op is nt young, it's cos of the issue of sex breaking some homes, that makes me wonder whether marriage is all about sex.

I have heard and read a whole lot of disheartening issue about marriage that makes me wonder what marriage is all about and while people get married. please i need matured input, cos i'm so scared of it.

EmmaFantastic:
You want to read guys version? Please, help us tell the ladies in this forum to come up with such writeups. Since they are ladies, they should tell us the guys, the things we indulge in/attributes we possess/any other thing, that are good or not. Writeups like that will be very useful to educate , enlighten and correct guys. Unfortunately, instead of doing just that, many of them prefer to be exhibiting their moronity by criticising the guys writing the "ladies version".

I may squeeze out time and compile it.

sentaljohn:
I hope what happened sometime in 2013 in Lokoja doesn't repeat itself

Ejor, what happened then?