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Forum Games / Re: Start A Sentence Wit 'you Know U Are Poor When by annita19(f): 6:43pm On Jan 27, 2012
You know you are brainy dysfuntional poor when you been on a forum for 3 years and still don't know the road to forum game  section. Just kidding  undecided undecided

You know you are poor when you can't afford a trip to Paris with your GF  smiley
Romance / Re: Why Women Should Not Shave Their Eyebrows by annita19(f): 6:35pm On Jan 27, 2012
smh
Romance / Re: Why Do Many Guys These Days Disrespect Women? by annita19(f): 2:50am On Dec 03, 2011
lefulefu:

OP abeg let me ask u this innocent question oooo
when american men refer to american women as sluts and hoes is it used as a way of respect? grin
its just an innocent question so abeg no vex grin

Don't show off your ignorant in a world web because that's not a thing to be proud about.  kiss
Romance / Re: Why Do Many Guys These Days Disrespect Women? by annita19(f): 6:54pm On Dec 02, 2011
kokoye:

Please dont take the posts in this section seriously. A lot of guys are just here to have fun while remaining anonymous.

Concerning your other post, it depends on mindset, culture and exposure.

Some were raised by both parents (mothers inclusive) to believe how woman are supposed to be treated . .and some of these guys will not get out of that mentality easily.

It is the same way with racism here in the US . . . .some people will never AGREE that a black man is not inferior.


So, basically, it is about upbringing and system, and some are not willing to change.

Brilliant reply kiss tongue



LesbianBoy link=topic=816417.msg9680275#msg9680275 date=1322848426:

Annita19 sweery, can we discuss this over breakfast!

No thanks. Stay on topic please
Romance / Why Do Many Guys These Days Disrespect Women? by annita19(f): 6:46pm On Dec 02, 2011
I'm not saying all men, but a LOT of men these days still think women:
-should be stay at home housewives who's only purpose in life is to serve their husbands, as that's all they're good for;
-shouldn't even be allowed to drive cars (I've seen a lot worse men drivers than women)
-shouldn't have their own opinion about anything because it doesn't matter

I'm wondering why a lot of men still have these opinions about women. Don't get me wrong, I'm far from being a "feminist", I'm just shocked to find that these men haven't matured since the early 20th century. I'm really interested to know the reasoning behind this. Again, I'm not referring to all guys, I know there are some out there that think women are more than servants.

In addition to this, Why do NL/Nigerian guys disrespect their women so much? Where is the historical African culture?

And yes, I am prepared for the "women belong in the kitchen" comments and the like.

NOTE: I am American and this topic is not in anyway related to me/my life. [b][/b]

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Romance / Re: Your Favourite Posters 2011? by annita19(f): 4:13pm On Dec 01, 2011
Ahmmm I think anyone that has meaningful contribution(s)
Romance / Dumping Guilt? by annita19(f): 12:26am On Nov 10, 2011
I have a burning question, Has anyone dumped someone only to realize that it was a mistake. I ended a relationship about 6 months ago, and after three months, I started to miss my ex. At first i felt like the ex wanted out, so trying to protect myself, i did the dumping. It wasn't so hard, cause i felt I came out unscathed, but after a few months, I realized that i was wrong. I was not going through that guilt period, that many go through in a break up, I really did some bad stuff. Pushing the ex away. We havent talked much, but I received an email today saying that I am loved, however, things are over. But I dont want it to be over.

Has anything like this happened to anyone, whats your story. I am not depressed, nor desperate, I have moved on. I accept my loses, but just curious to hear other stories.

Seating back to read your responses
Thanks in advance.
Romance / Re: This One Is For All The Shawties And Homies That Just Had. . . by annita19(f): 5:04am On Sep 25, 2011
Crazy you tongue I don't like that song
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Open Apology To Fickle :) by annita19(f): 5:03am On Sep 25, 2011
M M M:

angryangryangryangryangryangry

What? did I do anything wrong to you? smiley
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: A Message To Mukina2 by annita19(f): 5:01am On Sep 25, 2011
Aww poor op smiley
Romance / Re: Why Don't Some Guys Take No For An Answer? by annita19(f): 4:54am On Sep 25, 2011
Mr, Cork:


annita1. OK. sweeery did he chase u becoz you waz ugly or did he chase u becoz no one wanted u? kinda. angry

No because I'm forever hot and sexy tongue


ogugua88:

Annita no dey play. Don't derail her thread. You've been warned shocked

cheesy
Romance / Re: Why Don't Some Guys Take No For An Answer? by annita19(f): 3:56am On Sep 24, 2011
I hope you get banned for going off topic tongue see ya cheesy
Romance / Re: Why Don't Some Guys Take No For An Answer? by annita19(f): 3:50am On Sep 24, 2011
Oooh what a bug
Romance / Re: Why Don't Some Guys Take No For An Answer? by annita19(f): 3:41am On Sep 24, 2011
M M M:

Why

Please stop on-topic
Romance / Re: Why Don't Some Guys Take No For An Answer? by annita19(f): 3:35am On Sep 24, 2011
M M M:

so can we nya winkwink

No we can't nya smiley
Romance / Re: Why Don't Some Guys Take No For An Answer? by annita19(f): 3:20am On Sep 24, 2011
M M M:

[color=#006600Annita

i dont take no ask an answer][/color] wink

I already know smiley


roymary:

Seriously, when they say No to me , they really do not mean it or maybe not completely . Guess i am good at making them change their mind. You must truly like something about me. Just my lil situation i guess. smiley

Noted
Romance / Re: Why Don't Some Guys Take No For An Answer? by annita19(f): 3:13am On Sep 24, 2011
Please no off-topics thanks smiley
Romance / Re: Why Don't Some Guys Take No For An Answer? by annita19(f): 3:08am On Sep 24, 2011
mashnino:

cos a ladies NO maybe a "try harder, idnt want to be chip", so its nt our fault, jez try and undastnd,

@anita can we chat, jez a friendly request, no strings attached,

To each her own. In my world no is no.

Sure we can chat, I think they have this thread setup for chatters so click https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-756971.448.html smiley
Romance / Why Don't Some Guys Take No For An Answer? by annita19(f): 2:50am On Sep 24, 2011
Like I have a boyfriend. I'm married. I'm ga[i]y[/i]. This doesn't deter them and they keep trying. I had one guy chase me for a year. It wasn't until I shouted and told him it will never be he got the message.
Romance / Re: Romance Section Complaints and Suggestions Thread by annita19(f): 2:34am On Sep 24, 2011
Thank you smiley
Romance / Re: What No-one Ever Tells Us Is That Relationships Are Hard Work by annita19(f): 2:33am On Sep 24, 2011
oohunt:

Nice one!

Relationships are HARDWORK!

Yes it is
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Birthday M8*0ctober Lets Meet by annita19(f): 2:32am On Sep 24, 2011
October 8
Romance / Re: Re: Intimate On The First Date? Things We Need To Know by annita19(f): 2:29am On Sep 24, 2011
Somorin#1:

I just wanted to add that some Women make this rule for no reason. I wager that most Women, if in the dating demographic, met Dezel Washington, LL Cool J. etc they will drop their pants at a moments notice.

In your mind
Romance / Re: Re: Intimate On The First Date? Things We Need To Know by annita19(f): 10:25pm On Sep 23, 2011
Mr.Presdent

I holds nothing about having sex on a first date especially if u r a very sharp girl. To each his own
Romance / Re: Intimate On The First Date? Things We Need To Know by annita19(f): 10:08pm On Sep 23, 2011
before you take the sex plunge with your new beau keep this in mind; the act of sex brings on a moment of intimacy whether you want to admit it or not. And there is no going back from that.

“That moment either solidifies that you want to be with the person and take it seriously, or that moment makes you repell the person and want to run away as fast as possible, ”If you have sex too soon, both reactions can be the end of what might have been a promising relationship if taken at a slower pace.”

Here are three things you should consider as you make a thoughtful decision about when you should have sex for the first time:


There are mythical stories of sex on the first date turning into long lasting relationships, but I’ve never experienced this (and I’ve dated a lot) or actually met anyone in this situation, My rule, and it’s a good one, is to wait until the fourth date to have sex. This is assuming you want a relationship and not just fun casual sex. There is nothing wrong with that, but be honest with yourself about what you are hoping for with the specific guy/girl in question.

Sex right away sends a message

If you have sex with a guy immediately you’re basically telling that guy that you have sex with everyone you meet immediately (whether it’s true or not) and that automatically lowers your stock, so to speak. Waiting a ridiculously long time also sends the wrong message, since it’s not the 1800s anymore. After four dates you should have a pretty good feel for the guy and he will have had plenty of time to try and picture you naked, under all your cute date outfits. If, after four dates, you still like each other and want to continue, then go for it.

Sex right away takes the fun out of flirting, getting to know each other, and building up a little tension.Waiting to do the deed makes a statement that you seem worth it. You seem confident that sex isn’t the only thing you have to offer. And you seem to respect yourself.

Agree or disagree
Romance / Re: Romance Section's Night Out! by annita19(f): 10:05pm On Sep 23, 2011
M M M:


re u blind

Didn't u see me here angry

Ok i pick u undecided

And am taking u 2 iran wink just the 2 of us smiley


Turn the light on


sexkillz:

^^You kidding, right? grin I still have some space though! tongue

cheesy
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: hey by annita19(f): 9:33pm On Sep 23, 2011
Wow how proud
Family / Re: A Lazy Husband by annita19(f): 9:30pm On Sep 23, 2011
Be patience smiley
Romance / Re: Romance Section's Night Out! by annita19(f): 9:28pm On Sep 23, 2011
I search all over couldn't find no body smiley
Romance / Re: What No-one Ever Tells Us Is That Relationships Are Hard Work by annita19(f): 12:22am On Sep 23, 2011
grin ok nice to meet you

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