₦airaland Forum

Jasen1:
See you that hand shake

CasNova:
Somebody asked for this advice on July 13 and you brought it to full public glare on December 17.

Hmn ...

frozen70:
I can see that the both of you are deeply in love

You can continue having sex with preventive measures till the relationship fezeel out

Stop telling her to stop calling you, both of you are feeling the the same problem and it can be very hurtful

Don't break her heart, allow her to pull out naturally

But if it gets to a stage that you guys are so glued, be prepared to adopt children if you must get married

Someone can carry your pregnancy and deliver the baby to both of you and you pay the person off

Love is a very magnetic thing and it's always difficult to say goodbye

Freethought:
Good afternoon nairalanders, a couple of weeks ago, i came here to seek advice on how to handle knowing my wife to be is AS as i also am. A lot of people here said we should just break up that the marriage won't end well for us.

We both listened to your advices and decided to call off the wedding but now we can't seem to stay away from each other. I tried severally to not see her and I'm sure she also tried not to see me but most times we just found ourselves together having sex again.

I think about her almost every time so i told her to stop calling me, at least to get her off of my mind. But she may just call simply to say hello and from dere we are having sex again.

The sex we keep having is my problem as i fear the SS problem we were trying to prevent by calling off the wedding may now come this time.

She's irresistible and i don't know how to go about this whole thing. Please kindly advice accordingly if you've gone through this before. I really need to get over her and stop having sex with her.

Thank you

Freethought:
I know a lot of you are going to blaim me buh please let your message to me come with an advise. We are in a state of real dilemma

Few months ago, i opened a thread on how we both found out we were both of AS genotype and how we couldn't stop having sex. Well as against some advices here, we didn't stop having sex until this past weekend wen we found out that she's pregnant.

I remember the month after we found out about the genotype, she told me she told her parents that she's gon get married to me no matter what, they practically begged her not to, telling her different stories of SS children they know

We haven't told anybody about the pregnancy yet . We are scared every single one of them will blame us and think we did it intentionally just to get married.

I love her and I'm sure she loves me too buh this pregnancy, the tot of it alone being SS is scaring the shit out of us.

We don't know what to do

Adekunleideology:
He is so shameless.

He has no honour.

They don't tell themselves the truth in that Aso Rock

efetoma:
Vanity Upon Vanity!

majamajic:
he is lucky Lagos roads are without potholes now

Gistformant:
A Nigerian lawyer 'threw' a party for potholes in front of a bank at Kudirat Abiola Way, Alausa, Ikeja, which he said keeps getting bigger and deeper by the day.

The party for the potholes reached its peak with sodas. The Nigerian lawyer wrote in his tweet addressed to the Lagos State Government and Governor Babajide Sanwo-Olu;


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majamajic:
he is lucky Lagos roads are without potholes now

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Lagos State Governor, Mr Babajide Sanwo-Olu, on Wednesday restated his commitment to collaborate with residents and people of the state for successful implementation of his administration’s policies and programmes.

The governor, who said this when he hosted Muslim faithful in Lagos House, Alausa, Ikeja to mark 2019 Eid-el-Fitri informed the gathering that his government will soon release emergency hotlines to the public to call the Lagos State Public Works for immediate fixing of potholes and roads that need urgent repairs.

“Let us have continuous collaborative engagements. We will continue to ask you to work with us. We would be calling on you at different times.”

“Our Public Works Corporation would come out and start fixing all the potholes on our roads. We would soon publish the numbers that people would be calling to notify us of wherever there are potholes in the state”, Governor Sanwo-Olu stated.

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He expressed happiness as he joined Muslim brothers and sisters to celebrate the end of Ramadan after a long period of spiritual cleansing and self discipline, urging them to pray for the success of his administration.

According to him, “I am happy and pleased to join our Muslim brothers and sisters in this glorious celebration of Eid-el-fitri. A long stretch of fasting like this is not the easiest thing. It takes special grace and personal discipline, to go through the religious obligation.

“Continue to pray for the success of our administration and our prayers is that we all witness next year in good health and progress”.

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rightchic:
The donkey na Nigerians, load na our politicians... Wanting to kill poor masses.

callthefred:
All this cases started before PMB came on board. Mind you it was even PDP that signed the law that made it impossible to delay court judgements further by seeking stupid adjournment.

Adekunleideology:
Femi Adesina is a terrible Man. He choose to lie to us when the truth is glaring us in the face like a 200 Watt Halogen Bulb.

Lorenzop:
that is what you get when teachers are not well remunerated, you can never attract the best minds to the education sector....kiss the truth

maynattion:
The blind deaf in my area knows.
Everyone does.

maynattion:
It doesn't have to be an opposing party, it could be an opposition from within.

Besides, so did PDP think until APC came up with her propaganda.

MurphyTheory99:
They are both thieves and so therefore no need to trade words.
After trading words in public, they go behind us to settle themselves while in a week or 2 the news becomes stale and we are given or handed a more juicy news to follow. That's all we do "FOLLOW FOLLOW"

Rich4god:
And they keep saying that buhari administration is kwaruption free.

maynattion:
You will only find out the load of trillions that have been looted and embezzled under Buhari when an opposition takes over the seat.

You will know PDP was a better devil.

sureheaven:
Sowore has bitten more than he can chew thinking he's fighting for Nigerians.

Know your worth and level, Nigerians aren't supporting Sowore that's the advantage the federal is taking over him.

Should the DSS have seen at least 5k crowds who followed sowore to the court the day he was rearrested, they wouldn't have attempted it.

Sowore is nobody, he should stop indulging himself.

You can't tackle the federal without having the support of the masses and spy in government.

AkpaMgbor:
He is ‘fighting’ for a cause nobody believes in..nobody believes in the Nigerian cause, not anymore..

Jasen1:
Wetin concern PDP for here
Nawaa

Qadaffi2idiamin:
Only Afonjas

femi4:
Aaah...Abomination, Orí Adé ki i sun ẹ̀wọ̀n

GHoJes:
And you think there were no women lining up before he met you or you think you are the first best. They all borrowed senses and left him after knowing who he is. The ones lining up will do same if they come on board and leave him for unfortunate victims like you willing to trade your life for nothing. Know this from today, if you see any financially ok man proposing to a lady immediately he met her, he is highly likely hidding something he doesn't want her to find before the point of no return.

As for your mum's case, I see you inherited some kind of low self esteem without knowing. Girl you have failed your mum already. Your mum feels the way she does due to her lack of exposure and family abuse but you with all your exposure in this day can't correct your mum's orientation before she goes to the grave then you have failed her. If she goes the other side of life and find out that it wasn't her fault she was raped and you could have helped her all her life change that life long burden then....
Let me tell you, you will send your hypertensive mum to her grave earlier the day you marry this guy because if your mum dare question his actions to you he will not fail to tell her all your colleagues raped you, so brace for a life time of living in fear. But I beg to please see your rape as an avenue to free your mum from a life long burden, react differently from her, set the example, hold your head high instead of bowing down in shame knowing that your God will revenge your rapist.

Note there's hardly a thread that you will not find more than one opinion because even if devil come phisically to earth he will still get followers but up to 3 pages and counting there's only one opinion yet you want find a reason to still look away.

dannyla:
Hmmmm,
My mom was deflowered by a rapist and all she ever asked of me was to get married as a virgin. Till today, she doesn't know that I was raped too. She once told me she will die a sad woman if I don't keep her request. My father died when I was a girl. My mother sold her clothes to raise us.
If I leave, he'll tell her I'm not a virgin anymore and she will never have that peace she has now. I can't watch my mum suffer for something she didn't do. My mum once used to be hypertensive. What if it comes back due to shock? My aunt used to mock my mom over the rape before our very eyes and my mum simply told her that one wasn't her fault but her children will marry honourably. My mother's pride is the reason I let the rapist walk free. This man knows and will tell everyone.

I'm not yet strong enough to relocate us very far away or foot any drastic bill. That's a major reason I've been tolerating. The advise from those around me doesn't help either. That's why I seek public opinion

dannyla:
Yes ma, over love sef but sometimes people's opinion can make you doubt your sanity or ability to choose right

dannyla:
I pray for wisdom because when you're in a predicament, you find it hard to think well so I appreciate everyone who helped/is helping me think. Thanks for the contributions and advices, both the kind and angry sounding ones. I appreciate the time and effort.

I'll find a way to quietly walk away from him.

Darevofpeace:
Do you want to wait till he kill you?

That was never a relationship, you were already in hell baby.

Take a long walk from him and gather up yourself.

dannyla:
He later began to complain about my partners and how I'm sleeping with them like the prostitute I am,

panafrican:
Nigeria is the target of those who want Africa on the knees , eternally ! because they ( Western Europeans governments ) want us begging for their help.

sage:
http://www.leadershipnigeria.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=28:the-vague-future-of-nigeria&catid=28:friday-column&Itemid=56


Lord Lugard, the former governor-general of Nigeria, in 1926, wrote his unfiltered thought about Nigerians. From his book, The Dual Mandates, come these excerpts: "In character and temperament, the typical African of this race-type is a happy, thriftless, excitable person, lacking in self-control, discipline, and foresight. Naturally courageous, and naturally courteous and polite, full of personal vanity, with little sense of veracity, fond of music and loving weapons as an oriental loves jewellery. His thoughts are concentrated on the events and feelings of the moment, and he suffers little from the apprehension for the future or grief for the past. His mind is far nearer to the animal world than that of the European or Asiatic, and exhibits something of the animals' placidity and want of desire to rise beyond the state he has reached.

"Through the ages, the African appears to have evolved no organised religious creed, and though some tribes appear to believe in a deity, the religious sense seldom rises above pantheistic animalism and seems more often to take the form of a vague dread of the supernatural. He lacks the power of organisation, and is conspicuously deficient in the management and control alike of men or business. He loves the display of power, but fails to realize its responsibility - he will work hard with a less incentive than most races. He has the courage of the fighting animal, an instinct rather than a moral virtue. In brief, the virtues and defects of his race -type are those of attractive children, whose confidence when it is won is given ungrudgingly as to an older and wiser superior and without envy. Perhaps, the two traits which have impressed me as those most characteristic of the African native are his lack of apprehension and his lack of ability to visualize the future"

greatiyk4u:
Those the spirit cracked their coconut for.........

Unfortunately many of we the supporters have never touched International passport

Lolz

Omoluabi16:
I do not understand, why did he put up his old pictures as a footballer with that terrible hairstyle.