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Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by Greatzeus(m): 9:34am On Dec 17, 2019
Meaning you haven't really left her,she could get pregnant from the sex you having and the baby might be SS,and that will be on you angry

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Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by Erastuslove: 9:34am On Dec 17, 2019
Old firewood they say catch fire whenever they are ignited by chance..... you have to mature or visit any family that have suffered SS kids to help reset your brains...
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by mannycrown: 9:35am On Dec 17, 2019
ThothHermes:
Imagine oo.

The guy don give up based on say him no fit ever get money for the diagnosis for him life.

Never see this kind thing. The kind of stupid advice Nigerians were giving him on that thread.

Can you imagine an American couple refusing to marry for this flimsy reason.
Nigerians na wa.
.
You call SS flimsy reason?! You really don't know enough.
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by Mywd: 9:35am On Dec 17, 2019
Stale news...... Idiots undecided
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by Sonnobax15(m): 9:35am On Dec 17, 2019
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Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by Lleigh(f): 9:35am On Dec 17, 2019
Deepfeel:
I don't understand why you should break up with someone you are madly in love with cause both of you are AS there are different ways to have children in this generation, guy be wise

It's true, I know a couple who had to terminate three pregnancies. But they now have three kids

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Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by friendl: 9:36am On Dec 17, 2019
You can always control the offsprings ,seek advance medical terms ,.....having sex with someone you don't use condom is difficult leaving the person .

Wish you all the best
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by Frankest20(m): 9:36am On Dec 17, 2019
What do you want to hear again other than call off the relationship in your interest we earlier told you?
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by Thegoodone13(m): 9:36am On Dec 17, 2019
Block her line and relocate.
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by King44(m): 9:36am On Dec 17, 2019
Deepfeel:
I don't understand why you should break up with someone you are madly in love with cause both of you are AS there are different ways to have children in this generation, guy be wise
ado they have the financial ability to try other options if they do no wahala but if not and they go ahead to marry that means they want to delibrately give birth to children they won't be happy having at the end

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Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by Brugo(m): 9:37am On Dec 17, 2019
When two mumu people fall in love, what do you expect?

When the child comes now will you remember that your babe is irresistible?

Mumu.

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Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by adanny01(m): 9:37am On Dec 17, 2019
frozen70:
I can see that the both of you are deeply in love

You can continue having sex with preventive measures till the relationship fezeel out

Stop telling her to stop calling you, both of you are feeling the the same problem and it can be very hurtful

Don't break her heart, allow her to pull out naturally

But if it gets to a stage that you guys are so glued, be prepared to adopt children if you must get married

Someone can carry your pregnancy and deliver the baby to both of you and you pay the person off

Love is a very magnetic thing and it's always difficult to say goodbye

Its not that bad.

I agree with you mostly.

She can have children but i think there is a medical process to select the genotype of a fetus and then implanted in her. Its just expensive.

There is also fetal genotype testing and abortion as a cheaper option but the risk of harming the fetus is a thing of concern.

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Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by Collins4u1(m): 9:37am On Dec 17, 2019
How can you both be having sex through the phone, this is confusing.
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by anonimi: 9:38am On Dec 17, 2019
Freethought:
Good afternoon nairalanders, a couple of weeks ago, i came here to seek advice on how to handle knowing my wife to be is AS as i also am. A lot of people here said we should just break up that the marriage won't end well for us.

We both listened to your advices and decided to call off the wedding but now we can't seem to stay away from each other. I tried severally to not see her and I'm sure she also tried not to see me but most times we just found ourselves together having sex again.

I think about her almost every time so i told her to stop calling me, at least to get her off of my mind. But she may just call simply to say hello and from dere we are having sex again.

The sex we keep having is my problem as i fear the SS problem we were trying to prevent by calling off the wedding may now come this time.

She's irresistible and i don't know how to go about this whole thing. Please kindly advice accordingly if you've gone through this before. I really need to get over her and stop having sex with her.

Thank you

So irresistible until you impregnated her.
Your freethought no fit free you from your blokos. undecided

Freethought:
I know a lot of you are going to blaim me buh please let your message to me come with an advise. We are in a state of real dilemma

Few months ago, i opened a thread on how we both found out we were both of AS genotype and how we couldn't stop having sex. Well as against some advices here, we didn't stop having sex until this past weekend wen we found out that she's pregnant.

I remember the month after we found out about the genotype, she told me she told her parents that she's gon get married to me no matter what, they practically begged her not to, telling her different stories of SS children they know

We haven't told anybody about the pregnancy yet . We are scared every single one of them will blame us and think we did it intentionally just to get married.

I love her and I'm sure she loves me too buh this pregnancy, the tot of it alone being SS is scaring the shit out of us.

We don't know what to do

You better check out specialist doctors to determine whether the embryo is SS or not so that you can do the needful before it is too late.

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Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by CasNova: 9:38am On Dec 17, 2019
Somebody asked for this advice on July 13 and you brought it to full public glare on December 17.

Hmn ...

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Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by Caution30: 9:39am On Dec 17, 2019
I'm relating with this thread

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Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by anonimi: 9:39am On Dec 17, 2019
frozen70:
I can see that the both of you are deeply in love

You can continue having sex with preventive measures till the relationship fezeel out

Stop telling her to stop calling you, both of you are feeling the the same problem and it can be very hurtful

Don't break her heart, allow her to pull out naturally

But if it gets to a stage that you guys are so glued, be prepared to adopt children if you must get married

Someone can carry your pregnancy and deliver the baby to both of you and you pay the person off

Love is a very magnetic thing and it's always difficult to say goodbye

Please how many people do you know in our country who have done that?

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Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by AfroKnight: 9:39am On Dec 17, 2019
Experience is the best teacher.

In this case you want that experience to be your own. You guys don’t want to learn from the experience of parents facing the pain that comes with caring for an SS child.

No, you want to risk it all on the altar of sweet sex.


I can see someone mentioning a genetic intervention for AS/AS couples. I have not seen the same person mention the cost and the location of the hospitals.

If you like, continue with your lack of self control.
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by midnighter(f): 9:39am On Dec 17, 2019
Lol you people are here giving advice, meanwhile, pikin don enter cheesy

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Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by anonimi: 9:39am On Dec 17, 2019
CasNova:
Somebody asked for this advice on July 13 and you brought it to full public glare on December 17.

Hmn ...

Five months after...................in the meantime, belle don land. lipsrsealed

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Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by tstx(m): 9:40am On Dec 17, 2019
ThothHermes:
.

Can you imagine an American couple refusing to marry for this flimsy reason.
Nigerians na wa.

Uninformed Adult spotted

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Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by tofolo(m): 9:40am On Dec 17, 2019
Freethought:
Good afternoon nairalanders, a couple of weeks ago, i came here to seek advice on how to handle knowing my wife to be is AS as i also am. A lot of people here said we should just break up that the marriage won't end well for us.

We both listened to your advices and decided to call off the wedding but now we can't seem to stay away from each other. I tried severally to not see her and I'm sure she also tried not to see me but most times we just found ourselves together having sex again.

I think about her almost every time so i told her to stop calling me, at least to get her off of my mind. But she may just call simply to say hello and from dere we are having sex again.


The sex we keep having is my problem as i fear the SS problem we were trying to prevent by calling off the wedding may now come this time.

She's irresistible and i don't know how to go about this whole thing. Please kindly advice accordingly if you've gone through this before. I really need to get over her and stop having sex with her.

Thank you
Must you have kids?
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by InvertedHammer: 9:40am On Dec 17, 2019
ThothHermes:
Imagine oo.

The guy don give up based on say him no fit ever get money for the diagnosis for him life.

Never see this kind thing. The kind of stupid advice Nigerians were giving him on that thread.

Can you imagine an American couple refusing to marry for this flimsy reason.
Nigerians na wa.
/
We are glad you said Americans.

But they are Nigerians.

Since you seem to know about every culture, what would Eskimos do?
/
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by eguarojeona: 9:40am On Dec 17, 2019
Freethought:
Good afternoon nairalanders, a couple of weeks ago, i came here to seek advice on how to handle knowing my wife to be is AS as i also am. A lot of people here said we should just break up that the marriage won't end well for us.

We both listened to your advices and decided to call off the wedding but now we can't seem to stay away from each other. I tried severally to not see her and I'm sure she also tried not to see me but most times we just found ourselves together having sex again.

I think about her almost every time so i told her to stop calling me, at least to get her off of my mind. But she may just call simply to say hello and from dere we are having sex again.


The sex we keep having is my problem as i fear the SS problem we were trying to prevent by calling off the wedding may now come this time.

She's irresistible and i don't know how to go about this whole thing. Please kindly advice accordingly if you've gone through this before. I really need to get over her and stop having sex with her.

Thank you
Naso.Illegal sex hits different bro
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by eguarojeona: 9:41am On Dec 17, 2019
Illegal sex hits different.
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by Sandypearl: 9:41am On Dec 17, 2019
MexManuel:


Does surrogacy prevents transmission of genetics?
it doesn't Mr man because it still involves you and her.The surrogate mum is only helping to carry the child. And if you guys want to continue,are you ready to lose one of your children cos not all will be SS. Think about it.
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by futurism: 9:41am On Dec 17, 2019
Freethought:
Good afternoon nairalanders, a couple of weeks ago, i came here to seek advice on how to handle knowing my wife to be is AS as i also am. A lot of people here said we should just break up that the marriage won't end well for us.

We both listened to your advices and decided to call off the wedding but now we can't seem to stay away from each other. I tried severally to not see her and I'm sure she also tried not to see me but most times we just found ourselves together having sex again.

I think about her almost every time so i told her to stop calling me, at least to get her off of my mind. But she may just call simply to say hello and from dere we are having sex again.


The sex we keep having is my problem as i fear the SS problem we were trying to prevent by calling off the wedding may now come this time.

She's irresistible and i don't know how to go about this whole thing. Please kindly advice accordingly if you've gone through this before. I really need to get over her and stop having sex with her.

Thank you

The mind is the power house but you can control it.

Just delete her number, block her on all socia media. It will hurt her but it will pass.

When you know you can now live without her, you can unblock her.

The goal is to control your mind to stop being emotional and be detached from every feelings linked to her. When this is achieved, you will be able to move on.
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by Greatzeus(m): 9:41am On Dec 17, 2019
ThothHermes:
What a ret.ard??

Not worth dignifying with a response.
From the comments of both of you,if I was to vote for a retard,my vote will go to you,yes, unanimously,you are the retard. Bringing American into the picture,when you haven't even left the enclave of your state before not to talk of America. Do you even have an international passport?
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by Nobody: 9:41am On Dec 17, 2019
@op,I don't know about you,but if it were me,I don't really give a fu ck what people think or say about my life.
If I really love that girl I will marry her,it isn't necessary we have our biological children,I will be fine to stay with her and adopt children if she agrees.

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Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by Goodnigga: 9:42am On Dec 17, 2019
frozen70:
I can see that the both of you are deeply in love

You can continue having sex with preventive measures till the relationship fezeel out

Stop telling her to stop calling you, both of you are feeling the the same problem and it can be very hurtful

Don't break her heart, allow her to pull out naturally

But if it gets to a stage that you guys are so glued, be prepared to adopt children if you must get married

Someone can carry your pregnancy and deliver the baby to both of you and you pay the person off

Love is a very magnetic thing and it's always difficult to say goodbye
why did you say someone can carry their pregnancy? The sperm and the egg are both AS, the womb is a sack to carry the embryo, how is the womb gonna change the genotype?
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by Advancedman(m): 9:43am On Dec 17, 2019
Freethought:
Good afternoon nairalanders, a couple of weeks ago, i came here to seek advice on how to handle knowing my wife to be is AS as i also am. A lot of people here said we should just break up that the marriage won't end well for us.

We both listened to your advices and decided to call off the wedding but now we can't seem to stay away from each other. I tried severally to not see her and I'm sure she also tried not to see me but most times we just found ourselves together having sex again.

I think about her almost every time so i told her to stop calling me, at least to get her off of my mind. But she may just call simply to say hello and from dere we are having sex again.


The sex we keep having is my problem as i fear the SS problem we were trying to prevent by calling off the wedding may now come this time.

She's irresistible and i don't know how to go about this whole thing. Please kindly advice accordingly if you've gone through this before. I really need to get over her and stop having sex with her.

Thank you
Marry your chance of as is 1in 3 and with medical advancement God crowning it all.
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by Malawian(m): 9:45am On Dec 17, 2019
frozen70:
I can see that the both of you are deeply in love

You can continue having sex with preventive measures till the relationship fezeel out

Stop telling her to stop calling you, both of you are feeling the the same problem and it can be very hurtful

Don't break her heart, allow her to pull out naturally

But if it gets to a stage that you guys are so glued, be prepared to adopt children if you must get married

Someone can carry your pregnancy and deliver the baby to both of you and you pay the person off

Love is a very magnetic thing and it's always difficult to say goodbye
No, Both of them are deeply in lust. Afterall, it is not them that will suffer for their stupidity, but one innocent child that didn't even point touch for them while they were straffing.

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