₦airaland Forum

IjebuWarrior:
Awon deh-veh-lopers sha... Savage Cannibals!

R.I.P to the dead!

don't be silly...this a pathetic thing and you are here writing rubbish.

iammo:



Beer drinkers don't worry too much, a bottle or two always set the mind at peace regardless of the problem.... either Nigeria government wahala, Women wahala, Cancer wahala and Even Death wahala

na so

It was glaring that Adeleke won that election. Like Buhari can jubilate over his win, oyetatola didn't do that cos he knows the truth.

PrimadonnaO:
You allowed him too much excesses... and he's proven that he's not deserving of such. He can't clean up after himself... he can't use his sense to not make a habit of bringing girls to a house that isn't his...and even having them sleep over!

Such guys are no-gooders. They have no boundaries. Which quarrel are you scared of? Why should a quarrel ensue over your own right? Don't be a sissy! This dude will keep taking advantage of you. This isn't a charity case. Tell the young man to realise your house is your house and he can't do as he pleases! Tell him you don't want his babes in your house!
People like this ehn... they'd always have more than one gf. And I sincerely wonder the kind of girls who do meetups at a guy's friend's place.

you make a lot of sense bro

couragemurphy:
Sorry for that, but I didn't say you're. Was just referring to the question and not you.

nice one bro

couragemurphy:
Someone said the better candidate should win, you are here asking deluded question. Na wa for Naija yoots of nowadays....

I'm not deluded, it's just the country we find ourselves.

[quote author= post=76928898]Sokoto citizens have made their choice!

The better candidate should win

God bless Sokoto State.

God bless Nigeria.......[/quote]so you think APC will win Sokoto? You are joker

The idot is tampering with ogun he's even fortunate

APC is a devilish party. But what will be will be.

GavelSlam:
The institution can continue to live in the dark ages


On the other hand, they can invest in CCTVs whilst embarking on a proper identification scheme.

I'm sure they'll say there's no funding available for such.

no be naija we dey??

tooth4tooth:
Beating a uniformed man like them. Nigerian Police are just too indiscipline. These are men that have social responsibility to maintain law and order.

most of them are illiterate. Do they even know their responsibilities.

Please that's your problem....you know much about Niger hoes...

JoeMaddog:
Why should I advise you on how to tie a bro down Once a hòe is always a hòe. You've slept with more than 30 men . The only advice I have for you is to join the pòrn industry. Put your talent to use.

porn industry

tolugar:
double whahala for dead body

and the owner of deadi body

I don't know some people reason. I'm just tired to dey hear dis kain news

icebird25:
I don't understand this country again o... Abi are we in the wrong nigeria

I tire o

Dinner

magicminister:
Sorry bro.. I know exactly how you feel.
When I was still producing, I’d have some of my beats that I posted on SoundCloud reworked and resold by bigger producers. Not only do they do that, they pass it off as their own!

Still release your own!

that's why I always remove the lead or the bassline of my instrumental when sending to someone or on the internet.

Faceville:
Na wa ohh. This country done tire me I swear

RIP

no be only o

Speechless

This country is dead and buried.

lagdmark:
Even Edo people dey fear to stay in Edo, only Elderly people feel safer

yes o, anytime I visit Benin, I always feel insecure. I had to leave there 2years ago after I was robbed and the second one attempted robbery. I only pack my clothes and certificates. The rest na dash o

BalleyB:
We learn and grow everyday (sometimes through sad experiences).

The thing is, I am trying to work my way up to her by sending a text. It's been 12hrs and she didn't reply.

I guess she's done with you in the relationship. Forget her and move on please
After all there are many ladies out there desperately looking for a good guy like you.

To go and write exam with her condition? Even the post robbery trauma will not her to read.

OkpaAkuEriEri:
Afonj.......
D police is ur friend.
D police is workin.
Tanx u Abba kyarri 4 a gud job

its morning already, go and take your pills before you enter market.

Which day dem go get sense for Edo state?

starring:
Good day fellow Nairalanders

I met this girl last year July through a good friend, while I was oversees, we started e-dating and everything went smoothly although, we had series of misunderstandings during December last year but we resolved it afterwards

She called me and told me to me about a particular guy that comes to sleep at her room (she's still schooling), she said the guy was her cousin. I had to believe her because according to her, he is a cousin and I don't think they will be romantically involved in anyway.

The guy slept in my GF's room 3 different times that I'm aware of. He spent 5days the first time, the second time he spent close to a week, the third, he slept and left the following day. She told me each time the guy was visiting, this made me trust her and believed that the guy was her cousin.

My GF and I had a serious argument and misunderstanding this January, my girlfriend's brother had to step in and begged on her behalf. GF's brother and I spoke at length and I used that opportunity to ask my GF's bro about the guy my girlfriend introduced to me as her cousin.

Her brother told me they are not related by blood in any way, that they are JUST close family friends and nothing more and moreso, the guy in question once asked my gf out but due to the closeness of the family, my guy's mum playfully declined the request. Immidately he said this, my blood pressure increased, my heart beat increased 100x faster, one million and one thoughts ran through my head.

Though, I once asked her why the cousin always come to her room and stay longer period of days before leaving, the answer she gave me was that the guy is a serving corps member and whenever he wants to visit his family, he branches to her place and spend some time with her before going home (when I was in Nigeria, I do visit my cousins and spend time with them before leaving so I had no issues with the guy coming over if truly they are related)

To cut the long story short, I asked her about the true identity of the guy, she told me the truth and she swore that they did nothing during her so called 'cousin' numerous sleepovers in her room. I forgave her for lying to me and we moved on.

I got back to Nigeria last month and a source disclosed to me that my GF and her 'cousin' had sex more than five different occasions. (I don't want to reveal my source, my gf is an active nairalander)

I called her and told her about what I heard. She denied at first but later told me that they had sex 4 different times while I was away. (I'm dead sure it must be more than 4 times) She said they made out when we had issues during the December time. If this is true, they had sex 4 DIFFERENT OCCASIONS within the space of 31 days. (if not more than 10 times sef)

I'm so devastated right now. We saw over the weekend, she wasn't feeling too well, I picked her from her school to the school hospital and later brought to my house. She spent the night at my place and begged me all through the night for me to forgive her and that she is truly sorry for the pain she caused me, she also begged in the car with tears and mucus all over her face while I was dropping her off to her place. She said she is a changed person and that her life will be meaningless if I leave and that everybody deserves a second chance.

I honestly don't know what to do at this juncture. I don't tolerate infidelity of any kind more reason why I'm straightforward and loyal to her. I told her I have forgiven her because she wouldn''t leave my car if I don't forgive her. She kept crying and crying making passers-by wonder if I'm trying to kidnap her or something, I felt uncomfortable with the whole situation. The truth is that my heart is far from her the very moment she admitted to having sex with the guy while in a relationship with me. I find it highly disturbing.

How do I leave her without making her hurt herself because she may get herself killed once it's obvious that i am gone for good and secondly, if truly she's changed, is her sin really forgivable and forgettable?

you can forgive but can you forget? It's just like a scar on your face, each time you look at the mirror you will remember what caused it. So be wise enough to make a decision. I'll advise you to leave her in a subtle way.

BalleyB:
Good evening everyone. I am going to keep this as short as possible because I wouldn't want to bore you with irrelevant information.

Dated this amazing lady for a year which was one of the best moments of my relationship life but I flopped with my insecurities and Jealousy which made her lose interest in me. I stopped being her "kind of guy" due to these distasteful actions of mine and we broke up two months ago.

The thing is, I have had another relationship after the break up but I can't seem to be able to get over her because she is one in a thousand (reason why I loved her in the first place).

Throughout the space of two months, we didn't have any form of communication until two days ago when I sent a text apologizing for my behavior during the breakup saga (I got emotional and said things I shouldn't have). She replied my text yesterday saying she had forgiven me because she knew I did those things due to the fact I was hurt and in her words "Time heals all wounds I guess"

We haven't had any other conversation since yesterday but I want to get her back. I felt since she replied my text with a positive "tone" I might be able to work things out with her.

Please I really need an advice because this lady means so much to me.

go and meet her and Express yourself. I guess that's what she needed. For you to have realised your mistakes that will make her to forgive you. Mind you, women hates men that feel insecure around them...I have once been in the same position as yours and same experience too, but I outgrown it since. So you too outgrow it

That 6 months amount to about 4 months and 2 weeks I guess. They are going to VIP direct as you can see that guy smiling. Anything you want you get in the vip asides from hoes. Coming out they fresher

eyinjuege:
Dinner..
Plantain will be ready once everyone is home, hopefully soon.

ahhhh for recession

Dinner