Politics › Re: “Endless Alleluia!” – Joe Igbokwe Praises God Over Nnamdi Kanu’s Arrest by anselm791(m): 8:23pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
Well of course he is dishonest if he needs a camera to praise God. |
Politics › Re: Twenty Years After, Sanwo-Olu Relaunches, Expands Jigi-bola Programme by anselm791(m): 8:20pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: British Crew Of Yacht Feared For Their Lives As 30 Killer Whales Attacked Them by anselm791(m): 8:18pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
Well it's payback I guess |
Politics › Re: Twenty Years After, Sanwo-Olu Relaunches, Expands Jigi-bola Programme by anselm791(m): 8:15pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
Dude is really trying hard to make us forget 20-10-20. |
Politics › Re: Nnamdi Kanu: Why I Jumped Bail, Escaped From Nigeria by anselm791(m): 8:11pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
Calitoscassius: Mental slavery? Your opinion again. This is what happened in 1939 when Hitler was murdering the Jews slowly no one believed it until it came to their doorsteps.
You mean the IGBOs who are benefitting from the union, ofcourse, they would feel free until they cannot benefit anymore from the union.. as i ve said, alot people didn't believe that Hitler was murdering the Jews until...
Ofcourse, you would call them poor and lazy, "to kill a Dog easily you give it a bad name" again as i ve said earlier you are not in their position you would understand their feelings.
Were the South Africans and Mandela poor and lazy when they were fighting for freedom too?
Were we the british also poor and lazy when we voted to leave the EU? You keep mentioning opinions like the facts aren't there. The Igbos have their states, what have they done with it? How is the North stopping them from developing? The North has the Food, the South has the Oil, the West has the Books, what do Igbos really bring to the table if I may ask? |
Politics › Re: No Tears For Nnamdi Kanu - Farooq Kperogi by anselm791(m): 7:49pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
amuwo1980: I have never tot much of the guy I never even heard of him. |
Politics › Re: Sowore: Nnamdi Kanu Was Kidnapped And Not Arrested by anselm791(m): 7:48pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
zoghys: Since when is this a free country?. Since when you can ask that question. |
Politics › Re: Nnamdi Kanu: Why I Jumped Bail, Escaped From Nigeria by anselm791(m): 7:47pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
Calitoscassius: You are right it is politics and i am glad you recognise that, Kanu's arrest falls in politics category too. Buhari is or could be playing politics with Mr kanu's life.
He was also convicted of terrorism hence the imprisonment, i see no difference here every freedom fighter have always been accussed of one ridiculous crime or the other just to stop them from fighting for freedom.
In your opinion IGBOs are free IGBOs do not think so hence their freedom fighting. You cannot tell the IGBOs that they are free you are not in their position, why do they not believe that they are free then If they are free? It's a mental slavery and non but themselves can free their own minds. The Igbos who realized that they are free are doing so well even in this government. Why do you think it's only the poor and lazy Igbos that are agitating for Biafra? |
Food › Re: Street Foodz Naija: Peak Yoghurt Supports Young Foodpreneurs With Seed Money by anselm791(m): 7:37pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
FP just like that? |
Business › Re: Dangote, Adenuga, Elumelu, Rabiu In France For Business Summit (Photos) by anselm791(m): 7:36pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
Wow Adenuga has lost some weight. He looks good. |
Romance › Re: Did I Make A Mistake By Not Collecting This Female Celebrity's Number?(pics) by anselm791(m): 7:33pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
Fake it till you make it. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Russia Tests S-400 Missiles In Crimea Amid Tensions With Ukraine by anselm791(m): 7:26pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
It's only testing testing na |
Politics › Re: Nnamdi Kanu: Why I Jumped Bail, Escaped From Nigeria by anselm791(m): 7:22pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
Calitoscassius: Well... locking one up indefinitely appears like taking his life away forever.
Maybe, but he was still convicted and jailed for 30 years.. you would find that he gain more support when he was in priso, who knows? More people might support Mr Kanu eventually depending on how fair the nigerian govt. Handles his case.
The british may have handed Mr kanu to buhari but they are still watching buhari to see how fair and democratic he will handle kanu's case. The british can be very crafty.
The british and Americans were best friends with Bin laden, gaddafi and sadam hussein it didn't stop them from supporting their murders by the Americans. Politics is a game of interest, so I can understand the foreign moves. And yes Madiba was behind bars for 27years as the price for freedom, but Kanu's case is different because the Igbos are already free. |
Politics › Re: House Of Representatives Confirms Yahaya As Chief Of Army Staff by anselm791(m): 7:13pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
My rubber stamp senate never fails. May they never run out of ink. |
Politics › Re: Mele Kyari On Refinery: Dangote Not Happy With NNPC Proposed Stake Acquisition by anselm791(m): 7:11pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
humility33: How much is the whole refinery project..that cost 25B dollars and now the government wanna buy 20% stake at 19B dollars It's actually worth about $12B which is also Dangote's net worth. The man is putting everything in to control the country. |
Politics › Re: Nnamdi Kanu: Why I Jumped Bail, Escaped From Nigeria by anselm791(m): 7:06pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
Calitoscassius: locking him up indefinitely will definitely turn him into a matyr.
Nelson Mandela was accussed of terrorism, locked up for 30 years in the end he became South African president and leader of the ANC. You only become a martyr when you die. And Madiba had the majority on his side. |
Politics › Re: Sowore: Nnamdi Kanu Was Kidnapped And Not Arrested by anselm791(m): 6:57pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
No worry yourself jor, Kanu will still tell us how they catch am. |
Politics › Re: Mele Kyari On Refinery: Dangote Not Happy With NNPC Proposed Stake Acquisition by anselm791(m): 6:56pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
I stand with the government on this one. Dangote is getting too rich for my liking. |
Politics › Re: They Gave Up Kanu For FG To Unban Twitter by anselm791(m): 6:49pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
No one told me that this NL is a home of conspiracy theories. If only I wasn't suspended from twitter... |
Politics › Re: Nnamdi Kanu: Why I Jumped Bail, Escaped From Nigeria by anselm791(m): 6:46pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
Calitoscassius: They should becareful not to turn Mr Kanu into a matyr They know to do better than that. And locking him up indefinitely is just as good. However there is another way, It's so unimaginable I shudder even thinking of it. |
Politics › Re: Nnamdi Kanu’s Family To FG: Don’t Manhandle Our Son, He's Only A Freedom Fighter by anselm791(m): 6:39pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
fergie001: VANGUARD Well a lot more people has died for the 'truth' than any other cause in human history. |
Politics › Re: How Nnamdi Kanu Was Lured Into Negotiations And Then Arrested by anselm791(m): 6:37pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
Sooner or later we shall know the truth as to how he was captured. |
Politics › Re: "The Language Is Now Clear For Everyone To Understand" - Bashir Ahmad by anselm791(m): 6:06pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
The twitter ban still dey pain this one. |
Politics › Re: No Tears For Nnamdi Kanu - Farooq Kperogi by anselm791(m): 6:01pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
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Politics › Re: Sowore: Nnamdi Kanu Was Kidnapped And Not Arrested by anselm791(m): 5:57pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
AGNESikpuNNU: Sowore should shut up please. Calm down baby tyrant, It's a free country. |
Career › Re: 10 Mistakes You Are Currently Making That Might Damage Your Chance Of Success by anselm791(m): 5:51pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
Kinute: This is going to be a very quick, straight-to-the-point post and no unnecessary explaination.
And to prove it-
1. SHORT HAND
If u still type lik dis n u tink typn sentences correctly is wsting of tym or some swag, you say thnx like dis and ask questions with y, wht, etc.
Then you need to stop. You might have damaged your chances of people seeing the value in you because of annoying, hard-to-read short-hand sentences.
Wake up, we are no longer in the era of 2go.
Your friends might not care because they know you.
Don't let people see you as immature and valueless before you get a chance to prove otherwise.
2. YOU WANT TO DO IT BY YOURSELF
Maybe you are an introvert, shy or your ego is just as big as the big head on your neck, the truth still remains you cannot live life on your own.
Don't make this mistake.
Find support systems.
There is a reason why suicide cases in Nigeria are consistently rising. People have replaced communal values with solitude and seclusion.
Apart from the damage it does to your mental health, it also makes it hard for people to reach out to you when you most need them cos they just assume you are fine.
This is also important in business. Find a partner that compliments you, stop focusing on all that can go wrong if you have a partner.
I stand to be corrected but I believe, whatever can go wrong in your business if you have a partner has a higher chance of going wrong if you are doing it by yourself.
3. NOT BUILDING QUALITY RELATIONSHIPS
This is a sequel to point 2 above.
Build deliberate and strategic relationships. Stop treating people with disdain, and stop looking down on yourself.
Be interested in people, their values, and what they do. Help where you can.
Go to events where the kind of people you want in your life are at.
Think of relationships as investments that can yield better ROI than any other type of investment.
In fact, take a look at your life right now, some of the things you have achieved were through leveraging relationships.
4. YOU ARE NOT SHOWING YOUR VALUE
I struggled with this for years. I was good at a few things but nobody knew. I saw friends I was better than become what I wanted to be. They would even come to me for advice.
Why? Because the little they knew how to do, they shared with the world while I was waiting to be perfect.
Don't do that. Waiting for perfection is just fear masking itself in a way that seems pleasant.
Go out there, show people what you can do, what you are learning how to do, and how you do what you do.
Value can also be just helping others around you achieve something. Value is your usefulness to God, man, and society.
5. YOU DON'T HONOR PEOPLE
This is similar to building relationships but still slightly different.
If I may ask, when was the last time you thanked your parents? Have you ever truly appreciated them for all they have done?
Honor doesn't just stop at our parents though. How about your bosses, your superiors, or even those under you. Have you ever looked them in the eye and say "Thank you for all you do, I value and honor you"
There are many ways you can honor people.
Find a way to honor those that have made an impact in your life.
6. YOU ARE NOT DIFFERENT FROM EVERY OTHER PERSON AROUND YOU
Everyone is starting a poultry business so you start one. Everyone is submitting CVs for jobs so you do the same. People do the same thing over and over again and you jump on the bandwagon, no uniqueness, no differentiation, just copy copy.
Now, I am not saying doing what others are doing is bad, it is not. But find a way to stand out, find a way to be different.
For every business out there, there are 100 ways you can be different. Your job application must not follow every constant application format.
Don't let desperation cause you to be repetitive and redundant. Learn to stand out, learn to be different.
7. PROCASTINATION
I will talk about this tomorrow.
But every tomorrow is another tomorrow.
Do it now.
8. FEAR
It's not easy to overcome fear but overcoming your fear is the only way you can move forward in life.
So many motivational speakers have talked about this and I am no motivational speaker.
9. YOU ARE NOT LEARNING ENOUGH
Reading might be tiring for you but can you at least learn from people that have done it before you. Ask for their help and guidance, watch them as they do what they do, and find ways to do it better.
Google is your friend. Getting a mentor or coach is a better friend and books are your best friends.
Choose your friends wisely.
10. FILL THIS IN YOURSELF
If you are being sincere, you know what is holding you back.
Your guts tell you once you can overcome this thing, you would be able to achieve anything you want. Then overcome it.
But let me burst your bubbles. Excuses don't cut it. Stop making excuses. Making excuses in itself is a mistake.
The excuses you make are scenarios making you mentally lazy.
Wake up. (For lack of better words) I like the style and manner of this write up. |
Politics › Re: Ohanaeze Reacts To Nnamdi Kanu's Arrest - 'End Of Violent Agitations' by anselm791(m): 5:46pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
Almaigaa: IPOB are nothing but bloody Chest beaters One can only be glad that you are not among the security intelligence. |
Romance › Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by anselm791(m): 5:45pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
Nacoss25: Good day my people. Ignore my wrong sentences please. It all started like this. On Sunday my wife wore a dress am uncomfortable with and which is unexpected of a married woman(I mean the gown was too short), when we came back from church I told her never to where such dress again to church she then picked offence that I always complain about her dress being too short, (My wife love skimpy dresses alot which I don't like) I was still talking she walked out on me went and stayed outside like someone who was chased out of the house, she stayed outside for about an hour and later came in and started dressing up to go for an evening program in church, I then told her not to go to anywhere in need us to talk, why I told her not to go is so we can settle the issues. She insisted that she must go that I can't stop her, I repeated my statement telling her not to go that I want us to talk she insisted on going. While she was about to leave I forcefully siezed the house keys from her and let her go, this happened around 5.30pm. I love seeing my woman in short dresses but not wearing them to church. On reaching the time she is expected to come back home around 7.30pm I left the house without dropping the house keys anywhere to a hotel and lodged there, she waited outside still around 10pm and sent me a text that do I want to sleep outside I did not reply her, she now called Me i picked and told her to go and sleep where she went to since she has the guts to disrespect mess her husband that am in a hotel at the moment to pass the night there and ended the call she called till 11pm and also sent text messages begging for forgiveness, she then called my younger brother who then called me too begging me to go back home I never picked her call and I switched off my phone. I came back home around 5am only to discover that she slept on a bench in the veranda. My people I want ask a question. Don't I as a husband have the right to tell my wife not to dress certain way or don't I have the right to tell her not to go out, mind you am not the authoritative kind of husband but on this one I need to stamp my authority as the head of my family. My wife is a good woman and I love so so much, I just needed to discipline her. Our marriage is two months old. The real question is how do I give my opinion without calling you out as foolish? |
Politics › Re: Hanan Buhari Graduates With Masters Degree From Royal College Of Art, UK (Video) by anselm791(m): 5:35pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
This one is specially dedicated to all the zombies in Nigeria. May she return safely and continue to rule. |
Politics › Re: Ohanaeze Reacts To Nnamdi Kanu's Arrest - 'End Of Violent Agitations' by anselm791(m): 5:27pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
Almaigaa: I just Dey warn them, make them no even try am. Eventhough them no get liver. No wise person would want to dare any group. |
Politics › Re: Pictures: The Moment Nnandi Kanu Was Arrested in UK By Nigerian Security Forces by anselm791(m): 5:24pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
Now that we all know that you're a liar, what are you going to do with the rest of your life? |
Politics › Re: Ohanaeze Reacts To Nnamdi Kanu's Arrest - 'End Of Violent Agitations' by anselm791(m): 5:17pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
Almaigaa: I urge our Galant security forces to use anyone who try to protest for TARGET PRACTICE. We will not tolerate any act of Sympathy to any Terrorist.  Where have you seen terrorists protest? |