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I have received calls from different people about 3 times now telling me how we served together and when I asked the Local Govt and platoon number they hung up,one even told me his name,where I could find his name and picture in our year book,he told me he was working in Bayelsa and wanted to help me get a job but I ended the call before he could say any other thing and when he called back I rejected his call.One has to be careful in this Nigeria else......hmmmm

@friedmeat:It's been kind of on and off

Thanks dear@Ezeed

The comments on twitter and nairaland shouldn't make her 2 commit suicide o.

;DLMAO @ all comments
God!!!! I had no choice than to download d stupid song just 2 confirm what pple are saying here,It's total rubbish.Hmmm,na wa o,everyone wnts to be a musician.

@OP:Love the topic
@ those who say such ladies don't exist,it's only fair if you stop generalising.If you want a perfect man/woman,make sure you also work on yourself to be perfect for your partner.Some men want someone perfect yet they are not while some women are also like that.

I learnt the hard way too.As a prospective corps member/corps member,it's essential you save or learn something that will always fetch you money during and after service. When I was serving,there was this girl I heard of who made it a habit to purchase gold every month not for personal use but for sale after service cos I served in the north,when some of us were spending our allowance anyhow.You can learn bead making,tailoring,hairdressing,and many more as a lady and for guys,just like what someone said earlier,you can go into phone repair,start a business e.t.c.

They are everywhere.When you usually board a bus from Ughelli(Delta state) to PH,you will see what I mean.They will tell you their manifest is filled up and the next thing they tell you is to give them something so they can put you in a bus that will leave early.

@Ezeed:It's hard o but I just have to.Thanks

I check his cos he checks mine.What gets me angry is d way he deletes pictures from my phone.As in personal pictures,he says am overloading my phone.I have passwords to his facebook acct,yahoo and other social sites and he has mine,he was the one that started and we enjoy checking on each other.

This is one big issue for me too-ANGER.It destroys,nothing good comes from it and yet when am angry I just want to talk cos at that time I am very emotional and at the end,I begin to apologise for some of the things I might have said wrong.Reading people's comments here gives me an insight on how to deal with it.First of all,it's one of the fruits of the flesh,I have been trying my best lately,when am angry,I stay with my family,gist and laugh like there's no tomorrow or I get busy with washing,cleaning and even eating but at the point am trying to make peace,if the person who has annoyed me doen't show any sign of remorse,I get infuriated again.

@sapele_don:Thanks for the wonderful advice.I felt kind of happy reading your comment.
@obicentlis:Thanks too

@Sapele_Don:Thanks,I know I was a bit stubborn and the excuse was just because he cheated once so I thought he was just telling me that to keep me off the wedding venue.I believe one day everything will be ok.I was angry and still feel bad because I HAVE NEVER AND WILL NEVER CHEAT ON HIM.I'd prefer to end it than cheat on him.I know gals are bad but am an exception when it comes to cheating cos I wouldn't want my man doing that to me.Thanks for commenting,I appreciate,I was really immature and stubborn then,but you should know also that the family was only using such allegations to make me look bad before their son and when he vehemently refused to believe them,they started complaining about tribe.We are from the same state but from diff local govt

@gunners160:No one called me dat,unless u are so eager to use such words in your post.May I also add that,it was all a cooked up story just to make their son marry from their tribe which he has objected to.Am just worried he might be using this situation to do other things you know.And what really makes me angry is the way some pple comment here thinking I'm guilty of what they said when I have been faithful to a guy who has cheated on me once,begged me and I forgave him and we have been doing well before this whole scenerio.Yet,some want to judge me?

@Mayor@kome:Thanks,truth is I was praying and at some point I just got tired which I know is wrong.Yes am a christian,a worker in the church but have not been strong for some time.May God forgive me,will pick up from where I stopped.I appreciate the encouraging words

Am waiting gunners160.I need to know what you mean by 'having sex',did I say anything like that or are you one of those who think every girl in Nigeria is loose?If that is what you mean,I think you should have a rethink cos am not one of those.I can't tell u how my guy met me,am proud,he's proud too just that the issue at hand is damaging the relationship.Before you post anything here,please make sure you read and understand.Thanks

@gunners160
Thanks 4 the comment but I don't understand the 'sex' part.

Thanks to all of you for your encouraging words.I thought when I will be coming here to reply at this time of the year,it would be something positive but for now,we are just there.I have tried leaving him but it was all drama cos it's not been easy given the fact he's my first love.Anyway,am beginning to feel I should leave cos to me he's willing to let his people control him,he told them we are no more together and sometimes when I call him,he rejects my calls and switch off his phones only to call me back later that he was with one of his family member blah blah blah.I don't trust him considering we are in a long distance r/ship.He could be cheating and using family as an excuse,in fact I don't even know what to think anymore.

I got th same message around 2 a.m today and am lost cos I don't even know what to read

1.Pride on d part of d guy
2.Greed on d part of d gal
3.Lack of undestanding
4.Lack commununiaction whether they are close or far apart
5.Ego(men)
6.Unforgiveness
7.Lack of trust
8.Fear

Pls,someone called me from PH dat she saw my name and when I used d link on d poster's message,I was able 2 get my exam number.Now I can't find my name in the site,instead of abt 2000 names,I can only see 1214 names.Does anyone know what's going on?

I have attended their seminar before but what I heard there was just too good to be true.I have seen a neighbour's brother with lots of benefits though am just still scared but maybe I will try this mobile stuff.
@OP:I don't really understand,I have sent them a mail but won't I need to pay money for the goods that I will get 4rm them to sell?How can I join the forum?Please enlighten me.

Wow!!!The comments are soooo funny.Can't just stop laughing.

Most annoying actors:-

Chidi Mokeme(Dnt like his eyes n the way he does his mouth)
Nkem Owoh(Too fake for my liking with too much talk)
Jim Iyke(His fake accent makes me angry)
Emeka Ike(Fake)
Chiwetalu Agu(Always Ibotic & he over acts.Saw him in UBA bank at Asaba n was realy disappointed wit d way he dressed)
Tony Umez(Disgusting)
Aki n Paw paw(They should take better roles)

Annoying Actresses:-
Mercy Johnson(I like her bt dnt like d way she dresses like a w.hore)
Benita Nzeribe(Old fashioned,she uses make up dat dnt match her face n weavons dat make her look like)

Those who wrote the Asaba international airport aptitude test should check:
|Welcome To Delta State Civil Service Commission|Asaba International Airport Recruitment|

Or just google it cos names of successful candidates have been shortlisted.Mine is not there,good luck

Those who wrote the Asaba international airport aptitude test should check:|Welcome To Delta State Civil Service Commission|Asaba International Airport Recruitment|

In law dept.,it's like they're not using aggregate cos they scored high.My problem now is that someone was admitted a test score of 45.Whereas some people who scored 50 and above are yet to see theirs.Check this reg number-15294332EB.

I hope my lil sister's own turns to 'ADMITTED'

@boboyekini,I knw it's bad,I was only frustrated at that time of being accused of such a thing.I av reversed it,I av 4given that person but my wish is that he goes back to make things right.The person doesn't even know me,he doesn't even know where my guy lives in Ph,my guy is very sure of that n 4rm what my guy is explaining to me,it's like there is a gal that has been doing that and the guy in question knows about it and after telling his sister,the sister went to my guy's parents place to report them.If u ask me,I don't even know hw to start explainin dis,at first,I thought it was even a friend of my guy or some1 I know that must have done it but from what my guy is saying,he feels it's a case of mistaken identity.All these wuld av been settled if my guy had been able 2 get d person's number

@andromida,ok
@otokx,Y are u shaking ur head?To b frank wit u,I dnt think I knw what am doing anymore bt I believe God is going to restore my happiness in a short while

my id is..

@ safo,I knw what it means,but u shuldn't use such words 'ashawo' on me.What is going on is a case of mistaken identity according 2 what my guy has explained to me but nw d family is angry at me cos Sent my guy's brother text msg.Am upset wit your comment cos,u don't knw me,my guy does,he knws hw he met me bt u coming here to post 'maybe u are an ashawo' isn't right at all.Am only feeling bad cos som1 soiled my name yet u come here to say 'maybe u are ashawo'.What has happened to me could av happened to anyone,if u don't believe,am not forcing u to,God is my witness in all this.