₦airaland Forum

drstranged:
I believe the so called fucking was of MUTUAL CONSENT between the two parties, two consenting adults and so it has nothing to do with his authority over her. He can't take permission from the father of an adult lady who has willingly opened her legs for him. On the aspect of faithfulness, if we're going by your logic it means the girl has every right to Bleep any guy she sees and deems fit and thus turn herself into a prostitute. Isn't it better she stays faithful to one man in a proper RELATIONSHIP/COURTSHIP before he does the formal proceeding for marriage. Relationships/courtships are necessary for couples to know themselves properly before committing to marriage. And in this phase of relationship, it's expected that both parties are committed and loyal to each other. On the aspect of sex in relationship, I don't subscribe to it because it's not moral but again one can argue for the fact that it's of mutual consent and secondly, as a human you can't judge a man from a moral point of view because you also do immoral stuffs too...more like pot calling kettle black. His sins might be sexual, yours might be stealing or telling lies. Only God can morally judge a man.
So in every sense, that man was right to have expected a reasonable degree of loyalty from that girl he was in a relationship with, which I believe was a prelude to meeting her people formally for marriage. If she can't be faithful to him in a courtship then she won't be in marriage. Simple.

Unlawfully phucking someone's daughter and demanding that she gives u 💯% accountability even when you're not yet a fiancee.
Just an ordinary boyfriend. U Guys are jokers!
What an entitlement!
U na get mind ooo
If that babe die for your apartment, wetin you go tell the Nigerian police?
Let's start from there first

drstranged:
She is under no obligation to be with the guy but if she wants to get intimate with another guy, the more honourable thing would have been to break it up with this guy and go be with the other rather than bleeping two guys at the same time. That's a whorish behavior. And then this unsuspecting boyfriend would now eventually propose and marry her thinking he married a faithful lady while the now married lady sneaks off occasionally to get intimate with the other guy.
So it goes beyond just payment of the bride price but has to do with character and morals

Someone is phucking Someone's daughter without due clearance and you are talking about faithfulness? 🙆🏾‍♂️🙆🏾‍♂️🙆🏾‍♂️🙆🏾‍♂️🙆🏾‍♂️. Faithfulness to who, please? A boyfriend not acknowledged or known by the father....Do you know that if that GaL dies in that so-called boyfriend apartment, that boy will be in grave danger ( homicide straight).
But if a wife dies in her husband's house, doors wouldn't be closed at the man most likely.
Think oooooo. I don't care what the gal does with her life, for that's her choice. It's for the boy to make his decision whether to go on or not. He has no iota of legal right over that GaL.
You Guys don't understand the "Law"

It's just like that in LAX Airport, Los Angeles, San Francisco Airport and Sky Harbor in Phoenix.
The noise is very very concerning 😟

Then the woman should remain with her parents. Stay @ Home & earn my respect.
Relationship is not by coercion. Please Stop dating men, rather focus on yourself.
I don't know why these ladies keep seeing it as transactional when they don't want to spend on their men too. I don't have issues with men spending, but I have issues with women not agreeing to spend since it is transactional.
Since it has been commercialized, it should be done across board.

Every where is just disorganized😭😭
No orderliness at all.
Roaming everywhere in the church.

Who helpes an Ignorant and careless person?
How ? Why should I risk my life for an Ignorant and reckless person?
Obviously, he is part of those constituting nuisance and Recklessness across Nigeria.
Nonsense. What kind of act was that?

ariesbull:
When Nigerians say “I wan Japa,” it sounds like freedom. But in reality, for many, it has become a new kind of slavery.

Yes, people leave because of hardship—no jobs, insecurity, broken schools, collapsed healthcare. But the story abroad is not always the dream Instagram sells. Too often, it’s depression, loneliness, and frustration. Imagine leaving Nigeria with a degree, only to find yourself cleaning toilets in Germany or working 16-hour shifts in a UK care home. Starting all over again in a foreign land feels less like a fresh start and more like a wound to the soul.

The shame is real. Many migrants cannot tell their families the truth about their struggles. They send home edited pictures with smiles, while in reality they battle anxiety, racism, and the emptiness of being far from home. Years pass, and instead of joy, there’s regret—“Have I wasted my life?”

This is why I call Japa neo-slavery. Not with chains, but with papers, bills, and endless hustling. In the old slave trade, Africans were forced out to build the West. Today, we leave willingly, pouring our youth, skills, and energy into foreign economies while Africa is drained of her best minds.

Of course, not every story is bleak. Some succeed, some send money back, some create opportunities. But as a people, we must ask: are we truly free if our brightest sons and daughters are stuck in cycles of shame, depression, and survival in lands that will never fully accept them?

Real liberation will not come from escape. It will come from rebuilding at home, so that leaving is a choice—not a desperate run into another form of bondage.

This is your perception and feeling.
IF I write mine, that will be mine.
You are entitled to your opinion.
What you are desirous of is not gonna be what another man would be desirous about.
You must learn to respect people's decisions in life especially when they don't hurt you directly or in anyway.
People have their various reasons.
I had mine and it paid off hugely.
No regrets at all.

People should be allowed to face the gains and consequences of their actions.
U can have the entire Nigeria and the West African sub region but for me and my family we already have Yankee.

Life is too short for all these daily baseless analogy & self servicing comparisons.
Anthropologists from Yankee visit Nigeria and remain there permanently.
It's their sole decision & I support them.
You must learn to understand the sociology of the human race and animals at large.
Hope I made my self clearer now?

What right does your Younger Brother have over a lady he has not paid her bride price?
The effrontery with which people take ordinary relationship is unbecoming.

Just imagine ordering the steps and redirecting the future of a young girl whom you haven't sought for her hand in marriage officially
Isn't that madness?

lordm:
Why should a same human being provide such data to you

There is nothing wrong in providing Data to her anonymously.
Sex is part of human existence, in fact it is number one, pertinent and integral to our existence. It is widely discussed across the planet.
...it was orchestrated by the supernatural being behind our existence and has been so.
We may shy away from such Topics or discussions in Nigeria but outside Nigeria people attend lectures and counseling sessions just to catch a glimpse & hear people's stories.
Finally, there's nothing special about it & there's something special about it.

Skunk
Racoon
Possum
Opossum

In a Nutshell.
The moment we hear Rape & Skullerships....we already know
The moment we hear Coke we already know.
The moment we hear Italy & "Bend down collect" , we already know.
Finally, a correctional officer will get corrected.
Hmmmmmmm

I can only 😭😭😭😭😭

plankyjacky:
If you go through engineering mathematics, you will know that they are the most important section of your calculator

It doesn't just have to be Engineering mathematics, even statistics confers such usefulness

It is you that is under utilizing the calculator and not that the said part is useless to you.
It is you that failed to acknowledge its usefulness and not otherwise.
U just demonstrated grave ignorance.
I have always used those buttons.
They mean a whole lot to intelligent science and arts students

....coming from a Medical Doctor and an Ex-Military personnel.
Hmmmmmmm
Despicable

I can only weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeep

Dogalmighty17:
So today I was out with the boys knocking back a few green bottles and just enjoying the evening. One of my guys called up a nice piece of kponmo he had been rolling with. She turned up with her friend. I noticed this didn't sit lightly with him but he maintained his cool. He proceeded to tell her to place an order for whatever she desires. She then ordered for noodles, chips and eggs outside the desperado she and her friend had already ordered for and were drinking.

When the waiter came to inquire how many plates to prepare, this lady told him to prepare two plates and one takeaway. Each plate was 6k. Making 18k in total for the food. My guy then picked offence with the extra plates ordered. He pointedly told her that he was only going to pay for one plate and if she wants her friend to eat, she can pay for her.

That set his girl off. She began raving and ranting. She threatened that if he wasn't going to pay for her friends food, she'll walk away. My guy ignored her. She was quiet for over 40 minutes until the waiter brought a plate of her order. She stood up screaming and rejected it. She then dragged her friend and they walked out. The chef returned back with the food even though it had already been paid for.

I normally don't drive when I know I'll be with the boys into the night so I left the car at home. I was done with my guys and strolled to the roadside to get keke. Guess who I saw inside the one I stopped? You guessed right, she and her friend.

I sat down and we greeted. Later on, I started perceiving the scent of curry. I looked to my left and behold these girls were devouring noodles like savages. Apparently, after all their gra gra, they went behind and collected the noodles.

I quietly watched as they ate like uncultured savages. Using bare unwashed hands. They even started quarelling because one of them cut a large slice of eggs. They couldn't wait to get home before eating a food they rejected. They are very beautiful ladies too. Ladies without class.

They are shameless and classless and not beautiful. Beauty encompasses everything.
They may be "good-looking" but not beautiful.
Guy, you should start hanging out with resourceful ladies. If you have issues meeting such ladies, let me know.
An intelligent man shouldn't have business with scavengers & savages. Learn to choose your woman.

Even Suleiman is shocked at the Testimony
🤣🤣🤣. Criminals
na "Lord's Chosen" kind of miracles oo

The problem is not that most married men don't help out.
I help out a lot. If most married women could speak. Some honest women are not on social media using such word as "MUST".
No sane man would sit back to watch his wife age out from doing senseless torturing chores.
The only problem I have with her mutilated mindset was when she used the word "MUST"
MUST is a command word.
She must be delusional and schizophrenic to have used such to address men. That's exactly what men detest. Never Never Never in your life as a married woman or aspiring one use a "command word" before your boyfriend or spouse.

He has done well

Waterlilly:
he added weight

...na status quo for Yankee naaaaa.
...na you go manage your weight on your own

First one depicts he was Venomous ( Viper)🤣🤣
Second one depicts Non-Venomous

First one was Point & KiLL
Seond one is Point & Conserve

First one depicted Lawlessness
Second is Lawful and Law abiding

First one depicted "my Oga send me"
Second one depicts " Community policing for the people by the people"

First one by Naija GaLs to same man "I can't date a Hunter"
Second one by Naija GaLs to same man "when are u coming to see my parents "

Nigeria no be your mate.
Once had my fair share

temitope27:
Infact every church should be closed, it has no impact in Nigeria

Majority should be converted to Factories and coupling plants

femi4:
When we are not at war...why apply for asylum in Canada

U think you are not at war, right?
U think you aree not at war but you have IDP camps everywhere.
IDP camps are now products of what?
May be Evangelism??

francis5051:
Poor fabrication of the metal pot.... Nigeria and poor services are 5 and 5

U nailed it.
The Engineers disappointed her.
No integrity check before dispatching such a package. Such should have been subjected to kilograms higher than that of 500 bags of rice before settling for 250 bags or 200.
That's how Structural assessment is done before commencement.

Always champions of shabby works.
Why disappoint the young Lady?

Ancestors were already waiting for you..
Looks more like a meeting point for elders

AbelAbdul:
I applied this cream there wasn't any improvement.

Ketoconazol is an antifungal agent.
But what you have there is of bacterial origin.
It will never work.

AbelAbdul:
I woke up one morning and saw this on my skin. The pharmacist I went to sid it was airborne disease.
I have taken several antibiotics I even used native treatment and it has refused to go.

There's nothing airborne about it.
In Nigeria everyone is a medical practitioner.
The Lawlessness & recklessness cuts across every field.

Meanwhile, That's an Impetigo.
It very common, & its contagious by touch.
Ordinarily I don't support online prescriptions but I will renege on such & recommend something.

Go & get Mupirocin cream.
Use it thrice a day. Make sure you clean surface before applying it. Remove yellow crusts from surface before applying cream.
Oral antibiotics are not necessary at all.
That's like using a sledgehammer to maim a fly.

FLYFIRE:
One of the good works Tinubu brought from Lagos, the other is agberos

So Tinubu is responsible for those filthy trash sites there right?

The Problems of Nigeria are as follows.
1. The Citizens of the Republic
2. The Citizens of the Republic
3. The Citizens of the Republic

The President comes from the citizenry
The Vice President hails from same pot.
The Senate president hails from same rot
The Assembly hails from same lot.
The Armed forces & Police hail from same dot
The Followers hail from same cot

In summary, blame yourselves for each result you see every day. Simple
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