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[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=588841.msg7563213#msg7563213 date=1295448578]Everyone has SOME TYPE OF RULES in their relationship and I am sure you have a few of them in your relationship. What you may feel it mediocre someone will see it as extreme. 

If she brought dudes home from work and you sitting there in your heart shaped boxers.   She persists on her dudes to spend the rest of the day with her in your presence and completely disregard the fact that you want to chill in your own home without visitors.  You will be okay with that?  (curling lip upward)[/quote]No. some how i refuse to agree with your idea. the whole thing starts from how the relationship began. there are something I know my girl can never do. and there are some other  things i'll say i'm not too sure on. And its part of risk assessment in a way. I have accepted the fact that there is a probability of some things happening and proceed with the relationship.



You might argue that ppl change but i believe strongly in "on ne change pas". we only adapt

Mygoldie:
@OP, i wish men could get pregnant and see how it feels like.(although not a bad experince, but the work load aint easy for women) and if men could go through this stage,they would begin to think and feel with their heart and not with their 'iron head''.

you make pregnancy sound like the holy grail. your mates are doing it and not complaining. who knows, maybe we can do it better than u guys

Nakele:
KWAAAKWAAAKWAAKWAA, SHAME,,,EISH

shame your head!!!!! I don't know and I shouldn't ask? Silly! 


back at topic. well, i really don't see it that way. something must have got me into the relationship in the first place. and every circumstance would be treated as they come. don't really have a fixed set of rules that if broken I'm out. makes everything kinda rigid don't u think?

seriously. explain further.

is this a concept u came up with yourself, or something u got somewhere. either of the two, explain what u mean by  "Deal breakers".

and what deal are we breaking here? 

huh?

Ah!!! this calls for plan B

Mygoldie:
even if you ask in the most politeful way,i still wouldn't give ya.

even when i say please?

Mygoldie:
I can't stand bad boys because they tend to end up as area boys.

eh??!! wettin i do u?

thats a nice way of saying

"what the hell got me into this marriage in the first place"

pappy4real:
cos bad guys do it reallllllyyyyyyy bad

for ur mind now u be bad guy.

ragdollz:
OP will you stop deceiving yourself! So if you bleep all the girls in the neighborhood plus their mothers, how does that add to your intelligence?? Yuck to guys who think banging around is a big achievement!!!

we dont expect u to understand. it really is a guy thing.

you really dont need to go to school to learn how to get a numbers.

its all about observing body language. and knowing which fish to go for or not.


A woman knows a man she'll give her number from the moment he says Hi. so it really isnt in our hands.

Creamish:
. . . . . like our views will change your decision . . . mtscheeeewwww . . . [b]fu**k de go! [/b]

HAHAHA, words of encouragement. we all need that


@ poster. it happens, na ur turn. enjoy it while it lasts

gabriel4u:
You are the most useless person i will have see on this earth, great fool! (most u interfere?)
Big thanks, true talk.

@op

I'm such guy too. I always want to know where my gel went to, if anyfing happens,i xpect her to tell me before i detect my self. This is not just because i want to control her movement but i only care about how she moves, So that if any urgent need arise, i will easily locate where she could be at that moment. And, at the same time, i love her and i wont want her to engage in negative act. In a short, I LOVE HER, that why.

if that is not controlling disguised under love, i dont know what else is.



@op, first of all u got into this relationship without any of us knowing, why now need us?. the truth is, whatever makes u happy. if u think u dont like the way he polices u around, say something about it. talk to him and see what you guys can work out.

ON THE OTHER HAND, what is wrong with you telling him everywhere u go? except u have plans?

you are making this thing sound like its the fault of the Nigerian women. I'll tell u, more than 30% of the British white female haven't heard those words in a while too.

the thing is, their society is totally different from ours. the moon will have to fall off the sky before a British man toasts a random woman on the street. its really not their style and i think that's a shame. they are more "chance relationship" type. that's why they have a million dating sites to help their population find love.

on the other hand, the average Nigerian guy in Lagos or anywhere else will toast anything. our girls are used to it, and they come to the uk and still expert that? fa fa fa? foul!!

Marvin Gaye  -   Lets get it on                         oh this song turns me upside down!!





and some other ones include

John Mayer - Your body is a wonder land
Alan Jackson - Red on a Rose
Alan Jackson - Remember when
Dolly Parton - we had it all
Luther Vandros - Buy me a Rose
Keith Urban - Making memories of us
Celine Dion - S'il suffisait d'aimer <--- awesome song

lol. i'm sure there are loads of girls in ur shoes.

open ur mind and eyes n u'll see them

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=587702.msg7557851#msg7557851 date=1295374366]actualy i cried the first day I ever saw punnnny. I waz 8 yrs old [/quote]LOL. "get it away!!! get it away!!!! waaaaa.waaaaa"

now u do everything to get it back. life

just incase i'm the only one sayin this

the chic in the pic is not your chic sha. need proof?

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=588231.msg7557411#msg7557411 date=1295370126]I was embarrassed when I saw a man's kondo sticking out his fly strap.  It was hideously small.[/quote]i havent had a good laugh in days like i just have. Thanks.  

lmao @ hideous

nice one Shy.

maybe u can educate that transvestite or transvelista or whatever she calls her self to leave her little neighbourhood and go around.

she and her hater crew might learn a thing or two.

lokya:
My personal line.The guy in question is God fearing, gentle no sex before marriage guy which i am very comfortable with cos before now was wondering if we still had guys like that but sincerely  his insecurity is really getting to me.Thanks for all the advise

OWNED!!!


give and take right?. u really cant have it all. make the best out of this one though. spend some time and talk with him on a different level about your feeling towards his insecurity.

And I just want to add, going to church does not making him any special

fire on my lady. no biggy. its all up to you

at above,

I second your statement

my sister always told me " Beware of psycho chics, it never turns out good"

i think i should pass that advice to you. "beware of psycho guys"

ppl that go to the extreme(in all the bad ways) cos of love. Not a good sign at the start. U don't have to change yourself to please him. He must have liked you enough the way you are to ask you out in the first place, so why getting extremely jealous for no reason.


Unless there's more to this story?

more bot response!! lol


nice conspiracy theory. u have there mate. However, i reckon they are real, and prolly use a phone to be on NL all the time cos  i cant imagine someone sitting in front of a pc all day to reply posts. 190 especially 

@Op,

errrm no life?

was funny until i saw "God will beat you with a stick", which village girl talks like this please someone tell me

Omolola1:
@Area boy, i feel its a personal thing, but then some guys insists their gurl av to be what they want dem to be

Indeed!. i guess i'll let them wallow away in their fantacy worlds. I hate to be there when reality turns around to nip them in the rear

MOBO444:
We love them Natural of course, here in England white women dont fake things ok.

bullshit. what kind of white women have u been meeting?. the low self esteem ones that thinks no one likes them and hence are against everything unnatural? and wear mountain shoes everywhere they go? tough luck mate!!

I have seen the over "pancaked" ones. with nails and some even fix hair . and lets dont even talk about those fake hooters!!! Stop it with all this white women praising sef!! I'VE HAD IT. what do black girls do that white girls dont?

You guys have to go around more often and observe!!! u have something in your head. use it!!!!


@ OP,  what difference does it make. as long as she is comfortable with herself. I have dated both extremes[super make-up,  and no make up at all(she didnt even pierce her ears!! )] and frankly, all that had no effect How i felt.

I would say whatever makes u happy

[size=5pt]and no i dont hate white girls. I actually date one[/size]