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mimzz:
Hi every1,I'm new here,so pls welcome me n tell me how u guys n gals get along, *smiles*:-)

we actually dont

[quote author=MzD@rkSkin link=topic=585852.msg7532659#msg7532659 date=1295020515][color=#0055bb]LOL. How do you tell a guy friend that is so inlove with you he is almost obsessed, that you want him to go away! LOL HELP! 

We have been friends for nearly 8 years now. He is attractive but NOT my type. He has asked me out on several occasions (as well as a couple of of my friends too lol) but I keep shutting him down. Well recently he was hired at the same job I work at and it has gotten worse. He "accidently" hits his arm against my backside and is always trying to describe how good he is in bed and how much he spoils his "Kenyan princess" in a way that he thinks he is enticing me. I'd say something like "awe that is sweet, i hope the best for you two" and he has this look like "you are supposed to be jealous woman!" and God forbid a male comes in to visit me or says hi to me, he gets silent and pissed!

How do I let him know he is getting on my nerves and I don't want him (i do have a boyfriend which he knows) without hurting his feelings because this guy has an ego on him, he thinks he is irresistible to women and remember we are childhood friends.  [/color][/quote]Sry to break it to you my dear, but you are Jealous.

My two cents

Aussie Aussie Aussie!!!!!!!

harakiri:
@Poster. . lol

Be careful. Some NL feminazi might come here and call you misogynist. . .lol. The thing is, women don't tell the truth when it comes to such issues. When a woman says she's been out with only three guys, multiply it by at least 2. It's what they feel "safe" they tell you and that includes Oprah herself. There might be several flings and quickies here and there no one knows about. Don't believe all you hear. . . especially from a woman's mouth.

with their blitzkrieg tactics and panzy tanks 

look out!!!! ze jermans will get u

Dave ama:
Why do ladies believe having sex with a guy would make the guy fall in love with her and getting pregnant would make the guy keep her?

u live in a very small twisted world dude

zionmmv:
No girl/man  looks at a person from across the room & says, 'can't wait to learn how beautiful that person's soul/heart­/spirit is'.
We're in the animal kingdom, we want the best the species has to offer.

People look across the room and go, 'that girl/guy is hot;, wow I gotta go talk to her/him, ­,

I have name for women/men that I find to have awesome insides but am not feeling the body, 'A friend',and I have loads of them.I have to be hot for my MAN and as we live in a visually - driven world,I want to be size 2.

Am seeking for the diet to achieve this and that is why am here.

you my dear have issues.


First of all, I am fed up with ppl saying "oh why dont u search for someone with good soul/heart/spirit rather than looks!!!" bullsheet *silly censor*!!!  everyone that says this has major problems with his/her self confidence. You think u are ugly and you wonder why ppl dont get to notice u for other  "good" aspects of  yourself,

The truth is, no matter how hideous you think u might look, someone out there finds you really attractive. u just have to stop looking at all the brad pitts in the society and focus more on the shabba ranks (lol,  jk)  

And yes, physical attraction is important. Just that some ppl get more attention that others in the same way we all dont have as much money as Bill Gates. u cant date all your friends neither can everyone be your friend.


meh.

mate, you're wasting your time with her, move on

true. trust means alot but we shouldn't be blinded by trust and love at the same time. baaaaad combination.


if u ask me, what is more important than trust is respect. if both parties respect each other at all possible levels, u don't need trust



my two cents

Omolola1:
who says its goin 2 be constant? besides, once in a while i mite be tired or stressed out, he az to respect dis!!

i think by constantly, the poster means maybe u get sum once or twice a month and thats it (for no apparent reason), for me thats denying constantly!! god help us we are not married, i'm so gone!! but if we are, I'm fcked!!

y are u worrying her life, she doesnt know u and has nothing to do with you other than share something u own(?)

anyway, deal with your husband!!.

I dont see the point keeping him when all he does is give u heartache instead of taking care of the home.


whats that? u love him , fck love !! be wise!!!


my two cents

ahhhh, the perfect woman!!! we can only dream for it , hahahaha

i like winning

[quote author=Mrs, Eve link=topic=442846.msg7498425#msg7498425 date=1294624384]My opinion about this is really simple. Please no need to make it appear as though I am trying to take Aristotle's place. I have not lived that long.

If YOU like different nationalities, races, creed, religions, cultures, and whatever then that your right. Not everybody into that and that their right as well.

If you like broaden your horizons and testing the waters. Okay. What that have to do with those w[b]ho do not want to broaden their horizons[/b] and test the waters?[/quote]Well then, it's a shame. Cos it's really big out there.
hmmm, it's difficult to resist change and trying new things and ideas at this age. They'll have to lock up themselves in the woods to do that,
since we both know thats not possible, what then is the point? I heard a joke some where "we are all gona mix up eventually, two hundred? three hundred years from now. so why not start now "

anyway thats aside, you are absolutely on point. whatever makes anyone happy, they might as well go on and do it.

I believe in correlation. 5% of chics and 95% for guys??

thats almost 1:20. which can be assumed to be zero

[quote author=Mrs, Eve link=topic=442846.msg7498344#msg7498344 date=1294623436]Why do I need to chill because I have an opinion? Opinions do not have to always have connections. It could be a response to a comment indirectly or directly from/to you.[/quote]lol, cos we on the same side

i'm a strong believer in one earth one ppl. I've been around n travelled both ends of mother earth so much to reach a conclusion that humans are same wherever u go. unrestricted by what i would like to call the four R's Reasoning,Region, Religion or Race. no matter how u may see it.

we really are all thesame. and i get tired by all the bashing i see on this forum about how terrible Nigerian girls are and all what not. How girls from other races are angles and poo() like that. That aint right. maybe education and exposure is the key to change their mind set and ideas? maybe wealth, maybe self happiness or fulfilment, who knows? all i know is _________________

this is my opinion

what really is yours??

oh no i really dont care what anyone thinks. and frankly, i dont notice it unless i hear it. And i have really heard it on so many occasions. so I am confident that some do care, and i rightly mentioned in my post "not all". i've dated both races and there really isnt any diff, where ever u find your connection, go for it,


chill aite?

[quote author=Mrs, Eve link=topic=582570.msg7498291#msg7498291 date=1294622808]Uhmm.  I guess you been living in a bubble for a while.  There are many women who have complained that their men have denied them sex nor would perform sexual acts with them.  If that not denying sex I don't know what it is then.[/quote]5% out of a possible 4 billion

well maybe we are focusing on different contexts here. lets assume no one is cheating(yet). and he just wants to proove a point to her??, do u honestly see it happening?

oh no we dont,  u know u guys have more control over it than we do. trying to prove a point to a woman by denying her sex HA HA HA HA HA HA epic fail for the guy 


on the other hand. its more like.

girl: do this and that or no sex for you
guy: give me sex or i wont do this and that for you


please tell me i'm wrong

@marabout. welcome to my world


talk to them, and they make funny faces. get a white girl, and they hate you(at this point i must add. not all of them), strange

*walks in to see so many chics* *quietly sits down* 

Saecula:
In the olden days our parents lived with little or no dress yet there were [b]little or no promiscuity [/b]as opposed to what is obtainable these days. So buddies what the heck really went wrong?

make proper research and back up ur claims with evidence and reference properly so we can reason with you.

on the issue of denying sex, i just believe different ppl have different sex drives,  when u find someone on the same lvl as u, that denial wont be a factor,  if your partner is denying u sex a lot for nothing more than headaches,  then there could be more to it.


i guess this question applies to women only. cos they use sex as a manipulative tool. and i HATE it!!!!

190:
[color=deeppink]How many days have u been in abuja that you are talking

I stayed there for 3yrs at the center of where ashawoism was done, WUSE and Gwarimpa

so whats new about this  [/color]

lol,  from my window in wuse 2, i could just yell out " how much?"  hahahahaha,

the good ol days!!!!! 

dump his bum and move on

i still dont see whats special in your case,

we've all been there,    just enjoy the sex and stop complaining. she'll get over it,

[quote author=Mrs, Eve link=topic=582072.msg7492213#msg7492213 date=1294534592]You do know blackberry have an IPAD coming out soon for the general market?  Celebrities are checking out the demos and so far the hype is hella good! 

It supposed to be lighter and faster than the regular IPAD.  You know the poo gon be a grand almost coming out.  I will wait on that since my husband trying to have some shorties.  Sighs.  The day when I was single and could spend like I want to.[/quote]hehehehe, i just fell off my chair laughing!!!.aahhh the good old days?
just ignore me. some how i wish ,

indeed, although bulky, ipad is out of this world .

i always wanted to compare a windows phone with an iphone, i got them both, and to be honest they are both great phones.


then someone wants me to spend one year typing sms on BB cos my fingers are too big for the freaking keypad, crap

maybe its just me, but i cant find anything exciting about a blackberry and will never have one,

me iphone and htc hd7 beats the crap out of any bb,