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Phone/Internet MarketRe: ***ALL Android Os Upgrades, ROOTING, & HD GAMES for All android deviceⓐ*** by Ariyke: 7:05pm On Sep 24, 2014
Pls my tecno m5 s telling me insufficient space when I want to download from play store even though I have space on both internal memory and memory card. What do I do?
EducationRe: Where Was Ur Preferred Reading Location N Wat Was Ur Reading Pattern Like In Sch by Ariyke: 7:37am On Aug 28, 2014
KillerBeauty: In my school, phones where prohibited in the library. So all you can do is sleep, wake up then pack your books and leave. For me I don't sleep in the library the least I can do is rest my head
people tends to disobey law u knw, the library is some people's sleeping ground
EducationRe: Where Was Ur Preferred Reading Location N Wat Was Ur Reading Pattern Like In Sch by Ariyke: 7:50pm On Aug 27, 2014
Lecture hall after classes
Library once in a while because that's library is like sleeping pill I will sleep if its only for 5min
Library in my sch is some people's napping room they come, sleep receive calls and sleep back
HealthRe: Am I Suffering From Acute Memory Loss Or Forgetfulness? by Ariyke: 6:37pm On Aug 27, 2014
Go for checkup as soon as possible
TravelRe: Ogun State Development. by Ariyke: 9:45pm On Aug 26, 2014
Whosoever that want this man out come 2015 will continue to live in suffer ness mtchew enemies of progress

Anyways I was in abeokuta today and the driver that brought me back said nobody can challenge Amosun come 2015 and that's what others are saying

Am not in support of any party bt good governance
CelebritiesRe: Madonna, Lil Kim, Mariah Carey,17 Others That Forgot To Wear Clothes To Mtv VMA by Ariyke: 11:11am On Aug 26, 2014
madness
PoliticsRe: Across International Borders: Ebola In The UK? by Ariyke: 6:42am On Aug 26, 2014
Another countryhuh
CelebritiesRe: Best & Worst Dressed At The 2014 MTV Video Music Awards: Have Your Pick by Ariyke: 8:49am On Aug 25, 2014
papindinho: Amber chain halo..... You don land?
afi chain na

No am coming on friday
CelebritiesRe: Best & Worst Dressed At The 2014 MTV Video Music Awards: Have Your Pick by Ariyke: 7:35am On Aug 25, 2014
lipsrsealed amber huh
FashionRe: SNFP:Social Network Fashion Police by Ariyke: 10:53am On Aug 24, 2014
onegig: booking space?
no I had to modify my post
CelebritiesRe: Most Stylish/Fashionable Nigerian Female Celebrities Under 40 ( Photos ) by Ariyke: 11:49pm On Aug 23, 2014
Cozzyhuh Nooooo
CelebritiesRe: Breaking News: Tuface Idibia Mourns As He Loses Dad (PHOTO) by Ariyke: 11:39pm On Aug 23, 2014
RIP
EducationRe: NUC: List Of Illegal Degree Awarding Institutions Operating In Nigeria by Ariyke: 7:49pm On Aug 23, 2014
U go fear name oo grin
EducationRe: My Convocation Pictures @ 19th Lagos State University convocation ceremony by Ariyke: 6:02pm On Aug 23, 2014
Congrats sir cheesy
EntertainmentRe: Crazy!!! See What This Lady Did To Her Armpit In The Name Of Tattoo (photo) by Ariyke: 5:53pm On Aug 23, 2014
Like this one wey be like wound undecided
TV/MoviesRe: The Queens And Kings Of Nigerian TV Soap Operas ( Photos ) by Ariyke: 11:11pm On Aug 22, 2014
I prefer to watch them to our movies at times cheesy
RomanceRe: I Slépt With My Driver Just To Have Children For My Husband by Ariyke: 3:58pm On Aug 22, 2014
[quote author=adwizzy]This is the story of my life: I am not a loose woman. I am just a woman who loves her husband very much and didn’t want to lose him. I just did what I had to do to save my marriage even though I feel guilty sometimes. It was not easy but I slept with my driver so that I could give my husband a child, but instead, God gave me twins, a boy and a girl.

I was married to Philip for eight years. We had no child. “The worst was that I never got pregnant even for a day.” His mother became so impatient that she started breathing down my neck as she gave me no breathing space at all. She moved in to live with us and practically made my life unbearable – in my matrimonial home.

I cannot drink water and drop the cup because she must insult me. It got to a point that she stopped eating my food because, according to her, I should be feeding my children so that they would grow healthy and stronger and not her. “Monica, if you had children, you are supposed to be feeding them with all these food so that they would grow healthy and strong. I am getting old so I don’t need all these nonsense you call food. Take them away and give me grandchildren,” she would scream.
Even after she had left, I could still hear those insults in my head so I decided to take a bold step – I seduced and slept with our driver...

Before then, my mother-in-law also stopped talking to me, however, the only time she talks to me is when she wants to insult me and remind me of how less a woman I was.

Philip and I love each other so much that he stood by me despite all his mother did or said to frustrate me to leave him. We visited different specialists and they all certified us medically alright. I have visited churches, held vigils and even fasted for days, drank various concoctions of varied colours and combinations all in the name of getting pregnant so that my mother-in-law can stop humiliating me yet I couldn’t get pregnant.

At a point, I stopped coming out of my bedroom because it was obvious my mother-in-law had vowed to frustrate me out of her son’s home. Most times, I just stayed in my bedroom and either cries, pray, think and then sleep off because I was scared of his mother confronting me. To make things worse, she sent away the house help because she said, “You don’t need any house help because there are no children to take care of. Take care of your house yourself and stop wasting my son’s hard earned money.”

It was just the three of us living at home, “God, I was always so terrified even when I hear her voice from a distance.” It is so agonizing to say this but my husband usually pleads with me to come out of the room and this makes him feel so sad especially those times I refuse because I don’t want to come face-to-face with his mother. When her troubles became too unbearable, Philip practically threw her out of the house just to make me feel safe and comfortable in my own home.

Okon is a young man in his late 20’s. He is a graduate of Mechanical Engineering but because he could not get a good paying job, he opted to become a driver. I promised to get him a good job if he sleeps with me just once but I never disclosed the reason for this. However, Okon thought I just wanted to cheat on my husband with him. I planned it during my ovulation so that I could get pregnant, although it was not easy sleeping with another man. I knew I was betraying my husband but I saw it as a necessary action. After a month, I discovered that I was pregnant. So, as promised I got a job for Okon in a friend’s company where he started earning almost N150,000 per month. When I told Philip that I was pregnant, he was so excited. “Sweetheart, God has finally answered our prayers. I am pregnant,” I revealed.

When I was five months pregnant, he informed his mother and she immediately returned to the house. She pampered me like a baby and also took good care of me. I never wanted to do any scan but my mother-in-law insisted. When I finally did the scan, it showed I was pregnant with twins, a boy and a girl. My mother- in-law and husband were extremely happy while I felt much fulfilled. “God thank you for compensating me with a set of twins after eight years of barrenness,” I muttered.

When the twins were born, the girl took ill for some time. It took a while before she fully recovered after several treatments and this got me worried. Philip and I insisted that blood test be carried out on them to determine their blood group and genotype and then came the shocking revelation. The doctor informed us that although their blood groups are both A, however, their genotypes are AS for the girl and AA for the boy meanwhile Philip and I are both AA. I wanted the ground to open and swallow me up because I felt Philip would ask questions but to my surprise, he did not. He just said, “Sweetheart, lets go home. We have had quite a long day, you and my babies need to rest.

Three months later, he held me closely and said:
“Monica, don’t be scared. I don’t want to know who the
father of the twins is. I know whatever you did, you did to
save our marriage and I am very proud of you. I promise to
always love you and my babies. I promise this will be a
secret between us. I love you sweetheart. I know we will
have our own children someday.” I wept as he wiped my
tears with his hands.
I know what I did was wrong but at least my mother-in-law
is extremely happy with me, that is all that matters.
Although, everyone is happy but I feel guilty that I selfishly
used an innocent man to achieve my aim. But before
anybody judge me; just put yourself in my shoes and think
for a moment what you will do?
- Monica
PoliticsRe: I Commend The Mods For Their Great Job by Ariyke: 10:32am On Aug 22, 2014
Am also glad even though some of us doesn't make comment about tribalism bt it actually affects some of us me inclusive

I will be so glad if those people look beyond their hatred for each other and make this place a better place the so called leaders they are fighting because are having breakfast, lunch and dinner together and sharing our money while they are here fighting over nothing

God help us all
EducationRe: Please Any Demography Or Past Demography Student Here? by Ariyke: 9:56pm On Aug 21, 2014
joywendy: yes ma'am I know you are very smart and have an IQ of over 250 grin
So can you help me answer some of my questions above. So I would repeat them and add a bit of salt with pepper cheesy
1.Where can we work? Under me grin

2. Can we master in another degree apart from demography and still have the title of a certifield demographer? Yes na senior Abiamo of Nigeriacheesy

I did a bit of reasearch on this, its seems like to be able to work anywhere has a demograher you should have at least a masters in demography.how true is this? That's true

3. If yes in question 2,what other courses can we master in *scratch head*

4. What course would you master in? (This is a personal question,if u no wan ans am. No p) dunno yet *clueless*

Waiting patiently for a reply smiley
answered
tongue
RomanceRe: Please Help!!!!!!! She Wants To Come Back After A Year She Broke My Hearth by Ariyke: 9:52pm On Aug 21, 2014
[quote author=joywendy][/quote]no mind the guy I no just get his time

Thanks jare babes
FamilyRe: My Opinion About Married Nigerians by Ariyke: 8:06pm On Aug 21, 2014
Its now balance
cheesy
SportsRe: Spectacular Pictures from Last Nite's thumping of DPRK by the Falconets by Ariyke: 3:10pm On Aug 21, 2014
They are making us proud still smiley
EducationRe: Please Any Demography Or Past Demography Student Here? by Ariyke: 1:46pm On Aug 21, 2014
Yes can I help you tongue
FashionRe: SNFP:Social Network Fashion Police by Ariyke:
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TravelRe: Pictures Of Ogun State by Ariyke: 12:55pm On Aug 21, 2014
MrMcJay: OP, you just picked the wrong state to bleep with and the right location for your burial.
my brother the op must be so jobless to pick this state of all state to misyarn about

Mtcheww op u are jobless
Jokes EtcRe: Ebola Survivor Causes Commotion During Testimony Hour In Church by Ariyke: 12:39pm On Aug 21, 2014
cheesycheesy
RomanceRe: Please Help!!!!!!! She Wants To Come Back After A Year She Broke My Hearth by Ariyke: 12:36pm On Aug 21, 2014
Mendo007: so wat u mean is dat if for example someone comes to you and ask what's the right spelling for "responsible" you would say goto school for find out that? d time wey u tak type goto romance section e nor reach u tak say sumtim
why don't you help me?
Foreign AffairsRe: Graphic Photos: Liberian Soldiers Open Fire On Residents Of Ebola Slum by Ariyke: 12:28pm On Aug 21, 2014
embarassed kai! This is serious if care is not taken this diseases won't leave this region easily
RomanceRe: Please Help!!!!!!! She Wants To Come Back After A Year She Broke My Hearth by Ariyke: 12:22pm On Aug 21, 2014
Go to romance section for proper advice
PoliticsRe: Doctors Shocked After Boy’s Hands Swell To Giant Proportions [see Photo] by Ariyke: 5:54pm On Aug 20, 2014
shockedshockedshocked
RomanceRe: I Think I Am Inlove But.... by Ariyke: 12:18pm On Aug 20, 2014
dytbabe: Me I didn't ask for the type ooo
Me I jst said what I have an idea of ni o
Are u even sure its not stolen?
Becareful o
Don't go loving up a ghost ooo

grin grin grin
Sorry if I scared u bt one gotta thread carefully
Good luck, love is a beautiful thing u know
funny you grin

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