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CrimeRe: Nairaland Super Mode by Arkhanmu: 7:36pm On Feb 27, 2023
Una dey craze all of una
meobizy:
Remain on Twitter.
Foreign AffairsRe: Russia-Ukraine Live: Vladimir Putin's Combative Speech (Photos) by Arkhanmu: 3:24pm On Feb 21, 2023
Wow,your argument is lame man.
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RomanceRe: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by Arkhanmu: 2:18pm On Aug 09, 2022
Pls in the name of God,just off your phone for sometime and use other line to call your love ones .She does not worth it,she belong to the street.
All those facade she says she has a boyfriend is just a rue to deceive you.She will always cheat.Fact.
CrimeRe: My Ex Class Mate Ignored While Delivering As A Dispatch Man by Arkhanmu(op): 10:55pm On Jul 12, 2022
laluski:
Appreciate for your kind response
Do you know the source of his wealth? No..
Is he your destiny helper? No
Is he feeding your two beautiful boys? No
In all, does he have any relevance in your life? No..
So why are u bothered...
See my brother, any body that can't add value to your life..is not worth thinking about...cool down.., the Lord will answer you..you know as your boys go dey tug at your shirt disturbing you for sweet or ice cream...na so you gas dey worry God by constantly and consistently praising him...he go answer you..trust me..
No look that your guy o...cos you can't vouch for source of his wealth...good luck....I'll keep this thread to check up on you...e get why
CrimeMy Ex Class Mate Ignored While Delivering As A Dispatch Man by Arkhanmu(op): 11:15pm On Jul 11, 2022
Hi pals,this is not a right platform to drop this but won't mind sharing this.Just barely 2 years ago,I got married to my wife and God blessed me with beatiful twin boys of almost one year now.I have been managing life back and forth after many unsuccessful attempts to get a gainful employment ever since I finished my degree in 2015.
I have done many odd jobs like security guard, cleaners all this while just to put food on my table but it's not really enough.Just last year I joined one of this freight company in lagos as dispatch rider which have been really helpful in putting food on my table all these months. I thank God for that opportunities.
Now what really warrant this write up was that I went to deliver an order at a popular restaurants in Lekki to a customer but the client turn out to be my secodary mate whom I last saw 12 years ago.The sadest part is that the guy just ignore me.Very true,my cloth looks dusty and unkempt due to nature of my job.I guess he does not want to associate with failures amidst his friend around the restaurant.
My soul left me that moment,I don't even know how I got home.I think suicide is only for the weak but no,the brave also have a fair share.Life is really not fair out here.
Four months ago ,I lost my mum to high blood pressure. Painfully I can't take her to morgue for embalmed till she start bloating before we decide where to bury her.See ehe,this experience I just encountered with my old class mate break me totally.
I have never feel suicidal like this all my life.The only strength that keeps me alive is my two boys am seeing everyday .At 32 years,my only achievements is my children.Omo life can be funny.I know people have story to tell,but getting an interactive encouragement from you guys can do much.
FamilyRe: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by Arkhanmu(op): 10:43am On Jun 27, 2022
God bless you.
ogland23:
That's so unfortunate bro.most married men have that headache now. It's not gonna be easy but try and focus on something that will get ur mind occupied and move on,the more u get worried about it the money u are dying slowly and the game will still be going on.juzt pick urself up and hustle harder.life is too short for u to be unfortunate. Nobody is worth dying for.the only woman that truly loves u is ur mum.goodluck.
PropertiesI Need A Mini Flat Around Alimosho Local Government Area by Arkhanmu(op): 7:53am On Jun 17, 2022
I urgently need a mini flat around iyana ipaja,Idimu,Shasha,Akowonjo,Egbeda,Orisunbare.The house agent around are bent on sending me back to my village due to outrageous agreement fees.
I am a married man with two kids,from Ibadan.My wife work in Nigeria Air force base in shasha as a civilian,which is the reason for our relocation.
My budget is 200_-250k.
FamilyRe: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by Arkhanmu(op): 11:13am On Jun 10, 2022
Appreciate
shortIGBOman:
Requesting for money by married ex is comon these days. Some ladies request for money from their ex's cause they truly need it. You know, times are hard these days and some families are not finding it easy.
FamilyRe: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by Arkhanmu(op): 11:12am On Jun 10, 2022
We are not lacking but only that she is not contented or never move on from her ex.
Channah1:
Nope. If she can be looking outside just because of meager 4k, imagine the level of lack of care on the man's path. Meanwhile if she can get that peanut from her husband, she won't look outside for it.
FamilyRe: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by Arkhanmu(op): 11:11am On Jun 10, 2022
Thank you,I have been trying my best to see the family go smoothly.She even have her 2 siblings staying with me and I do take care of them too with my own kids inclusive.
Richy4:
There are lots of women who has been in worse situations than that... Yet they managed with whatever their spouse can provide..

If everyone both male and female starts contacting their Ex's over financial challenges then what do you think will happen to the institution called marriage?

The guy is doing his best... Even if the lady in question have a rich spouse, once it's in one's blood to beg, she will definitely do that..

I think the amount is irrelevant in this case, because there are society ladies (married) who still have contacts of their Ex's.. ask for money from from time to time...
FamilyRe: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by Arkhanmu(op): 11:10am On Jun 10, 2022
Yes he is married.
faithfull18:
Is the ex marriedhuh
FamilyRe: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by Arkhanmu(op): 3:43am On Jun 10, 2022
Really sir,I pray you should not experience it
DontBullshitMe:
Another "Seun must chop" story.
FamilyRe: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by Arkhanmu(op): 2:58am On Jun 10, 2022
I wish I can but she will keep giving me the same assurance she won't do it again.My thought now is to engage her sister whom she have high regards for a lot.You know hearing different experience from people can help ik the long run to some extent..Appreciate your response.
Kobojunkie:
Why not get off the phone right now and confront her, let her know your pain and hurt - as calmly as you can abeg. undecided

Get a conversion going with her on this issue and go from there. If marriage counseling be next steps, them you both decide. If you want to simply abandon ship, sure but at least communicate it to the person that matters. Bottling it up and telling strangers online will not resolve anything really. undecided
FamilyRe: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by Arkhanmu(op): 2:28am On Jun 10, 2022
About the kids,I doubt they are not mine.Too much semblance with my late dad.Well I still Sha,thanks
Cyphar:
Sorry to say this... ARE YOU SURE THE KIDS ARE YOURS? Those money could be money to take care of the doctor's kids....


She even visited when she was heavily pregnant so that the owner go top am grin

Bro try go do DNA first. e get why.
FamilyRe: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by Arkhanmu(op): 2:25am On Jun 10, 2022
Our relationship is long distance one.We rarely see most times.Maybe 4 times in a year,but when we do see,I check all these messages and signs and she promise to stop.But I wish I can turn back the hand of time.Well we do communicate everyday when we are dating back then.
burritto:
That woman will frustrate the sh!t outta you.

I don’t understand how you still went ahead to marry a woman like that even though you saw all the signs.

Anyways you were manipulated and you’ll spend the rest of your life regretting. Your cup of tea anyways.

Hopefully in the next ten years, you’ll become a philosopher, replying questions with philosophical answers. You might even start speaking in parables soon undecided

Next time get sense, that’s if there’ll be any next time.
FamilyMy Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by Arkhanmu(op): 1:26am On Jun 10, 2022
I married my wife in Kaduna two years ago. During those period we were dating, we were very much apart due to distance. She stayed in Kaduna while I worked in Lagos.

During few times of my personal meeting before our wedding, I noticed huge communication between her and this man. I called her attention to it but she just waived it aside saying they are just friends as Ex (stuff). She joined me up in Lagos after the marriage but the communication between them still continued.

This is a woman I have sacrificed so much for in my life by providing her basics need with the children even though not huge like that. She told me the Ex is a Doctor and they have nice experience together while dating back then. I have adviced even begged her to stop this communication as it it very hurtful and insulting to my personality but she won't stop. Instead she secretly calls and requests money from this guy in almost different occasions.

At a point in time in the past when she went to Kaduna to get her transfer from work place to Lagos, she still visit the guy even as she is heavily pregnant that time. I was able to get the idea through her bank account statement when the same guy send her money for what business I don't understand. It is almost 2 years of our marriage now, I am starting to regret why I marry her initially even as I noticed much difference between us; she is from Southern Kaduna while am from Ibadan.

I wish I have married my tribe whom I can easily understand. Just yesterday night I see another 4k alert from the same guy to my wife. I am really pained though I have not confront her. See guys, I have 2 boys, twin, I take care of them, buy food and all.

Though my work is not going fine but I try my best to make her happy but it seems she is not built for me. I don't really know what is going on again in my life as I am heartbroken.

Maybe the man is even in Lagos most times self. Many things are just running through my mind.
CrimeRe: Now I Understand Why People Do Commit Suicide by Arkhanmu: 9:19am On Feb 20, 2022
Well such is life

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