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GamingRe: League Of Extraordinary PUBG Gaming Competition In Lagos (Live Pictures) by aronski(m): 10:51pm On Nov 28, 2020
Coldie:
If this kind thing happen for some states the white men organizing it would be kidnapped it u have to spend half of the money on security
like my Kaduna for here cheesy
GamingRe: League Of Extraordinary PUBG Gaming Competition In Lagos (Live Pictures) by aronski(m): 10:51pm On Nov 28, 2020
PS712:
In fact, just Lagos. And it's because that is where initiatives work, coupled with open door governance that welcomes ideas, unlike the conservative approach most or other states take. Abuja's case is because it is FCT, that's all.
Thats why I wan relocate come lagos ikoyi or lekki wen ah make money
RomanceRe: How Do I Get Over Sex? by aronski(m):
SkyRicks:
I will be brief

When ever am alone even after returning from a stressful day once am a lone at home I feel Hot this has been on since school days
I masturbate once in a while and I truly want to stop thinking about sex but really can't help it right now.

Note something happened to me when I was 8yrs old our neighbor then who my mom drops me at her place her daughter usually sleep with me anytime my mom drops me at there place, I cried telling Mom I don't like that place but she said she doesn't have alternative and can't take me with her i will add stress mind you my dad is working then in another state and visit during the weekend twice a month.

This continued till I was 15yrs yes I began to go there and she likes me alot, sends me message and never ask for change Sneak me inside her room I began to like the act until we left the state to stay with my dad after some years I began to masturbate before uni and all through my days in sch I have lived with this chronic desire for sexual fantasy within me.

My question:
The desire for sex asin constant thinking of having sex is it normal (may me if not face with tasks make me to lose focus) or I need deliverance.
Is there medication for this desire a kind of cure (am a biologist not a physician)
Am confused right now and it making me desire to visit escort female but lacks the courage to seek there service because of the way people see me.

Thank you, your advise is needed
Bro! Let me tell u about me, no one knows about mine, even my mom but i want to share with u so that u feel motivated.
I was 7 getting to 8 years when mine happened and this was done to me by one of my in-laws who was older than. let me explained to u how it started first of all.
A very good day, no one was at their house, it was just her. she called me to send me for an errand and when I was back, I entered her room and after keeping what she sent me on the bed, I was about to live and I saw her inside, she was with a wrapper. She then hold be and push me to the bed gently, I was scared this was new to me. The next thing I saw was a complete naked woman. She grabbed my hands to touch her breast, she then climbed on top me and started kissing me passionately and then she bleeped me. This happened not once, not twice but a lot of times...
I feel in love with what she was doing to me, and sometimes I intentionally go to her house when there was no one....
And then it came to a time when she got admission and I was left alone. Then I get to realized my mind has been polluted, as I get older I started watching porn 247, Any movie I watch anywhere/any day I see just a seductive dress style of a lady, my mind don arrange her for bed already...

Man, when I was a teenager I was no longer comfortable because I had a dream I was so passionate about (being a computer programmer and building something big, which I have already done but currently looking for funds to launch smiley ) and I noticed what happened to me was killing me from the inside. I also had no courage to stand or even talk with ladies, once I get touched by ladies My prick go just charge and I had to find somewhere to sit down first and calm my self...

So I wanted to fight this evil in me alone and this was how I did it, by the age of 17 started to discover that this Jesus I serve is more powerful than I think so I joined baptism class in my church thinking the moment they deep me inside the water my mind will be purified and all that but guess what!

After baptism, that very night I masturbate bad bad and I watch porn, the war with my mind was stronger man...
am beginning to even reach 2 rounds when masturbating at 18 (years old) sef and it was bad for me I know.

But the next wave, this is what I did, I learned that keeping oneself busy will help so when I spend time learning my programming online/at nights I discovered I hardly get any taught but the moment I leave that computer, my mind and prick go get to work so things were hard bro, and I also took another wave which is currently at work now and this is what I do.

I said to myself, keeping myself to be busy won't actually fight this evil but I had to add Jesus to the battle and this is what I did, I started having quiet time as early as 5am in the morning and as usually keep on learning my coding and so on...
And guess what! I won the battle of watching porn and I was happy, and I said to myself, I have to change what I watch, see and listen to, to help renew my mind and I quit musics for sometime and I don't watch all type of movies again. I started listening to worship songs and yes it did help.
Gradually I was able to roll with the opposite gender, I then got admission into the university and I was also having my quiet time. I had female friends now in school, we talked, laugh and things go fine.

NOTE: sometimes I do fall again, I find my self masturbating but I keep on fighting because I don't wan to be consumed by this evil.

After 1st semester break, I came back home and I was still having my quiet time and coding still. I discovered I was spending 1 to 2 months without masturbating, and the months was increasing I could feel freedom from afar somehow. And I started trying new things, I walk to a shop where one of my crush was working and I just started a conversation with her and collected her number, I was fucking shy but I discovered she was shy too and that gave me some little courage but my mouth was vibrating still but I was successful, I started been nice and build acquaintance with random ladies when I find myself in new places and yes I collected their number and called some of them and also walk to them when I see them somewhere and even take pictures (my prick was always asleep now except in the morning sometimes, e dey wake up before me and sometimes it doesn't cheesy )
But all glory be to God. Am currently 20 years old and I can't remember when last I masturbated talk less on watching porn sef.
I still do my quiet time, and now I listed to our Wizzy, davido, and other stars music and I don't find myself thinking otherwise, I also watch some movies and when I get to sex scenes I find out there was no effects on me anymore.
I can now talk to any girl I want, but am trying to make it known to myself not to fall for fornication ever again till I get married and I am still moving with this praying God helps me.

I still have my quiet time bro and things are now fine smiley

And this is what I understand in this journey of life bro, and it is this "To walk with Christ is not a decision one makes a day, but a decision one is to make everyday of his life" because the devil doesn't sleeps, he moves like a lion everyday looking for someone to devour so I/You have to keep on going and fighting....

This is my story to u, hope this teaches u something...

am not special nor better than you, I go to church only Sundays but I keep myself going with God's word by having my quiet time and praying to him always for help and so on...

If I can do it what makes u think u can't..


I wanted to send this to u privately but I just decided to write it here so that everybody gets to know...

Don't give up, the fight doesn't end till ur dead bro...

God help us all
ProgrammingRe: The Hardest Topic You Encountered While Learning Any Programming Language? by aronski(m): 9:57pm On Nov 27, 2020
Winnerrrr:
oh boy,

Loop o.

It kept me in a loop for a long time before I finally break free, lol.
lol, I taught I was the only one. when learning PHP, as I reach Loop enh! chai...
if I even see any thing I want to do that has to do with Loops I will just find another way round to achieve it...
Same when I was learning C++, na the Loop tutorial pursue me comot....
CelebritiesRe: The Secret To Stay Rich By Davido by aronski(m): 8:44pm On Nov 27, 2020
Tony142:
Even if my blood brother is dangote it is none of my business his money is his and not mine

Before something happen in the physical it has already happened in the spiritual

Within me, I know I have made it(spiritual) the only thing is that it has not come to pass in the physical...
Oh Yeah!
I believe you, Thanks for the enlightenment!
CelebritiesRe: Lil Frosh To Girlfriend: “I Will Kill You & Davido Will Get Me Out” - Gift by aronski(m): 7:36pm On Nov 27, 2020
Bheaut:
Who is he/she
Na one woman son/daughter
CelebritiesRe: The Secret To Stay Rich By Davido by aronski(m): 2:21pm On Nov 27, 2020
Tony142:
Exactly, they will start competing with u as if na competition undecided


If I am rich, I will only show my friends the road to be rich, I will never walk the road with them, they will walk it alone, the only thing I will do is to show them the road, if after I show u the road to riches and u refuse to walk it alone then u should blame yourself not me, I have Don my part to show u the road it is lift for them to walk it them self




God empowered devil and devil turn against God, helping people is not the problem, the problem is that after helping them to get to your level they will start competing with u as if na fight



If God told devil all his secret, then God and devil would have been equal but God was wise enough to hide some secret from the devil





Since davido do not want to learn from history he will surely learn from experience cheesy


Experience they say is the best teacher
Naso! But what if your friends who made it before u refused to empower u/help u and u later made it on ur own?
CelebritiesRe: The Secret To Stay Rich By Davido by aronski(m): 2:05pm On Nov 27, 2020
Laboni:
Most where killed or rendered useless supernaturally. Things dey happen... My dad is an example.
What happened to ur dad?
pls talk, I wanna learn too
Nairaland GeneralRe: Train Derails, Kills 47 Cows In Osun by aronski(m): 12:52pm On Nov 26, 2020
Kwanza:
#NewsFlash: Train derails, kills 47 Cows in Osun
https://twitter.com/tvcnewsng/status/1331914887216451585?s=19[/quote]Hahahaha (evil laf)
So the people of Osun have chosen death!
hahahaha (evil laf)
RomanceRe: Cambridge Uni Students Pose Unclad For Raunchy ‘Best Bum’ Competition (18+ Pics) by aronski(m): 11:03pm On Nov 25, 2020
Kestolove:
They all look like hausa fulani people soft ND potable bum...if na some particular tribe for nigeria na yam leg, strong yansh ND bia bia u go see for dem chest
cheesy End time comment
PhonesRe: I Have 4k Friends On Facebook And If I Post No One See It (pics) by aronski(m): 10:56pm On Nov 25, 2020
damn nigarr!
Lack of recognition is become painful...
Ur posts be like "Posted 2hours ago, 0 likes, 0 comments, 0 shares, 562 views" cheesy
ProgrammingRe: Nairaland To Be Like Facebook(chatting&addition Of Friends) by aronski(m): 10:09pm On Nov 25, 2020
JOBgame:
seun osewa have to review these website and make it like facebook in the sense members can post,update status,chat other member,add eachother and many functions of facebook opinions&suggestions;




1*nairaland can now turn it name to 9jichat.com


2*nairaland can start using phone numbers to register new members.



3*nairaland can also create a room for adverts and notification like facebook does coolseun osewa have to review these website and make it like facebook in the sense members can post,update status,chat other member,add eachother and many functions of facebook opinions&suggestions;




1*nairaland can now turn it name to 9jichat.com


2*nairaland can start using phone numbers to register new members.



3*nairaland can also create a room for adverts and notification like facebook does
U don't expect him to start copying other people ideas do you?
Nairaland is what it is today because of its uniqueness. I agree with you in changing/adding more to the forum...
Just look at reddit.com and co, they don pass NL far far...
Nairaland GeneralRe: The Python I Killed In Agbor by aronski(m): 7:11pm On Nov 22, 2020
thesicilian:
Must every snake be eaten?
Buy the guy Turkey na :/
PhonesRe: How Do Open Ppspp Game On My SD Card.. by aronski(m): 1:51pm On Nov 21, 2020
MONEY247:
I downloaded one these ppsspp games..
Problem is I can't see my SD card from the app...any help pls...

I was enjoying the game before I mistakenly deleted the app.....
If u didn't save the game in the directory SD_CARD/PSP/GAME/urgame.iso then it is still in ur SD CARD, just download ppspp.apk and locate it after u have installed the app. But If u saved the game in the directory (SD_CARD/PSP/GAME/urgame.iso), am so sorry u have to download the game again
PhonesRe: Vivo Users Come In Here Let's Share Our Experience by aronski(m): 3:25pm On Nov 19, 2020
TrollKiller:
Na you no do research before you buy phone
Do you know anything about local and Intl network bands?
You bought a phone meant for local Chinese bands in Nigeria. Go to China and you will enjoy that ohone like mad

Na you her fault!
lol. with 12,500K which research u want make I do...
Ah no get phone so I go for something to manage and I go choose Aquala 2000
PhonesRe: Vivo Users Come In Here Let's Share Our Experience by aronski(m): 8:42pm On Nov 18, 2020
Am currently using Vivo Y29L which I got for NGN12.5K because man no get money for beta phone. If u see the way I dey apply patience just to load WhatsApp status u go know say Vivo na one of the most useless phones ever. I never use their midrange or flagship phones but nothing I go hear.
Vivo na scrap.
I also discovered their phones only support 2G in African regions. Just imagine...
Ah dey plan save some cash option for Tecno/Infinix make my mind calm small before Vivo useless me finish...
ProgrammingRe: I Want To Learn Programming by aronski(m): 2:47pm On Nov 18, 2020
https://www.w3resource.com/

https://www.w3schools.com/

https://www.tutorialspoint.com/index.htm

All for free, you can also download the offline versions of the listed sites above and access them without switching ON ur data
RomanceRe: Lady Breaks Up With Her Boyfriend After Training Her Through Nursing School (Pix by aronski(m):
ok
CelebritiesRe: Toke Makinwa: My First Sex Was At 13 Years Old by aronski(m): 10:35pm On Nov 12, 2020
BigBabyJesus:
Her puna at 12. ====. *

Her puna at 13 ===== O

Her puna now ======. (. )
grin grin grin

RomanceRe: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Liked Or Had A Crush On? by aronski(m): 1:20pm On Nov 10, 2020
I did man up and collected her number, chatted and met face to face but I just noticed she doesn't care about me for once because I do call her, text her, and all that but this girl never text me back for once, call me and even reply my messages.
But she dey answer my chats, so I just kill the matter because I don get her control for over a year and I noticed I just waste time to care for person wea no send me.
Currently now na only 'Hi!' they join us when we jam for road/see ourselves anywhere.
ProgrammingRe: Companies Are Wicked O. by aronski(m): 7:45pm On Nov 09, 2020
huh kambalayi
ProgrammingRe: Nairalanders Pls Help..i Just Finished Creating An App Buh..(pics) by aronski(m): 10:53pm On Nov 07, 2020
Peterjnr123:
Good day nairalanders pls programmers I just finished creating an application using sketchware..am not a programming person
I just watched a video on admob self clicking buh the price to create an app with the people is high.so I decided to check on YouTube on how to create an app ..all went well..apk finished building buh showing like this

Have been showing test ads since

What could be the problem pls
good job!
now go and learn app development
PhonesRe: Vivo Users Come Here by aronski(m): 10:53pm On Nov 07, 2020
No try am
PhonesRe: What Device Are You Waiting For? by aronski(m): 10:47pm On Nov 06, 2020
cheesy Multilinks Pro Max Ultra 10G Reloaded
PropertiesRe: 3 Bedroom Semi Detached Duplex With Bq, Abraham Adesenya, Ajah by aronski(m): 10:46pm On Nov 06, 2020
Oh Lord! I am still praying, believing, that You will answer me someday. Father, let it not take too long.
WebmastersRe: Nairaland Now Displays Google Ads by aronski(m): 9:12am On Nov 05, 2020
obiekunie2:
simple!

you cn urge glo/mtn/indomie/cadbury/zenith bank/access bank/NPA/Customs/UBA and so many other organizations to sponsor the politics section for a whooping sum of 10m per 2months and their adverts will be splashed on the top of every topic created on the politics section for the period of 2months while other little adverts share the bottom section - if properly managed, organizations will be falling over themselves to pay for that slot - in fact, there will be queue for that - you can imagine paying common N10m for a viewership of more than 3 million people worldwide! thats a chicken feed money for Zenith, UBA and the rest of them that pays more that 19,000 US dollars per advert on CNN per 3days!

invite private institutions both secondary and tertiary to sponsor the education section at the cost of 3 million per quarter - if properly managed, there will be a huge queue up for that section.

do you know how many fashion/supermarkets/hotels! do u know that for the fact that Nairaland is a major sports forum - BETNAIJA CAN PAY MORE THAN 5MILLION PER 2MONTHS TO SPONSOR THE SPORTS SECTION??

if i can take the identity of the "ghost" (by the term "ghost" i mean mr. osewa - cause the last pic of him on the net is more than 10 years old) - i will be a global citizen. i will make sure that after you mention, quora, reddit, indiaforum then u will mention Nairaland on the top five world's greatest forum.

in Africa - i will be both the number one highest grossing forum and the no one most visited forum in Africa!

if i have stakes in this update-less forum, by now i would be getting adverts from around the world. NAIRALAND IS ALMOST GLOBAL BC NIGERIANS ARE ALMOST IN ALL PARTS OF THE WORLD - THE FUNNY THING IS, INTERNATIONAL TRAFFIC IS ALMOST BECOMING MORE THAN THE LOCAL TRAFFIC - AND YET THE OWNER DOESN'T EVEN KNOW HOW TO HARNESS THE HUGE POTENTIAL OF THESE REAL ORGANIC TRAFFICS!


THOSE WITH CORN DOESN'T HAVE THE TEETH TO CHEW - THOSE WITH TEETH DOESN'T HAVE THE CORN TO CHEW! cheesy grin

av given enough info already simply for the fact that i love this forum and i see the huge waste of resources on this forum, huge lost of revenues coupled with what he can achieve with this forum, i feel really sad for him - IT STILL BAFFLES ME WHY he chose to hide himself in a wardrobe avoiding public appearance and being comfortable just earning stipend from a forum that should make him a billionaire IN DOLLARS!

IN FACT, EVEN IF HE IS AN slowpoke OR PHYSICALLY CHALLENGED - HENCE THE REASON FOR KEEPING AWAY FROM PUBLIC VIEW, THE FACT THAT HE IS CHALLENGED AND WAS STILL ABLE TO SETUP THIS FORUM, THAT ALONE WILL EARN HIM INTERNATIONAL ACCOLADE AN LOTS OF AWARDS FROM BOTH INTERNATIONAL AND LOCAL ORGANIZATIONS!

YOU CANT EVEN BEGIN TO IMAGINE HOW HE WOULD AV BEEN A GREAT MENTOR AND MOTIVATOR TO MANY CHALLENGED YOUTHS! REMEMBER STEPHEN HAWKINS AND THE REST OF THEM PHYSICALLY CHALLENGED SCIENTISTS THAT MADE THE WORLD SO PROUD OF THEM!
Good one!
I don learn something today...
WebmastersRe: Nairaland Now Displays Google Ads by aronski(m): 9:27pm On Nov 04, 2020
ogaprime:
What do you mean by "SPONSORSHIP"?
If you own a page on Instagram or Facebook, there's a way page owners can promote a specific post with the type of gender or even location that will see that post.
To identify this post, you will see "sponsored" below the page username on a post.
PhonesRe: Paixchat:naija Hot Chatapp by aronski(m): 6:07pm On Oct 31, 2020
no link?
or na for only J2Me phones
PoliticsRe: The Future Of Nigeria - This Is Will Happen To Nigeria In Few Years From Today by aronski(m):
LikeAking:
Nothing go happen.


Even thou it happens it wont lead to anything tangible.
They sabi predict/talk about doomsday but when e sup/small thing wan sup dem go dey scared shitless...

If Nigerian split do you know how long it will take for each colony to grow, imagine this shit happening in 2050 or more years ahead. Even Sudan will be better than us then, and we will be way backwards.

Building what has been destroyed when other countries will be building more to what they have been building.

Spending and Buying what we once own.
Just because of lack of unity..

Abegi no predict/wish/pray for such because e no go nice at allllll!
PhonesRe: Please Do Help Me Out! by aronski(m): 11:32am On Oct 31, 2020
backup those documents of urs on Google drive or any other cloud storage and ur good to go
ProgrammingRe: This Is Just GREAT !!!............. I Am Speechless by aronski(m): 11:48am On Oct 30, 2020
Am not thinking what u are thinking... elaborate more pls

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