₦airaland Forum

Chinkos99:
Our company recently employed this guy, we worked in the same company before, then he was a manager and i was a junior staff.

I left the company years ago and joined another, so few months ago he got employed in my new office as a Director.

When he resumed, being that i knew him before, i started playing around with him, like when he was introduced to us, i was like oo, common, i hug him tightly and people were surprise at our closeness before i informed them that we have worked together before.

I am a jovial person, so each time i go around his office, i will call him boyfriend, my love, hope no girl is trespassing cos i will fight o and his subordinates will laugh and say you are not serious.

On the job, we get to work together at times cos i am a Manager now, we go for meetings etc, then some of his job includes doing some short production, even though i am not employed as a video producer, i told him i can do those for him personally, cos i recently learn those, he was surprise before but he decided to give me a try, i did it for him and he liked it, he became close and said i was helping him solve alot of problems.

Recently when he comes to my office, he will ask my PA where is my woman and that one will laugh knowing i started it but i just thought that was it though.

So last month when we went to the Palms Mall, to seek for permission to film their facilities in the short production work we had, we were together then he decided to do some shopping, i helped him carry the things he bought and just had fun, he took me to shoprite and ask me to shop, i just pick two things, drink and rice and he said is that all i said yes, he started showing me things, take this, take that i said i was okay, that it wasnt appropriate to come here and start shopping like its month end. So we left, in the car he said, you do have some very good attribute girl, i said like what, he said never mind and we drove off.

After that he started asking if we can have lunch but most time our lunch time dont sync, so i told him not to worry, then he asked for a dinner, i close late, im a workaholic, so most times i will agree but i will work till 9pm and he would have waited and get tired and left.

Finally i get to have a dinner date with him and he ask if we could do this more often, i said why not boyfriend jokingly, the next time we were having dinner, I said boyfriend let me greet that guy there, i really needed to meet him, he has a contact i need for work, he held me and said you call me boyfriend jokingly, i want you to mean it lol.

After i met with the guy, he started telling me how he loved me and how he will really love us to be in a relationship, he doesnt expect a yes and he knows its so wrong on all level because we work in the same place, but i can think about it and give him a response later that he will respect any decision i make.

I said thank you o, but since then, dude is so soft and nervous when he sees me, i can see the butterflies even when we are in a client meeting.

Even though he tries not to make it obvious at work, after work he is all over me

Last night we were together, i told him i am scared as he is almost 40 and not married, that i believe any guy who gets to that age, with enough money but has not married is a play boy lol. He couldn't say a word for like some minutes then he said, yes i am old enough to have been married and i had relationships, beautiful relationships with wonderful women, some didn't work because of my mistakes and because of things i neglected and some didn't work because it was not meant to work, but above all have learnt alot to be at least a better man and i am ready to make it work this time i promise, i have no doubt if you are the right girl because have known you for long and have never had a second thought about my woman, so forgive me for not making it work all these while, i want to make it right this time - MEHN THOSE WORDS RINGS IN MY HEAD LIKE KILODE, i loved the fact that he didnt put the blame on the ladies he's dated.

Now on my own side, I do not feel anything for him but i like him alot, i like that we should be hanging out, go out, do dinner and talk from morning tonight but i do not feel anything aside that. What do you guys advise.

Teebaba30:
There is this lady I have been dating now for almost eleven years (11) she was my first love, we started dating while I was still in my final stage of secondary school, things were moving smoothly, as we are both new in the game of love.

I could remembered, then, mtn with their free night calls, we would talk from 12am to 5:00am then, she is the daughter to the king of the town, a well known king in Lagos state, but along the line, as we progress in line, owing to my fine boy of a thing,.

You know we guys when we sense that, it seems all lady want us, due to our cute look, or academic reasons, we take the advantage to flirt, of which she so much detest a cheating guy, she caught me times without number, but still hard for both of us to let go our anyone, after my higher institution,

I relocated to Lagos to start life and keep the hustle real, but this lady was in Lagos with mom, she keep coming to my place even in Lagos, but unfortunately, we lost contact, for seven years, we couldn't reach ourselves, then i decided to relocated to another location in Lagos

But just last month, her call came, that she saw my contact on Facebook, And we try to renew the relationship, that's how we started and doing fine, she's now in her final year At Fountain University, Oshogbo,

Now the problem facing us now is, She is a Muslim, while am a Christian, her parent will never allow her to convert, while my own parent will never allow me to convert, and now we are madly in love, she try to convinced her dad, but all effort was prove abortive.

We love ourselves so much, but religion is the barrier facing us now, we are both planning to run away from the country, she promised to foot all bills for our travelling, but I told her we should try just be friend as our religion is the barrier here now.

If not for the religion issue, we plan to have our introduction this year, and get wedded next year, but religion want to truncate the whole plans,

Pls fellow nairalanders, your advice is urgently needed now, we are both confused, with no option, we can't let go of anyone, and yet we don't want our parent to turn back to us,

She keeps crying everyday, even I myself, and in the state of confused now,.

SHOULD WE QUIT THE RELATIONSHIP OR WHAT SHOULD WE DO NOW..?


Bro i de your shoes except that am a Muslim and my girl is a Christian..same year (11YEARS)! Same school (UNIVERSITY) same department...same place of nysc...same platoon...same PPA (primary place of assignemnt)! Baba your girl de try eh if my girl could have this mind eh I go grab her go knee down for her papa say I won marry your daughter and I will take good care of her (though we have contacted her parents her parents knows me well)..my woman gives me headache about this religion.. In fact I use to be the one to talk to her that she is safe with her belief and all of that..yet she isn't satisfied she said she can cross that bridge with me she loves her faith and she might be selfish when kids involve..i am super confused cause its like she never had anything for me in the first place..she has seen so many signs of me and her being together but nah it's not enough for her...she de break up with me sef back and forth..hold that woman tight bruh...you miss her you will never ever get someone like her cause it takes lots of strength for a woman to want you this much...religion has been a scam ever since.. we all know that...we call the same God just in a different way...if you don't trudge well another man will take care of her trust me....me I don't even know what to do again cause I am the one fighting for her not to go while she wants to go� ...irony of life man!!! Marriage is all about understanding. Don't marry someone cause of condition (i.e kids has to do this and that). If you marry cause of condition, it's a recipe for disaster...YOU ARE SO LUCKY MAN! Me I de hang with my fate cause she is all i truly love! Am confused as to leave her or not...she is not even fighting to hold on to me at all...hmm I can't begin to expansiate...emotional abuse have gone through man...you are lucky ooooooo...

Chukapage:
love wetin? No love my guy na just selfish interest full ground again NO LOVE ooo open your eyes LOVE na scam . People have been scammed by that shit for too long. Trust SEF dey expensive this days.

Chukapage:
25years Chai I can only Imagine the trauma both the man and the boy will feel. This one is worse than satanism 25years! If na me I don't see why I won't assassinate the woman ooo sharp sharp on a low

Rosarie:
Women love to deliver in one hospital,If the hospital is good .so the woman should do a DNA in case there was a switch,if she cheated then shame on her.its better to walk away than to cheat.two good kids ,too bad.....
But men u don't need DNA to know
The signs are there.
If u have three kids , two must look alike esp during baby stage,some characters will of two will play out,they do things alike,it's just there.i have seen these even still seeing one with 3girls and non look alike,
As a man have sixth sense .. before DNA, the signs are always there.

Itzurboi:
Like someone said, it's better to save money for DNA and eat cabin biscuit on naming day.. Let everyone be mad na.

Chukapage:
DNA test should be done IMMEDIATELY after child birth! If some of this dumb mumu men know what their so called " she's different" woman does days to the weddings and even after the wedding they will have sense. TRUST that woman at your own peril ,This is the one you have heard OOOO ,the many ones you've not heard are still out there and even in-laws will be ripping the man off on top .I have said it before and I will say it again Marriage now has turned to a joke a big one.

cococandy:
The same way y’all are being dealt with now right?

Don’t worry your own baby form another man is coming. Hypocrites

cococandy:

Valorreviews:
Hello guys,

Here is my review of the Samsung A10s. It has a 6.2 Inch IPS LCD Display, 720p Panel, 2GB of Ram, 32GB internal storage, powered by a Mediatek Helio P22 Chip and has a 4,000mah battery.
In my day to day use of this device, it was pretty much laggy. Making calls was laggy, launching apps was slow, you have to be patient with this phone if you want to use it.

Anyways here is my review, what do you guys think about the Samsung A10s?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ORSWF-4L8MQ

patcyluv:
Lol

davelon:
@mimick any update on NSCDC?

Britishcoins:
Whenever I Am Reading Most Of UR Comments, I will just shake my head, weather you believe me or not training is going on in Rivers state

youngsahito:
how were u able to check ur name among the pre selected list?

mzpetit:
Dear Nairalanders,I know this is Someone's thread.I have been jobless for two years now.I am an aviation student and I have a professional certification on Airline ticketing and reservation/ tourism.please I won't mind recommendations and referral.I can work in an airline,travel agency,international tourism and airport. you can reach me on 07088893668. e-mail. empressteemah@gmail.com. thank you.

dupzy05:
it is Biochemistry Am sorry I made a mistake

dupzy05:
medical laboratory science