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FamilyRe: My Brother Raped My 11 Years Old House Help by asapeola(m): 1:33am On Apr 03, 2020
Brazenbabe:
Rape apologists every where
You can tell the kind of parents they are by their posts.
A minor was sodomized and still slapped 3 times and when you call for justice, you a labelled a hypocrite.
May this befall on anyone who trivialises this 11 year old child's pain.
How can a mother even be slapping a child that just said she had been sodomized. Jesus! What kind of sick world do we live in?
Fools.
You know normally i dont comment on this forum, but honestly this free period has allowed me to log in n air my views. But I swear to God, if these guys are really real abt these comments, then there's a big big problem in our society. Even a female monicker is supporting these despicable crimes. We are talking abt crime they r talking abt hypocrisy and one is even saying if the penalty was death, will i betray my bro. My brother that was busy raping a child while i was in the hospital running around for my own child not to die! What has really happened to humanityhuh
FamilyRe: My Brother Raped My 11 Years Old House Help by asapeola(m): 1:23am On Apr 03, 2020
crackkhaus:
In the mind of a guiltless impartial person, being called a hypocrite will not evoke the kind of reaction you're exhibiting here, simply because you would know for a fact that identifying hypocrisy has absolutely no bearing on my moral judgement of the crime, but only shows my understanding of the OP's restraint given the circumstances.
Every law court judge on earth will back me on this.

In the mind of a true hypocrite like you however, and as a defense mechanism, being called a hypocrite means I am supporting the crime simply because you don't want to admit to yourself that deep down, you know you will definitely think twice before having your own brother arrested for raping a maid whom you probably never loved or treated like their your own daughter in the first place.
I really find it interesting ur frequent use of the word hypocrisy. Ur calling pple out for what exactly? What is ur intention for "attacking" people who advocated that the law should be allowed to take its course in the sense of justice for the innocent little kid. All ur jargons are meaningless to me cos ur imagination seems to be quite fertile for u to decide what i wld do if i were the lady. Bros, ur not me so dont speak for me or any one else!!!

I wonder where u studied ur law where it is written that sentiments are allowed in justice. A judge who overlooks a case of abetting crimes deserves to be de-benched n shot!

Ur gloating here cos its a stranger raped n ur not bothered. Like i said, when the tables r turned (not necesarrily rape) but a case where u feel helpless and the law is ur last resort, then the judge will also call u hypocrite n dismiss ur case! Shalom bro
FamilyRe: My Brother Raped My 11 Years Old House Help by asapeola(m): 11:18pm On Apr 02, 2020
crackkhaus:
My problem with having civil conversations with a lot of you here is that you're quite adept at manufacturing interpretations that are not in line with the comment you quote.

At what point did you get the idea that I trivialised the crime of rape?

Calling out hypocritical dimwits who are advocating for his arrest is not the same as dismissing the crime. My comment simply denoted that for the OP, it won't be so easy to just have her brother arrested regardless of the crime like you all make it seem, especially when she knows how the Nigerian police handles criminals.
She's putting a lot of things into perspective first.


Your answer in the first sentence has a condition attached to it. You stated you would have your brother arrested IF... lol. And without even realizing it, you made my point. cheesy
I wonder what that if conditional clause is doing in your answer when you know a crime is a crime.
Would you even include an if assuming it's your own daughter that was raped and you had to arrest the rapist? I don't think so.

That's what I meant by self-interest bro... You couldn't even fake the fury/anger to type something like "of course, I will definitely arrest my idiot paedophile brother if he rapes my house girl..." Lol..
You're adding if... If what? grin
1. The "If" i used was because i misconstrued ur statement on whether we could get the boy in question arrested.
2. Even if he was my brother, "If" is still apllicable depending on my current location. If I'm around i would definitely get him reported.
3. By calling pple hypocrites in this situation is tantamount to supporting the evil deed (pls dnt patronise wt ur big grammatical jargons). It is not a time for buck passing but to admit crimes have been committed. Calling pple hypocrites sends a message of camaraderie to the lady n her rapist bro (like dont worry nothing is gonna happen after all they r not in ur shoes).
4. We r talking about the life of a little kid that has been foreverly affected, scarred and if care is not taken conditioned permanently to react when faced wt certain situations even if harmless. I have talked abt rape with a victim before n her reaction was touching even years after the incident.

You can call people dimwits or whatever, I hope ud find a name to call us when the table is turned in the near future. Shalom
RomanceRe: I by asapeola(m): 10:57pm On Apr 02, 2020
Bro, its a thing of the mind. Be relaxed and be in control of ur mind. Anxiety mosttimes causes quick ejaculation. Shes your wife so no rush! Be more expressive and dnt always be eager to penetrate. Eat the goddamn P**sy man and make her cum first. Another way is to let her ride you, some wome cum faster when they are in control of the thrust flow, then u can take over and do ur 4mins. I bet she's gonna be satisfied.
Dont overkill yourselves wt pills or unregulated chemicals, ur mind is the most important weapon. Mosttimes, i try to prioritise my partner's satisfaction before mine. This enables me to restrict my mind from the sweetness and focus on making my woman cum.
You should also try opening ur eyes during the act, it diversifies your thoughts and affects the connection between ur brain and the tip of ur rod...lol

Stay safe bro!
FamilyRe: My Brother Raped My 11 Years Old House Help by asapeola(m): 10:39pm On Apr 02, 2020
Suzie1:
Dear Aunty, you can't protect the child, please do let her go. Neither has she forgiven your brother, please do not influence her decision.

P. S. The child was behaving strangely, yet you couldn't be patient enough to calm her down but rather gave her 2 hot slaps (a traumatised child). She eventually opened up to you, you still slapped her to confirm if she was saying the truth, right?
Sister: Child assaulter
Brother: Child rapist

I swear that girl don suffer for that house. I am very sure that's how she's bn using that poor girl's face as hand sanitizer whenever she feels the urge. But her own child was sick and she rushed him to the hospital! Yet she be using slaps to diagnose a young kid's problem. She n her brother are same and one!

I really wish this post gets to the FP and appropriate agencies look into the matter.
FamilyRe: My Brother Raped My 11 Years Old House Help by asapeola(m): 10:28pm On Apr 02, 2020
crackkhaus:
Humans are motivated primarily by self-interest - not even you nor anyone is exempt from this.
You can only try to deceive yourself by claiming otherwise.

So yes, of course if she was my daughter, I won't take it lightly.. I would personally strangle the mofo, just like you would too.

However, the issue here is that he is her brother.
Not even you or not any one of those people on this thread will have him arrested on a whim. It will take a whole lot of will.
You can also try to deceive yourself by claiming otherwise.

I don't know where you saw me blaming Buhari for anything, my mind is much more developed than most. The same things you think Buhari does for his family's self-interest are the same things most of you will do if you are in his position.

You can all try to pretend you are angels, but reality knows better.
I would have him arrested if its within my capability but ofcourse this is a "faceless" forum as they say but from my first post i alrdy suggested they be arrested by the appropriate authorities. Crime is crime regardless of who's involved. Crime is mostly solved even when people volunteer as witnesses. I find it very surprising that u seem to trivialise a grave crime like rape of a minor and subsequent physical abuse by the sister (with her continuous barrage of slaps). Did u realise the situation in which the action was done? The boy's own niece was convulsing and rushed to the hospital, yet all he cld think of was rape and possible physical assault. In saner climes that you ("you" in dis case is a metaphor) all like comparing nigeria with, these crimes carry decades behind bars no matter how long it took the law to catch up with u a la roman Polanski and Harvey Weinstein. Using buhari as an example was because we all wanted to protect ourselves by asking him to close all borders even as his own daughter was still outside yet some of us still selfishly want this lady to protect her own brother too. Stay safe bro!
FamilyRe: My Brother Raped My 11 Years Old House Help by asapeola(m): 9:16pm On Apr 02, 2020
crackkhaus:
There is an infestation of self-righteous hypocritical persons on this thread.

As if any of you can have your blood brother arrested if you were to be the one in the OP's position.
Its both ways! As if u wld allow d boy b given a pat on back if the little girl was ur daughter or relative? Its not a case of truancy, we are talking about crime here n ur talking abt hyprocrisy. Same Nigerians blaming Buhari for not closing borders cos his daughter was still outside.
FamilyRe: My Brother Raped My 11 Years Old House Help by asapeola(m): 9:13pm On Apr 02, 2020
PuZZyNegro:
It's better the guy commits crime outside and get arrested than for her sister to hand her over to the police.

You all are forming righteous now because you're not the ones involved.
Dont worry! Sebi the "outside" might just your own side. You asked her to send him "away" to where exactly? Y dont u ask her to send the boy to ur family house? Dont worry what goes around comes around as they say.
FamilyRe: My Brother Raped My 11 Years Old House Help by asapeola(m): 6:38pm On Apr 02, 2020
Graxie:
Thank you dear, she will rather shield a 19years old rapists instead of the victim. A minor at that, you keep wondering how this people sleep at night. She is not even considering her children, what a shame!!!
There is a pattern here with the boy's character. From stubborness (which is just a mild term for a delinquent) to rape. She knows the boy is alrdy hardened and like someone rightly said above that the boy has joined bad gang, but she's forming ostrich. In her warped mind, its only rape but she also deeply knows the boy has now graduated to a criminal. That boy if not handled by the law will definitely come back to haunt her. He would definitely move to armed robbery and kidnapping. Where else to test skills than ur sister's whose husband is not even in town! Its really nauseating!!
FamilyRe: My Brother Raped My 11 Years Old House Help by asapeola(m): 6:22pm On Apr 02, 2020
Theclaaa:
Thank you for all the comments , I totally agree with what you are all saying , I will let him go after lockdown , he will go and stay in church for counselling and deliverance, right now he have nowhere to go , I don’t want him to be in the streets to be infected with this deadly disease ( corona)
Did you just say counselling and deliverance in a church for a rapist? I think the authorities must trace you and get u arrested with ur brother and the would-be counsellor. From all people have been saying its obvious ur gonna let that poor child suffer in vain but i can bet anything, that girl will never forget and when she's grown older and realises u cld av done more to help her, she would never forgive u and ur offsprings. You will have to watch ur back for the rest of life. I am not the karma believing type, but in any ways something worse must happen to u or ur immediates. Na ur husband i pity sha cos the poor man is out there hustling his life while his criminally minded wife is abetting rape and child molestation under his roof!
Car TalkRe: Gear Box: My Mechanic Wants To Kill Me. A Desperate Call For HELP!!! by asapeola(op): 11:41am On Mar 29, 2020
legalwealth:
All is well
Lol na my guy favourite slang b dat
Car TalkRe: Gear Box: My Mechanic Wants To Kill Me. A Desperate Call For HELP!!! by asapeola(op): 11:40am On Mar 29, 2020
autologic:
The problem is wrongs hands are touching the
your car and they are even complicating the issues further .
This kind of issue will require a tech with skill of understandings of how things works from the manufacturer implementation perspective as well as troubleshooting skill with aid of manufacturer service information and wiring rather than jst not mere scanning and parts throwing based on dtc codes.
Those techs are not a available here in asaba! I wish i could get one really. We only use our cars as lab rats until one meets a rewire with a decent amount of knowledge n experience.
Car TalkRe: Gear Box: My Mechanic Wants To Kill Me. A Desperate Call For HELP!!! by asapeola(op): 11:02pm On Mar 28, 2020
freeman500:
Sounds like u were not there when all these changes were going on. Personally i think u should be there and see whats going on.
Ur very correct! I'm always at work n nowadays i just cant excuse myself. I have scheduled another rewire tomorrow and we gon check d car wt d current mehanic.
Car TalkRe: Gear Box: My Mechanic Wants To Kill Me. A Desperate Call For HELP!!! by asapeola(op): 10:59pm On Mar 28, 2020
legalwealth:
Why do they dislike scanning but love guess work?
Its really baffling. Moreso the kinda of mechanics we have nowadays are less creative. They r mostly"chop n change" technicians who r not rdy to fix any part rather they just in very emotionless manner tell u to replace the component.
Car TalkRe: Gear Box: My Mechanic Wants To Kill Me. A Desperate Call For HELP!!! by asapeola(op): 10:55pm On Mar 28, 2020
okoroemeka:
an endless money pit,I don't think the op will buy another car due to fact that's beautiful or flashy ,most times it is a trap,it is best to use proven and reliable cars that has over the years guaranteed peace of mind for their owners,I drive an 05 acura RL and it's common for me to drive for 6 months without even seeing my mechanic face to face,it's reliability at it's best.
Bro, ur very correct! The car is a very fine car n i am kinda attached to it. I am thinking even if i wanna sell, i shld put in the right condition. I just feel one can be unlucky if u jam d wrong "kazeem" regardless of how reliable the car brand is claimed to be.
Car TalkRe: Gear Box: My Mechanic Wants To Kill Me. A Desperate Call For HELP!!! by asapeola(op): 10:50pm On Mar 28, 2020
Billiebaba:
Or better still change your mechanic and rewire, they are chopping hot hot, or just count am and cut it away
I am changing the mechanic! Infact i have invited another rewire to come check the car tomorrow. Thanks
Car TalkRe: Gear Box: My Mechanic Wants To Kill Me. A Desperate Call For HELP!!! by asapeola(op): 6:24pm On Mar 28, 2020
dawnomike:
Count your loss and cut the lose
Its not always easy bro! U mean i shld just forget d car wt d mechanic or i sell it to another person in d current state n he/she fixes it. So y cant it be fixed??
Car TalkGear Box: My Mechanic Wants To Kill Me. A Desperate Call For HELP!!! by asapeola(op): 6:06pm On Mar 28, 2020
I am back with my Mazda 6 2004 transmission issues. Few months ago, my car started experiencing difficulty in shifting to 3. Sometimes it delays n other times it just revs and never shifts. So i switched to the manual transmission option. Eventually, about 1 month ago I decided to fix the car completely cos i had started feeling that the engine was being over stressed. Then boom!!! My problems started: From the advise that i do a complete change of both the engine and the gear box, to the shocks, new double cell radiator (cos the mechanic n the "rewire" insisted that the radiator was also a cause for my engine internal erosion) totalling almost 300k spent already yet the car has not moved. The gear box has been replaced twice yet none worked. Just now the mech called n said he was advised to change the flywheel and i shld send another 10k. But obviously its just another guess work or a ploy to milk me again. Abeg my brothers and sisters, pls help me on this. Your advise is really really needed cos this issue is depressing honestly. Thanks alot.
FamilyRe: Book write up start now really appreciate as I will pick point here to use by asapeola(m): 3:00am On Feb 13, 2020
Alaye! I have read all your zig zag stories despite ur incoherent writing but all I see is that ur just a young kid embittered! And as someone has rightly put, all ur assertions are hearsay dem say dem say. U said she hid ur bro all thru d sickness till death n d next minute ur saying they travelled abroad for treatment but he still ddnt get well (like say people dnt die in hospitals overseas), and u still again then turned around to say they only went for relocation stuffs. Lemme nt b harsh on u cos its very obvious u werent close to ur bro n his family which i strongly believe its as a result of the narrative ur own parents n family members have planted in u. Ur doing badly at justifying ur bros death! There r so many points in ur story to depict that ur eyes r on the property of ur bros because thats what u even started ur story with. This ur story my guy isnt worth a book n ur advise to other men is unnecessary! Stay strong and God be with you all.
FamilyRe: . by asapeola(m): 2:36am On Feb 13, 2020
cutegentility:
Lol, I'm not lonely at all.
Lol c as guyman dodge the other question! Ur worried cos u feel u just lost a ticket to the UKhuh
FamilyRe: Please Help Me Am An Orphan I Need A Job To Cater For My Child And Siblings by asapeola(m): 2:30am On Feb 13, 2020
Maddoo! I am rly enjoying this drama grin grin grin
FamilyRe: Please I Need Your Advise by asapeola(m): 5:32am On Feb 10, 2020
Homeboiy:
I had such scenario

We were arguing and she said I should shut up or she will slap me.

I shut up, and kept quiet, after her ranting

I sat her down and told her that,that day should be the first and last day she will use such words on me, to avoid a bad omen.

Till today,she never tried it again

This oga should have kept calm and address the issue later when her sister might have left.
Was d lady in question ur wife and in whose presence did she say that? What was the context of arguement? Girls can always say stupid tins sometimes but not in all situations will u just let go. What impression was d wife trying to pass to her sis if in her presence she's saying she's gonna slap n throw cold water on her husband!? Thats absolutely demeaning from a full housewife!
FamilyRe: Please I Need Your Advise by asapeola(m): 5:24am On Feb 10, 2020
Infact i had to log in just to reply this your story bro. I think this is one of d instances where a slap is justified. I really dont know what i would have done if i were u in that situation but i kinda tend to lean towards ur response. However that shldnt b d end of the matter. As a man i find it embarrassing for her to leave a sick child just to get some few prolly primark clothes! Is it dat u guys r having some rough patch financially? Now i wanna suggest the following steps: 1. Get her call records for that particular day (u myt b surprised d number of calls she made whilst saying she ddnt have enof credit/data to call u);
2. Demand for the number of the UK friend and conduct your own investigation;
3. To take back your home, u myt have to return those clothes n get ur kids n wife some new clothes too;
4. Never ever allow ur SIL remain with u.
Like someone said above ur wife's cries is just a ruse n likewise ur MIL's plan to visit. They just want the girl to remain which i strongly advise u refuse. Ur wife's planted something in ur mind before a while it would germinate n temptation starts. Take charge bro and God be with you!
PoliticsRe: Magodo Residents Now Enjoy Stable Electricity After Signing An Agreement by asapeola(m): 8:06pm On Aug 25, 2019
Raysleek:
Why are you saying story..now let me help your slow reasoning. The money costumer 1 pay for Rccg generated light.. Rccg makes their operating costs and also profit and pay for the gas they consumed to NGMC( Nigerian gas marketing company) which is a subsidiary of nnpc. ngmc also makes profit and operating cost and pays their suppliers offshore per scf standard cubic feet these suppliers may include (chevron, shell and other exploration companies) so the funds are generated from customer 1 oga. That's the money that goes round. Don't underestimate the power of numbers. How much more when 100 million houses are paying electricity bills.
So u believe ur public "customer 1" pays in full for d little he has received? U believe customer 2 is not stealing power by tampering making it difficult to get full returns for power delivered. The RCCG u keep referencing, were they billing the customers when the during the development of their power programme? Did they av to worry abt the cost of metering? Were they limited by the amount of money they can invest yearly called CAPEX? I dnt no their tariff rate but r they on 31.26 basic rate for residential single phase users?
PoliticsRe: Magodo Residents Now Enjoy Stable Electricity After Signing An Agreement by asapeola(m): 7:56pm On Aug 25, 2019
Raysleek:
Why are you saying story..now let me help your slow reasoning. The money consumers pay for Rccg generated light.. Rccg pays to NGMC( Nigerian gas marketing company) which is a subsidiary of nnpc. ngmc also makes profit and pays their suppliers offshore per scf standard cubic feet these suppliers may include (chevron, shell and other exploration companies) so the funds are generated from customer 1 oga. Don't underestimate the power of numbers when 100 million houses are paying electricity bills. That's the money that goes round.
Oga just stick to ur gas supply! We talking nation wide stuff here not gas in KG. How is much is ur own gas per KG? grin ur like someone supplying diesel and ranting abt refineries not working.
PoliticsRe: Magodo Residents Now Enjoy Stable Electricity After Signing An Agreement by asapeola(m): 7:51pm On Aug 25, 2019
Raysleek:
it's obvious it's only a fat mouth you have. Oya post only your degrees. Tot you were talking about an intern. Lol na wa for you. You no even mouth sef. You wey no be intern how your life.
Do u sell cooking gas?
PoliticsRe: Magodo Residents Now Enjoy Stable Electricity After Signing An Agreement by asapeola(m): 7:49pm On Aug 25, 2019
Raysleek:
Good boy so that's why you think every other person is an intern.. Smh HUMAN BEINGS LOL.
Try connect light from Rccg camp Oga. They are doing what the federal govt has failed to do since independence..
Lol.
Well u started d degrees and account balance ish first. Quit doing that cos its not safe especially wt FBI allover "us" lol
PoliticsRe: Magodo Residents Now Enjoy Stable Electricity After Signing An Agreement by asapeola(m): 7:46pm On Aug 25, 2019
Raysleek:
Rccg pays for gas 100percent and they supply this electricity to homes and business within the camp and lotto area. This people have prepaid meters and Rccg is making their gas money as well as making profit on top Oga so don't patronize me Don't worry very soon you will be paying for oxygen. Then the govt will give it to the highest bidder
Great ur coming up slowly! So who pays the bigger gas companies 100% for gas-powered turbines? Who pays the generating companies 100% who's in turn supposed to pay the Gascos 100%? Let's remove TCN... So who pays the Discos 100% of energy delivered who in turn is supposed to pay the Gencos (via NBET) 100% and in turn pay the Gascos 100%? If u can narrow it down to one set of persons, then I wld believe u know dis industry.
PoliticsRe: Magodo Residents Now Enjoy Stable Electricity After Signing An Agreement by asapeola(m): 7:40pm On Aug 25, 2019
Raysleek:
this intern vs CEO argument is getting interesting. On your map, magodo. Is the only in habitable place on earth. Better carry 10m go buy two bedroom for mowe so in 10 years time it can be worth 100m to save your self from future blind arguments as an intern identifier. MR CEO
Thanks oga! I think I already have 2 at ofada!
Many thanks.
PoliticsRe: Magodo Residents Now Enjoy Stable Electricity After Signing An Agreement by asapeola(m): 7:36pm On Aug 25, 2019
blaise26abj:
Thanks for updating me. However , I am still of the opinion that such a regulation (embedded generation)should not watered down by the initiative of allowing the major discos to sell to the highest bidders. It will make the main discos start marketing to such clusters and supply more to them than to the poorer Nigerians . Let the main discos focus on distributing evenly across board (at a tariff that will keep them in business) while the “embedded gencos” deal with the “highest bidders”
I understand ur fears! But don't worry the regulator also monitors how d discos "pick load" which is how they receive power from transmission and same is distributed to all n sundry. The Regulator has also realised that the current tariff is unrealistic (tho there's a set yearly adjustment for tariffs called MYTO) so they've created a window for discos to sell power at their own rate if the consumer can afford it. The claims of d discos is that the regulator can't tie their hands wt pricing and still expect dem to return full payments for energy received. Its quite complex bro cos too much politics in our power sector.
PoliticsRe: Magodo Residents Now Enjoy Stable Electricity After Signing An Agreement by asapeola(m): 7:23pm On Aug 25, 2019
Raysleek:
Post your qualifications let me post mine Oga leave too much words for women.
Lol so much for two houses and fat account statement! Face d issues and stop gloating. After all u dnt even stay in d magodo sef!
PoliticsRe: Magodo Residents Now Enjoy Stable Electricity After Signing An Agreement by asapeola(m): 7:17pm On Aug 25, 2019
Raysleek:
Like I replied to an earlier comment.. Electricity is first supposed to be stable.. In Nigeria it's a world known fact that we don't have stable electricity. When the electricity is stable then it is metered based on a tariff that the discos set. It's not you and I that set tariffs neither were we present when they set their tariff figures. Just like good roads and portable water electricity is a very important social amenity. And every human in Nigeria has the right to stable electricity
Where ur missing the point is the "stable". What is ur definition of stable electricity? Without adequate funds electricity can never b 24/7 especially as no more govt fundings! R u one of those criticizing the govt on the tariff increment topic? If u did then ur not rdy for stable power. I just replied one novice who claims his company is supplying RCCG in which the church pays the cost of gas 100% and he's happy n feels stable power isn't rocket science!!! Lemme tell u bro, the problem with our power sector is money!

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