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PropertiesRe: See What Lagos State Building Agency Did To My House (Photos) by asapeola(m): 7:08pm On Jun 22
Tho you admitted to no documentation but you're still not saying the complete truth. There are 4 notices pasted on your gate but u shared only 3. You're making it look like it's sudden to you meanwhile there's an older notice pasted ontop the new one. Snap that one too and lets compare the dates.
AutosRe: Toyota Camry 2005 For Sale @5m by asapeola(op): 11:20am On Dec 07, 2025
Neat and clean.
AutosRe: Toyota Camry 2005 For Sale @5m by asapeola(op): 3:41pm On Nov 29, 2025
Still available... slightly negotiable
AutosRe: Toyota Camry 2005 For Sale @5m by asapeola(op): 9:09pm On Nov 27, 2025
Leonyluiz:
I get 3.5 today. Drop location make i come inspect
When ur money complete 4.9, u can check back.
AutosToyota Camry 2005 For Sale @5m by asapeola(op): 2:17pm On Nov 27, 2025
Neatly used, sharp, buy and drive, all accessories functional Toyota Camry 2005 going for 5m naira. Slightly negotiable. Car location is Abeokuta, Ogun State and Sometimes Lagos.
Whatsapp/Call 08082369054.

HealthRe: Am Not Getting Erection For My Wife. by asapeola(m): 6:09pm On Aug 08, 2025
@OP, nobody has asked how you were coping with your own intimacy needs for the 8 months your wife was not around? If you've bn "regular" with other women, its possible your "taste" has changed abit from that of your wife's. Your manhood is suffering from previous "trauma" with your wife cos uv tasted or experienced new "pots" and styles.
I would recommend:
1. That you stay off other women for a while (to help build up your konjii).
2. Be more loving and caring towards your wife and intentionally stare at her body especially when she's scantily dressed in the house.
3. Evening outings and dates are good too cos it helps a man appreciate his woman in a new scenery and might trigger ur urge when u both get home.
4. Check your blood pressure.

Shalom
TravelRe: Life In Asaba Keeps Getting Expensive by asapeola(m): 12:25am On May 30, 2025
I had to login to reply this post. @OP, Asaba is a cool town. My wife and I love the place cos of its relative calm and security especially within the town. Rent is a bit higher when compared to other places around but one cant help but notice the fast pace at with it's developing. Marian Babangida road used to be a no-go area as at 2016 but now that's probably the most expensive neighborhood in Delta State.
As for hotels, depends on your taste. There r decent hotels for way cheaper prices although Qubes is quite nice with stable electricity supply but its on a very busy infant jesus road. Whenever I'm in Asaba, I use Eva Pleasure hotel on Usonia Street off Nnebisi road. Average price is 15k with stable 24/7 electricity supply and the ACs na blast. I know GQ apartments too off Squash Club road off Anwai road, with their cheapest rate at 15k as at 2022. Tho the room is abit small but the standards are topnotch n classy. I love Asaba!
PropertiesRe: How To Fix Internally Bypassed Meter? by asapeola(m): 10:32am On Jan 16, 2025
vikgreen01:
I provided them the receipts for all my vending payment which I made when I noticed the meter didn't trigger off which I also reported to the official that brought the meter. The official was called and he even pleaded with them...
That is not the answer sir/ma. Be honest with yourself, when was the last time you vended on that meter? If you are truthful, we might be able to help you.
PropertiesRe: How To Fix Internally Bypassed Meter? by asapeola(m): 6:39pm On Jan 14, 2025
vikgreen01:
I don't know. Someone that has four good cars and Living well
You keep skipping a vital question some people have asked on here: when last did you vend on that meter?
PropertiesRe: How To Fix Internally Bypassed Meter? by asapeola(m): 1:14pm On Jan 14, 2025
Osgilliat:
First, only allow your meter provider official to inspect your meter, never allow those ones that wear uniform ie ikeja electric uniform to inspect your meter. They are not authorized to check your meter, bad ones among them use scope tk check your meter and then bypass it without your consent. They will they go behind your back to report you to meter official who will now fine you and put you on direct connection which means you will be getting huge bills to pay every month(the main motive).
Back to your matter, the guy that install your meter did you dirty. He was the one that bypass it without your consent then likely reported you meter officials. As you can see he is already helping you out to retrieve your wire.your wire is your property, they shouldn’t have taken it away. They should have used it connect you direct.
You can’t repair the meter anymore. It’s been deactivated from their own side.
Negotiate with them on the fine, pay it and request for another meter. That’s the only way out.

These Phcn are ripping people off but their time are coming to an end soon. Once states starts to oversee their activities themselves, hopefully things will change.
Abeg, what is a "meter provider official?" Do you know what the Nigerian Metering Code says about access to meter inspection and ownership? You are here advising a customer not to allow a uniformed staff of a Disco from accessing the meter. That is ignorance in full display. You are liable to be disconnected from supply if anyone hinders an identified staff from doing their job.

@OP, the issue here is not only the allegation of tampering but also a case of "overdraft" or negative reading. From the document issued to you, the officer is also stating that your meter read about 690units in the negative, meaning you were enjoying supply even after the last unit u vended ran out. In this case, the meter was supposed to cut supply but it did not maybe due to faulty relay or something else.

I don't know why the meter was removed and given to you but I would advise u to go their office as directed and request they show you the tampering in clear terms. You may record the exercise incase of further dispute. Also ask for confirmation of the negative units already consumed cos obviously you have not vended in a while which may have flagged your account.

Summarily, tampering is now a serious offence under the new electricity act so be careful make dem no use u shine.

Shalom.
Car TalkRe: My 2005 Toyota Camry Transmission Stuck by asapeola(m): 8:13pm On Jun 12, 2024
Heeya! Have u tried using the shift release button near the gear? Open it with the same wonderful fingernail of urs, press the button while stepping on the brake pedal then try shifting the gear from park. I haven't seen a Camry with a keyhole on its gear knob before. Try google more abt it.
RomanceRe: Emotional help needed by asapeola(m): 1:21pm On May 15, 2024
I no say ur mind don comot but the free lashing u dey get still dey play on ur mind.

You have 2 options: 1. Allow her freedom (but warn her abt the late night stuff cos even u sef dey at risk if anything happens to her) and continue to collect your share until she's done.

2. Cut ur loss n let her know say her staying with u dey block your own paroles. So she gats move out within a reasonable time.

Some of these bannies dey run things during service year hence she don tell you say no be say she get boyfriend. So u suppose don code wetin she mean. I have been in an almost similar situation tho she came for exams n ddnt want to leave after exams finish.

Shalom!
RomanceRe: Am I A Gold Digger? My Side Of Story by asapeola(m): 1:04pm On May 15, 2024
This your rebuttal get as e be.
1. Were you in the know that your ex also sat for school exams which she didn't pass?
2. If u were, why didn't u tell her of ur own plans to try the same process?
Apparently, you both had plans to travel abroad perhaps that would soften her father's mind or he be resigned to fate. That did not work and then u unilaterally went to contract a "fake marriage" to avail urself an opportunity to japa.
My thoughts are: 1. You had left the girl in your mind way way back because of the issues with her family. You couldn't bear the continuous embarrassment but u kept on stringing her on including "free knacks"
2. If you were that financially buoyant to sponsor 80% of the cost of travelling in your "fake marriage", why ddnt you try it again with your ex? Yet u kept her in the dark.
3. I strongly believe that u supposedly "fake marriage" isnt literally fake. Its just another of your schemes as you surreptitiously wanted to travel abroad to perhaps spite your ex and her family.
Finally, its a selfish world and if u think that your actions would better your life, bros abeg run am. Many men have suffered such fate and you are at such an age where you should know Wats best for you.

Shalom.
AutosRe: SOLD ..Naija Used 2014 Kia Optima @ 3.8 last by asapeola(m): 10:13pm On Jan 31, 2024
3.6m after inspection
AutosRe: SOLD ..Naija Used 2014 Kia Optima @ 3.8 last by asapeola(m): 10:12pm On Jan 31, 2024
3.6m after inspection
FamilyRe: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by asapeola(m): 12:20pm On Jan 11, 2024
As a married man to another: Sometimes you have to learn how to resist pressure from women! There are some fundamental wrongs with your story: 1.) You are not that close with your in-law which has made it quite difficult to gauge his behaviour and what is attitude would be if he pays such a significant sum in buying the car.
2.) You cant gauge his intentions or thoughts cos u were not initially a party to the discussions between your wife and her brother. Is he thinking that he wants to help his sister get a car or the car is for the family which of course puts it in your possession?
3.) Do not think that your wife is naïve, there might be a plan behind it. Even though you desire comfort for your family, you must also think about future events incase the ownership of the car becomes an issue.

You are a man and its on record that you did try to provide a car but it was an unfortunate venture, so its not as if you couldnt.

Depending on the strength of your self-pride, you may look at the following advices:
1.) Tell your wife to transfer the conversation between her and her brother to you, so that the guy can get a true picture of what is on ground.
2.) You may accept the 3.5m as loan to be paid to you with very liberal repayment plan.
3.) Tell your wife to inform her brother to use the 3.5m to get a car for her but then your claim to that car will be very limited (lest advisable option).

In all you do, do not give your in-law the impression he's buying a car for her sister.

Shalom
AutosRe: Honda CR-V 2009 Registered but like Toks LEKKI SOLD by asapeola(m): 8:14am On Dec 12, 2023
Price?
FamilyRe: I Have Arrested My Wife by asapeola(m): 7:46pm On Dec 07, 2022
Oh Lord!!! I cringed reading majority of the comments on here.
1. A 2yr old girl was SERIALLY raped by a 14yr old boy and no one is seeing the criminal angle first!
2. It is a case of criminal negligence on the part of the mother first cos it wasnt as if she was in the village to work but to care for her sick father. So she left her child to the hyena and focused only on her papa. Excellent!
3. The deed(s) were done and she still had d mind to abet the crime by not reporting to the police nor informing the father of the child. Criminal!!!
4. The man still asked her why she's looking so disfigured and she cooked a big fat lie to cover up instead of confessing and humbly seeking for forgiveness. Perhaps the husband might have not seen her as an enemy. They would've agreed on the next line of action.
5. By covering up a crime, she's vicariously liable for the rape and incest committed. She consciously threw her own family under the bus to save her incestuous brother.
6. Her arrest is legally proper, however it's either the man proceeds with case to court so that the police can arrest other culprits including the rapist and his mother.
7. Police detention is not a punishment and u should not abuse it. Its either u prosecute her in the Court or u withdraw the case so that she can be released.
8. There's no more friendship after police case, so have it in ur mind, that ur marriage is scarred for life and ur relationship with ur in-laws is as well. However, if u feel u need time to heal, goodluck but I would advise that for your mental health, happiness and the safety of ur child and Future children, you need to dissociate from your wife and her family.

God be with u.
RomanceRe: Married But Dated A Single Lady For 2 Years Now I Am Loosing My Mind! by asapeola(m): 1:27pm On May 27, 2022
Hey Man,
Ur not a simp! U only find it difficult to extricate urself from the 2 year old "marriage". I appreciate that u wrote that long story to gv a background to ur personality and the type of life u run with wife and kids. However, the only thing that would lessen ur pain n obsession is TIME. Calm down and resist many the temptations of stalking your sidechick. Delete her number (not block) so u guys can still chat but u don't av to see her status updates. Respond to her chats normally n stop bn grumpy cos that means she's got u where she wants. Honestly, i have experienced a near similar situation as urs but then i accepted the fact the we couldn't be together forever hence the reality helped soften the pain.
U may also take some time off work and be with ur family, focus on them only for a week or two vacation without communicating with ur sidechick, u av initiated the process of moving on.
Lastly, ur sidechick may be getting married but i assure u that she's checking to see to how ur coping without her. She might be sorry but then uv got to show that tho ur hurt, u r moving on fine as well. Dont form for her and try to make jokes abt the whole situation. These should help.
In reality, uv tasted the sidechick life and u fit no fit stop. If u admit u cant stop, just get another side chick but limit ur commitment this time.
God be with u sir.
Car TalkRe: Is It A Must For Private Car Owner To Have Road Worthiness? by asapeola(m): 6:52am On Mar 30, 2022
OMG!!! Reading so many ignorant comments on here. Does the paper make the car roadworthy? A High Court and Federal Appeal Court in Delta State have trashed the claim that private vehicles need the road worthiness certificate yet many people are still supporting illegality. One even said we should wait for the case to get to the Supreme Court first. Chaiii!!! Who do us dis tin for naija #SlaveMentality. The Courts have said you dont need it and the VIO cannot hold you for it except your vehicle is designated for commercial purposes yet una dey shook head for hole! For your information and enlightenment, see the links below: https://punchng.com/why-appeal-court-barred-vio-from-demanding-private-vehicles-roadworthiness-certificate-lawyer/?amp=
https://barristerng.com/private-car-owners-do-not-need-roadworthiness-issued-by-vio-appeal-court-rules-download-full-judgment/
@OP The Courts even ruled that the VIO has no business being on the roads talk less of demanding any documents that their inspection is limited to their offices.
AutosRe: Honda Accord 2008 Registered 4 Plug Engine. 08082786748 by asapeola(m): 4:49am On Feb 20, 2022
Post more pictures and the price
AutosRe: Toyota Corolla 2007 Sport by asapeola(m): 2:13am On Feb 09, 2022
Price and location?
AutosRe: Reg. 2011 Honda Accord EXL For Sale In PH @ 2m Call/watsapp John 08067880681 by asapeola(m): 12:39pm On Feb 05, 2022
1.4
AutosRe: Honda Accord 2012 Model by asapeola(m): 12:20am On Feb 02, 2022
Price pls?
PoliticsRe: Twitter Ban: Court Dismisses Suit Against FG, Fines SERAP N100,000 by asapeola(m): 11:11pm On Dec 12, 2021
MyExpression:
Charles Taylor, Muhammad Gaddafi, Sadam Hussain....amongst others; these are national leaders that have been convicted by the ICJ for war crimes and gross violation of human right.

Why didn't they simply delist their nation from the UN or AUhuh

That the Nigerian ministry of Defence is not been prosecuted doesn't make it right.
The ICJ was created via the Rome treaty and any country can excuse themselves from such treaty thereby making the ICJ loose any jurisdiction over a such a country! The basics here is that even an individual can refuse to submit himself to the ICC if his country so wishes a la Omar El Bashir of Sudan. The ICC cannot even enforce its rulings unless the UN intervenes. Simply put, the laws of a sovereign nation is sacrosanct and is not subservient to any international treaties or agreements after all the US pulled out of UNICEF and the world didn't crash. So when you are arguing in a national court, don't try to impose any international treaties above even a local penal code else the Court is gonna whip u.
PoliticsRe: Twitter Ban: Court Dismisses Suit Against FG, Fines SERAP N100,000 by asapeola(m): 7:49am On Dec 10, 2021
MyExpression:
This stance is quite scary.

Even in war times, which is worse than "threat" of national security, the media, children and medical personnel are not shot at.

The precedence this judge is setting with this speech, is a misleading information that may lead to more actions against a civil society.
The children and hospitals that Israel and even US have been shooting at, who is gonna stand up for them? Even in Nigeria, our Air force jets have couple of times shot at IDPs, what did u do abt it? Please be real!
PoliticsRe: Twitter Ban: Court Dismisses Suit Against FG, Fines SERAP N100,000 by asapeola(m): 7:42am On Dec 10, 2021
SmartyPants:
Well, good! When the judge there makes reference to the suspension of human rights, notice he does not rely on any Nigerian provision. He merely says, "such is not new". That is because such is foreign to our constitution, though it is known to International Law. But since you wish to exclude international law from the conversation, then tell me, what is the statutory basis of the suspension of any right?

What is the status of legal precedent as compared to Constitutional provisions?

Peruse:

Section 1: Supremacy of the Constitution
Sections 33-46: Fundamental Human Rights

http://www.nigeria-law.org/ConstitutionOfTheFederalRepublicOfNigeria.htm

Then tell me which law in Nigeria permits all the excesses you have defended.
Honestly, i think you need to go back and read the details of the case including the claimants and defendants arguments so that u can appreciate their points before coming to argue. The defendants saying Twitter is against national security was a masterstroke and that effectively killed the case. If u did read the basis of judgement properly, you would see that that was the first point the judge highlighted before proceeding to other economic aspects of the ban and then the locus standi of the claimants. Even though the defendants should have gone further to present tax payments of other media companies which would have really helped to nail twitter but then the issue of national security is very touchy n sometimes vague because even the court does not have such info and may not require the defendants to state such in a public hearing. But basically, the court has said your claim to fundamental human rights is limited and thats applicable to all countries hence it used the phrase "not something new."
PoliticsRe: Twitter Ban: Court Dismisses Suit Against FG, Fines SERAP N100,000 by asapeola(m): 7:29am On Dec 10, 2021
Mynd44:
Every time National issues pop up and people throw up International treaties and charters, I get bored and Tried.

Every country is sovereign in its laws and governance and can decide to go against a charter it signed. The only laws a country is subject to are its own laws as made by the legislature or as declared by the judiciary.

The FG held Dokubo for years and the supreme court said they can because he was considered a national threat.

That is precedence and that is the basis of the law in this case or did you see the judge mentioning the AU charter or the UN charter?
Abeg keep schooling these kids on National Sovereignty and some funny international treaties and agreements that one country could decide to leave with the whiff of a pen! I wonder how he dared say the African charter supercedes our national constitution. Then all countries might just void their individual laws and we all tow the international laws. A simple analogy is saying because your street has a gate then u dont need to secure your own property. The likes of Edward Snowden and Julian Assange should have quoted their fundamental human rights of expression instead of hiding. Well-done bro and I just sincerely hope they are learning.
AutosRe: Reg. Honda Accord 2003 @850k by asapeola(m): 7:02pm On Aug 02, 2021
720k after inspection
AutosRe: Old news by asapeola(m): 7:14pm On Jun 22, 2021
Post more pictures and ur contact number
AutosRe: 2005 Camry For Sale! by asapeola(m): 7:41pm On Jun 13, 2021
FnbAutos:
Akure
Why leave out the price requested?
Nairaland GeneralRe: Benin Electricity Distribution Company Is Frustrating My Life by asapeola(m): 8:31pm On Apr 28, 2021
If u were able to vend 11,000 naira and was still able to buy units online, then ur meter number cannot be missing. Please check properly that ur entering the correct meter number or visit a POS agent n ask them to check for you (as if u want to buy units). U did not state your location tho.

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