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SorftWerk:
aje means witch in the Yoruba tongue... Who likes being called that?


I'm Ibo tho

MZLady39:
There is a sacred circle around every family which should be preserved.
No other one has any right in that sacred circle.
The husband and wife should be all to each other.
The wife should have no secrets to keep from her husband and let others know, and the husband should have no secrets to keep from his wife to relate to others.
The heart of his wife should be the grave for the faults of the husband, and the heart of the husband the grave for his wife's faults.
NEVER should either party indulge in a joke at the expense of the other's feelings.
NEVER should either the husband or wife in sport or in any other manner complain of each other to others, for frequently indulging in this foolish and what may seem perfectly harmless joking will end in trial with each other and perhaps estrangement.
....There should be a shield around every family.

AH p.g 177

Emioga:
am so tired. If you have read my former post I said my mil stays with us. My husband has changed so much just because his mom and brother don't get along with me. He calls me names and all sorts. He blackmails me financially, emotionally and psychologically(if their is a phrase like that) take for example 2 days ago I heard my mil fighting with someone so I came out of the house, on getting their i knew the woman she was fighting with so I approached the woman and told her to please leave our compound. After that I went to the woman 's shop and told her it wasn't nice to just enter someone else compound and start shouting. To cut long story short my husband said I sent the woman to beat his mother. I just weak. So much more.

keepingmum:


But ur post above says your baby is 7 months and few hours after you say he is 10 months....which is it?
Learn to be honest when seeking help...if u are unable to be honest and open due to certain factors, just say 'I am unable to answer ur question'

mummykyrti:
welcome dear, I got married august too altho 2016....what. and what steps have u taken so far? may ur stay b short.

izit just me or do we seem to be having more and more new members daily?

CaptainBomb:
its a pity.. Biopsy test result shows that she has cancer.. She may die anytime soon.. Rest in peace aburo mi.. Greet my dad for me.

linearity:
What is that? A sack, skirt or a dress?

george93:
which can cloth b this? from plagiarism to whack in fashion... Ghana is in for a long thing.

Shortyy:

Wow. Calm down aunty, are you the albino's sister?

Shortyy:
Ghanains so desperate for white chics that they don't mind marrying albinos.

Chaiomsy:
This topic is something I really want to talk about, because it is something I see every day, in public places, some homes I visited and so on. It is becoming a norm in today’s marriages where you see a man, a grown man, husband of the house, doing dishes in the kitchen, while the wife goes to make her hair or something!

We tend to like to copy everything the ‘white man’ does wrongly, because not everything that applies to them (over there) that applies here.

I have been to a neighbour’s house in the past (they just moved in), so I decided to say hello properly as a Nigerian, before they will say I didn’t welcome them well or don’t like their presence. so I rang the door bell, and the man, the husband of the house answered the door, he smiled and ushered me in.

I made myself comfortable in their sitting room, while he disappeared into one of the rooms, I sat there thinking he went to inform his wife of my presence, but he came back to the sitting room alone, obviously dressed more appropriate, as I met him in work clothes.
When I didn’t see his wife, who looked almost his age, I asked him; what of madam? he said she had gone to the salon to have her hair done.

I also asked after their 2 year old son, he said he was sleeping. I took a deep breath and smiled, he felt a bit uncomfortable with the look on his face. He offered me a drink which I declined because, as madam nor dey, I nor fit shout!

After a bit of conversation about work, Lagos traffic and all that, he excused himself and said he needed to get back to work, (he still had laundry to do and the bathroom to clean!), I almost froze with shock!

How can a woman leave all the house chores to her man to do? Is it normal for a good marriage? Was it an agreement? These were all the questions running through my mind as I called out to him that I was leaving because I had a meeting to attend.

Leaving your husband/man to do the house chores automatically makes you the boss, yes! and if there is anything that wrecks marriages, it is the woman playing the man while the man plays the woman.

You might think the man loves you so much to want to do all the dirty jobs, no, he is only trying so hard to please you because you are obviously calling the shots!

I know some women hate men who do house chores, I am one of them. A survey reveals that most men who do house chores are lazy men, they would rather do house chores than go out there and fend for their families! it is appalling, unacceptable.

I am not saying a woman should work her ass off because she is a wife, but it shouldn’t be a daily occurrence, something we watch in movies. For my neighbors, it was normal because, he goes as far as washing her underpants as well, yuck!

I don’t understand why some men enjoy being called the ‘nice’ guy? when at the end of the day they end up hurting themselves and the ones they’re trying to please.

know your place as a man, and know your place as a woman, it is a 2 way traffic thingy.

like I always say, I am not a relationship expert, but these are little things I see every day that makes me want to talk about them.

I have seen a husband, shopping in the open market while the wife sits in the car with the kids, not that she is pregnant or something. I don’t know their reason for that but I thought it was kind of weird.

At this point, I remember my maternal uncle, who wanted to play ‘oyinbo’ husband by going straight to the kitchen as soon as he jumps out of the car from work, lol

Then I always wondered if he would maintain it, but no, he didn’t because it wasn’t quite long before his friends started ‘yabbing’ him, he then stopped even his wife didn’t find it funny.

You confine your husband to the kitchen because he doesn’t complain, tomorrow he gets a babe who he goes to her house to 'chillax', and gets pampered and served and bleeped well! shame on you!

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Eibams60:
another buhari in the making. his not been sworn in yet buh em don dey waka upandan. I pity ghanians sha

metroparrot:
President Buhari receives President elect of the Republic of Ghana H.E. Nana Akufo-Addo in State House on 20th December, 2016. See photos below

http://www.metronaija.com/2016/12/photos-ghana-president-elect-nana-akufo.html

mamagee3:
Hi all, my boyfriend claims to be working all the time. Every time I try to visit, he tells me he's working. But he still asks me for money and is always broke.

Is he hiding something?

durentsneh:
like dudu osun?

Tunmmyzhe:
I know this thread suppose to be in Crime section because I see this as criminal offense as her action is consider as crime of the highest order but I decided to bring it to nairaland family to know the implication of this type of crime .

There is something I have been pursuing for the past 5 years which God just answered my prayer on it this month, so I was called for documentation on Tuesday which Marriage Certificate is among . since the marriage certificate is in my wife care. I decided to pick it up with other documents so I can present this coming Tuesday , when I glanced at the marriage certificate I just saw that my wife date of birth has been altered in fact the alteration is obvious because she altered it with blue pen while the original is written in black ink.

Is like somebody cut off my head immediately I saw this because I couldn't believe my eye and tears started drooping from my eyes.

Please married people on naira land help me what can do ? I must not miss this opportunity.

I have not called her now because curse is the only thing that can come out of me to her at this moment, I am thinking of reporting her in police station because it seems she is a devil behind my success.

princejameslee1:
My name is James(not real name). I just opened this account to tell you my story though am a popular nairalander here.
Let me get into my details:
I am 2* years old from a polygamous family. After my final year and B Sc. Degree. I got married to my love(a graduate). I had a business(web design biz) before I got married.
Before I went for my NYSC, my dad convinced me not to move my pregnant wife-then away from his house. Though I am financially able to rent any flat of my choice. He cited reasons like I should allow them take care of my wife during my service or because of her condition.(I was posted to sokoto state). To cut a long story short; my wife and child stay in my father's house. After my service, my dad insisted that I should further my education because I graduated with a 1st class degree at a private university here in Nigeria. Am due to finish my masters in the next 8 months. The problem is that;my dad reacts negatively whenever he knows am coming home like he does not want me to come to the house. Also, his wife whom is my stepmother always pick up quarrels with me whenever am around and my wife as well whenever am not around. My dad takes sides with his wife and whenever am involved in any quarrel, I always get 95% blame.
The thing is; I have been feeling depressed for a while now but am very careful not to allow that affect my academics.
Nairalanders what should I do?