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I think you should focus on your husband. Yes the family needs to love you but I feel that with time they would get to accepts you. Talk to your man and have him know how you feel. He might be able to correct things from his own side or at least help you get over the fear. You love this guy already so do not give up on this your chance. No relationship can be 100% smooth and I guess this is the rough current in your own waters. Just focus on your love for him and everything would fall in line. You can visit my blog to get help directly. just click my signature www.askralphblog.com

Its not wrong. If a person is okay with it then fine, if a person is not okay with it then its equally okay

maybe the brother doesnt even have a clue of what is happening, you would be surprised how many people stay clueless of things like this. i belive the salivating is because He's salivary glands produces too much saliva and there are ways to control it. You guys should visit a dentist for both that and the mouth odor. It could be a tooth decay or a plaque or something. There is always something there that causes mouth odor. it's not the end of the world. you can keep from kissing for now and tell him. But let him know so you guys can go fix it. you can check my signature for other relationship advice

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....She took slow and deep breaths and felt the rush of air make its way through her nostrils and up to her head, the evening was quite silent as everybody had gone out and she was alone at home, her silky long hair had seen better days, it was scattered, unkempt and hung in front of her face but she made no effort to path it for a clearer vision, what was the use? It didn't matter anymore at her present condition. Her black dress, her favorite black dress from a long time ago was stained red with blood that had dried up a while ago.
She looked down at the table, the desk she had used all through her stay in the house and the piece of paper was laying face down just as she had placed it, she adjusted the rope a little tighter around her neck and took a deep breath, tears were slowly forming in her eyes as she was summoning the courage to do what she felt had to be done, she looked down at her lean shadow that was cast on the floor from the reflection of the light above her, noticing the scars on her wrists she reminisced on the previous day when she attempted to do this and failed because the pain was unbearable, looking to her left she saw her bathroom where she had, as recently as that morning attempted to end the pain with her head buried under a tub of water, but she was always weak when it came to pain, it was another failed attempt. But not this time, this was the perfect solution, once she leaps from the plastic chair she was standing on, the rope was going to snap her neck cleanly and she would only feel the pain for about a micro second before it was over and there would never be any more pain, no pain from loneliness, no pain from agony and the constant mind torture that she suffered.
She reassured herself of how this was going to be the best for her and for everybody, she needed to leave and save everybody the trouble of taking care of her constantly depressed self. A portrait of two infants hung on the wall in front of her, their smiles frozen in time from the day the shot was taken. She remembered her two angels and whispered to the picture "mummy will be gone but will be back in no time" She smiled falsely and wiped the tears rolling down her cheeks, sniffled and adjusted her shoulders backwards. She stood still for a while and closed her eyes, the fan that was responsible for holding the rope in place was stationary above her, the chilly breeze from the window blew and met her soft and tender skin in an icy caress, goose bumps crept slowly up her arms and the hairs at the back of her neck stood up uniformly as if in final salutations and tribute to their life long master and host. She checked one last time on the rope, tugged against it to make sure it was well fastened, she closed her eyes one last time and leaped into the air, she came down on the rope as hard as her weight could and it suspended her in the air.
But something was wrong. She was still alive, she opened her eyes wide, she couldn't breath, she gasped and yanked at the rope hopelessly to cut it and stop the pain. She felt blood rushing up her head and she was...







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yes of cos. one person has to have experience right? lol

Many have gone through different things and suffered from the hands of the ones they called friends. But then if you think about it, if you look at someone as a friend and the person doesn't see you as the same then you can't really say it is friendship can you? just like in any relationship the feeling has to be mutual for it to work. So does people that betrayed you in the past were never really friends in the first place or else it was due to mistakes. Friendship I believe is very important in my books and when you experience true friendship you would know.

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Have you witnessed couples in sit outs and hang outs, where there is all these older men seated on a table and they all have really young creme or non-creme girls sitting around them. Have you noticed that the girls can't keep up with their discussions? Dating someone older or younger could be good but most of the times you guys won't be able to relate much with eachother. There would be too many restrictions by the older person to the younger person. It works at times but then very few times. Best to keep a moderate age range like I think 5 years is okay. Generally it all depends on rapport though

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If you try all you can and she doesnt want you to know her friends then there is something wrong. If you wish to end it the its fine but if not I really hope she decides to change her mind to know how important it is for you to know who she hangs out with and who she keeps as friends. for her own good and for yours

Just be careful, it's your brothers wife, if she hints at anything extra then you should respectfuly turn her down. Maybe she is doing it with a free mind, just be in control of yourself. It won't be easy going all the way to go and call your neighbours just to zip up her dress so I kind of understand why she makes you do it. BUt this is only assuming she has nothing in mind. As I said. be cautious.

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If you are getting married to her soon i think you should at least have established a level of communication where she tells you where she is going to and with whom. Just try and get to know her friends more though, dont "attack" with your words when asking her who the people are. or should I say don't "accuse" with your question. Just ask in a manner that suggests that you want to know who her friends are. It is marriage you are tlkn about so be careful

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Dear Ralph,
I am a mother of 2 beautiful children and have been married for the past 6 years. Everything was all good at the beginning of the marriage. We were so much in love and all. But now he has picked up a nasty habit of criticizing every single thing I cook. He would call me and ask me "what is this" like he doesn't recognize simple dishes but I would ignore it and tell him what I cooked. Then he would ask me to taste it myself and know if I can eat it. I know I am good at cooking, I am ver confident about that. He still eats and clears the plate after insulting my cooking and I just watch him. He has gotten really nasty these days and I am really trying to be calm but I swear I am loosing it. He doesn't do this only with my cooking, but it is the cooking one that really gets to me. I was reading on your post about the man that was saying he's girl couldn't cook. Now I want you to tell me since I am a female directly asking for advice. What can a woman do in this situation because I can't take this insult any more. Thank you!

Angela



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I know how frustrating it can be, when you put your back to something and try your best to do something and get criticized for it. Let alone being criticized for something you know that you are good at. You begin to wonder if the person just wants to start trouble. I would advice you as I have advised most of the people that come to me for help. Take it easy and think for a minute, just calm down and listen to me. From what you are saying, he complains about your cooking but doesn't really point at anything in particular about it like if there was too much salt or too little pepper. My thought is that he isn't angry about the cooking, he is angry about something else but doesn't know how to bring it up. It is also possible that he doesn't even know what in particular it is that is annoying him. Now that is where the problem would be greater. You say you have 2 beautiful children, are they both males or both females? Is there a particular gender he is looking for that you haven't given him? Is there something you do that annoys him? A lot can change in 6 years of marriage and it takes will and determination to steer your relationship back in the right direction. Try and talk it out with him and try to remove your focus from your cooking. If at the end it is the cooking then talk it out with him and let him tell you what he feels is missing in the food so that you can know better how to cook for him. Also mention to him that you do not appreciate the way he embarrasses you for your food, ask him to be more gentle if he must correct you, that's if he wants you to be able to listen to he's words and make changes. I know it isn't easy and you might ask that why do you have to be the one to go and talk to him to make things better but sometimes you have to be the bigger person and take the mature approach to make things okay in your home. It doesn't make you look weaker at all, it shows you have mental composure and wisdom.

Please be patient and first find out what the problem really is, then you can tackle this problem much better.

Ralph






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Best just to be strong for now. try and ignore everything he is doing until you grow out into your own man. your success would lead you away from him and then you won't have to deal with all he's abuses. what of your mum? have you spoken to her about transferring to egypt? since she can take care of you and your dad really doesn't care I think you should speak to her. Just take it easy for now though and don't do anything you'l regret.

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It would definitely be very hard to forgive her. But I always talk about intentions. It will haunt my mind for a loooooonnnng time but I guess the best thing to do would be to forgive her. Twaz a bad call on her own side. I probably might quit that job cos I won't be able to stand the boss anymore.

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I doubt it does, but it depends on the age of the child and the particular child. Some will be indifferent to it and might even walk up to them. while some others that are more inquisitive at an early stage would have the strange act stuck in their head and might go on to ask friends or even the parents themselves.

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I think the first person to get to the front should take the seat and nobody should take it for more than what it is. you probably didn't follow the convo because you got vexed at the action.

I think since the man opened up she should open up also. It is a marriage and its best they start being honest with eachother. she would be really burdened about this for a long time. let her just let it out and let it go. BUt this is just my opinion.

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