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livelymatilda22:
Come and update us now

Marbella003:
I have a main account but I decided to create this one to post this in order to avoid embarrassment or reveal my identity.

I got married 4 years ago to my husband. He was in his 40s and I was in my 20s. The age difference between us has never really been a problem as we are both educated, well spoken, have similar personalities and share a lot of interests, and as a result we mesh well. My husband is a very caring and thoughtful man. This is one of the traits that made me fall helplessly for him, along with his intelligence and fun personality. I will not reveal anything pertaining to kids as this might punch a hole in my wall of anonymity.

I've always loved my husband and I still do. But I've never really been sexually attracted to him. This is not to say that I find him unattractive. No. He is okay as far as physical appearance goes, but his look has never been the kind to turn me on sexually. To put it plainly, I find that I'm only sexually attracted to young men around my age with tall, athletic bodies and with the energy and agility to please a woman satisfyingly in the bedroom. I met this kind of man in my work place and after we talked a few times I couldn't help but become attracted to him. I realized he was also attracted me, and fast forward to a week ago, we had sex in a hotel room.

I'm ashamed to admit that sex with him was glorious, but it truly was. It was better than anything I had ever done with my husband. I loved how he tossed me around the bed and did stuff to me that my husband doesn't do and I liked how ever part of his body felt firm and strong. After the act I felt a wave of shame wash over me. I recognized that I had committed an atrocity and I knew I had broken my marriage vows. The guilt of what I had done followed me around like a stench. I hated myself for betraying a man that had always loved and cared for me.

The problem I now face is that despite the guilt and the shame I constantly feel, I still yearn to experience another period of sexual bliss with my colleague. I can't help it. I'm torn. I already told my colleague that that one time was the last but deep down I don't want it to be. I know that if I tell my husband about what I did, that it would mark the end of my relationship with my colleague, but I don't know exactly how my husband would receive this information. I don't want him to look at me and see a betrayer of trust; a woman lacking integrity and virtue. No. I even thought of resigning from my job or requesting a transfer so as not to be in close proximity with my colleague but I know that wouldn't solve anything as I still have his social media info and occasionally stalk him(yes I do). I'm so conflicted. I don't know what to do.

AdiDami:
I have been there and after being led round and round I couldn't get to see the match.
Please if you want to assist just post the link on the platform it makes life easier.

seunmohmoh:
stream at your own risk.

Stamfordluiz:
Please how can I stream this match online ?

COMPAQ:
Do the have a gas line to Lekki? It would be a good idea to float a company called Estate Power and use gas to set up say a N10MW power plant to sell power directly to the many estates in the Lekki axis.

My diesel is costing my estate about N150per unit (not blended with public supply - that one is metered separately). Surely a larger more efficient gas turbine serving big estates at the same time can never cost that much.

nwanneni:
no not really.
Cost b/w 3.6-4m currently.
The hit was so hard,hence the squeezing.
It could have been worse if it were a corolla

CityNGR:
Not up to that. There are other ways to get it working

DreCharles:
So guys, I eventually got the w203.
Such a lovely ride.

On my way back from the owner's place I saw coolant level low on the dash. Further investigation revealed that water was boiling over for the radiator in steam form. It occurred 3 times again after refilling the radiator. My Kazeem says it's the water pump. Previous owner said he changed water pump two months ago. Could it be that the water pump earlier changed was faulty or there are other underlying issues causing overheating. What are the things I should look out for in dealing with the issue. Thanks guys. Anticipating a robust answer

Cc: auhanson

Chelseafan1:
When its boldly written on my engine area dt I should use Mobil 1 oil for servicing the car, tell me why I should disobey o.

No one is saying your car won't move or take you to sokoto with Xhp oil, as a matter of fact, when I was still in the darkness like you, I used and still use 20w50 for my golf 4 for 7 years and na recently d engine start to dey weak. I'm sure the engine would have served me more than 7 years if I had used the right oil specs, and instead of using coolant, when the factory fitted coolant drained off, I was using only water to service it. I knew my ignorance killed that engine and that would never happen with the Benz.

If you like, use any oil wey u like, na ur car, na u buy am with ur money.

I noticed that, my golf takes noticeably more minutes to warm up to appropriate engine temperature than my Benz does....dts one effect of the oil viscosity.

shortgun:
I tot u will even say u will start buying new cars, tokunbo cars are second hand vehicles.
You don't know what the cars have been through forget that Vin report u believe so much in. Most of the reports are not comprehensive enough or doctored to place more value on the second vehicles.
If you don't know most people in Europe and America where you get ur tokunbo cars from don't know much about vehicles, maintenance or how it works.
Go to YouTube, you will see videos of white people trying to pour in diesel in a petrol car, or petrol in a diesel.
I saw one where a white lady took her electric car to refuel in a gas station.

The truth most people won't tell you is that in grading engine oils winter climates are considered first before tropical regions.
Let me also let u know that the bigger challenge we have here is bad fuel....there is no where in Nigeria that you can get 100% unadulterated petrol. Maybe u will also import ur petrol.
Bad fuel is a vehicles no 1 enemy, its worse than bad oil.
Whatever you think you are doing right you will eventually need another car tomorrow. So why spend a fortune on a vehicle that u will eventually replace?

BruncleZuma:
Bro, but Tavor no be araha nah

BruncleZuma:
My belle just grow iceblock as I see am...are they telling us that we are facing something larger than mere kidnappers? If a Tavor can be procured like an ordinary AK-47, naija don cast be that ooo...

BruncleZuma:
How did Kidnappers get hold of a Tavor...una no dey see wetin I dey bah?

albeye:
i am not sure anyone has responded to this issue yet. I will share my own case, could be the answer to your question. I own a 2004 C240 base model, the Mercedes compressor failed, then i was advised to work a Peugeot compressor on it, which they showed me on some other cars that it has been used on before, then i agreed. I installed the compressor, then i noticed my car drags and the transmission started changing late. I consulted my mechanic and after diagnosis, he concluded that the compressor power is much, because the car would drive great without AC on and once you put on the AC, even on speed, you would feel the drop in power and most when you are at a stop and want to rev up to. I am still on the issue as i am yet to have time and go back to the AC man and I called him, he claimed he has been using the same compressor for other benz cars. I will appreciate if anyone has been in this shoe before to share their experience on here.

HeavenlyBang:
Stop spreading misinformation. Do you even understand how oils work?

LeylowDee:
He who buy a w203 and uses xhp oil should not complain when issues occur....

Shortgun....if you like...u can decide to drive your own car with i better pass ma neighbour plugs........its all urs..

kingreign:
Na the Market price.

Justbright:
Take my car for routine maintainace today and to enter car start , d machine refused to start...it was later scanned and it shows electronic ignition switch and steeringlock...pls does anyone know how much dis will cost...d mevhanivk is charging me 300k and 135k for repair...pls help

Gandollaar:
This empire must exist in another country.

Austino50:
Blackmailing the highest court of the land wont help you.... there was already cases of APC,Toye Cole, Abe against INEC and the procured judgement that stopped APC candidate from participating in the fake election that took place in Rivers state.... so if the highest court that gave the judgement that favoured wiked when he lost election tribunal and appeal court case against Dakuku now gives judgement in favour APC what is the issue in it.... it would simply means INEC will go and conduct real election in Rivers State with APC and Accord candidate on the ballot. That is what will happen no matter the blackmail from evil people

garfield1:
I agree.not including a party that has indicated interest to contest polls with inec is tantamount to disenfranchisement of a voter which is a grievous offence.the constitution frowns at it.parties should be allowed to conduct their primaries anyhow they deemed fit.as far as parties submit names,they should be on the ballot.if inec has a problem with the primaries,it should include the party without any candidate.the courts should only decide the candidates of a party and not whether they did primaries or not.excluding parties from elections offends law of natural justice.

the logjam in rivers was mostly caused by the courts.both faction actually conducted primaries.the court gave an order stopping apc from carrying out primaries when the inec deadline for primaries was near.who does that? The courts should not have meddled in how primaries are to be conducted.they should have allowed the primaries to hold first.the supreme court should not have upheld that ruling.i also blame amaechi for not allowing abe to be the party candidate.

kelvinginzie:
Supporter of evil

TonyeBarcanista:
The governorship candidate of the Peoples Democratic Party, PDP, in Akwa Ibom State, Gov. Udom Emmanuel, Sunday night, reacted to his victory at the polls.

The governor said God defeated the All Progressives Congress (APC) and its federal might.

He won thirty local government areas, including Ikot-Abasi, the local government of his opponent Obong Nsima Ekere but lost to APC in Essien Udim, Senator Godswill Akpabio’s local government.

The Returning Officer (RO), Prof. Faraday Osasere Orumwense, Vice Chancellor of the University of Benin (UNIBEN), Edo state, said Emmanuel polled a total number 519712 votes to defeat Ekere, who scored 171,978 – a win margin of 347,734 votes.

In his speech, Udom thanked the people for their support.

He said: “You went out to the polls and again reaffirmed the supremacy of God in the affairs of our lives. While others put their trust in the weapons of violence and destruction they had fashioned against our people, and had openly boasted of the invincibility of their Federal might, we put our trust and faith in the ONLY God we know and worship. The ONLY GOD who never disappoints. And He did not disappoint! To Him alone, we give thanks, glory and adorations!

“Let me on behalf of my wife, Her Excellency, Mrs. Martha Udom Emmanuel, thank you my dear people from the bottom of my heart for reaffirming your faith in my capacity to continue to superintend over the affairs of this God’s own piece of Royal Real Estate.

“I want to commend you for the peaceful manner you went about exercising your civic responsibility; you refused to be shaken or cowed by those who thought they could bend your will; you refused to be intimidated by those who promised Armageddon and war on our people. You proved that the army of God can never be defeated by the army of man no matter the size. You deserve our eternal gratitude.

“The election was hard-fought but God gave us the victory and I hereby dedicate this victory to Him ALONE and of course, you my dear Akwaibomites. To those who ran against me, I urge them to join hands with me to build the Akwa Ibom State of our dream: an industrialized State where education, healthcare delivery, food sufficiency, peace and security, infrastructural renaissance, foreign investments shall remain abiding articles of faith.

“If we were able to achieve so much in the last almost four years which have been the years of lean resources, my prayer is that in the next four years which we hope would be the years of plenty, we will continue to judiciously appropriate the resources to impact lives, change our story and move Akwa Ibom to such enviable height of prosperity and growth that would be the envy of the nation and indeed the world.

“If California, a State on the West Coast of the United States could be the 6th largest economy in the world, I think with the fresh mandate you have given me, we will work harder to make Akwa Ibom State a major economic power in Africa. Your fresh mandate has fired me up; the passion to do the most for our people remains right and uplifting. We will not fail you.

“We have all we need to be great, the mind-set of our people have been changed, thanks to our Dakkada philosophy, we have great talents and a propelling desire to be successful. Our youths are embracing an ownership culture and the need to use the works of their hands and their creative instincts to create wealth for themselves

"As we get ready to start our second term, I urge you to continue to maintain the peace we have so far enjoyed, show love to your neighbours, and let our minds be conditioned by the immortal words of the 16th President of the United States, Abraham Lincoln who in his famous Second Anniversary speech after a bitter Civil War had promised to run a government “with malice toward none, with charity for all, with firmness in the right as God gives us to see the right.” I promise you I will run a government with “malice toward none, with charity for all.”

“God bless Akwa Abasi Ibom State, God bless our nation, and it is well with us all! ONLY GOD!”

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©Meflyn Anwana, Special Assistant on Digital Media to Governor Udom Emmanuel

Kyase:
Abeg, goodnight the election will be inconclusive

tiredoflife:
The last civil started with the break down of law and order in Ibadan
Are we going down that lane again