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ibbabah:
Thank u Atikulated. God bless you

enjoy your ride without fear sir, those with stainless steel are 30k while those with ordinary platics are 25k so just choose as ur pocket reach!

Abeg make someone go big brother naija house go pursue all those mumu housemates comot jare

Buynowautos:
What year do u drive?

It may surprise you to get a key replaced less than 40k

true there if it is lesser year from 02 to 07 they are cheaper

ibbabah:
�‍♂️ WTF. I don faint already.

25k to 30k u will get another key relax also make sure u dont drop the key anyhow more reasons why it fails

Abdulazeez99:
https://leakers.ng/news/1540-us-court-grants-one-suspected-fraudster-on-fbi-list-n27m-bail/

me i know say US will cashout last last so far u get money lol. cause i knew it is of no benefit to the victims if they sent them to jail lol

Insectkiller:
Verify news/information before ur sentimental comment..

This goes to shekarauu..!

Maybe he gat beef against nyesome will before..

We can't tell

Big beef sef nyesome wike was minister of state for education while shkarau was senior minister of same ministry so beef dey wella

Wait o maguire no dey field today stupid man u

Grundig:
One thing is sure, William will be spending s fsir bit of time on the bench. Rubbish player

u are right he endedup killing the flow

dominique:
Jackye is also fumbling. This challenge is way harder than it looks, let's cut Tacha some slack.

my point exactly but they are so fast to insult her

ok where are those who are insulting tacha i dont like her o! but this task is useless ! i can assure u all ladies will achieve nothing here

Anonymus010:
I Need The Advice Of Experienced Married Men

NB: This is not my real account, I created this account for the purpose of this issue.

Please, I need the advice of married people (especially married men). I will make the story as simple as possible and I promise not to compromise the truth to favour me in this issue.

Brief Introduction: I am a man in my late 20's. Got married last year and currently have a 3month baby.

Brief history of my relationship prior to marriage: I dated my wife for 4years before we finally tied the knot last year. I met her in the university, we were classmate in school.

Before I started dating my wife, I was dating a girl in the same class but we both agreed to separate after 1year because we were age mate and she was keen on getting married immediately after graduation which I knew I will not be ready for marriage by then (Note: No sex in the relationship, She was a virgin and because I couldn't assure her of marriage, I didn't sex her).

After the break up with my ex, I became close to my wife and we started dating. She was self sufficient as she had a source of income while in school, she supports me, gives me money, cooks and buy me food etc. She was the best woman any man can think of. I fell in love along the line and decided this is the right lady to marry.

Note: There were several backlashes from other classmates insinuating she snatched me from my ex but we scaled through all that. We dated for 2more years in school and we graduated. We dated for another 2more years post school till last year.

Brief history immediately before marriage: Everything was fine till my wife's birthday last year. I did tripple shifts at work(48hrs work non-stop) and came back a night before her birthday and slept off. I woke up 2:30am to wish her happy birthday. She got angry and told me I didnt put her in mind and that I was not the first person to wish her happy birthday (She later told me her ex wished her first at exactly 12am). I apologised to her and told her the reason I missed the time. I had just 10k, gave her 5k to do a birthday photoshoot, used about 3k to buy her goodies as salary has not been paid.



Fast forward to after 1week of the birthday, she came up with serious issue, saying she wanted a break but not total break-up for some months to put herself together. She lamented she was not getting anything from the relationship, I don't usually take her out, I didnt celebrate her birthday well for her, I didnt buy cake, I didnt buy gift etc. I apologised and pleaded with her to be patient as we had big projects before us (wedding, masters degree and family apartment) which she knew I was saving for. We settled it and had sex. After 7days, I saw a call log on her phone where she had a conversation with her ex for almost an hour between 11pm and 12am. After 1month, she missed her menses and was pregnant. I asked her if she ever saw her ex, she cried and swore that she didn't (Note: I trusted her because she is modest and she is not the sex type). So, I agreed, accepted the preg, quickly arranged an impromptu wedding, I quickly sourced for money, spent over N2million on the wedding......

THE PROBLEM:

2weeks after the weeding, my wife started abusing my family especially my mum, telling me she hated how my family behaved during the wedding. I pleaded with her not to allow this to affect our home. The insults and abuse became perpetual. My wife works from home and will give me several reasons why she cannot cook after giving her money for food stuffs once I collect salary. Its just 2 of us living in a mini flat & I wash my clothes myself, but she will give me thousands of reasons how the non-existent house shores prevent her from cooking.

After 9months, she gave birth, I asked her who she wanted to come do omugo with the baby between her mum and my mum. She opted for my mum (claimed her mum will be giving her problem). Not up to 1week that my mum came over, she has started complaining about everything she does. Despite the fact that this woman will wake up 5am, wash everybody's clothes, bath the baby but she doesnt cook. My wife started complaining about her being obligated to cook every morning because of my mum's presence(Note: she doesnt cook in the morning, if I am going to work by 8am, I will either warm a left over previous night's food or source for food outside). When the complain was becoming overwhelming to the point of her almost insulting my mum in my presence, I told her I will tell my mum to go back to her house( my mum lives in a mini flat too with my dad, so they are very comfortable). She said I shouldn't. After 1 month, my mum left. The abuse, insults and complain continued. She will nag about how my mum did when she was with us, abuse and insults my family. I will appeal to her and defend my family. My wife became complete opposite of who she was when we were dating.

The real issue at hand: We would be migrating to the US soon. Lately, I can't control my wife, anytime I don't buy her idea or wish, she will rain insults on me. Just 3days ago, she told me I don't have sense repeatedly just because she said we should go and greet her mum's pastor which I told her not now but we can go later. If I tell her to do something, she will do otherwise and give me thousand of reasons she can't do it. 2months ago, I reported all her attitudes to her mum, her mum talked to her but no change, she is getting worse. Last week, I did 24hours at work, I got home, my wife didn't cook. I got into the kitchen, made custard and placed the soup on the gas cooker. We were both in the living room. She perceived the soup was getting burnt and insulted me, telling me it was because I was not the one that dropped money for the soup, thats why I wanted to burn it (She cooked the soup with her money because my salary was delayed). She insults me at will, gives me no respect and treat me as trash.(Note: I had never cheated on her and she doesn't doubt my fidelity. Likewise, I had never suspected her of such too).

I am currently scared because I know US is women's world because I have included her and the kid as my dependents in my green card petition. I am scared for my life and career because she could go worse in the US and destroy all I have laboured for.

Please kindly advise me on what I can do to change her.

Sorry for the long write up and any grammatical errors.

First and foremost. That baby does no belong to u. Also pan ur exit from that toxic relationship immediately, in conclusion ur wife is gone i can assure u she is still seeing her ex

I think i love this diane girl o! sweet body not so innocent with what have seen her do today dat babe is loaded chai

Dem don spoil oppo fone o! Lol bad publicity there

u all are indomie genrations and also know nothing about fancticsim in the north it has been there since time immemorial. Who among those clamoring for that zaki fool's release knew about maitasini ? i guess none all what u are seeing now is child's play compare to what maitasini sect did then ! elzaky zakky is nothing but a terrorist funded by the Iranian government to destabilise the country and establish a shite controlled country just as u have in Iran with he elzakzaky would be the supreme leader. if u were in Kaduna Zaria, to be precise pre buhari era u will know those guys are evil. This is a sect that owns their own security aparatus and hoist flag of Iran in a sovereign state of Nigeria what are we saying this is a fucking terrorist and destabilization agents but no we do not see that we want to be politically correct so as to look good abi we go hear am when the chicken come home to roost when u r been forced to convert by this same people against ur will as u have in Iran! The only thing am angry about is the president not been able to deal with this motherfuckers once and for all

tchidi066:
Why are men this insensitive, what stops him from renting an apartment with his new bride...

why not this way rent an apartment forthe first wife sentiments oshi do u even know what she might have done judging de man already yeye

famzing done start even those wey say her mouth dey smell sef must famz her !

This tacha girl abi wetin be her name just be like female agbero mtcheeeewww very proud

observanc1:
esther is not beautiful. With her yoruba accent

so because she got yoruba accent makes her ugly ani e ni laakaye se!

stanisbaratheon:
Green light don even turn amber

that babe is sure on heat and wet down there as fuk if na me ehn I go don collecctt quicky be i codedly more reason I like miracle and ttt

This Ik no Sharp atall by now him suppose don poke with all de green light

I guess tacha Bobby wey comot inside bra llas week na im make her withdraw today

moststylish:
no good lighting for the club house and not enough space to dance around. Why did biggie manage space this year

typical lagos house no too get space.

Fayemi had better be careful! And not let his stupid ambition put his ppl in danger

tadezky:
Can't believe score still stays at 0-0 after 45'

u know say na market burundi kon sell ba

BlacSmit:
Op are u OK? If anybody invest up to $2billion in any election in Africa, they're are winning it immediately!

dont mind de fool he meant 56 million dollars

Mikkyly36:
Can we afford this?

all this campaign of calumny won't work I tell u!

I support it o! OPC too should get their acts together pls and deal decisively with those bastards kidnapping in the west

Nwadiuto247:
Rochas is a liar. Don't believe him

But the current governor never denied it so why wont we believe when u also can believe he left no handover not abi!

Alfred2000:
Thanks for taking out time to school me, however i must confess that afraid is catching in going ahead to but eith of the models of the MZ. I might have to opt for the 08/09 Camry and stay away from unnecessary pressure. I hope this choice is also a good one. After all it’s just a car i want to use for my 2 months stay in naija before i fall back to base. I won’t also to cause financial stress to my spouse or my parents that am most likely to leave the car for.

Leaving it for ur spouse is another thing can they maintain it? Cause de car no dey like join join o! If they can they will enjoy it here owever relax ur mind just look for a well equiped mechanic who knows what he is doing then u r fine

Alfred2000:
Atiku, i’d like to ask, is there alot of difference between your 05 4matic and the 05 kompressor? If yes, which is better? School me bro

My brother stay away from kompressor in my own humble opinion it is too complicated i will say it is not really good in our climes since u r not acting fast and de furious we kuku do not have good roads, and it is also prone to over heating my opinion on kompressor. However for the 4matic it is no big deal just a name to tell u it is a 4 wheel drive however the parts are damn expensive the shaft alone cost alot both new and toks we r talking in hundreds of thousand for brand new and a few tens of thousand if not a hundred thousand for the toks, we also have the arms to which are super expensive but if u get the financial muscle go for it it is a sweet ride but as a guy who owns c240 4matic 04 baba go for ordinary c240 or c320 with those u will never go wrong and most of it all always scan b4 they work on it as per no be Nissan Primera u dey drive the ride is all about Modules and Sams or simply call it a moving micro processor.